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By *sbotango OP   Man
over a year ago

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Guys just wondering considering we outnumber the ladies how low do we drop out standards to get a shag

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By *unLovingCriminalMan
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Guys just wondering considering we outnumber the ladies how low do we drop out standards to get a shag"

Personally I'm quality over quantity mate doesn't matter how many there are plus I'm here to make friends too not just a shag

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

Naas

It’s a clear as day men definitely drop their standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’m the same

If your that hard up for a shag I’m sure there plenty of other and easier ways to get it...

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I find the older I'm getting the less I want sex just for the sake of it.

If I'm not into her, I probably won't be riding her

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I did it once about 10yrs ago. It was a big mistake.

I wasn't desperate. I was curious for a particular activity.

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Don't do it. You'll only feel bad about yourself.

Just have a wank and move on.

Keep your dignity. Your worth it.

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By *unLovingCriminalMan
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I did it once about 10yrs ago. It was a big mistake.

I wasn't desperate. I was curious for a particular activity.

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Don't do it. You'll only feel bad about yourself.

Just have a wank and move on.

Keep your dignity. Your worth it."

Exactly that plus the fact if your not into her she won't get the benefits of a guy who is crazy for her,and both of you deserve that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refuse to drop my standards to just get a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the old saying goes any port in a storm

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I don't think the men on here drop their standards... I think they have none to begin with.

But lets be honest, the women on here are of higher quality than the men. Whatever standard youre talking about the women on here meet it. The only reason for not meeting is if you just dont get along really.

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By *EAN0Man
over a year ago

Donegal/London

I tried that today, failed miserably lmao

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By *ublin_hungMan
over a year ago

Fundalk

Dont drop your standards period. Your self respect is worth more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're a 7 in looks, your pool of women is 5-9. So to drop your standards you have to go at least 3 points below.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're a 7 in looks, your pool of women is 5-9. So to drop your standards you have to go at least 3 points below."
At least that's what Barney Stinson taught me

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun


"Guys just wondering considering we outnumber the ladies how low do we drop out standards to get a shag

Personally I'm quality over quantity mate doesn't matter how many there are plus I'm here to make friends too not just a shag"

Definitely. Don't drop my standards at all, and I meet who I'm attracted to, and have a good connection with. Fab is far better when you're looking for friends (and fwbs) than random one night stands. One night stands just were never for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a clear as day men definitely drop their standards."

Your veris must be delighted to read that

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"It’s a clear as day men definitely drop their standards."

Those lovely ladies who verified you must feel so proud knowing they met your dropped standards

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Quality or quantity every time never try hook up with someone any differently to in everyday life

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"It’s a clear as day men definitely drop their standards."

Wow what a charmer lucky women who met you

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By *ack coughMan
over a year ago

sligo

Guys need be fully aware that in most cases those women def think they dropping their standards!!! Especially if they read the arrogant crap ye spouting on here.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?"

Someone who drinks instant coffee, liverpool supporters, people who look at me strangly if I call them mugles, someone who doesnt know why the number 42 is so important....

All standards I might drop for the right person

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?"

That's a good question. I speak for myself, and prefer to meet people I get on with, or fancy. What defines that? Well, looks will attract me(my idea of attractive may not be everybodie's) lively, intelligent, good conversation, will hold me. So, if those qualities are missing, then I'd be bored. And what's the point of having sex with someone boring.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?

Someone who drinks instant coffee, liverpool supporters, people who look at me strangly if I call them mugles, someone who doesnt know why the number 42 is so important....

All standards I might drop for the right person"

I'll admit to drinking the occasional Gold Blend But I won't compromise on tea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?

Someone who drinks instant coffee, liverpool supporters, people who look at me strangly if I call them mugles, someone who doesnt know why the number 42 is so important....

All standards I might drop for the right person

I'll admit to drinking the occasional Gold Blend But I won't compromise on tea! "

Yep, my standards are much lower on here but won’t accept anything other than Yorkshire Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys just wondering considering we outnumber the ladies how low do we drop out standards to get a shag"

You don’t

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?

That's a good question. I speak for myself, and prefer to meet people I get on with, or fancy. What defines that? Well, looks will attract me(my idea of attractive may not be everybodie's) lively, intelligent, good conversation, will hold me. So, if those qualities are missing, then I'd be bored. And what's the point of having sex with someone boring. "

I completely agree, and you bring up an interesting point there. There is no 'standard' for physical attraction. We all have various traits we may lean towards when choosing a sexual or romantic partner, which others may not even consider... whether that's boob size, eye/hair colour, beards, build, height, ink, etc.. And what one person may find wildly attractive, another might feel just the opposite about. You can't judge someone's choices based on your own standards of physical attraction and say they have dropped theirs... The people they have met may be their idea of perfection... Just not yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll admit to being curious as to what men see as 'lowering their standards' when they do meet someone. Is it that you don't believe the woman to be as attractive as you? Or less engaging in personality? Or is it their sexual behaviour/lifestyle choices that would normally put you off?

Someone who drinks instant coffee, liverpool supporters, people who look at me strangly if I call them mugles, someone who doesnt know why the number 42 is so important....

All standards I might drop for the right person"

I know the answer to the meaning of life.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

What are "standards" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are "standards" ? "

A pulse is always negotiable

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

On any site where the main basis is sex, you should just approach who you fancy, pretty similar to real life. If I'm out will I approach a woman who I dont fancy? Of course not but thats just me. There is men, no doubt who would hop up on a cracked plate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if it’s cracked. Definately not that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would anyone drop their standards and if you do drop them for the ride you need to look at yourself and think

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"why would anyone drop their standards and if you do drop them for the ride you need to look at yourself and think "
the power of horniness overcomes them and the lack of sex messes with their brain

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By *irishladMan
over a year ago

Malahide

I don’t have standards, insofar as beauty or attractiveness is not a standard that can be measured and have a numerical value assigned to it. It’s not a livestock mart guys we aren’t grading Cattle!!!

What attracts me to someone could be completely different than what attracts another guy to the same lady. You generally get a good feel from messaging someone if there is a connection and they are either for you or not. Then there is the all important chemistry when you do actually meet, the first kiss is very telling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why would anyone drop their standards and if you do drop them for the ride you need to look at yourself and think "

Why?. The horn . Alcohol. Opportunity. Did I say The Horn?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Not if it’s cracked. Definately not that"

What about chipped?

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

If there is mutual attraction and chemistry why would anybody drop their standards. It is not a numerical exercise op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not if it’s cracked. Definately not that

What about chipped? "

Chipped...hmmm.... yeah ok chipped but only 1 and hardly noticeable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin westmeath galway

No man should have to drop hes standard's just to have sex ud have to be desperate to do so mrs here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men and women might have a different attitude to sex- just sayin ( white knights excepted lol)

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