FabSwingers.com forum: Today is a new day

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nobody had the right.

To force you to be someone who you are not. You are in charge of your life, not someone else.

To be violent towards you. Beat you, sexually abusing you and bully you.

To speak to you with hatred. Challenge, humiliate, criticize, blame you for something you haven't done.

It's not your fault

That a father had problems and hit his children. That a disturbed priest harassed others. That a husband screamed constantly and a wife cheated.

You are not responsible that your adult child has gone astray. That the hatter spreads hatred and the boss steals from people.

You don't have to associate with the rudeness of colleagues. With the negativity of your partner. With a mother's d*unkenness.

It is not your fault that someone has problems. That his behavior is wrong. That he can't deal with his traumatic past.

I'm really sorry

That you were harmed. That those who were supposed to protect you have failed. That your trust was abused.

That fate can be cruel. That all of it happened to you. That no one stopped the harm.

But I also know

That your problems can be solved. That some people were in a similar situation and got out of it that you can do it too.

That what didn't kill you made you stronger, that you can learn from every horrifying experience.

Therefore, remember

That today is a new day. That you can start from the beginning. That I keep my fingers crossed for you and I know that you can make it.

Matt

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Are you on some mindfulness/wellness course today?

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Nobody had the right.

To force you to be someone who you are not. You are in charge of your life, not someone else.

To be violent towards you. Beat you, sexually abusing you and bully you.

To speak to you with hatred. Challenge, humiliate, criticize, blame you for something you haven't done.

It's not your fault

That a father had problems and hit his children. That a disturbed priest harassed others. That a husband screamed constantly and a wife cheated.

You are not responsible that your adult child has gone astray. That the hatter spreads hatred and the boss steals from people.

You don't have to associate with the rudeness of colleagues. With the negativity of your partner. With a mother's d*unkenness.

It is not your fault that someone has problems. That his behavior is wrong. That he can't deal with his traumatic past.

I'm really sorry

That you were harmed. That those who were supposed to protect you have failed. That your trust was abused.

That fate can be cruel. That all of it happened to you. That no one stopped the harm.

But I also know

That your problems can be solved. That some people were in a similar situation and got out of it that you can do it too.

That what didn't kill you made you stronger, that you can learn from every horrifying experience.

Therefore, remember

That today is a new day. That you can start from the beginning. That I keep my fingers crossed for you and I know that you can make it.

Matt"

Who's Matt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nobody had the right.

To force you to be someone who you are not. You are in charge of your life, not someone else.

To be violent towards you. Beat you, sexually abusing you and bully you.

To speak to you with hatred. Challenge, humiliate, criticize, blame you for something you haven't done.

It's not your fault

That a father had problems and hit his children. That a disturbed priest harassed others. That a husband screamed constantly and a wife cheated.

You are not responsible that your adult child has gone astray. That the hatter spreads hatred and the boss steals from people.

You don't have to associate with the rudeness of colleagues. With the negativity of your partner. With a mother's d*unkenness.

It is not your fault that someone has problems. That his behavior is wrong. That he can't deal with his traumatic past.

I'm really sorry

That you were harmed. That those who were supposed to protect you have failed. That your trust was abused.

That fate can be cruel. That all of it happened to you. That no one stopped the harm.

But I also know

That your problems can be solved. That some people were in a similar situation and got out of it that you can do it too.

That what didn't kill you made you stronger, that you can learn from every horrifying experience.

Therefore, remember

That today is a new day. That you can start from the beginning. That I keep my fingers crossed for you and I know that you can make it.

Matt

Who's Matt

My Friend

Its an open letter. Think and Do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you on some mindfulness/wellness course today?"

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Are you on some mindfulness/wellness course today?

Sharing is caring

Indeed it is, especially for swingers

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Nobody had the right.

To force you to be someone who you are not. You are in charge of your life, not someone else.

To be violent towards you. Beat you, sexually abusing you and bully you.

To speak to you with hatred. Challenge, humiliate, criticize, blame you for something you haven't done.

It's not your fault

That a father had problems and hit his children. That a disturbed priest harassed others. That a husband screamed constantly and a wife cheated.

You are not responsible that your adult child has gone astray. That the hatter spreads hatred and the boss steals from people.

You don't have to associate with the rudeness of colleagues. With the negativity of your partner. With a mother's d*unkenness.

It is not your fault that someone has problems. That his behavior is wrong. That he can't deal with his traumatic past.

I'm really sorry

That you were harmed. That those who were supposed to protect you have failed. That your trust was abused.

That fate can be cruel. That all of it happened to you. That no one stopped the harm.

But I also know

That your problems can be solved. That some people were in a similar situation and got out of it that you can do it too.

That what didn't kill you made you stronger, that you can learn from every horrifying experience.

Therefore, remember

That today is a new day. That you can start from the beginning. That I keep my fingers crossed for you and I know that you can make it.

Matt

Who's Matt

My Friend

Its an open letter. Think and Do

Fairly powerful letter going through tough times is he

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

"Nobody had the right.

To force you to be someone who you are not. You are in charge of your life, not someone else.

To be violent towards you. Beat you, sexually abusing you and bully you.

To speak to you with hatred. Challenge, humiliate, criticize, blame you for something you haven't done.

It's not your fault

That a father had problems and hit his children. That a disturbed priest harassed others. That a husband screamed constantly and a wife cheated.

You are not responsible that your adult child has gone astray. That the hatter spreads hatred and the boss steals from people.

You don't have to associate with the rudeness of colleagues. With the negativity of your partner. With a mother's d*unkenness.

It is not your fault that someone has problems. That his behavior is wrong. That he can't deal with his traumatic past.

I'm really sorry

That you were harmed. That those who were supposed to protect you have failed. That your trust was abused.

That fate can be cruel. That all of it happened to you. That no one stopped the harm.

But I also know

That your problems can be solved. That some people were in a similar situation and got out of it that you can do it too.

That what didn't kill you made you stronger, that you can learn from every horrifying experience.

Therefore, remember

That today is a new day. That you can start from the beginning. That I keep my fingers crossed for you and I know that you can make it.

Matt"

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