FabSwingers.com forum: Attached ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I a dickhead because I dont want to meet attached people ? I dont judge anyone and it's none of my business what anyone does but i personally have no interest meeting anyone that is attached, I know I will feel guilty after meeting and I dont want that

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

no its fine, its the dickheads who know you feel this way, are attached and hide it and meet you anyway.

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By *oguish1Man
over a year ago

Carrigrohane

No you are not a "dickhead" it is your right to choose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks I just feel like when I say I'm not interested because of that guys either dont take no for an answer or I get shit because of it

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By *lavemale66Man
over a year ago

Carlow

It is your choice who you meet and if attached people are who you decide you don't want to meet then so be it.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Your not alone. I don't want to meet attached men either.

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By *andyrougeMan
over a year ago

wicklow

It’s your absolute right and only a REAL dickhead would have issue

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By *abraham_LincolnWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Even the ones who say they are single usually aren't. They con you. This site is a real eye opener.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You can say that again, it's crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are completely free to meet whomever you wish on here. Your integrity is yours and you know your limits etc. I find it incredible that people would give you abuse ove this stance. As you stated it's your choice, no judgement on anyone else. Work away being yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are completely free to meet whomever you wish on here. Your integrity is yours and you know your limits etc. I find it incredible that people would give you abuse ove this stance. As you stated it's your choice, no judgement on anyone else. Work away being yourself x"

Exactly, know your own values and don't let others attempt to coerce you into actions that you are not comfortable with.

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By *apidMan
over a year ago

westmeath

"Your not alone. I don't want to meet attached men either. "
both right and should stick to it as its your choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

its up to you to decide who you meet simple .

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By *ajRallying555Man
over a year ago

Galway .Limerick

No need to thank anyone. U right to decide. Fair play to U. Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no its fine, its the dickheads who know you feel this way, are attached and hide it and meet you anyway."

This

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By *ilbearniMan
over a year ago

peninsula

"Am I a dickhead because I dont want to meet attached people ? I dont judge anyone and it's none of my business what anyone does but i personally have no interest meeting anyone that is attached, I know I will feel guilty after meeting and I dont want that "

You have every right to say no, your choice. But how do you know that they are not single?

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By *oeDolansBrotherMan
over a year ago

South county

You have to be a bit tough. If you don’t want to meet, for any reason , you don’t want to meet. If you get hassle best to block. Some lady’s block very quickly but sounds like you might be better saying no and blocking when you’ve not happy.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Its your choice who you meet and don't feel guilty over the choices you made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no you are not a dickhead for not wanting to meet them. their the dickhead for playing around behind their partners back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ur not a dickhead and ur not on ur own not meeting attached people I dont either and that goes for woman as well as men if there attached it's a definite no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No ur not a dickhead and ur not on ur own not meeting attached people I dont either and that goes for woman as well as men if there attached it's a definite no from me "

Hi sorry to bombard this thread how do you do a search for people in Dublin? I'm searching and it just shows London?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"No ur not a dickhead and ur not on ur own not meeting attached people I dont either and that goes for woman as well as men if there attached it's a definite no from me

Hi sorry to bombard this thread how do you do a search for people in Dublin? I'm searching and it just shows London?

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change your browse location to Ireland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No ur not a dickhead and ur not on ur own not meeting attached people I dont either and that goes for woman as well as men if there attached it's a definite no from me

Hi sorry to bombard this thread how do you do a search for people in Dublin? I'm searching and it just shows London?

change your browse location to Ireland "

Thankyou

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Just in case... I am not attached

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By *inateaseWoman
over a year ago

ANTRIM

I too do not meet attached men but some of them just don’t take no for an answer

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

My FAB philosophy has always been...

"Once the cards are on the table,

let's play strip poker!"

...meaning as long as both parties

know the status of the other

That's the most important thing

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Just to clear the air

Not all married men cant take a hint i chat to plenty that have set their boundaries and they are respected

There are lots of men here that dont take no for an answer not to mind the hint so lets not tar one section of men with the one brush

There are women here that cant take no for an answer again shall we burn them at the stake

Why not set ur filters so u decide who u talk to and eventualy meet besides forming a mob to burn the married man at the stake

Finally there are quiet a few who commented here men women and cpls that would meet a married person to suit their own wants and desires

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"My FAB philosophy has always been...

"Once the cards are on the table,

let's play strip poker!"

...meaning as long as both parties

know the status of the other

That's the most important thing

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Be up front and let people make an informed choice.

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By *ndrew1972Man
over a year ago

Roscrea

"Be up front and let people make an informed choice. "

Quite a few people on this site seem to miss the idea that it's about connecting with those who you want to meet, not just those you can.

Everyone has their boundaries/limits/standards and that's their prerogative, if a anyone can't deal with that then maybe they should be questioning whether this is the site/lifestyle for them.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

On other hand....

Some women shout loud how they don't want to meet any attached men in their profiles but are more than happy to message attached guys and ask for single meets if they like the look of them... double standards for good looking attached guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be up front and let people make an informed choice.

Quite a few people on this site seem to miss the idea that it's about connecting with those who you want to meet, not just those you can.

Everyone has their boundaries/limits/standards and that's their prerogative, if a anyone can't deal with that then maybe they should be questioning whether this is the site/lifestyle for them. "

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Everybody has the right to draw their own boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have said that I would never meet anyone whose attached but have met guys from here and other site's who claimed to be single but actually weren't. I've learned that everyone has their own reason for doing what they are doing. I've learned not to judge anyone. Once both parties are honest with each other then that's all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. All is good with you. I dont meet married and attached too. Everybody has a choice. Its not my business why they are here. I dont judge them.

We all are adults and have to be responsible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are here for the same purpose, chew and split after the taste is gone (which is not my case)... And many will lie... but a=only a very little few would perhaps stay for longer with someone from here... And that is cool... But the otherwise is cool too... Everyone has a choice, so why should you care too much about other's opinion about your choices?

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