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Am I a snob?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s late. Only a few messages exchanged. She’s nice. She’s keen. Where are you she asks?. South Belfast - where are you ?. She replies with her exact address. Now we hadn’t positively arranged a meet at that precise moment but it was going that way. I google map then google earth it. Crikey. I do a virtual drive around the area on google earth. She asks for a meet in 30 mins. I ramp the conversation down and make my excuses ( she can only Accom). Its a VERY rough area of Poleglass in West Belfast. Google earth shows abandoned cars and wrecks. I didn’t fancy driving there . So should I have gone ? Am I a snob?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passing up an opportunity to go late at night to the home of a total stranger (who may or may not be a woman) in a rough part of town?

I'd call it basic common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are Google images recent?

You said you've only exchanged a few messages with her... is she verified? Does it look like the profile pic?

Someone asked me before should or shouldn't they go to a meet in similar circumstances. I told him he should for the craic - he drove past the house and seen two men peeping out of the houses in question window...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She was well verified. Sent me new pics as we were chatting. Seemed genuine by any yardstick

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By *undubguy100Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Agree.....sounds like a bit of a set up..always prepare for the worst...if it sounds too good to be true....it usually is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s late. Only a few messages exchanged. She’s nice. She’s keen. Where are you she asks?. South Belfast - where are you ?. She replies with her exact address. Now we hadn’t positively arranged a meet at that precise moment but it was going that way. I google map then google earth it. Crikey. I do a virtual drive around the area on google earth. She asks for a meet in 30 mins. I ramp the conversation down and make my excuses ( she can only Accom). Its a VERY rough area of Poleglass in West Belfast. Google earth shows abandoned cars and wrecks. I didn’t fancy driving there . So should I have gone ? Am I a snob?"

I wouldn't think so ,if you didn't feel comfortable going to that area ,doesn't make you a snob,..might do if you had met the girl previously and this time she was asking you back and you already knew what her living area was like and and you didn't want to go ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are Google images recent?

You said you've only exchanged a few messages with her... is she verified? Does it look like the profile pic?

Someone asked me before should or shouldn't they go to a meet in similar circumstances. I told him he should for the craic - he drove past the house and seen two men peeping out of the houses in question window... "

F**king Hell !!! Seriously ???..now THAT would seriously scare the living be Jaysus outta me anyway ..

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"It’s late. Only a few messages exchanged. She’s nice. She’s keen. Where are you she asks?. South Belfast - where are you ?. She replies with her exact address. Now we hadn’t positively arranged a meet at that precise moment but it was going that way. I google map then google earth it. Crikey. I do a virtual drive around the area on google earth. She asks for a meet in 30 mins. I ramp the conversation down and make my excuses ( she can only Accom). Its a VERY rough area of Poleglass in West Belfast. Google earth shows abandoned cars and wrecks. I didn’t fancy driving there . So should I have gone ? Am I a snob?"

Not a snob at all, your common sense kicked in and now you are better safe than sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Plus she met someone after I backed out. So I think I’m gonna try again with her ( 20 years younger than me too !)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope she hasnt read this post!

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By *thena400Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Passing up an opportunity to go late at night to the home of a total stranger (who may or may not be a woman) in a rough part of town?

I'd call it basic common sense."

This. It makes my red flags fly at full mast in a stiff wind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Saves months and months and months and months and months and months of endless endless fucking chat. Most of my meets have been with women who want sex and not being fawned over and friggin endless mind numbing chat !!!!!’nnnnnnn!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would never meet someone at the home on a first meet!... Be it they live in a castle or a warzone!..I used to be able to jump out of windows and over walls,but not anymore!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can take care of myself, 33 years of being able to

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By *lowersMan
over a year ago

Derry

Do only what you’re comfortable with mate. If a woman had posted your concerns everyone would be telling her to be careful and rightly so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope she hasnt read this post!

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She doesn’t come on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s late. Only a few messages exchanged. She’s nice. She’s keen. Where are you she asks?. South Belfast - where are you ?. She replies with her exact address. Now we hadn’t positively arranged a meet at that precise moment but it was going that way. I google map then google earth it. Crikey. I do a virtual drive around the area on google earth. She asks for a meet in 30 mins. I ramp the conversation down and make my excuses ( she can only Accom). Its a VERY rough area of Poleglass in West Belfast. Google earth shows abandoned cars and wrecks. I didn’t fancy driving there . So should I have gone ? Am I a snob?"

No. You arent. The buzzer in your head gives you a warning and might save your life. You never know...

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

A girl asked me to meet her in a rough area of dublin, didnt even give me an exact address, told me to meet them near a field down an alley.

I had a quick look on google, it was just a field/park there with multiple paths leading in all different directions. A car could easily block me in from behind.

It was pitch dark out. I hadn't seen them on video, it wasnt from this site, they were not verified.

So I just said "Looks dodgy, my car isnt worth robbing and I'm not bringing any money, I'll be there in 2 hours"

I turned up and could see people standing in the shadows, a knock on my car window I look out, a hot blonde there, i open the door she jumps in "you've some pair of balls on you" and she couldnt stop laughing.

Then she told me to drive she didnt actually live here and I had to drive to her place, so drove for 10 mins, got back to her place and well the rest of the meet went very very well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A girl asked me to meet her in a rough area of dublin, didnt even give me an exact address, told me to meet them near a field down an alley.

I had a quick look on google, it was just a field/park there with multiple paths leading in all different directions. A car could easily block me in from behind.

It was pitch dark out. I hadn't seen them on video, it wasnt from this site, they were not verified.

So I just said "Looks dodgy, my car isnt worth robbing and I'm not bringing any money, I'll be there in 2 hours"

I turned up and could see people standing in the shadows, a knock on my car window I look out, a hot blonde there, i open the door she jumps in "you've some pair of balls on you" and she couldnt stop laughing.

Then she told me to drive she didnt actually live here and I had to drive to her place, so drove for 10 mins, got back to her place and well the rest of the meet went very very well."

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"A girl asked me to meet her in a rough area of dublin, didnt even give me an exact address, told me to meet them near a field down an alley.

I had a quick look on google, it was just a field/park there with multiple paths leading in all different directions. A car could easily block me in from behind.

It was pitch dark out. I hadn't seen them on video, it wasnt from this site, they were not verified.

So I just said "Looks dodgy, my car isnt worth robbing and I'm not bringing any money, I'll be there in 2 hours"

I turned up and could see people standing in the shadows, a knock on my car window I look out, a hot blonde there, i open the door she jumps in "you've some pair of balls on you" and she couldnt stop laughing.

Then she told me to drive she didnt actually live here and I had to drive to her place, so drove for 10 mins, got back to her place and well the rest of the meet went very very well."

U do have some vivid wet dreams safey

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Hope she hasnt read this post!

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Was thinking the exact same

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Hope she hasnt read this post!

Was thinking the exact same "
anyone can read forums not everyone posts .

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"Hope she hasnt read this post!

Was thinking the exact same anyone can read forums not everyone posts . "

Indeed even members of the public who aren't fab members

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