FabSwingers.com forum: WHAT TO DO?

By *he English One OP Man
over a year ago

west

Just a curious question I have a women in my friends list i won't say who but I think we have exchanged messages to each other once whenever she is online I messages her but I get nothing back not even a read msg and no I don't expect a reply she's been getting stood up and I want to show I care but she doesn't notice my msg I know women get ridiculous amount of messages on a daily occasion which isn't fair but should I keep trying or should I just unfriendly her and just leave it be I don't want to feel like I'm annoying her so I don't know what to do any input would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd wait until she reads it I know if I get crazy amount of messages and there is a guy I want to type back I open most of the messages of the guys I dont want to respond to first (I know that sounds so bad) but I do and when I want to talk to that person I'll open the message and text back , hope that helps

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By *he English One OP Man
over a year ago

west

"I'd wait until she reads it I know if I get crazy amount of messages and there is a guy I want to type back I open most of the messages of the guys I dont want to respond to first (I know that sounds so bad) but I do and when I want to talk to that person I'll open the message and text back , hope that helps "

Yeah I think lol thanks

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Simply shout "NEXT!" and move on

Focus your energies on meeting others

for the moment and in a few months,

fire a message over to her...

There's tons of sexy people to meet on FAB

so wouldn't get hung up on any one person

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By *he English One OP Man
over a year ago

west

"Simply shout "NEXT!" and move on

Focus your energies on meeting others

for the moment and in a few months,

fire a message over to her...

There's tons of sexy people to meet on FAB

so wouldn't get hung up on any one person

Interesting approach might go with it lol

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

How many messages are we talking about that she has not read? And how long have you been doing this?

Personally I think she may not be interested and it's time to move on

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By *he English One OP Man
over a year ago

west

"How many messages are we talking about that she has not read? And how long have you been doing this?

Personally I think she may not be interested and it's time to move on"

Like I don't literally hound her with messages just messages her when she is online then just leaves it it justs confuses me why she accepted a my friend request maybe it was a mistake don't know

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By *ittlePinkUnicornWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

No offense, but she's one woman, as already said above move on. If you send her a message every time she's online that could be quite a lot.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

In my opinion, she's not interested so I'd just leave it and move on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had similar situation. She may have friended you to be a potential suitor in the future but her schedule is full now. Best advice is move on and if you like her, see what happened in the future!

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By *he English One OP Man
over a year ago

west

Thanks everyone I think I'll just move on just annoys me when you think your getting somewhere then the door gets slammed into your face I suppose that's the norm here tho il tell ya this is some jungle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has she heard you sing Tonk?

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

You have reached out to her and she has made no effort so thing it's time to just move on bet once she sees you have you will hear from her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have reached out to her and she has made no effort so thing it's time to just move on bet once she sees you have you will hear from her "

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By *he English One OP Man
over a year ago

west

"Has she heard you sing Tonk?

No love to show off my rhythm and blues lol

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By *he English One OP Man
over a year ago

west

"You have reached out to her and she has made no effort so thing it's time to just move on bet once she sees you have you will hear from her "

Very true thank you

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Sometimes I would think someone is okay and add them to friends list, then change my mind and not fancy them any more. What puts me off people completely is people who I've no interest in keep messaging me. Sometimes when you open their message thread it looks like they have a full on conversation with themselves. It's borderline creepy.

We stopped telling people polite "no thank you" long ago to avoid any "why don't you like me" and "fuck off you're a slut anyway" a good while ago as it happens way too often.

My advice - stop messaging as it looks like you're only a message or two away from a complete block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless she had read it , I always keep messaging until I get a reply or I am blocked . I have had long chats with many andbthen my last message us read but not replied to. Out if the blue . Then i will just leave it. Their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just me or does anyone else find it creepy that he says he cares about a women he thinks he exchanged messages with once

Move on and stop messaging the women if she wanted to reply to you she would of

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

"Is it just me or does anyone else find it creepy that he says he cares about a women he thinks he exchanged messages with once

Move on and stop messaging the women if she wanted to reply to you she would of "

This

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By *he English One OP Man
over a year ago

west

"Is it just me or does anyone else find it creepy that he says he cares about a women he thinks he exchanged messages with once

Move on and stop messaging the women if she wanted to reply to you she would of "

Well what I meant by that is when a status gets put up saying they have been stood up it annoys me when people make the effort only to be messed about and just want to show im one of the good ones on here yeah care for her was probably wrong choice of words lol I assure you I'm no creep I can take a hint just this occasion confused me a bit is all but thanks for your input

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

A bit of a long answer, but just bare with me.

Time for you to move on OP and maybe put a note on her profile, so next time you remember the whole situation.

I normally block a profile like that too, not to waste her time by accident in the future

While men don't get near as many messages, winks or friend requests as Fab women do and I perfectly understand your reluctantance to wait, please take the advice and move on.

What I am trying to say is that when someone wants and is interested to meet you, you will know straight away.

Winks, friend requests, face pics exchanged, Kik chats, phone numbers swapped and talk, coffee meet (if you can get one

) , love letters

, don't mean anything, as it could all change without notice.

True personal experience below on Fab, just few weeks ago.

I've met a woman for a SM play session (not too many on Fab, trust me).

No coffee meet beforehand.

She messaged me first, followed immediately after few Fab messages by a friend request, then by the normal introductory Kik chat with face pics exchanged.

Then the date and the hotel was set, all of this in one afternoon.

She even suggested the hotel she preferred, hotel that had no booking fees and was extremely discreet and clean, with reasonable price for the night, located half way between us.

She wasn't desperate to meet me and while she was just a bit older than me, she was very pretty.

She was just that kind of person who understands very well how Fab works and what she was looking for.

I even got very sick, the morning of the meet and we had to postpone at short notice for few days later, but she had no problems with it, when I thought I would never hear from her gain.

Good luck and have patience, but don't waste your time, there are plenty of new people on Fab all the time and one day the right person will meet you.

If it has happened to me, it will happen to you too.

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By *he English One OP Man
over a year ago

west

"A bit of a long answer, but just bare with me.

Time for you to move on OP and maybe put a note on her profile, so next time you remember the whole situation.

I normally block a profile like that too, not to waste her time by accident in the future

While men don't get near as many messages, winks or friend requests as Fab women do and I perfectly understand your reluctantance to wait, please take the advice and move on.

What I am trying to say is that when someone wants and is interested to meet you, you will know straight away.

Winks, friend requests, face pics exchanged, Kik chats, phone numbers swapped and talk, coffee meet (if you can get one

) , love letters

, don't mean anything, as it could all change without notice.

True personal experience below on Fab, just few weeks ago.

I've met a woman for a SM play session (not too many on Fab, trust me).

No coffee meet beforehand.

She messaged me first, followed immediately after few Fab messages by a friend request, then by the normal introductory Kik chat with face pics exchanged.

Then the date and the hotel was set, all of this in one afternoon.

She even suggested the hotel she preferred, hotel that had no booking fees and was extremely discreet and clean, with reasonable price for the night, located half way between us.

She wasn't desperate to meet me and while she was just a bit older than me, she was very pretty.

She was just that kind of person who understands very well how Fab works and what she was looking for.

I even got very sick, the morning of the meet and we had to postpone at short notice for few days later, but she had no problems with it, when I thought I would never hear from her gain.

Good luck and have patience, but don't waste your time, there are plenty of new people on Fab all the time and one day the right person will meet you.

If it has happened to me, it will happen to you too.

Yeah definitely one of the best responses lol yeah your completely right tho but what I might do is just maybe keep her on my friends list and maybe she might spot my messages but just don't message her anymore unless she does respond I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has she heard you sing Tonk?

No love to show off my rhythm and blues lol"

Her loss Tonk!

Remember you're cool, you're cocky, you're bad

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"Has she heard you sing Tonk?

No love to show off my rhythm and blues lol

Her loss Tonk!

Remember you're cool, you're cocky, you're bad

Ha ha love it Kaizer

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By *he English One OP Man
over a year ago

west

"Has she heard you sing Tonk?

No love to show off my rhythm and blues lol

Her loss Tonk!

Remember you're cool, you're cocky, you're bad

Lol although she might have a price everyone has a price for the million dollar man then again I'm not a millionaire yet lol

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Unless she had read it , I always keep messaging until I get a reply or I am blocked . I have had long chats with many andbthen my last message us read but not replied to. Out if the blue . Then i will just leave it. Their loss "

That's because you're a bit of a brat. Lol

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