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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lots of cock photos on here & lots of bareback cocks entering g pussy & ass ... does the bareback photo bother people...are you less likely to meet them because if the bareback photo..Discuss.

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By *ornybarMan
over a year ago

clonmel

If the pics are on a couples profile then normally it’s the couple playing bareback. So I’m fine with that. But on a singles profile I’d be very sceptical. Safety first and health is wealth

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

Bareback pics are a little unsettling.. I won’t meet a guy if he has bareback pics on his profile

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By *hesexaddictMan
over a year ago

Dublin 24

I Also check if they have bareback selected on their interest, lots do males and females. Pics of people that get in contact that clearly show bareback fuck are ignored. Better to be safe than sorry.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"If the pics are on a couples profile then normally it’s the couple playing bareback. So I’m fine with that. But on a singles profile I’d be very sceptical. Safety first and health is wealth "

I would agree this. Red flag for me.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Yes would absolutely put us off ,but lots of people are bareback ing and don't display pics so you might never know .Always best to ensure safe sex with whomever you play with .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lots of cock photos on here & lots of bareback cocks entering g pussy & ass ... does the bareback photo bother people...are you less likely to meet them because if the bareback photo..Discuss."
hmmm I think this is cause for an independent investigation, this is a very serious matter you have raised, I'm concerned...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The absence of bareback pics doesn't mean people aren't having it. Anyone could have an STD, even those who use condoms, because they don't give full protection.

Look after your own sexual health, inform yourself of the risks,use condoms and get regularly tested.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"The absence of bareback pics doesn't mean people aren't having it. Anyone could have an STD, even those who use condoms, because they don't give full protection.

Look after your own sexual health, inform yourself of the risks,use condoms and get regularly tested. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The absence of bareback pics doesn't mean people aren't having it. Anyone could have an STD, even those who use condoms, because they don't give full protection.

Look after your own sexual health, inform yourself of the risks,use condoms and get regularly tested. "

Agree. Regular health check is a must at any case: bareback or not.

We have one life. Its not about us, its about others with whom we are sharing intimacy.

It should be every time the same approach: "Think first BEFORE you Do anything".

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By *idwesty74Man
over a year ago

Hants

It’s too high a risk these days and while it is a much more enjoyable experience is it really worth it?

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Yes BB pics do put me off meeting a single. Especially when you can see it’s different females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They put me off, then I check their interests for BB and then I check the people for verified them for BB on their profile! Is that over cautious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They put me off, then I check their interests for BB and then I check the people for verified them for BB on their profile! Is that over cautious?"

Just decided to check interests there's no box there for bareback so no one can display that now so you can't check that way anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They put me off, then I check their interests for BB and then I check the people for verified them for BB on their profile! Is that over cautious?

Just decided to check interests there's no box there for bareback so no one can display that now so you can't check that way anymore "

Your right! How long has that been like that?

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

It’s the safe sex box you’re looking for.. checked or unchecked.

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

I’m not gonna let some1 play with me if they do BB with ppl like me lol I’m a fabster, I love sex & altho I pick quality ppl I’ve no problem in quantity, I’ll screw 100’s if I can & not remember 1name so some1 who plays BB 2me is just selfish & risking my health for their pleasure, it’s a no-no from me.

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By *oey4somefunMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Drogheda

It's a no straight away for me and even with oral. I got refused a blowjob at a meet before for wanting to wear a condom. Needless to say that was a very short meet, better safe than sorry I say.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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When asked about the bareback pics on a profile since they tick the safe sex box, I often get the same answer oh that was an ex girlfriend. Fair enough, but then again I'm not interested in meeting guys who put ex girlfriends pics on swingers websites as I'd put money on them not asking their permission first.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It’s the safe sex box you’re looking for.. checked or unchecked. "

Everybody can tick or untick a box, it doesn't mean anything, (also trendy fabbers have no interests ticked at all). I'm sure everyone on here long enough comes/came across the bareback chancers with the safe sex box ticked. Bareback is much more common than the forum tries to portray. Bareback pics are only the top of the iceberg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the safe sex box you’re looking for.. checked or unchecked.

Everybody can tick or untick a box, it doesn't mean anything, (also trendy fabbers have no interests ticked at all). I'm sure everyone on here long enough comes/came across the bareback chancers with the safe sex box ticked. Bareback is much more common than the forum tries to portray. Bareback pics are only the top of the iceberg.

"

Trendy fabbers I used to think I was trendy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When asked about the bareback pics on a profile since they tick the safe sex box, I often get the same answer oh that was an ex girlfriend. Fair enough, but then again I'm not interested in meeting guys who put ex girlfriends pics on swingers websites as I'd put money on them not asking their permission first."

That would be my feeling about pictures of others displayed on single profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the safe sex box you’re looking for.. checked or unchecked. "

That has less credibility than an Irish politicians word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When asked about the bareback pics on a profile since they tick the safe sex box, I often get the same answer oh that was an ex girlfriend. Fair enough, but then again I'm not interested in meeting guys who put ex girlfriends pics on swingers websites as I'd put money on them not asking their permission first.

That would be my feeling about pictures of others displayed on single profiles "

Seen a lot of single guys profiles with them "in action" really doubt they got the ok to post it , on the other hand the last pic I tried to post took me ages to figure why it was being refused , took a selfie at work on a night shift , on the background , tiny tiny there was 2 builders on it , the admins didnt allow it and I swear you can barelly see them never mind identify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When asked about the bareback pics on a profile since they tick the safe sex box, I often get the same answer oh that was an ex girlfriend. Fair enough, but then again I'm not interested in meeting guys who put ex girlfriends pics on swingers websites as I'd put money on them not asking their permission first.

That would be my feeling about pictures of others displayed on single profiles

Seen a lot of single guys profiles with them "in action" really doubt they got the ok to post it , on the other hand the last pic I tried to post took me ages to figure why it was being refused , took a selfie at work on a night shift , on the background , tiny tiny there was 2 builders on it , the admins didnt allow it and I swear you can barelly see them never mind identify "

The pic approval process is a joke

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It’s the safe sex box you’re looking for.. checked or unchecked.

Everybody can tick or untick a box, it doesn't mean anything, (also trendy fabbers have no interests ticked at all). I'm sure everyone on here long enough comes/came across the bareback chancers with the safe sex box ticked. Bareback is much more common than the forum tries to portray. Bareback pics are only the top of the iceberg.

Trendy fabbers I used to think I was trendy "

Ahhh sorry Lim, it wasn't my intention to burst your bubble. But I can assure you you're not alone, many long term customers seem to unpack their suitcases and become stationary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's on a single guys profile then I'd just say no thanks.

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city

Lets put this to context if you dont like BB photos simply block and move on! Appose to coming on the fourms crying about it! Does my head in hearing about it BB photos bla bla.... if they want to fuck up their health leave them off!! Bye bye thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Trendy fabbers I used to think I was trendy

Ahhh sorry Lim, it wasn't my intention to burst your bubble. But I can assure you you're not alone, many long term customers seem to unpack their suitcases and become stationary. "

I gotta up my game and stay relevant so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lets put this to context if you dont like BB photos simply block and move on! Appose to coming on the fourms crying about it! Does my head in hearing about it BB photos bla bla.... if they want to fuck up their health leave them off!! Bye bye thread "

Why comment on the thread if it bothers you that much

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city


"Lets put this to context if you dont like BB photos simply block and move on! Appose to coming on the fourms crying about it! Does my head in hearing about it BB photos bla bla.... if they want to fuck up their health leave them off!! Bye bye thread

Why comment on the thread if it bothers you that much "
because its annoying the same posts popping up thats why!!

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city


"Lets put this to context if you dont like BB photos simply block and move on! Appose to coming on the fourms crying about it! Does my head in hearing about it BB photos bla bla.... if they want to fuck up their health leave them off!! Bye bye thread

Why comment on the thread if it bothers you that much "
and the fact I have as much right as you do to post on any thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lets put this to context if you dont like BB photos simply block and move on! Appose to coming on the fourms crying about it! Does my head in hearing about it BB photos bla bla.... if they want to fuck up their health leave them off!! Bye bye thread

Why comment on the thread if it bothers you that much and the fact I have as much right as you do to post on any thread"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chill.......

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Chill....... "

Na, let them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chill....... "

Chilling like a villain here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chill.......

Na, let them... "

Popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my personal point of view....

I would only take photos with a person who I'm either in a relationship with or who would be my exclusive fb. Either way- that would be a person who I trust 100%.

Barebacking with someone who you are exclusive with isn't something bad or random.

Yes, there will always be people who bareback left right and centre but...

In my eyes singles who have some bareback photos on their profiles as - they could have taken them when they were with someone they trusted too.

Maybe it's my own innocent and trusting mind, but I wouldn't really jump into assumptions before I directly asked the person what's the real story behind it.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I dont think it puts as many people off as they say.

When you go through veris you see they don't really mind, or don't check the photos of the people they meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am reluctant to meet witb guys who don't. But despite it in capital on my profile, most guys have issues with the condoms. So alot of my meets now just consist of oral or other kinds of play. It's very disappointing how many just don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When asked about the bareback pics on a profile since they tick the safe sex box, I often get the same answer oh that was an ex girlfriend. Fair enough, but then again I'm not interested in meeting guys who put ex girlfriends pics on swingers websites as I'd put money on them not asking their permission first.

That would be my feeling about pictures of others displayed on single profiles

Seen a lot of single guys profiles with them "in action" really doubt they got the ok to post it , on the other hand the last pic I tried to post took me ages to figure why it was being refused , took a selfie at work on a night shift , on the background , tiny tiny there was 2 builders on it , the admins didnt allow it and I swear you can barelly see them never mind identify

The pic approval process is a joke"

Swear will send anyone the original pic , and dare them to realise there are 2 guys in the background , never mind identify them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everytime we chat or meet someone we show an element of trust and belief in what the person is telling us and it's no different with photos. A single person may have bare back photos and tell us they're an old gf. Why should we not believe what they say. It may be the truth or it may be a lie. You can see what a person is doing on fab to a certain extent but you cant see what they're doing in their real everyday life.

You only ever see what a person wants you to see and for that very reason I look after my own sexual health.

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D


"Lets put this to context if you dont like BB photos simply block and move on! Appose to coming on the fourms crying about it! Does my head in hearing about it BB photos bla bla.... if they want to fuck up their health leave them off!! Bye bye thread "

This isn’t a ‘crying’ post, ppl are giving their opinions & discussing d topic. If I see a topic that I think has been discussed to death then I scroll past without any angry comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lets put this to context if you dont like BB photos simply block and move on! Appose to coming on the fourms crying about it! Does my head in hearing about it BB photos bla bla.... if they want to fuck up their health leave them off!! Bye bye thread

This isn’t a ‘crying’ post, ppl are giving their opinions & discussing d topic. If I see a topic that I think has been discussed to death then I scroll past without any angry comment. "

That was my point also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again about the BB vs condom issue , dont really know why its an issue , I was with a couple of course the hubby went on her BB but when it was my turn condom on , for everyone safety , after all they didn't know me and saying it's grand , I am safe doesn't work , be safe everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everytime we chat or meet someone we show an element of trust and belief in what the person is telling us and it's no different with photos. A single person may have bare back photos and tell us they're an old gf. Why should we not believe what they say. It may be the truth or it may be a lie. You can see what a person is doing on fab to a certain extent but you cant see what they're doing in their real everyday life.

You only ever see what a person wants you to see and for that very reason I look after my own sexual health. "

This is totally true. My thought would be though is does he have permission to upload that particular picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While it does look hot, it would worry me if it wasn't a couple. Safe sex is paramount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bareback photos from a single guy are something we take note of if we are contacted. too many say they play safe when they don't.

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"The absence of bareback pics doesn't mean people aren't having it. Anyone could have an STD, even those who use condoms, because they don't give full protection.

Look after your own sexual health, inform yourself of the risks,use condoms and get regularly tested. "

Strongly agree. We are all in charge of our own sexual health. It’s up to us to play safe and always get checked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everytime we chat or meet someone we show an element of trust and belief in what the person is telling us and it's no different with photos. A single person may have bare back photos and tell us they're an old gf. Why should we not believe what they say. It may be the truth or it may be a lie. You can see what a person is doing on fab to a certain extent but you cant see what they're doing in their real everyday life.

You only ever see what a person wants you to see and for that very reason I look after my own sexual health.

This is totally true. My thought would be though is does he have permission to upload that particular picture."

Again it comes down to trusting or believing what a person tells you.

Let's be realistic, the likelihood of him having permission is very slim and it's very unlikely you'll ever be able to confirm permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everytime we chat or meet someone we show an element of trust and belief in what the person is telling us and it's no different with photos. A single person may have bare back photos and tell us they're an old gf. Why should we not believe what they say. It may be the truth or it may be a lie. You can see what a person is doing on fab to a certain extent but you cant see what they're doing in their real everyday life.

You only ever see what a person wants you to see and for that very reason I look after my own sexual health.

This is totally true. My thought would be though is does he have permission to upload that particular picture.

Again it comes down to trusting or believing what a person tells you.

Let's be realistic, the likelihood of him having permission is very slim and it's very unlikely you'll ever be able to confirm permission.

"

Chances are that the very concept never even crossed their mind

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city


"Lets put this to context if you dont like BB photos simply block and move on! Appose to coming on the fourms crying about it! Does my head in hearing about it BB photos bla bla.... if they want to fuck up their health leave them off!! Bye bye thread

This isn’t a ‘crying’ post, ppl are giving their opinions & discussing d topic. If I see a topic that I think has been discussed to death then I scroll past without any angry comment. "
not being angry like you I am posting MY opinion!! Pmsl now I realised why I actually dont engage in the fourms!! have a nice day all

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city


"Here we go again about the BB vs condom issue , dont really know why its an issue , I was with a couple of course the hubby went on her BB but when it was my turn condom on , for everyone safety , after all they didn't know me and saying it's grand , I am safe doesn't work , be safe everyone"
top class comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a couple profile then I would assume its the couple playing together

On a single guy profile it's something I find off putting

The pic makes me think that they don't play safely or that they have put a pic up without an ex partners knowledge

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Safety first so bareback is a always a no on a meeting.

I think is a matter of respecting the other.

In my experience and my case, i think i have both bareback and gloves pictures... The BB ines were with partner at that time and yes, she knows I have the pics in here (and other sites) even if she is now an ex.

I had meetings that in time become exclusive, regular and become even a relationship... At the beginning it was always condom and sex moved to BB always after her request (when also pills were used)

I have seen profiles (both men ad women) where you can really see that BB is normal for them...

I don't block but if I will ever meet them, I will just go for heavy duty gloves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a photo of a Bears back?

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"What about a photo of a Bears back? "

Waiting to see one behind you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a photo of a Bears back?

Waiting to see one behind you "

The Revenant was on last night M

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"What about a photo of a Bears back?

Waiting to see one behind you

The Revenant was on last night M "

LOL.. Irony is not for this post me think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a photo of a Bears back?

Waiting to see one behind you

The Revenant was on last night M

LOL.. Irony is not for this post me think "

Shiver me timbers

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

If I see single ladies with Bbk pics, I tend to block them.

Have also blocked some couples where it was obvious it was with more than just the two of them.

No time for that.

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