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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'm sure most of us have experienced bad sex at some stage in their lifes. What defines bad sex for you an

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Sometimes your partner doesn't inspire you to great heights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what makes it bad is when the person whom your with is just laying there and not making a sound and no eye contact... might as well be a doll ??

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

When they are selfish and don’t put effort in and they want to skip oral and go straight to mains

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Sometimes your partner doesn't inspire you to great heights

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And why is that? What is missing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it seems to have been defined by marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chemistry, lack of attraction, repetition, no imagination, or just going through the motions for the other person out of loyalty

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

We don't do "Bad Sex"

Only kidding ,we all have our off moments I suppose but for me it would be no satisfaction ,like when they fall asleep and you reach for the toys in the top drawer !

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I figured out early in life if its not mutual fun/enjoyment then its better stop and ask why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent had bad sex in a good while...

For me it stopped when I started being a bit more selective with the people I sleep with..

I now make sure that I can have a laugh and a conversation with them and I have found that has worked so far.... maybe just dont ask them.

As for bad sex it was always when it was a d*unken pick up or when I was younger sleeping with someone I didnt really fancy just to get my rocks off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your hand goes completely dead

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Bad sex to me is when it seems doesn't matter what you do or how much effort you put, the other one seems not enjoying it at all...

I remeber being with a partner in bed, being very excited, trying to "show it to her", and being told : "do what you want to do"... My answer was "i want to make you cum"... Her reply was "you cannot tonight"... So here it is "what bad sex is"... Someone just letting you do what you want...

Worst sex ever... Faking to cum (yes.. A man faking) to stop it...

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it..

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it.. "

That,bad kisser and it's over in 5min ...

No teasing...no foreplay...

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Ennis


"I think what makes it bad is when the person whom your with is just laying there and not making a sound and no eye contact... might as well be a doll ??"

Wow...that is bad....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it.. "

Sounds like my ex husband

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"For me it seems to have been defined by marriage

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that's one reason I never got married .

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Ennis

Since ive commented...

To me bad sex is when there is no passion, no kissing , eye contact, no lauch... I do ike to enjoy sex not to take it seriously as a Olymlics. Bad sex is when the hygiene is poor. Bad sex is where there is no devotion. Both parties should be involed equally in sex...where i want to dine in not just go to drive through...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bonk

bonk

bonk

unnnngh

"Oh that wasn't bad!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bonk

bonk

bonk

unnnngh

"Oh that wasn't bad!""

3 bonks? Showoff...

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it.. "

At least that's over in 3 minutes.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it..

At least that's over in 3 minutes. "

Sounds like the 15yrs I was married

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick

Don't let it be bad enjoy your partner and spend time figuring out what turns them on. This is kinda impossible if you're only into one nighters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it seems to have been defined by marriage

that's one reason I never got married . "

I don't blame the institution for our fundamental incompatibility

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I think I have said this before, I cant remember having bad sex where I havnt been pleased and really enjoyed myself. I suppose a girl whose very shy, awkwardly shy can make things a bit difficult.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it..

At least that's over in 3 minutes.

Sounds like the 15yrs I was married "

If you were married 15 years and you had sex once a week @ 3minutes a go, that sums up to 39 hours of bad sex.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

For me, bad sex is when the person you're with seems to be following a playlist in their head rather than actually living in the moment and going with the flow... There's a distinct feeling of 'x, y, and z loved this move, so I'm going to try it on this one now', regardless of how you or your body is responding. The sexual version of painting by numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, bad sex is when the person you're with seems to be following a playlist in their head rather than actually living in the moment and going with the flow... There's a distinct feeling of 'x, y, and z loved this move, so I'm going to try it on this one now', regardless of how you or your body is responding. The sexual version of painting by numbers. "

Inexperience or ignorance right there!

If it’s bad, when do people just draw the line and say enough is enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, bad sex is when the person you're with seems to be following a playlist in their head rather than actually living in the moment and going with the flow... There's a distinct feeling of 'x, y, and z loved this move, so I'm going to try it on this one now', regardless of how you or your body is responding. The sexual version of painting by numbers. "

Totally agree, am always skeptical of people claiming to be unequivocally "great in bed", everyone is different in their tastes and even their mood at the time,hence why connection and the ability to read another's reactions and respond is so crucial.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Bad sex is when you start to regret it the moment you finish cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other person being selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lack of imagination and sticking to one way

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"A lack of imagination and sticking to one way"

Bad sex is when you dont fancy them,

There is no intimate connection,

She doesn't turn me on,

I can tell she's only going through the motions.

Not worth it... Ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, bad sex is when she just lies there and does nothing to contribute . No movement, no words, nothing, just dead fish eyes . Happened to me once on here and the obvious happened. I didnt even feel embarrassed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure most of us have experienced bad sex at some stage in their lifes. What defines bad sex for you an"

The very definition for me is: "when my partner is not satisfied". Which rarely happens, given my superior oral skills

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By *ilf46Man
over a year ago

South East Area , Leinster

Iv had no complaints (yet) lol from fellow fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it.. "

I’m always careful to give plenty of good heed to my chosen partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad sex when all he wants to do is jack hammer you until he cums giving no heed to wether you’re enjoying it or not. Then once he does that’s it..

I’m always careful to give plenty of good heed to my chosen partner "

Agree- I always heed what they tell me

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