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By *addywhacker OP   Man
over a year ago

Derry

Been on a few months. Can't get anyone to chat to me, not to mention not get a meet. Is it my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes your profile is probably the problem , you need more pics and more about you. You are verified op so you are well ahead of a lot of single men

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

One not very nice pic.

Nothing really on your profile.

Yes you are verified.

Look at profiles of gents that seem to be popular.

Good luck.

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By *hostheman1972Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Even with a half decent profile , i find it very difficult i would just say its just the sheer numbers of guys here.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on a few months. Can't get anyone to chat to me, not to mention not get a meet. Is it my profile?"
try putting up a pic that's not just of your cock

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Lot of thought has obviously

gone into that profile and pic Op...

...Fooked if I know how or why

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By *iablo73Couple
over a year ago

Southside

We wouldn't even consider looking at your profile normally, you've no profile pic and one pretty bad public pic and not a lot about what you want or in to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wouldn't even consider looking at your profile normally, you've no profile pic and one pretty bad public pic and not a lot about what you want or in to. "

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By *addywhacker OP   Man
over a year ago

Derry

Thanks

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

..


"Been on a few months. Can't get anyone to chat to me, not to mention not get a meet. Is it my profile?"

I'd the same sernaro many moons ago when I bought a small farm in the country

None of my neighbours would talk to me

I went along to the parish priest and asked him what should I do!! He laughed and replied buy sheep loads of them put them on your land and when they start breaking out the neighbours will soon start talking to you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is not the best. A cock pick and a few words in the bit where u can really sell urself. What woman would want you based on your profile?

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

Oh ffs. You have to be taking the piss.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Oh ffs. You have to be taking the piss. "

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The man has obviously put many hours into crafting a very fine profile indeed. We'll have no negative nelly's around these parts, thank you very much

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell


"Oh ffs. You have to be taking the piss.

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The man has obviously put many hours into crafting a very fine profile indeed. We'll have no negative nelly's around these parts, thank you very much

"

you're right. Clearly my standards are just too high. I do apologise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That cock pic ain't appealing Jose. Maybe jaz it up with a better one of maybe your body, think ladies prefer that made that mistake a few years ago. Less penis, more Bod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having the very same problem,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having the very same problem, "
Women have to fancy us men for us men to get a look in , as with men like to have fun with women , looks not so important but amazing personality is lovely

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By *oeDolansBrotherMan
over a year ago

South county


"Oh ffs. You have to be taking the piss. "

a bit blunt but fair. Profile is so bland it’s not even funny.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Having the very same problem, Women have to fancy us men for us men to get a look in , as with men like to have fun with women , looks not so important but amazing personality is lovely "

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You're right...

Having a big personality and

being able to use it is very important here

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell


"Oh ffs. You have to be taking the piss.

a bit blunt but fair. Profile is so bland it’s not even funny. "

Blunt but fair. Sounds about right. I didn't lie in my profile anyway that's for sure haha

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

OP you’ve got to remember that you want women ( or men , whatever your preference) to look at your profile and want to have sex with you . We are all here to meet to have sex ( unless like me , not meeting at the moment ) , so ask yourself , what about your profile would make a woman on here , who is getting umpteen messages a day from some very hot / interesting/ witty men , want to have sex with you ??? Would your profile spark their interest ? Or would they just delete your incoming messages? Especially as there is no profile picture , it just reeks of couldn’t really be arsed to make an effort. I hope you will take this as constructive criticism. Pony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you’ve got to remember that you want women ( or men , whatever your preference) to look at your profile and want to have sex with you . We are all here to meet to have sex ( unless like me , not meeting at the moment ) , so ask yourself , what about your profile would make a woman on here , who is getting umpteen messages a day from some very hot / interesting/ witty men , want to have sex with you ??? Would your profile spark their interest ? Or would they just delete your incoming messages? Especially as there is no profile picture , it just reeks of couldn’t really be arsed to make an effort. I hope you will take this as constructive criticism. Pony "

Great advice!

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

I should just copy and paste it for the next time !

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There


"Having the very same problem, "

I'm at a loss for you. The old empty profile pic usually has them go weak at the knees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I should just copy and paste it for the next time ! "

The re occurring thread. Let’s be honest if you have to ask that’s the problem right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a new picture (less is more!) and expand on your profile description

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Can't wait for the next thread on this

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Jeez Another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where’d he go?. Hope he’s Ok !!!!

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore


"One not very nice pic.

Nothing really on your profile.

Yes you are verified.

Look at profiles of gents that seem to be popular.

Good luck."

Very good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are looking at profile and thinking just another dick...

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By *adylover321Man
over a year ago

navan

It’s just not easy stunningly beautiful ladies here but the know exactly what the want.im certain none of them rely on fab alone for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women on here are fake me thinks

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By *adylover321Man
over a year ago

navan

No genuine beautiful ladies but it’s their choice who the want too meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't want to sound rude or anything but if you want to become popular on this you gotta make the effort.

Example: If your looking for a job you ant just going, to hand in your CV or go to a interview not looking smart no.

So why do it on here you gotta stand out form the cowrd what makes you different, form any other guy here,end of the day ladies don't just want to see a dick pic unless your lucky and they want abit of action straight away with is very unlikely.

Form, what I learned you need get yourself out there via clubs are great gets your verifications up, and I know in ireland there isn't many, to go too.

So what I would do is think about your profile. Tell us abit more about yourself so at least if someone views your page they have idea what your about etc etc.

PS: It's only some some advice but form my experience it works better.

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