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"After listening to the ladies of Pure Filth on topic "Is casual sex the new dating?".... What are your thoughts? Has Fab replaced dating apps for u? Would u consider dating a fellow Fabber/Fabbette? " I think fab a definitely has replaced them for me. I would dare a fabber. People have done the match up but it didn't work out well here it didn't anyway. Ah sure I am to fussy anyway so happy to just have fun. Its all good here making like minded friends anyway in the process of it. | |||
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"Fab hasn't replaced dating apps - two different things for me. I've dated fabbers, hasn't always worked out but I don't see why I wouldn't again but in saying that I'm not here looking for a realtionship in the same way I'm not on pornhub to watch Kate get her dishwasher fixed " Poor Kate  | |||
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"Fab hasn't replaced dating apps - two different things for me. I've dated fabbers, hasn't always worked out but I don't see why I wouldn't again but in saying that I'm not here looking for a realtionship in the same way I'm not on pornhub to watch Kate get her dishwasher fixed Poor Kate "She got the holes plugged but ended up flooding the floor when the plugs were removed  | |||
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"After listening to the ladies of Pure Filth on topic "Is casual sex the new dating?".... What are your thoughts? Has Fab replaced dating apps for u? Would u consider dating a fellow Fabber/Fabbette? " If things went the way both wanted to on fab and both felt the same about each other then there would be no reason why one wouldnt or couldn't date ..fab cuts through a lot of "redtape " and saves time big time (well unless very unfortunate to meet a timewaster )..like at the end of the day it's still two people with each other wether they met on fab or POF or wherever..if it's good to go..great..if not...keep moving ..there are some amazing Brilliant people here on fab that you would love to meet in any time or in any walk of life ..FAB ROCKS !!! | |||
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"Fab hasn't replaced dating apps - two different things for me. I've dated fabbers, hasn't always worked out but I don't see why I wouldn't again but in saying that I'm not here looking for a realtionship in the same way I'm not on pornhub to watch Kate get her dishwasher fixed Poor Kate
She got the holes plugged but ended up flooding the floor when the plugs were removed "Lol | |||
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"After listening to the ladies of Pure Filth on topic "Is casual sex the new dating?".... What are your thoughts? Has Fab replaced dating apps for u? Would u consider dating a fellow Fabber/Fabbette? If things went the way both wanted to on fab and both felt the same about each other then there would be no reason why one wouldnt or couldn't date ..fab cuts through a lot of "redtape " and saves time big time (well unless very unfortunate to meet a timewaster )..like at the end of the day it's still two people with each other wether they met on fab or POF or wherever..if it's good to go..great..if not...keep moving ..there are some amazing Brilliant people here on fab that you would love to meet in any time or in any walk of life ..FAB ROCKS !!!" Fab's newest ambassador! | |||
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"It seems different but it hasnt changed. Modern technology allows you to exchange proactive photos, to sext, to have flirty chats. However most of the women on dating apps/sites or just someone you met in a bar expect that flirting to lead to a bf/gf scenario. Women dont complain as much if it just ends up being a fling with a guy and when someone better comes along ending it. But the mentality of thinking that you can have sex with a girl looking to date strings free, is the wrong one to have. If you end up having sex with him/her and your intentions are string free, then you basically tricked them into having sex and they 100% think more than sex will be offered." You really confuse me... | |||
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"There’s an Irish pod cast by rosemary McCabe that talks at nauseam about Irish women’s failures and insecurities on the modern dating scene " More light listening  | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!!" Some of us even had sex before the dating pg at the back of the farmers journal  | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!! Some of us even had sex before the dating pg at the back of the farmers journal "Stone tablets and smoke signals | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!! Some of us even had sex before the dating pg at the back of the farmers journal
Stone tablets and smoke signals
A club (baseball bat)and strong hair " | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!! Some of us even had sex before the dating pg at the back of the farmers journal
Stone tablets and smoke signals "No, we actually spoke to people!!! | |||
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"After listening to the ladies of Pure Filth on topic "Is casual sex the new dating?".... What are your thoughts? Has Fab replaced dating apps for u? Would u consider dating a fellow Fabber/Fabbette? " Not for every woman. I still prefer the loyal old-fashioned family oriented traditional ones, but with new adventurous open mind. Many man have similar taste to mine. These girls are rare and they do exist. Thanks God... 
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"I remember reading swingers ads at the back of the buy and sell when I was a young lad " And your still here reading adds only online.... | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!! Some of us even had sex before the dating pg at the back of the farmers journal
Stone tablets and smoke signals
A club (baseball bat)and strong hair "Og ichi plof ti ra nessi!! | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!! Some of us even had sex before the dating pg at the back of the farmers journal
Stone tablets and smoke signals
No, we actually spoke to people!!!"They still do only they are sitting beside each ogher texting eachother  | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!! Some of us even had sex before the dating pg at the back of the farmers journal
Stone tablets and smoke signals
No, we actually spoke to people!!!"I know I'm just taking the piss out of CJ  | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!! Some of us even had sex before the dating pg at the back of the farmers journal
Stone tablets and smoke signals
A club (baseball bat)and strong hair
Og ichi plof ti ra nessi!!"Huh | |||
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"After listening to the ladies of Pure Filth on topic "Is casual sex the new dating?".... What are your thoughts? Has Fab replaced dating apps for u? Would u consider dating a fellow Fabber/Fabbette? " ---------------- I think in general that it's very much a hook up culture based on being horny, who's around and what level of basic chemistry is there
Myself, I don't use any apps as I get to meet lots of people face-to-face through work which is a nice refreshing change from going online, then checking out someone's pics, sexual preferences & veris before introducing yourself 
If the chemistry was there, I would date a Fabber but for me, am either in a relationship OR I'm single and on Fab and never the twain shall meet | |||
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"After listening to the ladies of Pure Filth on topic "Is casual sex the new dating?".... What are your thoughts? Has Fab replaced dating apps for u? Would u consider dating a fellow Fabber/Fabbette? " considering i'm engaged to a woman i met from fab to answer your question yes i would and have dated women from fab. Will i date women from fab in the future? doubt it. found the woman i want to be with for the rest of my life. | |||
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"After listening to the ladies of Pure Filth on topic "Is casual sex the new dating?".... What are your thoughts? Has Fab replaced dating apps for u? Would u consider dating a fellow Fabber/Fabbette? considering i'm engaged to a woman i met from fab to answer your question yes i would and have dated women from fab. Will i date women from fab in the future? doubt it. found the woman i want to be with for the rest of my life. "Very lucky man  | |||
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"After listening to the ladies of Pure Filth on topic "Is casual sex the new dating?".... What are your thoughts? Has Fab replaced dating apps for u? Would u consider dating a fellow Fabber/Fabbette? considering i'm engaged to a woman i met from fab to answer your question yes i would and have dated women from fab. Will i date women from fab in the future? doubt it. found the woman i want to be with for the rest of my life. "That's nice, lucky you two xx. Wedding invite for fabbers so lol | |||
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"After listening to the ladies of Pure Filth on topic "Is casual sex the new dating?".... What are your thoughts? Has Fab replaced dating apps for u? Would u consider dating a fellow Fabber/Fabbette? considering i'm engaged to a woman i met from fab to answer your question yes i would and have dated women from fab. Will i date women from fab in the future? doubt it. found the woman i want to be with for the rest of my life. "Congrats! | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!!" Yeah and people still have casual sex, the problem is date 1 and 2 can happen digitally, so having sex on the first meeting might seem casual when in fact it just means the girl wants to be your girlfriend. And if you have sex with her and never call her again, then her profile will be updated to reflect that it pisses her off. | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!! Yeah and people still have casual sex, the problem is date 1 and 2 can happen digitally, so having sex on the first meeting might seem casual when in fact it just means the girl wants to be your girlfriend. And if you have sex with her and never call her again, then her profile will be updated to reflect that it pisses her off." I don't have a whole lot of sympathy for women who trade sex for the prospect of a relationship. | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!! Yeah and people still have casual sex, the problem is date 1 and 2 can happen digitally, so having sex on the first meeting might seem casual when in fact it just means the girl wants to be your girlfriend. And if you have sex with her and never call her again, then her profile will be updated to reflect that it pisses her off. I don't have a whole lot of sympathy for women who trade sex for the prospect of a relationship. " True... Too much focus on the simple amazing sex. And a relationship is way more than just big bang boom... | |||
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"After listening to the ladies of Pure Filth on topic "Is casual sex the new dating?".... What are your thoughts? Has Fab replaced dating apps for u? Would u consider dating a fellow Fabber/Fabbette? I think fab a definitely has replaced them for me. I would dare a fabber. People have done the match up but it didn't work out well here it didn't anyway. Ah sure I am to fussy anyway so happy to just have fun. Its all good here making like minded friends anyway in the process of it. " As I said already on another post people come to Fab for all sorts of reasons, in search for casual sex, in search for someone just to talk to, in search for love or just because they are lonely. Fab is as good as any other dating place and for women, it offers a massive pool of men compared to other sites where the ratio between men and women is a bit more balanced.
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"It's so bloody hard to find the man who wants to chat, have a laugh and actually get to know you. And not just wanting any old hole! " The male unicorn  | |||
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"It's so bloody hard to find the man who wants to chat, have a laugh and actually get to know you. And not just wanting any old hole! " I agree just normal interaction and hangout and the old holes aswell lol. It's fab and even all other apps guys just want the same. And the woman an couples are on pof and tinder also, I am so glad I am not on any of them. I found my haunt, suit me just fine here..... | |||
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"It seems different but it hasnt changed. Modern technology allows you to exchange proactive photos, to sext, to have flirty chats. However most of the women on dating apps/sites or just someone you met in a bar expect that flirting to lead to a bf/gf scenario. Women dont complain as much if it just ends up being a fling with a guy and when someone better comes along ending it. But the mentality of thinking that you can have sex with a girl looking to date strings free, is the wrong one to have. If you end up having sex with him/her and your intentions are string free, then you basically tricked them into having sex and they 100% think more than sex will be offered." There's a lot in what you say I'd concur with. It's why I wouldn't look to date anyone I knew was on fab. It's not a lifestyle I'd want to be involved with in a serious relationship and for that reason I'd avoid that happening with a fabber. | |||
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"It's so bloody hard to find the man who wants to chat, have a laugh and actually get to know you. And not just wanting any old hole! " It's because this is a sex site and so most come with that expectation. I've found a lot of ladies on here are not interested in chit chat and after a few messages they themselves have move the conversation. There are one or two rare ones and one I've been chatting about 10 days and were planning on meeting up this weekend, we've talked about everything but sex and I'm happy with that. Sex may happen, if it does great if not she's become a friend. | |||
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"It's so bloody hard to find the man who wants to chat, have a laugh and actually get to know you. And not just wanting any old hole! " There are few but finally it will end somewhere between your boobies or legs. Always. Controlling the situation may help | |||
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"It's so bloody hard to find the man who wants to chat, have a laugh and actually get to know you. And not just wanting any old hole! There are few but finally it will end somewhere between your boobies or legs. Always. Controlling the situation may help "Helps if both are on the same page as far as what matters. | |||
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"It's so bloody hard to find the man who wants to chat, have a laugh and actually get to know you. And not just wanting any old hole! There are few but finally it will end somewhere between your boobies or legs. Always. Controlling the situation may help
Helps if both are on the same page as far as what matters."Agree
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"When does meeting a fabber regularly for socials and fun become dating? Or does it ever? " When the people involved decide together that it is, surely | |||
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"When does meeting a fabber regularly for socials and fun become dating? Or does it ever? " You have your opinion, I have mine. I found fabbers more interesting people and always warn them there is no sex involved til I'll feel comfortable with that person. Dating a fabber? Yes, why not?! If he agrees T&C then whats wrong with it? Do you think life is only about sex? If yes then very pity... | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!!" I find it hard to find anything because of the internet. Before it was much easier | |||
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"Some of us had casual sex before the internet arrived!! I find it hard to find anything because of the internet. Before it was much easier" Well back then we just went out and did it, instead of talking about it! | |||
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"When does meeting a fabber regularly for socials and fun become dating? Or does it ever? You have your opinion, I have mine. I found fabbers more interesting people and always warn them there is no sex involved til I'll feel comfortable with that person. Dating a fabber? Yes, why not?! If he agrees T&C then whats wrong with it? Do you think life is only about sex? If yes then very pity..." This is my philosophy also. I have made many non-sexual friends on fab. Mutual respect and understanding is so important. | |||
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"Yes I would date someone off a swinger site. I have tried the dating sites. Men are less honest and open about what they really want,which is a quick shag,not tarring anyone with any brushes but that's the experience I made. I am hoping fellow swinger men,to be more open and honest. That's in theory. Hoping it will actually happen. "Well not sure if you will. Get the whole truth here either Nice if it could happen | |||
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"Its tough finding someone nowadays for a relationship! As in all those apps like tinder and pof there are prob 50/1 guys to females on them! " Sometimes your second half is closer than you think | |||
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"Its tough finding someone nowadays for a relationship! As in all those apps like tinder and pof there are prob 50/1 guys to females on them! Sometimes your second half is closer than you think "Hmmm wish you lived in Galway then I might believe that to be true !! | |||
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