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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just for fun but I think it could be helpful to everyone to see the result.

What would you prefer to happen if someone doesn’t want to meet or chat with you in pm?

A) ignored as no reply is no interest

B) told your not their type

C) ignored and blocked

D) none of the above

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

A or C.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just for fun but I think it could be helpful to everyone to see the result.

What would you prefer to happen if someone doesn’t want to meet or chat with you in pm?

A) ignored as no reply is no interest

B) told your not their type

C) ignored and blocked

D) none of the above "

A)

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

A

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

(A)saves everyone's time as harsh as it may seem .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Just for fun but I think it could be helpful to everyone to see the result.

What would you prefer to happen if someone doesn’t want to meet or chat with you in pm?

A) ignored as no reply is no interest

B) told your not their type

C) ignored and blocked

D) none of the above "
well if you ignore them that in its self should be enough to confirm no interest but as stated earlier men text same girls every two weeks copy and paste style forgetting they have already mailed in this cause they should be blocked simple no more contact...,miss car don’t block me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just for fun but I think it could be helpful to everyone to see the result.

What would you prefer to happen if someone doesn’t want to meet or chat with you in pm?

A) ignored as no reply is no interest

B) told your not their type

C) ignored and blocked

D) none of the above well if you ignore them that in its self should be enough to confirm no interest but as stated earlier men text same girls every two weeks copy and paste style forgetting they have already mailed in this cause they should be blocked simple no more contact...,miss car don’t block me "

So your a Going with C?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Diffinitly A.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it if A, they have actually read your message ?. Sometimes women read messages, hundreds and don’t reply cos they are swamped. I prefer to be told personally. Only because I had had no reply initially but later did get a reply ( and a meet) during a later messsge. Reason given; so many messages I was just swamped and couldn’t think straight .. So I believe the answer will be different for men ( on a few messages from women a day if they are lucky), and women who get 200 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A or B!

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By *exy Saucy SocialsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

A of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A or B (would prefer B as then no hopes left )

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Probably B although I'm not really that bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know I've never been in that scenario A is fine any of them really though I don't care too much about rejection

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

A no reply doesn't always mean not interested as I have witnessed many times in the past. In alot of cases physical attraction is important so a face pic early is important I think.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

A, says enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B preferably as its more polite to at least answer but also gives a definite answer whereas ignore still leaves a question whether message was read or not.

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By *irishladMan
over a year ago

Malahide

B

But I understand why women don’t reply to men even to say your not my type, some guys see it as a chance to open dialogue. Personally when I get B as a response I make a private note on their profile and move on!

We can’t all be everyone’s type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A

Since no reply is a response of no interest.

We’re not kids (although some will throw their toys out of the cot)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies dont reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reply does not mean no interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A

why waste anyone's time getting into a pointless conversation

No reply should be sufficient indication of a lack of interest for anyone with a smidgen of emotional intelligence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ladies dont reply? "

Man beast all are not as fortunate as you if you were being let down how would you like it done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies dont reply? "

I find it hard to believe

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"No reply should be sufficient indication of a lack of interest for anyone with a smidgen of emotional intelligence."
that's not always the case. I have spoken to many women on here who might of initially missed the opening mail sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No reply should be sufficient indication of a lack of interest for anyone with a smidgen of emotional intelligence.that's not always the case. I have spoken to many women on here who might of initially missed the opening mail sent. "

That's what they told you!!

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Just ghost me.

Blocking to me is for when someone follows you from thread to thread pestering you and you block them so that admin can put a stop to it.

I think I dont want to meet someone, never will, dont want to chat privately, disagree with something they posted, think something they posted is kinda insulting (but not personally, just generally insulting) then I would just ghost them and make a note of it and continue to interact with them whenever it naturally happened on the forum.

I used to block if I sent a message and didnt get a reply, for fear of pestering them, but then I noticed the site gives you a warning if youre about to message someone a second time without them replying the first, so I can just cancel the message if that happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies dont reply?

Man beast all are not as fortunate as you if you were being let down how would you like it done "

Kaizer is struggling to understand this concept!

"Let down", like a balloon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always message away till I get a reply or I am blocked

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"No reply should be sufficient indication of a lack of interest for anyone with a smidgen of emotional intelligence.that's not always the case. I have spoken to many women on here who might of initially missed the opening mail sent.

That's what they told you!! "
lol sure why would anybody continually converse then afterwards? Have you ever seen mail unread days after you sent it?

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give us B but really don't care anyway. just means we know whose not up for playing with us and move on. no point in being causing drama over it

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B preferably as its more polite to at least answer but also gives a definite answer whereas ignore still leaves a question whether message was read or not."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No reply should be sufficient indication of a lack of interest for anyone with a smidgen of emotional intelligence.that's not always the case. I have spoken to many women on here who might of initially missed the opening mail sent.

That's what they told you!! lol sure why would anybody continually converse then afterwards? Have you ever seen mail unread days after you sent it?"

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A it saves everyone’s time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A or c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares? It’s not going to change anything. People don’t reply for various reasons. I’ve lost count the amount of times I’ve been chatting to non site supporters only for them to come back with a ‘why was your last message?’ and I just delete the message. It’s not rudeness, just can’t be bothered to get back into that conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

B it's better to know

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

A or B should be polite whichever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah B for sure. That way us fellas can beg and plead some more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always polite to message back, even if just s PFO but at the very least if people deleted messages it would give a clear message

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

B

Then C if a second attempt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would choose A, but see why it’s different for guys who’s message may have been missed!

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By *andyman.snrMan
over a year ago

leixlip

B , it never hurts to be gracious and polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B, you know where you stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A if its a shite message like "wanna fuck"

If someone has taken the time to write an eloquent message then B or an equivalent

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C.

I just like knowing that they're not interested so I won't send them another unwanted message later down the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B... I'd like to be told if I'm not someones type.

Its not that I feel I a entitled to a reply or that no reply is rude...

But I am an enternal optimist and if I havent heard back I will always believe there is a chance......... I am still waiting on mail backs from 2016

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By *eankaren88Couple
over a year ago

By the sea

A

because B and C are kinda final, A to us just means not interested now. But may change as a social event etc.

However if message is abusive or has signs of rudeness then C.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

A/B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B)

But obviously volume of messages means this is not realistic for every message.

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By *r MacmullyMan
over a year ago

Tarbert


"Just for fun but I think it could be helpful to everyone to see the result.

What would you prefer to happen if someone doesn’t want to meet or chat with you in pm?

A) ignored as no reply is no interest

B) told your not their type

C) ignored and blocked

D) none of the above "

Personality I prefer B but I understand due to volume that not always possible.

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By *uittopMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

Definitely B. With the addition of," Good luck with your search"

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Just for fun but I think it could be helpful to everyone to see the result.

What would you prefer to happen if someone doesn’t want to meet or chat with you in pm?

A) ignored as no reply is no interest

B) told your not their type

C) ignored and blocked

D) none of the above "

I would like to be let down gently,, a bj or hj will suffice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just for fun but I think it could be helpful to everyone to see the result.

What would you prefer to happen if someone doesn’t want to meet or chat with you in pm?

A) ignored as no reply is no interest

B) told your not their type

C) ignored and blocked

D) none of the above "

Preferably B as it's more straightforward but would accept A B or C the message still gets across eventually

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

E but I might be dislexic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never get a,b,c (or d) but we do say b sometimes. There's nearly always some polite conversation. It's free and doesn't take much time.

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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford

For me it's B would rather know than not know

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By *othing to see hereMan
over a year ago

Dublin/ Kildare

B , no question ! Id respect someone more for they're honestly that to read the message and simply not reply

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By *tanley KMan
over a year ago

Carlow

We'd all like to think it would be B, but as the ladies get huge amounts of messages, that's unrealistic. So A.

So a no reply deleted message should be a fairly clear indication. Usually at this stage I put the lady on my block list as I assume she's not interested and it means I won't mistakenly bother her again.

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland


"Just for fun but I think it could be helpful to everyone to see the result.

What would you prefer to happen if someone doesn’t want to meet or chat with you in pm?

A) ignored as no reply is no interest

B) told your not their type

C) ignored and blocked

D) none of the above "

A gets my vote as its the correct decision.

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By *B 2001Man
over a year ago

Donegal

Blocking is a bit Fbook and kind of sad ,adults here so if no reply no interest. I dont care who gets up to what. I had a good teacher into this world without knowing it. So no reply or not my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B it's the polite thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its A for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok the As win by a narrow margin of 3 to the Bs

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By *artinlastMan
over a year ago

Dublin & London

B

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By *oody500Man
over a year ago

Bray


"Just for fun but I think it could be helpful to everyone to see the result.

What would you prefer to happen if someone doesn’t want to meet or chat with you in pm?

A) ignored as no reply is no interest

B) told your not their type

C) ignored and blocked

D) none of the above "
definitely B

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Do we have a result from the polls yet or is there a recount?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Posted the result there but since then few late voters and just realized never voted myself. I am usually able to politely say if someone’s not my type without getting abuse so I’ll say B.... so it’s a draw between the A camp and B camp.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Posted the result there but since then few late voters and just realized never voted myself. I am usually able to politely say if someone’s not my type without getting abuse so I’ll say B.... so it’s a draw between the A camp and B camp. "

Did I get 2nd ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Posted the result there but since then few late voters and just realized never voted myself. I am usually able to politely say if someone’s not my type without getting abuse so I’ll say B.... so it’s a draw between the A camp and B camp.

Did I get 2nd ?"

Lol you got the golden handshake

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By *gentleman44Man
over a year ago

dublin

B

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Posted the result there but since then few late voters and just realized never voted myself. I am usually able to politely say if someone’s not my type without getting abuse so I’ll say B.... so it’s a draw between the A camp and B camp.

Did I get 2nd ?

Lol you got the golden handshake "

You do have a good grip

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

B .

Cos a little manners never hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no odds as they're not interested. I'm happy with C, the switch inside is flicked so saves wasting each others time messaging in the future.

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By *iiboyMan
over a year ago

Tankardstown

B


"Just for fun but I think it could be helpful to everyone to see the result.

What would you prefer to happen if someone doesn’t want to meet or chat with you in pm?

A) ignored as no reply is no interest

B) told your not their type

C) ignored and blocked

D) none of the above "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A - as per site advice when you message.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"Makes no odds as they're not interested. I'm happy with C, the switch inside is flicked so saves wasting each others time messaging in the future."

yeah but if they block you, then you have to be careful on the forum, if you quote them and say "Lol you idiot" you can get banned.

I get blocked all the time by people I never interacted with, so I have to check before quoting people anyway. My point really is, blocking does more than stop you sending them a message and its petty to do it to people for just sending one single message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet me anyway, I'm too good to pass by

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By *ocketman99Man
over a year ago

fermanagh

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just for fun but I think it could be helpful to everyone to see the result.

What would you prefer to happen if someone doesn’t want to meet or chat with you in pm?

A) ignored as no reply is no interest

B) told your not their type

C) ignored and blocked

D) none of the above "

I would choose E)....Good luck ugly! Ha

Despite what the admins say it is rude to not reply....if someone said hello to you in person would you just ignore them? Although those same A) people probably would, haha

Understand why people may not say it cause sick of getting abuse for doing B) and when they're getting hundreds of messages a day but if they read it/look at your profile then they should respond I think and it might save the receiver of the message time but not the sender. If it's not read then you come back and still same after a few days, feck it, what can you do the chance has passed you by and keep on searching for the one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes no odds as they're not interested. I'm happy with C, the switch inside is flicked so saves wasting each others time messaging in the future.

yeah but if they block you, then you have to be careful on the forum, if you quote them and say "Lol you idiot" you can get banned.

I get blocked all the time by people I never interacted with, so I have to check before quoting people anyway. My point really is, blocking does more than stop you sending them a message and its petty to do it to people for just sending one single message."

Secret is not being personal with any comments, just stick to the subject matter and there's nothing they can say. If they get personal just ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B

Nothing wrong with being polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo C

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By *undubguy100Man
over a year ago

Dublin

B...defo...just let people know

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By *onzo1880Man
over a year ago

Tyrone, Ireland

B Definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B - I always tried to reply & preferred the same myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going for b to drop us down gently .

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