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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do you find lack of communication a massive turn off?

I get some many of these 2 or five words messages.

Isn't good communication the key?

What do you think guys?

In my opinion I prefer longer messages then only two or three words... It show kindness and sensitivity and that the person cares a bit more than just quick selfish shagging around (I know some people don't mind but we do)

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

i always send a nice long mail explaining all about myself . I dont think it matters to be honest . The ladies have a very big choice ..

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"i always send a nice long mail explaining all about myself . I dont think it matters to be honest . The ladies have a very big choice .."

How many pages long is it??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i always send a nice long mail explaining all about myself . I dont think it matters to be honest . The ladies have a very big choice ..

How many pages long is it??"

Secretly some ladies read a lot of sensual books I am pressure that there is a connection there

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"i always send a nice long mail explaining all about myself . I dont think it matters to be honest . The ladies have a very big choice ..

How many pages long is it??

Secretly some ladies read a lot of sensual books I am pressure that there is a connection there "

My first message is 237 pages long. Mills and Boon tried to steal it but I have copyright

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I'm not really known for my short messages as anyone who has ever entered a dialogue with me will attest, and much prefer when someone sends longer messages as it feels like they genuinely like talking with you. Consistently short messages, to me, feel like someone is just checking in, and doing the minimum to keep the lines of communication open 'just in case', and I'll usually get bored very very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This morning we got the following

"horny now yourself"

What can you possibly respond to this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really known for my short messages as anyone who has ever entered a dialogue with me will attest, and much prefer when someone sends longer messages as it feels like they genuinely like talking with you. Consistently short messages, to me, feel like someone is just checking in, and doing the minimum to keep the lines of communication open 'just in case', and I'll usually get bored very very quickly. "

Have to agree,nothing gives the impression more quickly that you are just another orifice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Logged in this morning and just got phone sex and a ph number.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

What about four word messages? They're great.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"What about four word messages? They're great. "

Oh fuck.. I see they've been covered. Personally I love 6 word messages as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about NO word messages?

Example:

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"What about NO word messages?

Example:

"

I think you've just turned me.... Swooooooon!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Got a wink yesterday and found treasure map at the end of it, I may have to go for a hunt.

Never underestimate small seeds, big things can grow out of it.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

At lsast ye get words last week I got

"?"

How do u reply to that

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Got a wink yesterday and found treasure map at the end of it, I may have to go for a hunt.

Never underestimate small seeds, big things can grow out of it."

That's what I've been saying about my penis as well.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"At lsast ye get words last week I got

"?"

How do u reply to that "

They were obviously just wondering how you're still alive at your age.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"At lsast ye get words last week I got

"?"

How do u reply to that

They were obviously just wondering how you're still alive at your age. "

Thats easy plenty of sex with strange women

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"At lsast ye get words last week I got

"?"

How do u reply to that

They were obviously just wondering how you're still alive at your age.

Thats easy plenty of sex with strange women "

You just have said women since they're all strange!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"At lsast ye get words last week I got

"?"

How do u reply to that

They were obviously just wondering how you're still alive at your age.

Thats easy plenty of sex with strange women

You just have said women since they're all strange! "

U noticed that aswell we cant all be wrong

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Communication it very important for me and no talk there no connection and that definitely not a good sign

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"At lsast ye get words last week I got

"?"

How do u reply to that "

Either: ! or +/-

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"At lsast ye get words last week I got

"?"

How do u reply to that

Either: ! or +/- "

^

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

[Removed by poster at 20/05/19 10:26:02]

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"At lsast ye get words last week I got

"?"

How do u reply to that "

I dont know....you managed ok

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"At lsast ye get words last week I got

"?"

How do u reply to that

Either: ! or +/-

^"

( ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a wink yesterday and found treasure map at the end of it, I may have to go for a hunt.

Never underestimate small seeds, big things can grow out of it."

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a wink yesterday and found treasure map at the end of it, I may have to go for a hunt.

Never underestimate small seeds, big things can grow out of it."

Just give it a frequent watering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women and couples will say they want longer messages but I find out that they don't often reciprocate.

The replies I get are usually very short and usually just ask for more pics.

The challenge is that when you put a lot of time in a message I find that the possibility of a reply is only marginally better which has made me default to 3-6 sentences.

Everyone likes to see that others treat them with respect and genuinely but the fact that most people just never reply even with a polite decline incentivises others to make their messages shorter and shorter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you find lack of communication a massive turn off?

I get some many of these 2 or five words messages.

Isn't good communication the key?

What do you think guys?

In my opinion I prefer longer messages then only two or three words... It show kindness and sensitivity and that the person cares a bit more than just quick selfish shagging around (I know some people don't mind but we do)"

Personally, I prefer longer messages.

One word or "nice tits" does very little for me.

But I'm also not a fan of copy&paste messages..we are all different. Putting a little effort into it makes it more fun

Imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe people are trying to compose a hique ... the Japanese poetry art form

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"At lsast ye get words last week I got

"?"

How do u reply to that

Either: ! or +/-

^

( ; )"

(.)(.)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most women and couples will say they want longer messages but I find out that they don't often reciprocate.

The replies I get are usually very short and usually just ask for more pics.

The challenge is that when you put a lot of time in a message I find that the possibility of a reply is only marginally better which has made me default to 3-6 sentences.

Everyone likes to see that others treat them with respect and genuinely but the fact that most people just never reply even with a polite decline incentivises others to make their messages shorter and shorter."

I know, better high probability then little to non. If short messages the chances are even lower and it shows that one gives no fck about the other person, other then all the person wants is a quick bang bang boom... Also you can know someone's character on the message depending on your judgmental skills...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At lsast ye get words last week I got

"?"

How do u reply to that

Either: ! or +/-

^

( ; )

(.)(.) "

o!o + ( . )( . ) = ( ; ) {!}

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

[Removed by poster at 21/05/19 09:53:54]

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Why do you find lack of communication a massive turn off?

I get some many of these 2 or five words messages.

Isn't good communication the key?

What do you think guys?

In my opinion I prefer longer messages then only two or three words... It show kindness and sensitivity and that the person cares a bit more than just quick selfish shagging around (I know some people don't mind but we do)"

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Screw kindness and sensitivity

Short messages here usually show that the person is...

a. either not interested

b. has nothing to say for themselves or

c. has 200 other messages and you're not

very high on their priority list

...either way you should cut your losses

and spend time with sexy Fabbers who are

willing to converse properly with you

Best shout "NEXT!" and move on!

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I hate those and messages largely composed of text speak. The two usually go together. Can only imagine how annoying it is for those of you who get 100s of messages a day!

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