FabSwingers.com forum: What they say:

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey

How are u

Heyyyyy

Hot pics

What u up to

Lookin good

How’s fab treating you

Hi hun

Hey sexy

Want some fun

Maybe it’s just me, but I hate the one-liner messages. Single guys aren’t the only guilty parties either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You pay now, 50 euros

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't bother me, I look on them as self-filtering by the writers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

Hey

How are u

Heyyyyy

Hot pics

What u up to

Lookin good

How’s fab treating you

Hi hun

Hey sexy

Want some fun

Maybe it’s just me, but I hate the one-liner messages. Single guys aren’t the only guilty parties either.

What.... no “Fancy a fuck”?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What.... no “Fancy a fuck”?"

Haha I don’t actually get many of those contrary to popular opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What.... no “Fancy a fuck”?

Haha I don’t actually get many of those contrary to popular opinion!"

Yeah.. I don’t get many of those either. Some , but not enough

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I prefer "Hi" to "I was reading your profile and seen... and what about...".

Creeps me out like they are

I never seen it on here but I always click off profiles on dating sites that have "Say more than Hi", "Hi messages will be deleted" types of things written on them.

Sometimes I will message them "Hi" just to see if I can be the exception to the rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer "Hi" to "I was reading your profile and seen... and what about...".

Creeps me out like they are

I never seen it on here but I always click off profiles on dating sites that have "Say more than Hi", "Hi messages will be deleted" types of things written on them.

Sometimes I will message them "Hi" just to see if I can be the exception to the rule."

I do the same. I might write more than hi but if I wrote what many people demand in their profile as my opening message I’d be writing for most of the day lol. So you write a long and detailed message and then it doesn’t get read or gets read and deleted straight away. Can’t feckin win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a Frickin title not the message itself , I wonder what these ppl expect to see in title section, a poem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck u long time foh big dollahs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a Frickin title not the message itself , I wonder what these ppl expect to see in title section, a poem?"

‘These people’? And that’s what the majority of messages I receive are like, I didn’t mean the title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a Frickin title not the message itself , I wonder what these ppl expect to see in title section, a poem?

‘These people’? And that’s what the majority of messages I receive are like, I didn’t mean the title."
im in your area wanna fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a Frickin title not the message itself , I wonder what these ppl expect to see in title section, a poem?

‘These people’? And that’s what the majority of messages I receive are like, I didn’t mean the title."

My apologies, didn't mean to be rude to you. I've just seen lots of profiles stating messages with just hi in title will be deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One liner in sure are very annoying but I can't abide profiles that compare to reading the newspaper. Is anyone that important that they feel the need to ramble on for ages. If I see such long profiles I am automatically not interested. Sorry that's my little rant for today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you in to?

I think our profile lays that out had you read it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey has been good ta me I'll have you know

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Maybe it’s just me, but I hate the one-liner messages. Single guys aren’t the only guilty parties either.

Not everyone has been gifted with the art of conversation, especially in writing and a lot of us here on Fab, are not native English speakers.

For me, it isn't the first one-line message, but what comes after that, if we start bouncing messages back and forward.

To be honest, a physicaly attractive person but with a bland personality is far more annoying, than one-liners from someone who might show a nice and interesting personality, once the conversation starts flowing.

But I understand where you are coming from, from a woman's profile perspective, as you probably get inundated with the same type of message numerous times a day, once you post a new pic or a new topic on the forum, or simply because you appear on line.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe it’s just me, but I hate the one-liner messages. Single guys aren’t the only guilty parties either.

Not everyone has been gifted with the art of conversation, especially in writing and a lot of us here on Fab, are not native English speakers.

For me, it isn't the first one-line message, but what comes after that, if we start bouncing messages back and forward.

English is not my first language either and often i fins that people like that make more of an effort with messages.

And some people can be pretty funny with unusual one-liners!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I agree that single guys aren't the only ones guilty. I've had to block couples in the past because the male half was behaving in exactly the same creepy pestering way as many single guys do. Sending cock pics, repeatedly asking for my kik or phone number, sending lewd messages and even after I told them I wasn't interested in wank chat, they just kept sending me messages anyway telling me what they were fantasising about doing to me regardless. And no, these weren't single guys posing as couples, these were well verified and well known couples. I've had one or two females contact me through solo profiles asking me why I blocked them and saying that they thought we got along.... And what do you say? Yep, you're lovely and I've lots of time for you, but your hubby is a creep and a pest and doesn't know how to take no for an answer?

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By *ajRallying555Man
over a year ago

Galway .Limerick

Are We not allowed. Say. How are U . Polite I thought

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By *B 2001Man
over a year ago

Donegal

Hey

How are u

Heyyyyy

Hot pics

What u up to

Lookin good

How’s fab treating you

Hi hun

Hey sexy

Want some fun

Maybe it’s just me, but I hate the one-liner messages. Single guys aren’t the only guilty

never once said any but I don't contact many people 5 or 6 a year max I'd say I meet less and only if a connection

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By *B 2001Man
over a year ago

Donegal

[Removed by poster at 17/05/19 21:33:58]

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo

I hope you well cos ya look it.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

People just need to learn some manners.

Decency too.

Starting a conversation even on a swinger site should be done with respect and manners.

Too much to ask I guess.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

What are you into ??

Seriously ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't understand why people just message "hi"

screams no effort don't know what to say so i'll be lazy and make them do the work. men, women and couples in our experience are guilty of this

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By *B 2001Man
over a year ago

Donegal

"People just need to learn some manners.

Decency too.

Starting a conversation even on a swinger site should be done with respect and manners.

Too much to ask I guess.

Who do you mean red riding?

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By *B 2001Man
over a year ago

Donegal

"People just need to learn some manners.

Decency too.

Starting a conversation even on a swinger site should be done with respect and manners.

Too much to ask I guess.

Totally agree. I learnt from my first experience that respect is vital. Good teacher thank God

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe some single guys are just tired to put effort on messages just to be ignored anyway .

Lately a few new couples and women from wexford joined , so i sent a few messages ( not copy pasted ) , cause not many in wexford except men but the contents was like a welcome something on this lines , tittle : welcome to fabs

Text

insert their user name ) , hope you have a great time here and our paths cross ( of course i didn't send exact same to all ), add a few things more according to their profile

Happy fabbing .

Now i made sure i checked the profile , they were looking for men , I wasnt out of age range.

Next thing message read and deleted , so I got to a point , why bother just feck it send a Hi , if no answer at least didn't waste time writing a personalised message

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"People just need to learn some manners.

Decency too.

Starting a conversation even on a swinger site should be done with respect and manners.

Too much to ask I guess.

Totally agree. I learnt from my first experience that respect is vital. Good teacher thank God

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Ah FFS!

Where was has the art of a wink and a cum tribute pic gone to

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"Ah FFS!

Where was has the art of a wink and a cum tribute pic gone to

Needs to be accompanied by a poem and a thesis on your sexual life and desires, and oh, a face pic, and oh, write "dolphin" in the message to prove you read the profile.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Ah FFS!

Where was has the art of a wink and a cum tribute pic gone to

Needs to be accompanied by a poem and a thesis on your sexual life and desires, and oh, a face pic, and oh, write "dolphin" in the message to prove you read the profile."

I can talk to dolphins. I swear

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Ah FFS!

Where was has the art of a wink and a cum tribute pic gone to

Needs to be accompanied by a poem and a thesis on your sexual life and desires, and oh, a face pic, and oh, write "dolphin" in the message to prove you read the profile.

I can talk to dolphins. I swear

Easier than talking to women.

They don't seem to have an agenda

Oh I'm so dead!

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Youre straying very close to getting blocked by half the women on here, Im backing away slowly.

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