FabSwingers.com forum: Ignorance

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just me or do people find if you message someone and they either dont reply or just deleted message been ignorant...i myself would be more mannerly and atleast reply a simple message if im not interested in the person with a sorry but i wouldnt be interested or your not my type ...abit of manners never hurt or cost anyone

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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Oh dear another one of these threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No every woman has free will. If they don't wanna reply for whatever reason (Profiles shite, pics aren't their interest) that's their right.

99.9999 percent of my messages sent are deleted or unopened and that's fine.

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

Try doing that 250 times a day, over 8 hours that’s just over one reply every 2 minutes. And then you are shown as online, so you get even more messages. And the reply to your reply asking why not?

You’ll start to see that most of the people messaging clearly didn’t read your profile and well shit, now there are an extra 30 messages and they all expect you to remember what they said in their first message to you so you try to reply to the one you are interested in but now there is ANOTHER 30 and fuck it!

DELETE ALL and you can breathe. Fuck, 3 unread, one calling you rude for not replying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to reply all the time especially with guys messaging me that I wasn’t interested then I put it on my profile and just delete from now on. If they silly enough to read the profile and ignore it then that’s there problem not mine

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

"Is it just me or do people find if you message someone and they either dont reply or just deleted message been ignorant...i myself would be more mannerly and atleast reply a simple message if im not interested in the person with a sorry but i wouldnt be interested or your not my type ...abit of manners never hurt or cost anyone"

Do you really think women want to spend hours each day responding to every message they get? Us lads may get the odd message every week, so we can't fathom the hundreds they get in comparison.

That's not even including the part where even a polite no thanks can result in the guy throwing a tantrum and becoming abusive.

No reply can be usually taken as no interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you politely reply to all the junk mail put through your letterbox???

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we try to reply to all the mail we get but it's not possible. we have lives. we started to just reply to the ones that we actually have interest in and have actually read the profile.

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By *abraham_LincolnWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Shocking state of affairs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When ye put it that way i see it from the other side of 100s of messages etc ...i was only asking to see peoples views on it ...no hard feelings...ye have answered the question ...happy fabbing ye lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you politely reply to all the junk mail put through your letterbox???

Nope

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....you even answered it for me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you really think women want to spend hours each day responding to every message they get? Us lads may get the odd message every week, so we can't fathom the hundreds they get in comparison.

That's not even including the part where even a polite no thanks can result in the guy throwing a tantrum and becoming abusive.

No reply can be usually taken as no interest. "
...any lad that cant take rejection shouldnt be on here...it gives no reason to give anyone abuse thats just immature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try doing that 250 times a day, over 8 hours that’s just over one reply every 2 minutes. And then you are shown as online, so you get even more messages. And the reply to your reply asking why not?

DELETE ALL and you can breathe. Fuck, 3 unread, one calling you rude for not replying..."

I think this should be a on all ladies & couples profiles, so's guys get the jist of why they don't get a reply lol

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Shower of cnuts the lot of them!

Fooking wasting my time !!!!

What the fook like!!

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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"Shower of cnuts the lot of them!

Fooking wasting my time !!!!

What the fook like!!

Get over yourself you drick

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Entire forum discussion on this yesterday "Polite No Thanks".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Entire forum discussion on this yesterday "Polite No Thanks".

And last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How rude

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

When someone messages me and they are not a match, I write them a poem, and wire them 50 euro as an apology for wasting their time, I think its only polite.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"When someone messages me and they are not a match, I write them a poem, and wire them 50 euro as an apology for wasting their time, I think its only polite."

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Entire forum discussion on this yesterday "Polite No Thanks".

And last week

Obviously never enough. My bad!

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

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Well done Op

About time we had a real man stand up to those pesky Fab women

Us fellas spend hours crafting and conveying the right emotions through words and attach what they could be missing

should they dare pass us up

....only to have it all thrown back in our faces through an unopened mail

an opened but unread mail

or a deleted mail

Instead, they should be writting comprehensive replies explaining as to why they think we're not right for them, when we clearly we know we are

I mean why else would we have messaged them in the first place?

Well done Sir

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland

Another waste of a post, get over it and accept the rejection. If you cant join another site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shower of cnuts the lot of them!

Fooking wasting my time !!!!

What the fook like!!

Yoser have a bit of respect for others

That statement just shows the Real You .

Figure the rest out yourself

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Hasnt this subject been beaten to death by now ??

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"Entire forum discussion on this yesterday "Polite No Thanks".

And last week

And every other week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we not out a blanket ban on following topics:

1) Discussing why you don't get replies

2) women that delete without reading.

3) why you feel that you have a right to get the ride here, regardless of the woman wanting it or not

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Oh dear another one of these threads

My exact thought...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hasnt this subject been beaten to death by now ??

Needs to be taken outside and shot and buried in a unmarked grave

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

OP , your profile is so thrilling and your pics do hot , I’d definitely reply to your mails !!!

Ok , I’m being a bit harsh , but honestly , put s bit of effort into your profile if you really want to meet anyone here !

Now , shall I start a squirting thread everyone ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP , your profile is so thrilling and your pics do hot , I’d definitely reply to your mails !!!

Ok , I’m being a bit harsh , but honestly , put s bit of effort into your profile if you really want to meet anyone here !

Now , shall I start a squirting thread everyone ????

Go for it pony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya poor thing. Send me a mail and I’ll send you a very nice reply as to why I don’t meet men and you will be able to sleep soundly tonight knowing that my manners are impeccable and I while I’m waiting for your mail, I’m going to design and colour a little snowflake with my crayons for you too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Another waste of a post, get over it and accept the rejection. If you cant join another site.

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eh sorry but where did i mention about not taking rejection if someone is not interested in me im cool with that i cant be everyone cup of tea im far from full of myself unlike some people on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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ah how kind of you will you make sure its a big snowflake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah how kind of you will you make sure its a big snowflake"

Listen OP, there’s been dozens of these threads over the last few days, weeks and months. Always moaning that they don’t get a reply. It’s a given that women get hundreds of mail. They simply can’t reply to everyone and looking at your profile and it says your looking to have the craic and your genuine and looking for genuine people for the same. I took from reading your profile that your genuine and your looking for genuine people to have the craic. That’s what you do with your mates. It’s a swingers site, not a friggen joke shop. Put something about you on it that will entice a lady to want to mail you back and the pic you have up looks like a pair of jeans and a zipped cardigan thrown on the couch. It might sound harsh but it’s not meant like that but if you looked at your profile the way it is, would you want to meet you?

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By *lavemale66Man
over a year ago

Carlow

OP, I wouldn't consider it ignorant not to reply to every message and especially the messages some morons think will get a reply with no effort put in. Take for instance one message I got today which had "Hi" in the subject line and again "Hi" in the main body, no more. Do you really think that deserves a reply? In all honesty that person could at the very least asked how are you, the weather is crap or made some attempt to string a few sentences together.

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