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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just wondering if anyone else has same experience as me from fab. Myself and my then partner joined fab after some pressure from herself much to my misgivings.After some months on site I give her the choice give up fab or me.She choose fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just wondering if anyone else has same experience as me from fab. Myself and my then partner joined fab after some pressure from herself much to my misgivings.After some months on site I give her the choice give up fab or me.She choose fab. "

And here you are with the name king of fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm just wondering if anyone else has same experience as me from fab. Myself and my then partner joined fab after some pressure from herself much to my misgivings.After some months on site I give her the choice give up fab or me.She choose fab.

And here you are with the name king of fab? "
We called ourselves kingandqueen of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sound like you joined against your will OP, you found it a negative experience and wanted to leave and return to monogamy and she didn't. That sounds reasonable and probably a wise choice to go your seperate ways under those circumstances.

I'm curious whu you would bother rejoining here again yourself ? Seeing as the lifestyle didn't suit you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sound like you joined against your will OP, you found it a negative experience and wanted to leave and return to monogamy and she didn't. That sounds reasonable and probably a wise choice to go your seperate ways under those circumstances.

I'm curious whu you would bother rejoining here again yourself ? Seeing as the lifestyle didn't suit you ?"
I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sound like you joined against your will OP, you found it a negative experience and wanted to leave and return to monogamy and she didn't. That sounds reasonable and probably a wise choice to go your seperate ways under those circumstances.

I'm curious whu you would bother rejoining here again yourself ? Seeing as the lifestyle didn't suit you ? I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again. "

That's a fair enough reason OP, I get what you mean. I just hope you

won't find your ex's profile on here distracting and you find that you are not on here against your nature. Good luck OP and sorry to hear about your relationship.

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm just wondering if anyone else has same experience as me from fab. Myself and my then partner joined fab after some pressure from herself much to my misgivings.After some months on site I give her the choice give up fab or me.She choose fab. "

Once Pandora's box is open you can't close it back.

Women on Fab and on any other dating site, have the upper hand.

It is the old market rule of supply and demand of too many men for one woman.

Don't worry, you are not the only man on Fab who had to deal with this situation.

If you play your cards right, you will have your fair share on Fab, but this not the most recommended why to start looking for someone to "love" you here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly don’t think you being here as a single would be a healthy experience for you if the lady is still here. It’s not like it’s a very discreet site. Just my tuppence worth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly don’t think you being here as a single would be a healthy experience for you if the lady is still here. It’s not like it’s a very discreet site. Just my tuppence worth "
I wasted a few good years doing what she wanted me to do. So being honest I don't care about who or what she gets up to now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay."

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me"
What's your definition of swinging .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly don’t think you being here as a single would be a healthy experience for you if the lady is still here. It’s not like it’s a very discreet site. Just my tuppence worth I wasted a few good years doing what she wanted me to do. So being honest I don't care about who or what she gets up to now."

Ok fair enough

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I'm just wondering if anyone else has same experience as me from fab. Myself and my then partner joined fab after some pressure from herself much to my misgivings.After some months on site I give her the choice give up fab or me.She choose fab. "

I haven't had your experience. I wasn't pressured into joining by anyone, and wouldn't want to pressure anyone else. But I was fascinated to read your post. So often we see threads and comments here written by men who are trying to 'persuade' a partner to join. But as I always say to them, if someone needs persuasion, they don't really want to do it. If you've mentioned it once, and they haven't brought up the subject themselves again or displayed an ounce of curiosity, they're probably hoping and praying that you've forgotten the idea and won't ever bring it up again. I'm guessing this was probably how it was for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging ."

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship.

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

in ur bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging .

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship."
But how does that work if you have a partner there has to be some rules. Because if one decided to do as they please where does that leave the other person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP so your willing to share another man girl but not your own "
I don't see how you came to that conclusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging .

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship. But how does that work if you have a partner there has to be some rules. Because if one decided to do as they please where does that leave the other person. "

The other person is free to do as they please also. If this doesn’t sit right with you you’re on the wrong site.

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

in ur bed


"Sound like you joined against your will OP, you found it a negative experience and wanted to leave and return to monogamy and she didn't. That sounds reasonable and probably a wise choice to go your seperate ways under those circumstances.

I'm curious whu you would bother rejoining here again yourself ? Seeing as the lifestyle didn't suit you ? I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again. "
you said it there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging .

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship. But how does that work if you have a partner there has to be some rules. Because if one decided to do as they please where does that leave the other person.

The other person is free to do as they please also. If this doesn’t sit right with you you’re on the wrong site."
But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy.

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

in ur bed


"OP so your willing to share another man girl but not your own I don't see how you came to that conclusion."
I do remember when ye had the couple profile you all way said mrs was not meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP so your willing to share another man girl but not your own I don't see how you came to that conclusion.I do remember when ye had the couple profile you all way said mrs was not meeting "
That isn't true.

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

in ur bed


"OP so your willing to share another man girl but not your own I don't see how you came to that conclusion.I do remember when ye had the couple profile you all way said mrs was not meeting That isn't true."
it is op you were alway willing to meet on your own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP so your willing to share another man girl but not your own I don't see how you came to that conclusion.I do remember when ye had the couple profile you all way said mrs was not meeting That isn't true.it is op you were alway willing to meet on your own "
No I never meet anyone on my own and never asked to meet anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP so your willing to share another man girl but not your own I don't see how you came to that conclusion.I do remember when ye had the couple profile you all way said mrs was not meeting "

Ohhhh so the plot thickens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP so your willing to share another man girl but not your own I don't see how you came to that conclusion.I do remember when ye had the couple profile you all way said mrs was not meeting

Ohhhh so the plot thickens "
In what way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP so your willing to share another man girl but not your own I don't see how you came to that conclusion.I do remember when ye had the couple profile you all way said mrs was not meeting

Ohhhh so the plot thickens In what way."

Your being dishonest about your past here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP so your willing to share another man girl but not your own I don't see how you came to that conclusion.I do remember when ye had the couple profile you all way said mrs was not meeting

Ohhhh so the plot thickens In what way.

Your being dishonest about your past here."
I can categorically say I'm telling truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

In my opinion it depends on how committed a relationship ship it was to begin with .If she chose fab over you then it wasn't a very secure relationship to begin with .For us we can take it or leave it but if it came to the point either of us wanted to leave ,we would leave together .

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"In my opinion it depends on how committed a relationship ship it was to begin with .If she chose fab over you then it wasn't a very secure relationship to begin with .For us we can take it or leave it but if it came to the point either of us wanted to leave ,we would leave together . "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my opinion it depends on how committed a relationship ship it was to begin with .If she chose fab over you then it wasn't a very secure relationship to begin with .For us we can take it or leave it but if it came to the point either of us wanted to leave ,we would leave together . "
Don't kid yourself one might want to take it but the other might want to leave it.Thats when the trouble starts.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"In my opinion it depends on how committed a relationship ship it was to begin with .If she chose fab over you then it wasn't a very secure relationship to begin with .For us we can take it or leave it but if it came to the point either of us wanted to leave ,we would leave together . Don't kid yourself one might want to take it but the other might want to leave it.Thats when the trouble starts."

No-one is "kidding" themselves OP. Perhaps because they had the conversations early on and are confident and secure in knowing their partner's wishes, a scenarion where one partner wishing to leave Fab really won't signal a relationship issue - sorry for your troubles but you sound like you're bringing a shitload of baggage into your new profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion it depends on how committed a relationship ship it was to begin with .If she chose fab over you then it wasn't a very secure relationship to begin with .For us we can take it or leave it but if it came to the point either of us wanted to leave ,we would leave together . Don't kid yourself one might want to take it but the other might want to leave it.Thats when the trouble starts."

No matter how the situation may arise,once you know you are no longer your partner's priority, you're better off ending things. It's not the fault of fab or swinging.

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By *anggirllouthWoman
over a year ago

monaghan

Been there and it not nice op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging .

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship. But how does that work if you have a partner there has to be some rules. Because if one decided to do as they please where does that leave the other person.

The other person is free to do as they please also. If this doesn’t sit right with you you’re on the wrong site. But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy. "

**Earlier you in the thread you said the below**

"I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again"

*so which is it dude? *

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging .

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship. But how does that work if you have a partner there has to be some rules. Because if one decided to do as they please where does that leave the other person.

The other person is free to do as they please also. If this doesn’t sit right with you you’re on the wrong site. But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy.

**Earlier you in the thread you said the below**

"I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again"

*so which is it dude? *"
As a single man i will give fab another go does that answer your question sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging .

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship. But how does that work if you have a partner there has to be some rules. Because if one decided to do as they please where does that leave the other person.

The other person is free to do as they please also. If this doesn’t sit right with you you’re on the wrong site. But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy.

**Earlier you in the thread you said the below**

"I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again"

*so which is it dude? * As a single man i will give fab another go does that answer your question sir."

Obviously not man, I was aaksing whether you did or didn't have a problem with sharing her cause you were saying contradicting things. I wasn't asking why you were on Fab as a single guy, that's quite obvious also......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging .

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship. But how does that work if you have a partner there has to be some rules. Because if one decided to do as they please where does that leave the other person.

The other person is free to do as they please also. If this doesn’t sit right with you you’re on the wrong site. But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy.

**Earlier you in the thread you said the below**

"I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again"

*so which is it dude? * As a single man i will give fab another go does that answer your question sir.

Obviously not man, I was aaksing whether you did or didn't have a problem with sharing her cause you were saying contradicting things. I wasn't asking why you were on Fab as a single guy, that's quite obvious also...... "
Where did I confuse you sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging .

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship. But how does that work if you have a partner there has to be some rules. Because if one decided to do as they please where does that leave the other person.

The other person is free to do as they please also. If this doesn’t sit right with you you’re on the wrong site. But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy.

**Earlier you in the thread you said the below**

"I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again"

*so which is it dude? * As a single man i will give fab another go does that answer your question sir.

Obviously not man, I was aaksing whether you did or didn't have a problem with sharing her cause you were saying contradicting things. I wasn't asking why you were on Fab as a single guy, that's quite obvious also...... Where did I confuse you sir."

Think you're the confused one lad, haha, that's the point of my query.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging .

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship. But how does that work if you have a partner there has to be some rules. Because if one decided to do as they please where does that leave the other person.

The other person is free to do as they please also. If this doesn’t sit right with you you’re on the wrong site. But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy.

**Earlier you in the thread you said the below**

"I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again"

*so which is it dude? * As a single man i will give fab another go does that answer your question sir.

Obviously not man, I was aaksing whether you did or didn't have a problem with sharing her cause you were saying contradicting things. I wasn't asking why you were on Fab as a single guy, that's quite obvious also...... Where did I confuse you sir.

Think you're the confused one lad, haha, that's the point of my query..... "
I'm confused now because I can't see your point .Where did I contradict myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging .

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship. But how does that work if you have a partner there has to be some rules. Because if one decided to do as they please where does that leave the other person.

The other person is free to do as they please also. If this doesn’t sit right with you you’re on the wrong site. But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy.

**Earlier you in the thread you said the below**

"I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again"

*so which is it dude? * As a single man i will give fab another go does that answer your question sir.

Obviously not man, I was aaksing whether you did or didn't have a problem with sharing her cause you were saying contradicting things. I wasn't asking why you were on Fab as a single guy, that's quite obvious also...... Where did I confuse you sir.

Think you're the confused one lad, haha, that's the point of my query..... I'm confused now because I can't see your point .Where did I contradict myself. "

Dude read the thread which I applied to the first post I made again, don't just skim, read....

*******I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again"*********

******But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy.*******

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging .

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship. But how does that work if you have a partner there has to be some rules. Because if one decided to do as they please where does that leave the other person.

The other person is free to do as they please also. If this doesn’t sit right with you you’re on the wrong site. But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy.

**Earlier you in the thread you said the below**

"I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again"

*so which is it dude? * As a single man i will give fab another go does that answer your question sir.

Obviously not man, I was aaksing whether you did or didn't have a problem with sharing her cause you were saying contradicting things. I wasn't asking why you were on Fab as a single guy, that's quite obvious also...... Where did I confuse you sir.

Think you're the confused one lad, haha, that's the point of my query..... I'm confused now because I can't see your point .Where did I contradict myself.

Dude read the thread which I applied to the first post I made again, don't just skim, read....

*******I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again"*********

******But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy.*******"
I think it says very clearly i didn't like sharing her.So what's the confusion in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not inevitable that some one will eventually want out while the other wants to stay.

No if I could meet a partner who could understand the definition of swinging I’d be a happy man. She fucks who she, I fuck who I like, we fuck together who we like. But at end of day she’s at home with me at end of the night. Takes a lot of trust and need to be solid in your relationship but that’s a perfect relationship for me What's your definition of swinging .

I’ve literally just explained it in that message you quoted. A lifestyle that doesn’t restrict me sexually within a relationship or out of a relationship. But how does that work if you have a partner there has to be some rules. Because if one decided to do as they please where does that leave the other person.

The other person is free to do as they please also. If this doesn’t sit right with you you’re on the wrong site. But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy.

**Earlier you in the thread you said the below**

"I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again"

*so which is it dude? * As a single man i will give fab another go does that answer your question sir.

Obviously not man, I was aaksing whether you did or didn't have a problem with sharing her cause you were saying contradicting things. I wasn't asking why you were on Fab as a single guy, that's quite obvious also...... Where did I confuse you sir.

Think you're the confused one lad, haha, that's the point of my query..... I'm confused now because I can't see your point .Where did I contradict myself.

Dude read the thread which I applied to the first post I made again, don't just skim, read....

*******I wasn't happy sharing her with others it's not something I found easy to do.But as a single man i decided to give it a go again"*********

******But didn't I say I wasn't happy with sharing her in the first place it was all her fantasy.******* I think it says very clearly i didn't like sharing her.So what's the confusion in that. "

Ahhhh, I get it now, word jumble strikes again, read the second statement again correctly, my bad dude. Was wondering what the craic with was, obviously haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's 10 mins neither of us are gonna get back ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's 10 mins neither of us are gonna get back ha"
Haha I'm sure we will get over it in time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True enough

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"In my opinion it depends on how committed a relationship ship it was to begin with .If she chose fab over you then it wasn't a very secure relationship to begin with .For us we can take it or leave it but if it came to the point either of us wanted to leave ,we would leave together . Don't kid yourself one might want to take it but the other might want to leave it.Thats when the trouble starts."

We ve been together long enough to know the score OP,and discussed this all early on in our swinging journey .Nothing or no one is more important than our relationship so that's the difference .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just wondering if anyone else has same experience as me from fab. Myself and my then partner joined fab after some pressure from herself much to my misgivings.After some months on site I give her the choice give up fab or me.She choose fab. "
you don't chose the fab life the fab life choses You, no one gets out once they join

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Honestly don’t think you being here as a single would be a healthy experience for you if the lady is still here. It’s not like it’s a very discreet site. Just my tuppence worth I wasted a few good years doing what she wanted me to do. So being honest I don't care about who or what she gets up to now."

Sounds like the relationship wasn't the best for a good while, so fab was just the last straw.

Maybe give fab a miss for a while to reinvent yourself and leave your relationship behind.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah, dont worry about it. I have introduced a few women to fab and they have all put new attention and sex with strangers above friendship with me.

Well all except one, but her profile didnt work, support didnt help her, and she left, so I guess the men of fab missed out on her.

Its the same with fetish sites, full of women who wont go back to their old ways, until they exhaust it all and none of it filled the hole in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never do anything under presser regardless of any scenario ... you will under perform and outcome wont be very desired.

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