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By *amie.K91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway

Can anyone help me, I never seem to get a reply from a women or couple even though I meet their criteria

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Believe you can send a mail to yourself on fab and reply to yourself....hope this brightens up your day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe you can send a mail to yourself on fab and reply to yourself....hope this brightens up your day."

Always one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shiver me timbers and you in such an amazing jersey too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think that you meet their criteria?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick summary for any newbies or people who struggle to get a meet/responses.

First of all women here want to be treated like real human beings with actual feelings, and needs so sentences like "I want to fuck your Mrs" or "I want my cock in you" or "come take my load" are just a sign of bad taste.

Also - anyone who wants to invite a stranger into their bed will invite a relaxed, easy going and experienced person before they would even look into trying their luck with someone who's new, nervous and shaky.

All of us here are adults, with families, jobs and read lives. most couples require a lot of preparation for such evenings (mindset, baby sitters, work adjustments etc.) so they wouldn't want to compromise their night that took so much time and effort to prepare for with inviting someone who may chicken out and be a no show or just be unable to do anything due to nerves or just simply not be good in bed.

Don't ever approach anyone saying anything like "playing with a couple is on my bucket list" - we are live people, not some fairy tale walking experiences for you to tick off.

Try to mentally walk in womans or couples shoes and see things from their perspective - it'll be easier to understand and not be so hard on yourself or them.

If someone is kind enough to reply with a "no thanks" - respect their choice and don't ask why not or try to convince them that you're worth giving a chance. That kind of behaviour will put them off replying to anyone all together.

Don't attach your cock shots unless someone actually asks you to do so (should be common sense).

Read people's profiles - takes 45 seconds at most. 45 seconds that will indicate weather you're a suitable candidate, if so - will increase your chances of matching with someone and reduce the frustration of constant no replies.

Don't copy paste your messages - be personal. If we will ever consider inviting you to our bed - we'd like to think that it matters to you as much as it matters to us.

Hope that helps.

Happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno might just be the quality of messages? Like are you actually putting in effort?

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By *lex_irlMan
over a year ago

Mallow

Maybe they’re not Liverpool fans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yous are fearce hard on us newbies .think back when yous first joined yourselves.if somebody didn't take a chance then.how would yous have started your fab experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep at it OP. Something will happen eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick summary for any newbies or people who struggle to get a meet/responses.

First of all women here want to be treated like real human beings with actual feelings, and needs so sentences like "I want to fuck your Mrs" or "I want my cock in you" or "come take my load" are just a sign of bad taste.

Also - anyone who wants to invite a stranger into their bed will invite a relaxed, easy going and experienced person before they would even look into trying their luck with someone who's new, nervous and shaky.

All of us here are adults, with families, jobs and read lives. most couples require a lot of preparation for such evenings (mindset, baby sitters, work adjustments etc.) so they wouldn't want to compromise their night that took so much time and effort to prepare for with inviting someone who may chicken out and be a no show or just be unable to do anything due to nerves or just simply not be good in bed.

Don't ever approach anyone saying anything like "playing with a couple is on my bucket list" - we are live people, not some fairy tale walking experiences for you to tick off.

Try to mentally walk in womans or couples shoes and see things from their perspective - it'll be easier to understand and not be so hard on yourself or them.

If someone is kind enough to reply with a "no thanks" - respect their choice and don't ask why not or try to convince them that you're worth giving a chance. That kind of behaviour will put them off replying to anyone all together.

Don't attach your cock shots unless someone actually asks you to do so (should be common sense).

Read people's profiles - takes 45 seconds at most. 45 seconds that will indicate weather you're a suitable candidate, if so - will increase your chances of matching with someone and reduce the frustration of constant no replies.

Don't copy paste your messages - be personal. If we will ever consider inviting you to our bed - we'd like to think that it matters to you as much as it matters to us.

Hope that helps.

Happy fabbing."

As usual Missus ..you hit the nail on the head...you ever think of getting your own newspaper slot as an advisor where people could write into you and you could give them priceless advise like you've just done there...

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Alot of Fab when actively looking, is luck. I treat Fab like I interact with women in any social setting. Do women get a new lease of life and attitude online? Of course they do. It's only natural with volume of attention received. Does talking to women rationally like you would in a everyday setting guarantee success? Absolutely not. There are many many factors that alot of women look into before a response is considered. Is it the same for most men? I would guess not. Just different attitudes to the subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dunno might just be the quality of messages? Like are you actually putting in effort?

I'd be guessing as much effort as he put into his profile "

And then they wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alot of Fab when actively looking, is luck. I treat Fab like I interact with women in any social setting. Do women get a new lease of life and attitude online? Of course they do. It's only natural with volume of attention received. Does talking to women rationally like you would in a everyday setting guarantee success? Absolutely not. There are many many factors that alot of women look into before a response is considered. Is it the same for most men? I would guess not. Just different attitudes to the subject. "

Ladies rule the Fab Jungle..they will decide who they would like to meet and to play with ...that's never gonna change regardless of what guys think should happen..they can pick n choose as they wish because they're swamped with Messages every day... getting their attention is one thing...keeping it is something completely different...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help me, I never seem to get a reply from a women or couple even though I meet their criteria "

Hello my friend...you should see if you can get to a social or a M&G as well...that way you'll be meeting ladies face to face and mingle with other party goers.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Alot of Fab when actively looking, is luck. I treat Fab like I interact with women in any social setting. Do women get a new lease of life and attitude online? Of course they do. It's only natural with volume of attention received. Does talking to women rationally like you would in a everyday setting guarantee success? Absolutely not. There are many many factors that alot of women look into before a response is considered. Is it the same for most men? I would guess not. Just different attitudes to the subject.

Ladies rule the Fab Jungle..they will decide who they would like to meet and to play with ...that's never gonna change regardless of what guys think should happen..they can pick n choose as they wish because they're swamped with Messages every day... getting their attention is one thing...keeping it is something completely different..."
spot on with all of that. What you said is the bottom line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick summary for any newbies or people who struggle to get a meet/responses.

First of all women here want to be treated like real human beings with actual feelings, and needs so sentences like "I want to fuck your Mrs" or "I want my cock in you" or "come take my load" are just a sign of bad taste.

Also - anyone who wants to invite a stranger into their bed will invite a relaxed, easy going and experienced person before they would even look into trying their luck with someone who's new, nervous and shaky.

All of us here are adults, with families, jobs and read lives. most couples require a lot of preparation for such evenings (mindset, baby sitters, work adjustments etc.) so they wouldn't want to compromise their night that took so much time and effort to prepare for with inviting someone who may chicken out and be a no show or just be unable to do anything due to nerves or just simply not be good in bed.

Don't ever approach anyone saying anything like "playing with a couple is on my bucket list" - we are live people, not some fairy tale walking experiences for you to tick off.

Try to mentally walk in womans or couples shoes and see things from their perspective - it'll be easier to understand and not be so hard on yourself or them.

If someone is kind enough to reply with a "no thanks" - respect their choice and don't ask why not or try to convince them that you're worth giving a chance. That kind of behaviour will put them off replying to anyone all together.

Don't attach your cock shots unless someone actually asks you to do so (should be common sense).

Read people's profiles - takes 45 seconds at most. 45 seconds that will indicate weather you're a suitable candidate, if so - will increase your chances of matching with someone and reduce the frustration of constant no replies.

Don't copy paste your messages - be personal. If we will ever consider inviting you to our bed - we'd like to think that it matters to you as much as it matters to us.

Hope that helps.

Happy fabbing."

Fab admin should put this as a sticky on top of the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help me, I never seem to get a reply from a women or couple even though I meet their criteria "

Off the top of my head reasons why you aren't getting a reply

1) Very little effort with profile or photos. Your profile is instantly forgettable. So you need to put effort into it

2) You can't accommodate which will put people off

3) Galway isn't exactly the swing capital of Ireland so you may have to widen your search

4) Here a year with not even a coffee social will put people off. So try to see can you get a coffee.

To summarize Fab is not dial a ride so you have to put in serious effort to reap the rewards.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"you have to put in serious effort to reap the rewards."
this sums it up for me. Alot don't have the time to put in serious effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help me, I never seem to get a reply from a women or couple even though I meet their criteria

Off the top of my head reasons why you aren't getting a reply

1) Very little effort with profile or photos. Your profile is instantly forgettable. So you need to put effort into it

2) You can't accommodate which will put people off

3) Galway isn't exactly the swing capital of Ireland so you may have to widen your search

4) Here a year with not even a coffee social will put people off. So try to see can you get a coffee.

To summarize Fab is not dial a ride so you have to put in serious effort to reap the rewards.

"

All great advice.

I am not sure about the cannot accommodate part. Ireland is a renters market at the moment with loads of people sharing accommodation. Just because someone cannot accommodate does not mean a 'single' is attached......If that is what you were referring to. Also, from a security and privacy perspective, not bringing people to your home is recommended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just for some of the people who seem to take pleasure in being snotty to newbies this is from the forum rules

"Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere"

some people might like to remember everyone was new to the site as well as the forums at some stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a reply to possibly 1 in every 20 messages I send where I fit the 248 criteria categories couples normally set. Although a new couple joined together and I sent a polite welcome to fab message , hope u get on ok sort of message ( as opposed to the fancy a fuck message men always send according to fake fab forum news). Wowee-,got a reply “Please send your WhatsApp”

Politely replied I don’t give out my telephone number esp in a first message. Was told my loss as they wanted to send me pics of the wife so good bye.

Situation normal - more fakes and timewasters

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I've just looked at your profile.

Change your pics, get someone else to take them, and choose better background, with better lighting. Ask a woman to dress you for the pics. Women are drawn to good pics of a handsome man.

Write a longer, interesting profile, that just might appeal to a woman (I know this can be difficult)

Are you really into all those kinks? If not, just select the ones you are into.

Broaden your age range, and be prepared to travel quite a bit for a meeting.

A fellow fabber took my advise and after a dry year, had the best weekend of sex recently. Go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 12/06/19 16:48:16]"

We’re not stupid . We do all that . The problem does not lie with the messages that are sent. Do the math

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

yes hard for us nice guys we just need a chance we all have to start some where all new at sometime. love your profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great advice Mrs most messages we get from newbies was either crude, rude or demanding..... main point read the profile before messaging.

Engage the mind there’s no luck involved in it.

Failing that socials are the way ahead at least then you can meet numerous others in one go, but you still need to stand out from the crowd and a decent personality with good manners goes along with us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just for some of the people who seem to take pleasure in being snotty to newbies this is from the forum rules

"Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere"

some people might like to remember everyone was new to the site as well as the forums at some stage "

Exactly but they asked what's wrong with the profile and why they don't get replies so the "snotty" comments are justified

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

If you build it they will come...not cum just come..

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

The more effort you put into your profile,pics,going to socials,being active on the forums,the more chances are you will meet someone.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just looked at your profile.

Change your pics, get someone else to take them, and choose better background, with better lighting. Ask a woman to dress you for the pics. Women are drawn to good pics of a handsome man.

Write a longer, interesting profile, that just might appeal to a woman (I know this can be difficult)

Are you really into all those kinks? If not, just select the ones you are into.

Broaden your age range, and be prepared to travel quite a bit for a meeting.

A fellow fabber took my advise and after a dry year, had the best weekend of sex recently. Go for it. "

This is good advice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help me, I never seem to get a reply from a women or couple even though I meet their criteria "
Best advice is ignore all the advice you receive here because it's just comming from a few big headed know it alls that just can't help thinking they are the bees knees.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"just for some of the people who seem to take pleasure in being snotty to newbies this is from the forum rules

"Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it.

"

It is relevant as the OP is asking for advice of why he is having no luck

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By *emper-fudgeMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Get rid of face pics from your page ..it screams desperation and that you have nothing better going on in your life(i.e. no value to add to a meet) each girl/couple on here has hundereds of messages from guys , what i would say is maybe look at people who seem to be sucessful on the site , and see what they are doing and adjust your profile accordingly..sorry to sound harsh ..hope it works out for you..oh and get verified even if its on cam

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"Get rid of face pics from your page ..it screams desperation and that you have nothing better going on in your life(i.e. no value to add to a meet) each girl/couple on here has hundereds of messages from guys , what i would say is maybe look at people who seem to be sucessful on the site , and see what they are doing and adjust your profile accordingly..sorry to sound harsh ..hope it works out for you..oh and get verified even if its on cam "
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick summary for any newbies or people who struggle to get a meet/responses.

First of all women here want to be treated like real human beings with actual feelings, and needs so sentences like "I want to fuck your Mrs" or "I want my cock in you" or "come take my load" are just a sign of bad taste.

Also - anyone who wants to invite a stranger into their bed will invite a relaxed, easy going and experienced person before they would even look into trying their luck with someone who's new, nervous and shaky.

All of us here are adults, with families, jobs and read lives. most couples require a lot of preparation for such evenings (mindset, baby sitters, work adjustments etc.) so they wouldn't want to compromise their night that took so much time and effort to prepare for with inviting someone who may chicken out and be a no show or just be unable to do anything due to nerves or just simply not be good in bed.

Don't ever approach anyone saying anything like "playing with a couple is on my bucket list" - we are live people, not some fairy tale walking experiences for you to tick off.

Try to mentally walk in womans or couples shoes and see things from their perspective - it'll be easier to understand and not be so hard on yourself or them.

If someone is kind enough to reply with a "no thanks" - respect their choice and don't ask why not or try to convince them that you're worth giving a chance. That kind of behaviour will put them off replying to anyone all together.

Don't attach your cock shots unless someone actually asks you to do so (should be common sense).

Read people's profiles - takes 45 seconds at most. 45 seconds that will indicate weather you're a suitable candidate, if so - will increase your chances of matching with someone and reduce the frustration of constant no replies.

Don't copy paste your messages - be personal. If we will ever consider inviting you to our bed - we'd like to think that it matters to you as much as it matters to us.

Hope that helps.

Happy fabbing."

Missus, my dear agree with you but also "I wanna make you pregnant" and " I'm in the hotel alone and horny like hell. Wanna fuck you" has to be added to the list above...

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"Quick summary for any newbies or people who struggle to get a meet/responses.

First of all women here want to be treated like real human beings with actual feelings, and needs so sentences like "I want to fuck your Mrs" or "I want my cock in you" or "come take my load" are just a sign of bad taste.

Also - anyone who wants to invite a stranger into their bed will invite a relaxed, easy going and experienced person before they would even look into trying their luck with someone who's new, nervous and shaky.

All of us here are adults, with families, jobs and read lives. most couples require a lot of preparation for such evenings (mindset, baby sitters, work adjustments etc.) so they wouldn't want to compromise their night that took so much time and effort to prepare for with inviting someone who may chicken out and be a no show or just be unable to do anything due to nerves or just simply not be good in bed.

Don't ever approach anyone saying anything like "playing with a couple is on my bucket list" - we are live people, not some fairy tale walking experiences for you to tick off.

Try to mentally walk in womans or couples shoes and see things from their perspective - it'll be easier to understand and not be so hard on yourself or them.

If someone is kind enough to reply with a "no thanks" - respect their choice and don't ask why not or try to convince them that you're worth giving a chance. That kind of behaviour will put them off replying to anyone all together.

Don't attach your cock shots unless someone actually asks you to do so (should be common sense).

Read people's profiles - takes 45 seconds at most. 45 seconds that will indicate weather you're a suitable candidate, if so - will increase your chances of matching with someone and reduce the frustration of constant no replies.

Don't copy paste your messages - be personal. If we will ever consider inviting you to our bed - we'd like to think that it matters to you as much as it matters to us.

Hope that helps.

Happy fabbing.

Missus, my dear agree with you but also "I wanna make you pregnant" and " I'm in the hotel alone and horny like hell. Wanna fuck you" has to be added to the list above..."
So if I interpret correctly "wanna go halves on a bastard" is perfectly acceptable ???

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By *unLovingCriminalMan
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Can anyone help me, I never seem to get a reply from a women or couple even though I meet their criteria "

Hey OP,

Try personalise your page to show off your best assets,take the face pics off because it's too out there for people who like to be discreet which for the most part is the entire site.

Be honest about yourself and expectations just because you feel you might be what someone is looking for everyone has a type and preference and meeting criteria in words means nothing there has to be a virtual click too.

Don't get offended of you get no response just continue to look for what you want and be respectful in your approach everyone here is a real person so don't half arse any messages read each profile carefully and make sure you show that you have by even quoting something from it and possibly comment on a few pictures you liked and why your interested in the first place.

Above all just don't give up if you truly pursue what your looking for eventually you'll find it but stay trying and just put the effort in its the kind of site,the more effort you put in the more you'll get out...even of its just respect.

Remember couple have two people just because you might meet the criteria of one doesn't mean both parties are agreed so bear that in mind and try to show your interest in both equally.

Hope this helps and good luck in your fabbing journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick summary for any newbies or people who struggle to get a meet/responses.

First of all women here want to be treated like real human beings with actual feelings, and needs so sentences like "I want to fuck your Mrs" or "I want my cock in you" or "come take my load" are just a sign of bad taste.

Also - anyone who wants to invite a stranger into their bed will invite a relaxed, easy going and experienced person before they would even look into trying their luck with someone who's new, nervous and shaky.

All of us here are adults, with families, jobs and read lives. most couples require a lot of preparation for such evenings (mindset, baby sitters, work adjustments etc.) so they wouldn't want to compromise their night that took so much time and effort to prepare for with inviting someone who may chicken out and be a no show or just be unable to do anything due to nerves or just simply not be good in bed.

Don't ever approach anyone saying anything like "playing with a couple is on my bucket list" - we are live people, not some fairy tale walking experiences for you to tick off.

Try to mentally walk in womans or couples shoes and see things from their perspective - it'll be easier to understand and not be so hard on yourself or them.

If someone is kind enough to reply with a "no thanks" - respect their choice and don't ask why not or try to convince them that you're worth giving a chance. That kind of behaviour will put them off replying to anyone all together.

Don't attach your cock shots unless someone actually asks you to do so (should be common sense).

Read people's profiles - takes 45 seconds at most. 45 seconds that will indicate weather you're a suitable candidate, if so - will increase your chances of matching with someone and reduce the frustration of constant no replies.

Don't copy paste your messages - be personal. If we will ever consider inviting you to our bed - we'd like to think that it matters to you as much as it matters to us.

Hope that helps.

Happy fabbing.

Missus, my dear agree with you but also "I wanna make you pregnant" and " I'm in the hotel alone and horny like hell. Wanna fuck you" has to be added to the list above... So if I interpret correctly "wanna go halves on a bastard" is perfectly acceptable ???"

It's not even halves because his involvement ends when he cums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What woman doesn't love a six pack

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"What woman doesn't love a six pack "
Heino or Harp ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What woman doesn't love a six pack Heino or Harp ?"
what you recommend

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Harp was always utter tripe so guess it would have to be Heino despite the D4 connetations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alot of Fab when actively looking, is luck. I treat Fab like I interact with women in any social setting. Do women get a new lease of life and attitude online? Of course they do. It's only natural with volume of attention received. Does talking to women rationally like you would in a everyday setting guarantee success? Absolutely not. There are many many factors that alot of women look into before a response is considered. Is it the same for most men? I would guess not. Just different attitudes to the subject.

Ladies rule the Fab Jungle..they will decide who they would like to meet and to play with ...that's never gonna change regardless of what guys think should happen..they can pick n choose as they wish because they're swamped with Messages every day... getting their attention is one thing...keeping it is something completely different..."

This irks me Everytime I see a guy make these comments. I for one do not think I rule the jungle and far from it pick and choose my messages and I'm not swamped with messages either. Maybe every other woman is but stop tarring us all with the attitude that we think we above ye all. And can pick and choose guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete second pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What woman doesn't love a six pack "

I don't care about 6 pack but I'm very selective and for me it must be brain first then sense of humour and good manners and on the end it doesn't matter if the owner has a 6pack or dad body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads , why carry a 6 pack when you can have a full barrel ? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at extremely well verified guys profiles to get ideas on photos. Thats how I started off well kinda but it did open up new ideas for me. A good profile summary is good being empty can be boring and just like that people wont even bother with you. And rightly so. Dont be dick photo as in have your hole profile just of cock pics massive turn off even for me as bisexual man. Save the cock pics till when asked for them. Be friendly engage in the fourms and in the chat rooms. Try get some coffee meets in even with guys it will show your genuine you will meet on time an so forth. I havent bin to a social personally well in ireland anyway but there also a great way to meet others.

Best of luck dude

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Lads , why carry a 6 pack when you can have a full barrel ? Haha"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

Personally I don't think I'm any better than anyone else and I don't look down on anyone but the simple fact here is there must be 30 single guys to every one single woman. So 30:1 radio. Of those 30 ladies 25 are here to meet other ladies and couples. ( my opinion) After that there are probably 20 couples to every single guy. Of those 20 maybe half want to meet guys (being generous)

So just off the top of my head, maths was never my thing but id say you're odds of a reply from an interested party are 40:1. That's before anyone looks at yours or any other single guys profile. Sad fact but true. The joys of a free site, saturated free for all.

So it's up to you to make yourself stand out, be different, be quirky, be yourself!

I get x amount of messages everyday and the amount of "hey you free?" " fancy a ride? " or "im in bangor later fancy meeting up?"

Don't be like them, don't be disheartened but keep your head up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick summary for any newbies or people who struggle to get a meet/responses.

First of all women here want to be treated like real human beings with actual feelings, and needs so sentences like "I want to fuck your Mrs" or "I want my cock in you" or "come take my load" are just a sign of bad taste.

Also - anyone who wants to invite a stranger into their bed will invite a relaxed, easy going and experienced person before they would even look into trying their luck with someone who's new, nervous and shaky.

All of us here are adults, with families, jobs and read lives. most couples require a lot of preparation for such evenings (mindset, baby sitters, work adjustments etc.) so they wouldn't want to compromise their night that took so much time and effort to prepare for with inviting someone who may chicken out and be a no show or just be unable to do anything due to nerves or just simply not be good in bed.

Don't ever approach anyone saying anything like "playing with a couple is on my bucket list" - we are live people, not some fairy tale walking experiences for you to tick off.

Try to mentally walk in womans or couples shoes and see things from their perspective - it'll be easier to understand and not be so hard on yourself or them.

If someone is kind enough to reply with a "no thanks" - respect their choice and don't ask why not or try to convince them that you're worth giving a chance. That kind of behaviour will put them off replying to anyone all together.

Don't attach your cock shots unless someone actually asks you to do so (should be common sense).

Read people's profiles - takes 45 seconds at most. 45 seconds that will indicate weather you're a suitable candidate, if so - will increase your chances of matching with someone and reduce the frustration of constant no replies.

Don't copy paste your messages - be personal. If we will ever consider inviting you to our bed - we'd like to think that it matters to you as much as it matters to us.

Hope that helps.

Happy fabbing."
exactly that,rather meet a normal sane respectful person/people over a sex crazed let down.The sex craved filth can happen the second meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While we’re on the subject...would anyone fancy verifying me by cam? Need to get a start somewhere and if you don’t ask you don’t get

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Shock another one of these topics lol would save Hassel by looking over previous OP's that's posted the exact same topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I read all your reply. It took more than 45 seconds And I really like your advice. I’d like to meet a couple for fun as I’ve never tried it before But I find as a single fellow (49) the window bracket gets smaller but I really like texting people. But some guys out there pretend to be couples but are not

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