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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit.

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By *ust4funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Moira

We meet loads of single guys at parties and that how they get verified by us.we dont meet single guys for regular meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are just taking a break from single guys for a while?

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away


"We meet loads of single guys at parties and that how they get verified by us.we dont meet single guys for regular meets"

Same as us. It's the only way we ever will decide on a play meet. We gave up on meeting straight from the site a long time ago due to so many time wasters and pic hunters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its every one prerogative who they want to meet and when.and that can change from time to time.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Maybe they go looking themselves, rather than be bombarded with messages off the any holes a goal brigade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we aren't meeting single guys and are verified by single guys. we are happy at the moment and if we need a single guy we have plenty to call upon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way is getting yourself out there.

1) Go to clubs/parties.

2) Make a good impression.

3) Beat the sterotype with single men by been nice.

A couple clearly are picky because they want the best who suits them.

Fair enough..

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By *unLovingCriminalMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

I think from what I've seen it's usually to let people know it's not their priority.

That said if they're interested and change they're minds and want to meet they'll contact you...personally I'd respect their preferences if that's what it says but I can see the confusion from it especially when there's multiple verifys from single males,one thing I wouldn't do is message or try push as that is likely to get a negative response and an instant block.As most of them say if they want you they'll find you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs people females couples tvs what ever the case may be. They could have met before in the past an now they dont want single males. As a single person myself its not my business to what some have feedback from singles but have up that they are not interested in single guys.. ffs some people just cant use their bloody head on here...

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit. "

Just get over it . It's their profile not yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit. "

Could be they're having a break and a change of scenery or they are a regular social animal.

I normally take it as face value, block and move on as I'll not meet them at a social/party or my message will just be ignored and deleted, so not wasting anyone's time.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit. "

It's none of your business what others do with their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit.

It's none of your business what others do with their profiles. "

Chill. If you don't like it no need to be rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume they don't want the usual deluge of emails. Why they would put it in the profile text that almost nobody reads as opposed to just setting their message filters to block all single males, can't answer that.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit.

It's none of your business what others do with their profiles.

Chill. If you don't like it no need to be rude."

It's not rude, it's the truth. The same could be said for OP....if he doesn't like how people use their profiles there's no need for him to get his knickers in a twist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit. "

I put it on sometimes to stop getting messages if I know I'm not really available to meet or if I want to search myself. It saves time being wasted for me. Only a small amount of my time is on fab so it's handy to be able to pick what I know I'll like Sometimes. But in saying that you can miss people with it on too.

Just about whatever suits the person at the time

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit. "

Yeah probably because of the idiots that do be on here that give women crap and abuse which of course for those who are decent and have respect have their chances reduced

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit. "
it's the same as many things on here for eg, mailing a woman, you're within her age range yet she tells you you're to young. Use the site as a little bonus but don't (as a youngish male) use it as your main outlet for fun. Alot sign up here thinking it's a doddle. Far from it. If you have an active social life, use that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit.

It's none of your business what others do with their profiles.

Chill. If you don't like it no need to be rude.

It's not rude, it's the truth. The same could be said for OP....if he doesn't like how people use their profiles there's no need for him to get his knickers in a twist."

Firstly I would imagine if couples have that on their profile it's obviously there for a reason ,their reason,..secondly ,I'd imagine if they have single guy veri's , probably from a party if a social.. thirdly ,and also personally, whatever anyone here has on their profile l respect it 100% ..no matter what they've put down or what else is on it ..it's their profile ..of course there will be things down or written on it and maybe others might find them hard to phathom but at the end of the day ..they put it down cause it's their profile piece..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit. it's the same as many things on here for eg, mailing a woman, you're within her age range yet she tells you you're to young. Use the site as a little bonus but don't (as a youngish male) use it as your main outlet for fun. Alot sign up here thinking it's a doddle. Far from it. If you have an active social life, use that. "

Very much guilty on that one. Reason - I'm okay with women being younger than me, but absolutely not okay with younger guys. Personal preference. Did state it on my profile for a while, but sure nobody reads it anyway

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Scroll down, at the verifications, single guy, single guy, single guy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no right way to use fab so let them off, I remember being in a couple and just had the no single guys filters just to try lessen the amount of mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always read the profile completely and do it twice so you can gauge the person or persons better and understand their likes and dislikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit.

I put it on sometimes to stop getting messages if I know I'm not really available to meet or if I want to search myself. It saves time being wasted for me. Only a small amount of my time is on fab so it's handy to be able to pick what I know I'll like Sometimes. But in saying that you can miss people with it on too.

Just about whatever suits the person at the time"

You've been very quiet the past while I'd forgotten all about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You respect their wishes, not take it personally, fab a picture(s) if you fancy them and let them contact you if they wish.

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By *omDubCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cork

If you let everyone message you you only get pestered and disgusting desperate chaps trying to stick it into any warm hole.

We do like to have fun with a single lad every now and then (After all, both of us are bi), but there’s such an amount of them here that we can allow ourselves to be extremely picky, and that won’t change.

Is it fair? Nope, not even a tad, but that’s life folks.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

yes that does my head in but what can you do about it . just grin and bear it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit. "

Why does it bug you OP, people have the right to decide wat they want to say on their own profiles. Move on from it and stand out from the rest of the aggorant single guys on here

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit.

Why does it bug you OP, people have the right to decide wat they want to say on their own profiles. Move on from it and stand out from the rest of the aggorant single guys on here "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus some people just need to relax. It’s a mine field for single guys, you just have to grin and bear it! It’s everyone's prerogative to put whatever they want on a profile and block whoever they want. There is plenty of people out there for everyone, it’s just a matter of been respectful in your message and if your lucky enough to get a reply and eventually a meet, turn the bloody hell up! That’s what pisses a lot of people off!!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"but there’s such an amount of them here that we can allow ourselves to be extremely picky, and that won’t change.

Is it fair? Nope, not even a tad, but that’s life folks."
that sums the site up in a nutshell. Women can afford to be ridiculously fussy and succeed. It's the nature of the website.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's a filter. Put that up and it's like closing a triple glased window in a house on a busy city street: peace and quiet and you can have a rest. Yet when you want a bit of a city buzz you open the window again.

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By *ung4Fun9999Man
over a year ago

Galway


"It's a filter. Put that up and it's like closing a triple glased window in a house on a busy city street: peace and quiet and you can have a rest. Yet when you want a bit of a city buzz you open the window again. "

Doghunter U r Seriously HOT X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a filter. Put that up and it's like closing a triple glased window in a house on a busy city street: peace and quiet and you can have a rest. Yet when you want a bit of a city buzz you open the window again. "

I couldn’t be arsed Doghunter;))

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's a filter. Put that up and it's like closing a triple glased window in a house on a busy city street: peace and quiet and you can have a rest. Yet when you want a bit of a city buzz you open the window again.

Doghunter U r Seriously HOT X"

Thank you. You've a good looking cock yourself.

Are you trying to get through the trickle vent?

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Whats your thoughts when you see on a profile "not looking for single guys" yet their verified by many guys.

To me its strange and yes it bugs me a wee bit. "

All I'll say is if that is the case that a profile has no single males but have male meets in their verifications don't worry if your profile appeals to them along with your pics they will let you know they are interested its just their way of dealing with things plus controls the amount of messages flowing in another method tho that I've been told is some hides their profile just don't take it personal is all

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By *irishladMan
over a year ago

Malahide

Never a problem, if they state no single males I don’t go any further. Why bother reading their verifications? I’m normally attracted by pictures and if I like I fab. If they are into guys and they like my profile they will get back to me if they wish.

Simples.

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