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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

I have been under arrestment with a couple on here and there slating single men for being time waster they contacted me looking a meet I said ok I will meet they ask for my pic I sent my pic and I ask then for one back they said they don't send pic but to meet them at a pub an hour away I said no I am not driving an hour for blind date and then I was called a time waster I think it's fair to see a pic first and they have put on there status am dangerous not the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a couple who don't send pics they had good verifs tho and they were good looking too

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"I've met a couple who don't send pics they had good verifs tho and they were good looking too "

I told them it's not my thing to drive an hour for a bind date to a pub but it seems am in the wrong for saying no

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Are they from Carlow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they from Carlow? "

Oh you know the pair

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"Are they from Carlow? "

Donegal on my stutus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they from Carlow?

Oh you know the pair "

They were lovely genuine and good looking but I guess that might not always be the case

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By *omDubCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cork

You were right in our opinion, we’d never meet anyone without seeing them first to avoid any uncomfortable moments (yet we still had a couple of them where the pics were from like 100 years ago)

There’s loads of different people on the site and it’s always better to know that you catch each other’s eye before any void meets

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"I have been under arrestment with a couple on here and there slating single men for being time waster they contacted me looking a meet I said ok I will meet they ask for my pic I sent my pic and I ask then for one back they said they don't send pic but to meet them at a pub an hour away I said no I am not driving an hour for blind date and then I was called a time waster I think it's fair to see a pic first and they have put on there status am dangerous not the case "

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Simple as supply & demand Op

More single guys chasing couples than the other way around

So you have to be charming, ask a few questions and also be clever

One fact of FAB life that I've found is that the people who whinge about the amount of time wasters on here are usually the biggest no-show merchants and time wasters themselves

So, if it doesn't feel right Op, don't go there.

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"You were right in our opinion, we’d never meet anyone without seeing them first to avoid any uncomfortable moments (yet we still had a couple of them where the pics were from like 100 years ago)

There’s loads of different people on the site and it’s always better to know that you catch each other’s eye before any void meets "

Yes as u say it's best to see who your meeting and a pic helps but in this case they was very abuses cos I said no

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"I have been under arrestment with a couple on here and there slating single men for being time waster they contacted me looking a meet I said ok I will meet they ask for my pic I sent my pic and I ask then for one back they said they don't send pic but to meet them at a pub an hour away I said no I am not driving an hour for blind date and then I was called a time waster I think it's fair to see a pic first and they have put on there status am dangerous not the case

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Simple as supply & demand Op

More single guys chasing couples than the other way around

So you have to be charming, ask a few questions and also be clever

One fact of FAB life that I've found is that the people who whinge about the amount of time wasters on here are usually the biggest no-show merchants and time wasters themselves

So, if it doesn't feel right Op, don't go there. "

At first they ask for a dogging meet it was me and some other man so I ask for a pic they got my pic and would not resend so I said no thanks and then it was am a time waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind you, they do state in their profile that they expect a picture but won't send one in return, so you knew where you stood before you sent yours!(unless they've updated it since?)...though I'm not sure on what grounds they would have reported you,if all you said was you weren't meeting them!

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

There’s no way I’d drive an hour to meet anyone blind..

sure how are you supposed to know them when you get there, Assuming they will actually show.

You were right OP...

if people can’t be honest and upfront then no way I’d get involved.

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By *omDubCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cork


"You were right in our opinion, we’d never meet anyone without seeing them first to avoid any uncomfortable moments (yet we still had a couple of them where the pics were from like 100 years ago)

There’s loads of different people on the site and it’s always better to know that you catch each other’s eye before any void meets

Yes as u say it's best to see who your meeting and a pic helps but in this case they was very abuses cos I said no "

When that happened to us we simply blocked the profile and jogged on tbh, but we are very trigger happy when blocking profiles so it might be a bit radical X)

It doesn’t matter if you are a single lad, a single gal or a couple, you should never cope with abusive people

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"You were right in our opinion, we’d never meet anyone without seeing them first to avoid any uncomfortable moments (yet we still had a couple of them where the pics were from like 100 years ago)

There’s loads of different people on the site and it’s always better to know that you catch each other’s eye before any void meets

Yes as u say it's best to see who your meeting and a pic helps but in this case they was very abuses cos I said no

When that happened to us we simply blocked the profile and jogged on tbh, but we are very trigger happy when blocking profiles so it might be a bit radical X)

It doesn’t matter if you are a single lad, a single gal or a couple, you should never cope with abusive people "

Look am not a rude person but I will stick up for myself and now there reporting me to fab for sticking up for me and single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report the abuse to admin.

It's up to you to decide what you feel is necessary for your own comfort and safety.

We don't provide face pics but we don't ask for them either, we're quite happy to have a blind social meet. If people aren't happy with this, that's fine,we won't be meeting - nor will we be giving anyone abuse.

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"Report the abuse to admin.

It's up to you to decide what you feel is necessary for your own comfort and safety.

We don't provide face pics but we don't ask for them either, we're quite happy to have a blind social meet. If people aren't happy with this, that's fine,we won't be meeting - nor will we be giving anyone abuse."

Well am the aim of abuse today for sticking up for my self fab has took down my stutus and I blocked them but it don't stop there they have put up a stutus saying am dangerous am not am just not going to meet blind what r they hiding

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

i went to meet a couple without photos big mistake horrible looking biggest waste of a meet .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin


"There’s no way I’d drive an hour to meet anyone blind..

sure how are you supposed to know them when you get there, Assuming they will actually show.

You were right OP...

if people can’t be honest and upfront then no way I’d get involved. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"Report the abuse to admin.

It's up to you to decide what you feel is necessary for your own comfort and safety.

We don't provide face pics but we don't ask for them either, we're quite happy to have a blind social meet. If people aren't happy with this, that's fine,we won't be meeting - nor will we be giving anyone abuse.

Well am the aim of abuse today for sticking up for my self fab has took down my stutus and I blocked them but it don't stop there they have put up a stutus saying am dangerous am not am just not going to meet blind what r they hiding

No status there now ok..calm down its not worth the state you have got yourself into.."

That's ok but I had a stutus up and they got it took down and they said I was dangerous it seems they don't like to be told no but am cam thanks am just putting my side out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi everyone iv met this man a fair few times we r fbs. this is a genuine guy an far from dangerous. i think its a fair request to ask for a pic in return if one has been sent on asking.

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"hi everyone iv met this man a fair few times we r fbs. this is a genuine guy an far from dangerous. i think its a fair request to ask for a pic in return if one has been sent on asking."

Thank u for your support blacklace and we we meet again for more good times

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"I have been under arrestment with a couple on here and there slating single men for being time waster they contacted me looking a meet I said ok I will meet they ask for my pic I sent my pic and I ask then for one back they said they don't send pic but to meet them at a pub an hour away I said no I am not driving an hour for blind date and then I was called a time waster I think it's fair to see a pic first and they have put on there status am dangerous not the case "

Going into the pub and ask every couple there are you the ones on Fab who were looking for me

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"I have been under arrestment with a couple on here and there slating single men for being time waster they contacted me looking a meet I said ok I will meet they ask for my pic I sent my pic and I ask then for one back they said they don't send pic but to meet them at a pub an hour away I said no I am not driving an hour for blind date and then I was called a time waster I think it's fair to see a pic first and they have put on there status am dangerous not the case

Going into the pub and ask every couple there are you the ones on Fab who were looking for me "

I know like walk in to a pub not knowing who your meeting WTF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been under arrestment with a couple on here and there slating single men for being time waster they contacted me looking a meet I said ok I will meet they ask for my pic I sent my pic and I ask then for one back they said they don't send pic but to meet them at a pub an hour away I said no I am not driving an hour for blind date and then I was called a time waster I think it's fair to see a pic first and they have put on there status am dangerous not the case "
You are one of the nicest kindest men I've met on fab and definitely not dangerous. I don't send many face pics but I'd never expect anyone to meet me blind. And you where totally right to say no thats your choice it doesn't make you a time waster. So don't worry what they have to say you done right x

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"I have been under arrestment with a couple on here and there slating single men for being time waster they contacted me looking a meet I said ok I will meet they ask for my pic I sent my pic and I ask then for one back they said they don't send pic but to meet them at a pub an hour away I said no I am not driving an hour for blind date and then I was called a time waster I think it's fair to see a pic first and they have put on there status am dangerous not the case You are one of the nicest kindest men I've met on fab and definitely not dangerous. I don't send many face pics but I'd never expect anyone to meet me blind. And you where totally right to say no thats your choice it doesn't make you a time waster. So don't worry what they have to say you done right x"

Thank u for your kind words it's people like this that can give a man a bad name because I said no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block, report and move on. Too many up themselves timewasters on here to waste energy even thinking about them. If I started a thread about all the timewasters I come across on here I would never be off the damn site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were totally within your rights to say no to a blind date, dont let it get to you op,block and move on.

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"You were totally within your rights to say no to a blind date, dont let it get to you op,block and move on."

It's OK there blocked thanks and yes am moving on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s no way I’d drive an hour to meet anyone blind..

sure how are you supposed to know them when you get there, Assuming they will actually show.

You were right OP...

if people can’t be honest and upfront then no way I’d get involved. "

I've taken time off work and drove over an hour to a morning meet cause ..1.they said it was the only time that suited them best ..2.they promised they'd be there .....got there ..and nothing....no show...so what can one do ..get in the car and drive back..plus there are those on here that look for a photo and also say they will return one ...one is sent ..but one is never returned...so l've stopped sending face pics through here...Kik only...and if that don't suit them ..no worries...why should people look for photos and not be willing to send one back...it should cut both ways...send one ...get one...but it's another example of how some people can treat people here and think it's ok to do so...and another thing that makes me laugh...ladies looking for a face pic before they chat and not even one photo of any discription on their own profile...pure blank ..maybe the should keep in mind that they may not have anything to catch or keep a guys attention either..like l said ..things should cut both ways...but here ,in a lot of cases it doesn't...

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By *londy84Man
over a year ago

Scotstown


"There’s no way I’d drive an hour to meet anyone blind..

sure how are you supposed to know them when you get there, Assuming they will actually show.

You were right OP...

if people can’t be honest and upfront then no way I’d get involved.

I've taken time off work and drove over an hour to a morning meet cause ..1.they said it was the only time that suited them best ..2.they promised they'd be there .....got there ..and nothing....no show...so what can one do ..get in the car and drive back..plus there are those on here that look for a photo and also say they will return one ...one is sent ..but one is never returned...so l've stopped sending face pics through here...Kik only...and if that don't suit them ..no worries...why should people look for photos and not be willing to send one back...it should cut both ways...send one ...get one...but it's another example of how some people can treat people here and think it's ok to do so...and another thing that makes me laugh...ladies looking for a face pic before they chat and not even one photo of any discription on their own profile...pure blank ..maybe the should keep in mind that they may not have anything to catch or keep a guys attention either..like l said ..things should cut both ways...but here ,in a lot of cases it doesn't..."

Definitely agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been under arrestment with a couple on here and there slating single men for being time waster they contacted me looking a meet I said ok I will meet they ask for my pic I sent my pic and I ask then for one back they said they don't send pic but to meet them at a pub an hour away I said no I am not driving an hour for blind date and then I was called a time waster I think it's fair to see a pic first and they have put on there status am dangerous not the case

Going into the pub and ask every couple there are you the ones on Fab who were looking for me "

Love it my friend..am cracking up here laughing at that. Imagine. Going around the pub asking every couple..are you the fab couple looking for me ??...jeez.. Brilliant..thanks for a totally Brilliant laugh by posting that.. LOVE IT !!!

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"There’s no way I’d drive an hour to meet anyone blind..

sure how are you supposed to know them when you get there, Assuming they will actually show.

You were right OP...

if people can’t be honest and upfront then no way I’d get involved.

I've taken time off work and drove over an hour to a morning meet cause ..1.they said it was the only time that suited them best ..2.they promised they'd be there .....got there ..and nothing....no show...so what can one do ..get in the car and drive back..plus there are those on here that look for a photo and also say they will return one ...one is sent ..but one is never returned...so l've stopped sending face pics through here...Kik only...and if that don't suit them ..no worries...why should people look for photos and not be willing to send one back...it should cut both ways...send one ...get one...but it's another example of how some people can treat people here and think it's ok to do so...and another thing that makes me laugh...ladies looking for a face pic before they chat and not even one photo of any discription on their own profile...pure blank ..maybe the should keep in mind that they may not have anything to catch or keep a guys attention either..like l said ..things should cut both ways...but here ,in a lot of cases it doesn't..."

100% right I see it all the time in here send pic then none back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been under arrestment with a couple on here and there slating single men for being time waster they contacted me looking a meet I said ok I will meet they ask for my pic I sent my pic and I ask then for one back they said they don't send pic but to meet them at a pub an hour away I said no I am not driving an hour for blind date and then I was called a time waster I think it's fair to see a pic first and they have put on there status am dangerous not the case "

Don't worry about it my friend..the terms and conditions of meeting should be respected for both parties...whatever your terms in meeting should be respected by the other party too...you done absolutely nothing wrong by your principles of meeting..keep Rocking

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"There’s no way I’d drive an hour to meet anyone blind..

sure how are you supposed to know them when you get there, Assuming they will actually show.

You were right OP...

if people can’t be honest and upfront then no way I’d get involved.

I've taken time off work and drove over an hour to a morning meet cause ..1.they said it was the only time that suited them best ..2.they promised they'd be there .....got there ..and nothing....no show...so what can one do ..get in the car and drive back..plus there are those on here that look for a photo and also say they will return one ...one is sent ..but one is never returned...so l've stopped sending face pics through here...Kik only...and if that don't suit them ..no worries...why should people look for photos and not be willing to send one back...it should cut both ways...send one ...get one...but it's another example of how some people can treat people here and think it's ok to do so...and another thing that makes me laugh...ladies looking for a face pic before they chat and not even one photo of any discription on their own profile...pure blank ..maybe the should keep in mind that they may not have anything to catch or keep a guys attention either..like l said ..things should cut both ways...but here ,in a lot of cases it doesn't..."

What's the difference between sending pics on here and kik? Kik doesn't guarantee a pic back or does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s no way I’d drive an hour to meet anyone blind..

sure how are you supposed to know them when you get there, Assuming they will actually show.

You were right OP...

if people can’t be honest and upfront then no way I’d get involved.

I've taken time off work and drove over an hour to a morning meet cause ..1.they said it was the only time that suited them best ..2.they promised they'd be there .....got there ..and nothing....no show...so what can one do ..get in the car and drive back..plus there are those on here that look for a photo and also say they will return one ...one is sent ..but one is never returned...so l've stopped sending face pics through here...Kik only...and if that don't suit them ..no worries...why should people look for photos and not be willing to send one back...it should cut both ways...send one ...get one...but it's another example of how some people can treat people here and think it's ok to do so...and another thing that makes me laugh...ladies looking for a face pic before they chat and not even one photo of any discription on their own profile...pure blank ..maybe the should keep in mind that they may not have anything to catch or keep a guys attention either..like l said ..things should cut both ways...but here ,in a lot of cases it doesn't...

What's the difference between sending pics on here and kik? Kik doesn't guarantee a pic back or does it? "

No .there's no guarantee of a pic return on Kik either ..but if you've got to the Kik stage to me it's a step closer to maybe meeting cause usually someone doesnt give you their Kik unless they feel like getting to know you more ...that's my take on it..but the point that l was making in general was l was just sick to the teeth of being asked for a face pic ,saying l will send one if they return one ..they agree to return one...l send one ..and nothing comes back ..so lve stopped sending face pics here because of that .

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Looking for opinions on forums is grand but sometimes uv to just go with your gut and u knew it seemed off. Ur also on d site over a year & ur experienced so u should by now know how fab works. It’s a 2way agreement between fabbers profiles when they agree to meet, if they’ve rules & if u don’t agree with them then respect that but move on.

Reading thru d forum u went from asking opinions to ranting & fighting your own corner & bitching abt d couple and now I see on your profile your naming/shaming/threatening them, mate it’s not on, thick skin & move on. Your only doin urself one with this drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for opinions on forums is grand but sometimes uv to just go with your gut and u knew it seemed off. Ur also on d site over a year & ur experienced so u should by now know how fab works. It’s a 2way agreement between fabbers profiles when they agree to meet, if they’ve rules & if u don’t agree with them then respect that but move on.

Reading thru d forum u went from asking opinions to ranting & fighting your own corner & bitching abt d couple and now I see on your profile your naming/shaming/threatening them, mate it’s not on, thick skin & move on. Your only doin urself one with this drama. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for opinions on forums is grand but sometimes uv to just go with your gut and u knew it seemed off. Ur also on d site over a year & ur experienced so u should by now know how fab works. It’s a 2way agreement between fabbers profiles when they agree to meet, if they’ve rules & if u don’t agree with them then respect that but move on.

Reading thru d forum u went from asking opinions to ranting & fighting your own corner & bitching abt d couple and now I see on your profile your naming/shaming/threatening them, mate it’s not on, thick skin & move on. Your only doin urself one with this drama. "
But don't couples and single ladies always bitch and complain about timwasters and no show.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Op, it clearly says on the couple's profile that they won't send a pic to single lads but expect one from them. While you can argue this is a onesided pic policy, it's entirely up to anyone approaching them to go along with it or not.

So I understand that you wouldn't want to drive for an hour without knowing how they might look like,but you must have been aware of their pic policy.

I think the whole issue including this thread is blown out of proportion. Just move on.

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By *rishman444 OP   Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"Op, it clearly says on the couple's profile that they won't send a pic to single lads but expect one from them. While you can argue this is a onesided pic policy, it's entirely up to anyone approaching them to go along with it or not.

So I understand that you wouldn't want to drive for an hour without knowing how they might look like,but you must have been aware of their pic policy.

I think the whole issue including this thread is blown out of proportion. Just move on. "

There’s was no problem with no pic I sent d my pic and then they said they don't send pic and that's where I said no thanks they message back calling me a time waster so I moved on to the next morning they had up a post slating single men and that was not the way it was am not mad in any way but tell it the way it was

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"Op, it clearly says on the couple's profile that they won't send a pic to single lads but expect one from them. While you can argue this is a onesided pic policy, it's entirely up to anyone approaching them to go along with it or not.

This ^^^

So I understand that you wouldn't want to drive for an hour without knowing how they might look like,but you must have been aware of their pic policy.

I think the whole issue including this thread is blown out of proportion. Just move on. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you were dead right ,I have never met anyone blind,if they were serious about a meet they would have sent you a pic in private, you need peice of mind not only that you need to see if there's a n attraction there,to me they sounded very pushy.you done the right thing ,anyway it's in fab guidelines before a meet to exchange photos etc. Better to be safe than sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was wise according to me, I drove miles for nothing other day. Not even a reply or anything when I arrive there, they were verified.

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