FabSwingers.com forum: Help please

By *irvana999 OP Man
over a year ago

city

Hi people could you tell me what me wrong with my profile ,have been on this now for 6 or 7 months and have never received a reply to a msg ,try not to take it personally, but not one reply ,lol,,what am I doin wrong folks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi people could you tell me what me wrong with my profile ,have been on this now for 6 or 7 months and have never received a reply to a msg ,try not to take it personally, but not one reply ,lol,,what am I doin wrong folks ."

You are in a sea of many. Maybe cut your ages a bit, your 41 and you’ll meet an eighteen year old? And maybe add a bit more about yourself. There’s been loads of these threads OP, get to a social or see if someone will meet for a coffee just to verify you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a female point of view, this is what I see when I look at your profile:

Forty something guy who doesn't live alone (means may be attached or still live with his parents) so can't accomodate, wants to meet women to be a "dom" with them outside on a blanket.

Nope, I'd walk as far away from that kind of scenario as I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a female point of view, this is what I see when I look at your profile:

Forty something guy who doesn't live alone (means may be attached or still live with his parents) so can't accomodate, wants to meet women to be a "dom" with them outside on a blanket.

Nope, I'd walk as far away from that kind of scenario as I could."

On a blanket

Bdsm picnics are all the rage

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

No blanket just a bed of nails.. that makes it bdsm

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By *irvana999 OP Man
over a year ago

city

Wow ok ,that what it looks like ? That's all wrong, lol ,I live alone and like the outdoors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t mean to sound snobby or whatever but I would suggest sorting out your grammar and punctuation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you say in your messages. How can anyone advise you if we don’t know what you are saying ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And ur profile pic - we can clearly see ur face. Then wen we look at ur pics , u have the same pic with the face blacked out !! Wtf?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Its very common for bdsm meets to happen in parks on blankets.

I deleted my fetish profile but when I had one I would see meets happen in parks all the time, and people tying each other up and stuff. Obviously not sex though.

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By *irvana999 OP Man
over a year ago

city

Lol didn't notice that,

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By *undubguy100Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"From a female point of view, this is what I see when I look at your profile:

Forty something guy who doesn't live alone (means may be attached or still live with his parents) so can't accomodate, wants to meet women to be a "dom" with them outside on a blanket.

Nope, I'd walk as far away from that kind of scenario as I could."

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By *unLovingCriminalMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

Try be more specific with what your looking for scenario wise and partner wise.Make sure your respectful and make your messages stand out from the thousands women get on a daily basis.

Ask yourself why will they pick me over countless others?how can I be different?

also your living arrangements arent preferrable for alot of people and smokers tend to be less fortunate from my experince due to either health or just preferences in general...also spell check your about me sections and try add some more photos matebin different outfits to give an idea of your style,arrange a coffee meet to get verified it helps alot!!

There's alot of people here who will give advice if asked,hope your luck changes and best of luck OP

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

OP you’ve got to remember that you want women ( or men , whatever your preference) to look at your profile and want to have sex with you . We are all here to meet to have sex ( unless like me , not meeting at the moment ) , so ask yourself , what about your profile would make a woman on here , who is getting umpteen messages a day from some very hot / interesting/ witty men , want to have sex with you ??? Would your profile spark their interest ? Or would they just delete your incoming messages? Especially as there is no profile picture , it just reeks of couldn’t really be arsed to make an effort. I hope you will take this as constructive criticism. Pony

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By *scapism123Man
over a year ago

belfast

"From a female point of view, this is what I see when I look at your profile:

Forty something guy who doesn't live alone (means may be attached or still live with his parents) so can't accomodate, wants to meet women to be a "dom" with them outside on a blanket.

Nope, I'd walk as far away from that kind of scenario as I could."

Open to constructive criticism if anyone wants to tear me a new one

In no means hijacking a post I hope

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

I just copied and pasted from the answer I gave on another post of the same topic . Maybe have a look at the profiles of men on here who have been meeting and make a comparison to your own profile and see what you can do to make women want to chat to you . Good luck

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By *scapism123Man
over a year ago

belfast

"I just copied and pasted from the answer I gave on another post of the same topic . Maybe have a look at the profiles of men on here who have been meeting and make a comparison to your own profile and see what you can do to make women want to chat to you . Good luck

Thankyou

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By *oversex69Man
over a year ago

North

perhaps if some of the ladies looked at our profiles and comment on where we are going wrong i know i would be open to than and perhaps pm us so its not in open

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By *irvana999 OP Man
over a year ago

city

How do I change to ,can accommodate on my profile page cant find it

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"How do I change to ,can accommodate on my profile page cant find it"

Not everyone thinks automatically because a guy doesn't accommodate they are either attached or living with parents. Men do have other reasons for not accommodating. Don't change it to suit others.....its what works for you on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I change to ,can accommodate on my profile page cant find it"

Click on account

Click on looking for

Can accommodate

Can not accommodate check boxes

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By *ittlePinkUnicornWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Maybe use paragraphs? Break the text up a bit.

Also go through the forum and check the replies on all the other threads on this topic.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Maybe use paragraphs? Break the text up a bit.

Also go through the forum and check the replies on all the other threads on this topic."

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Sure that sounds like too much hard work

The thing is, guys come on the forums day in & day out "looking for advice"

yet never bother to change their profile or approach one bit afterwards as 99 times out of 100, it's just a last ditch stand for some attention

So, here's my advice to all the studs out there that are "doing something wrong"...

1. DON'T BE LAZY. Write a sexy/interesting profile text that doesn't send the reader to sleep

2. Take note that there's other parts of your body other than your cock that you can take photos of

3. Don't agree with the women

on the forum thinking that that's gonna earn you brownie points. It's just sad ...and yes they see through it

Instead, be upfront on the forums and openly speak your mind ...unless the topic is about poxy fecking soccer

4. DON"T BE LAZY and stop whinging

that you can't meet women and instead just get your ass down to a Social or a Meet & Greet... as GUESS WHAT???

there's lots of women there

who you can chat to and get a veri from. Imagine

...

5. DON'T BE LAZY with lame ice breakers or intros. Yes, there are women

and couples

here looking for sex, but they're not the same sort of people as the SEX Chat Line Lady

you spend your wages on only to tell you what "a big boy" you are and what she'd "like to do" with or to you

. Fabbers are first and foremost people

...and remember...

Happy Fabbing!

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"Maybe use paragraphs? Break the text up a bit.

Also go through the forum and check the replies on all the other threads on this topic.

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Sure that sounds like too much hard work

The thing is, guys come on the forums day in & day out "looking for advice"

yet never bother to change their profile or approach one bit afterwards as 99 times out of 100, it's just a last ditch stand for some attention

So, here's my advice to all the studs out there that are "doing something wrong"...

1. DON'T BE LAZY. Write a sexy/interesting profile text that doesn't send the reader to sleep

2. Take note that there's other parts of your body other than your cock that you can take photos of

3. Don't agree with the women

on the forum thinking that that's gonna earn you brownie points. It's just sad ...and yes they see through it

Instead, be upfront on the forums and openly speak your mind ...unless the topic is about poxy fecking soccer

4. DON"T BE LAZY and stop whinging

that you can't meet women and instead just get your ass down to a Social or a Meet & Greet... as GUESS WHAT???

there's lots of women there

who you can chat to and get a veri from. Imagine

...

5. DON'T BE LAZY with lame ice breakers or intros. Yes, there are women

and couples

here looking for sex, but they're not the same sort of people as the SEX Chat Line Lady

you spend your wages on only to tell you what "a big boy" you are and what she'd "like to do" with or to you

. Fabbers are first and foremost people

...and remember...

Happy Fabbing!

Excellent ....

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