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"I lived in a cuckold relationship for 3yrs previously which started with an agreement she could meet women because I know she was bi and it was an itch I couldnt scratch. Ultimatelt she ended up with her head turned by a girl who wanted to bring her partnee into the equation. I resisted a LOT but finally gave in and discovered a whole new world which I loved more than I ever could possibly have imagined. But its not for everyone I guess. It just brought out my submissive side further. If he hasnt any kind of submissive side Im not sure he will agree or like it." Yeah he really has no submissive side at all. He thought about another couple but then decided it just wouldn't 'Do anything' for him. | |||
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"I'm not submissive but dont mind a girl I am with being with another guy. I have no advice, other than masturbating more and trying to avoid making choices when you are super horny. Make them after you have masturbated 10 times in a row." Lol I've never cheated on him until I kissed a guy lasy week and it's opened a can of fucking worms now! | |||
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"I don’t know if this has to do with sex drive or just the appeal of variety. It’s all ways a hard one to call and it’s its hard to give an opinion when no one else knows the relationship!" Its drive/ effort/ variety.... that order | |||
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"Hide your profile and have a really open and honest conversation with your partner. Tell him honestly what it is you want, don't pressure him. Ask him where his fantasies and desires are and try to avoid fab until yous can reach a compromise or not. " good advice  | |||
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"Hide your profile and have a really open and honest conversation with your partner. Tell him honestly what it is you want, don't pressure him. Ask him where his fantasies and desires are and try to avoid fab until yous can reach a compromise or not. good advice "Thing is, I've had these chats with him before. His fantasies/desires involve threesomes with another woman. That is about the extent of it. He thinks we have a great sex life! | |||
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"Hide your profile and have a really open and honest conversation with your partner. Tell him honestly what it is you want, don't pressure him. Ask him where his fantasies and desires are and try to avoid fab until yous can reach a compromise or not. good advice "True sort your life with your man before falling on the hands of these predators here (whether you believe or not, that is more or less what it is here, some do not have the slightest concern about your life, they will act their best only to have their pleasure satisfied and their hands on you, period). But if your life is sorted, then there is not concerns to have. Go through the hard times with your man and overcome all barriers like our grandparents did, maybe he will wake up and find new creative ways to pleasure you
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"Hide your profile and have a really open and honest conversation with your partner. Tell him honestly what it is you want, don't pressure him. Ask him where his fantasies and desires are and try to avoid fab until yous can reach a compromise or not. good advice
Thing is, I've had these chats with him before. His fantasies/desires involve threesomes with another woman. That is about the extent of it. He thinks we have a great sex life! "Nice, so one step at a time. Tell him that is it not only about him being satisfied, tell him nicely to find new ways, and tell him what you expect from him, be specific (nicely and softly) :D | |||
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"Thing is, I've had these chats with him before. His fantasies/desires involve threesomes with another woman. That is about the extent of it. He thinks we have a great sex life! " Tell him that you can have sex with two guys at the same time, but he can only ever have sex with one woman at a time. and try not to run out the door to have a 3some halfway through the sentence. | |||
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"Hide your profile and have a really open and honest conversation with your partner. Tell him honestly what it is you want, don't pressure him. Ask him where his fantasies and desires are and try to avoid fab until yous can reach a compromise or not. good advice
Thing is, I've had these chats with him before. His fantasies/desires involve threesomes with another woman. That is about the extent of it. He thinks we have a great sex life! "You might have had chats before but with your head turned by guys on here your chats are probably too excited and in his face which is probably making him feel threatened by other guys. You say he thinks yous have a great sex life? Not sure what why to interpret that but a sex life takes two people to enhance and spice things up before introducing others into the equation, bringing others in should add to it not to make it | |||
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"You say he thinks yous have a great sex life? Not sure what why to interpret that but a sex life takes two people to enhance and spice things up before introducing others into the equation, bringing others in should add to it not to make it "She means that if he wants sex twice a day he gets sex twice a day and sex he enjoys, so from his point of view there is no problem, but her drive is higher so although she has two great sex sessions in the day she wants more. From his point of view there is no need to spice it up at all. If youre 100% totally satisfied why would you want another guy coming into the room? | |||
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"I absolutely love my partner. Would never want to be with anyone else in a relationship but I am so bored sexually. The sex is good but I have a higher drive than him and I want it way more than he does. I have suggested swinging (with other couples) but he's not into it. He knows I'm on here (with his approval) to look for other women (obviously I'm bi). Not much luck in the unicorn department as we all know lol My head is being turned lately by men (purely physical) and no matter what I say to him he doesn't seem to 'Get it'! Anyone else in similar situation have advice?? "You have in your bio..looking for couples, men and women. Doesn't sound like you're just looking women. You've only been on here 3 weeks as well. I'd say you need to be more patient and it'll happen. Not first this has been said  | |||
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"You say he thinks yous have a great sex life? Not sure what why to interpret that but a sex life takes two people to enhance and spice things up before introducing others into the equation, bringing others in should add to it not to make it
She means that if he wants sex twice a day he gets sex twice a day and sex he enjoys, so from his point of view there is no problem, but her drive is higher so although she has two great sex sessions in the day she wants more.
From his point of view there is no need to spice it up at all. If youre 100% totally satisfied why would you want another guy coming into the room?"You her partner ? Lol ... Only slagging ... It could mean many things, he could be bored with her either  | |||
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"I absolutely love my partner. Would never want to be with anyone else in a relationship but I am so bored sexually. The sex is good but I have a higher drive than him and I want it way more than he does. I have suggested swinging (with other couples) but he's not into it. He knows I'm on here (with his approval) to look for other women (obviously I'm bi). Not much luck in the unicorn department as we all know lol My head is being turned lately by men (purely physical) and no matter what I say to him he doesn't seem to 'Get it'! Anyone else in similar situation have advice?? ". In order for it to work honesty is the key but also a major factor will be trust. Xx | |||
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"You her partner ? Lol ... Only slagging ... It could mean many things, he could be bored with her either "If he was bored with her, then why would he think he has a great sex life? End of the day I dunno, I'm just going off her saying her sex drive is through the roof compared to his and saying he thinks their sex is great. But yaaaaaaah, I havent a clue, Could be wrong and shouldnt talk for other people. peace out | |||
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"You her partner ? Lol ... Only slagging ... It could mean many things, he could be bored with her either
If he was bored with her, then why would he think he has a great sex life?
End of the day I dunno, I'm just going off her saying her sex drive is through the roof compared to his and saying he thinks their sex is great.
But yaaaaaaah, I havent a clue, Could be wrong and shouldnt talk for other people.
peace out"Million and one explanations I guess, but only they can find their compromise and if there is no honestly and open conversation there's trouble ahead | |||
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"Starting to think theres alot more to the story then she let's on." I concur  | |||
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"I absolutely love my partner. Would never want to be with anyone else in a relationship but I am so bored sexually. The sex is good but I have a higher drive than him and I want it way more than he does. I have suggested swinging (with other couples) but he's not into it. He knows I'm on here (with his approval) to look for other women (obviously I'm bi). Not much luck in the unicorn department as we all know lol My head is being turned lately by men (purely physical) and no matter what I say to him he doesn't seem to 'Get it'! Anyone else in similar situation have advice??
You have in your bio..looking for couples, men and women. Doesn't sound like you're just looking women. You've only been on here 3 weeks as well. I'd say you need to be more patient and it'll happen.
Not first this has been said "Yeah, delete your profile and comeback as a couple (once everything is sorted, because sex is just a tiny part of the who relationship equation) | |||
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"I absolutely love my partner. Would never want to be with anyone else in a relationship but I am so bored sexually. The sex is good but I have a higher drive than him and I want it way more than he does. I have suggested swinging (with other couples) but he's not into it. He knows I'm on here (with his approval) to look for other women (obviously I'm bi). Not much luck in the unicorn department as we all know lol My head is being turned lately by men (purely physical) and no matter what I say to him he doesn't seem to 'Get it'! Anyone else in similar situation have advice??
You have in your bio..looking for couples, men and women. Doesn't sound like you're just looking women. You've only been on here 3 weeks as well. I'd say you need to be more patient and it'll happen.
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Yeah, delete your profile and comeback as a couple (once everything is sorted, because sex is just a tiny part of the who relationship equation) "Well, maybe you should delete yours first, then come back as a couple?
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"I absolutely love my partner. Would never want to be with anyone else in a relationship but I am so bored sexually. The sex is good but I have a higher drive than him and I want it way more than he does. I have suggested swinging (with other couples) but he's not into it. He knows I'm on here (with his approval) to look for other women (obviously I'm bi). Not much luck in the unicorn department as we all know lol My head is being turned lately by men (purely physical) and no matter what I say to him he doesn't seem to 'Get it'! Anyone else in similar situation have advice??
You have in your bio..looking for couples, men and women. Doesn't sound like you're just looking women. You've only been on here 3 weeks as well. I'd say you need to be more patient and it'll happen.
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Yeah, delete your profile and comeback as a couple (once everything is sorted, because sex is just a tiny part of the who relationship equation)
Well, maybe you should delete yours first, then come back as a couple?
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"Talk about double standards! The difference in reaction from folks in comparison to the married guy thread, who maintains a similar issue "Unusually, I'm off to bed early tonight. Just throwing in that bone for ye to chew on while I'm catching zzzzzz's  | |||
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"Talk about double standards! The difference in reaction from folks in comparison to the married guy thread, who maintains a similar issue "Married guy posts usually don't have consent to be on fab
Also you confuse the message here of 'I'd like to, but won't' with the message there of 'I shouldn't, but will hop up on a cracked plate if I get the chance'. | |||
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"Talk about double standards! The difference in reaction from folks in comparison to the married guy thread, who maintains a similar issue
Married guy posts usually don't have consent to be on fab
Also you confuse the message here of 'I'd like to, but won't' with the message there of 'I shouldn't, but will hop up on a cracked plate if I get the chance'. " | |||
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"Hide your profile and have a really open and honest conversation with your partner. Tell him honestly what it is you want, don't pressure him. Ask him where his fantasies and desires are and try to avoid fab until yous can reach a compromise or not. good advice
Thing is, I've had these chats with him before. His fantasies/desires involve threesomes with another woman. That is about the extent of it. He thinks we have a great sex life! "Maybe start with the 3sum first mff and tell him your doing it for him and that you’d like for the favour to be returned by adding another guy. You could try convince him to do same room sex with couple and not swap to start with that might loosen him up a bit after but the fact ye are talking about it is a good start  best of luck with it hope it’s goes to plan for you  | |||
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"Hide your profile and have a really open and honest conversation with your partner. Tell him honestly what it is you want, don't pressure him. Ask him where his fantasies and desires are and try to avoid fab until yous can reach a compromise or not. good advice
Thing is, I've had these chats with him before. His fantasies/desires involve threesomes with another woman. That is about the extent of it. He thinks we have a great sex life!
Maybe start with the 3sum first mff and tell him your doing it for him and that you’d like for the favour to be returned by adding another guy. You could try convince him to do same room sex with couple and not swap to start with that might loosen him up a bit after but the fact ye are talking about it is a good start best of luck with it hope it’s goes to plan for you "We've done mff and both enjoyed it. I'm even actively searching to set him up with a meet on his own. He's not really pushed on it tbh. I thought that maybe if he had a 'bit of strange' it might ignite some new found passion in him lol I'm trying lads... I really am! | |||
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"Hide your profile and have a really open and honest conversation with your partner. Tell him honestly what it is you want, don't pressure him. Ask him where his fantasies and desires are and try to avoid fab until yous can reach a compromise or not. good advice
Thing is, I've had these chats with him before. His fantasies/desires involve threesomes with another woman. That is about the extent of it. He thinks we have a great sex life!
Maybe start with the 3sum first mff and tell him your doing it for him and that you’d like for the favour to be returned by adding another guy. You could try convince him to do same room sex with couple and not swap to start with that might loosen him up a bit after but the fact ye are talking about it is a good start best of luck with it hope it’s goes to plan for you
We've done mff and both enjoyed it. I'm even actively searching to set him up with a meet on his own. He's not really pushed on it tbh. I thought that maybe if he had a 'bit of strange' it might ignite some new found passion in him lol
I'm trying lads... I really am! "Tie him down a give him no way out of it lol | |||
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"Talk about double standards! The difference in reaction from folks in comparison to the married guy thread, who maintains a similar issue
Married guy posts usually don't have consent to be on fab
Also you confuse the message here of 'I'd like to, but won't' with the message there of 'I shouldn't, but will hop up on a cracked plate if I get the chance'. "We are still only getting one side of a story here remember, so a lot of similarities to those married men. You have a stunning figure OP and I get the feeling if you said that hens had paws loads on here would agree with you because your gorgeous and their highest regard is to get you into bed....and after that they have about as much concern for you, your partner or your relationship as they would for a spent match. Here is not the best place to get an objective view of what you and your partner should do ( even though a minority have posted genuine advise ). You say your partner is the only person you want to have a relationship with, so sort it out with him. Go to a good relationship counselor together and individually. There are no guarantees it will save your relationship, but it could if you are both really suited deep down. Continuing on here before you sort yourselves out is by far the most detrimental option to that relationship. Best of luck OP and hope you find fulfilment and all the pleasure you desire in the future. | |||
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"Talk about double standards! The difference in reaction from folks in comparison to the married guy thread, who maintains a similar issue
Married guy posts usually don't have consent to be on fab
Also you confuse the message here of 'I'd like to, but won't' with the message there of 'I shouldn't, but will hop up on a cracked plate if I get the chance'. "That's true but John still has a valid point, if the OP was a guy he would still get ripped to shreds on this thread. | |||
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"Sorry to hear OP .... can someone tell me how to use that Tinyeye thing " | |||
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"Sorry to hear OP .... can someone tell me how to use that Tinyeye thing " Funny fooker | |||
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"Sorry to hear OP .... can someone tell me how to use that Tinyeye thing " | |||
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"OP whilst you have consent to be on Fab I would imagine your husband/partner would be very upset to think you were discussing your private lives the way you are on this thread. It doesn’t seem very respectful. Anyway I hope you find what you are looking for x" I think seeking advice from like minded people is far more respectful than giving into temptation of being with someone else. Anyways thanks for all advice. X | |||
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"Talk about double standards! The difference in reaction from folks in comparison to the married guy thread, who maintains a similar issue "I concur. Read what I said a bit earlier. There's definitely a smell of something in this lol. | |||
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"OP whilst you have consent to be on Fab I would imagine your husband/partner would be very upset to think you were discussing your private lives the way you are on this thread. It doesn’t seem very respectful. Anyway I hope you find what you are looking for x I think seeking advice from like minded people is far more respectful than giving into temptation of being with someone else. Anyways thanks for all advice. X" You already have given in to temptation by your own admittance about kissing a guy. You've crossed the line imo. | |||
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"Talk about double standards! The difference in reaction from folks in comparison to the married guy thread, who maintains a similar issue
Married guy posts usually don't have consent to be on fab
Also you confuse the message here of 'I'd like to, but won't' with the message there of 'I shouldn't, but will hop up on a cracked plate if I get the chance'.
That's true but John still has a valid point, if the OP was a guy he would still get ripped to shreds on this thread."Very much so. We don't actually know. It's a single ladies profile, her word only. So as you said John's point is very valid. | |||
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"Hi folks how is everyone xx Hiya are you the husband? " Pmsl, looks like he's a newbie who just wandered in. | |||
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"Lads Specsavers are doing great deals this week!!" Meow lol | |||
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"Hi folks how is everyone xx Hiya are you the husband? Pmsl, looks like he's a newbie who just wandered in." thought he’d found out | |||
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"Lads Specsavers are doing great deals this week!!" I know just got great deal on new glasses and contact lenses, coulda gotten sunglasses too but I felt that would be too optimistic | |||
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. If not then i think your marriage is in serious bother because it dont sound as if your fully happy, or that your hubby is going to change his mind | |||
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"Hide your profile and have a really open and honest conversation with your partner. Tell him honestly what it is you want, don't pressure him. Ask him where his fantasies and desires are and try to avoid fab until yous can reach a compromise or not. good advice
True sort your life with your man before falling on the hands of these predators here (whether you believe or not, that is more or less what it is here, some do not have the slightest concern about your life, they will act their best only to have their pleasure satisfied and their hands on you, period). But if your life is sorted, then there is not concerns to have. Go through the hard times with your man and overcome all barriers like our grandparents did, maybe he will wake up and find new creative ways to pleasure you
Go slow as mentioned "Great advice...very honest and true! | |||
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"Hide your profile and have a really open and honest conversation with your partner. Tell him honestly what it is you want, don't pressure him. Ask him where his fantasies and desires are and try to avoid fab until yous can reach a compromise or not. good advice
Thing is, I've had these chats with him before. His fantasies/desires involve threesomes with another woman. That is about the extent of it. He thinks we have a great sex life! "If he thinks you have a great sex life so should tell him you dont feel the same | |||
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"Hide your profile and have a really open and honest conversation with your partner. Tell him honestly what it is you want, don't pressure him. Ask him where his fantasies and desires are and try to avoid fab until yous can reach a compromise or not. good advice
Thing is, I've had these chats with him before. His fantasies/desires involve threesomes with another woman. That is about the extent of it. He thinks we have a great sex life! "Be honest and tell him that he may be sexually contented, but you are not ! He should want you to be sexually fulfilled as is he ! I hope everything works out well for you guys! | |||
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"I absolutely love my partner. Would never want to be with anyone else in a relationship but I am so bored sexually. The sex is good but I have a higher drive than him and I want it way more than he does. I have suggested swinging (with other couples) but he's not into it. He knows I'm on here (with his approval) to look for other women (obviously I'm bi). Not much luck in the unicorn department as we all know lol My head is being turned lately by men (purely physical) and no matter what I say to him he doesn't seem to 'Get it'! Anyone else in similar situation have advice??
You have in your bio..looking for couples, men and women. Doesn't sound like you're just looking women. You've only been on here 3 weeks as well. I'd say you need to be more patient and it'll happen.
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Yeah, delete your profile and comeback as a couple (once everything is sorted, because sex is just a tiny part of the who relationship equation)
Well, maybe you should delete yours first, then come back as a couple?
Just sayin' "Well said . Totally agree with you Your a step ahead of him .. A gum flapper | |||
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"Nothing more to the story guys. Some good advice in there to be fair. I intent on having the chat and seeing where it goes. But I'll still be on the lookout for the unicorns! Lol" Why did you change the profile . Looking F only ?? | |||
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"Nothing more to the story guys. Some good advice in there to be fair. I intent on having the chat and seeing where it goes. But I'll still be on the lookout for the unicorns! Lol Why did you change the profile . Looking F only ?? " Because I am looking for females only lol | |||
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"Where are you based? Why does that matter??" Well unicorns I’m sure would like to know if your in Ireland or England? I think your gorgeous but I doubt I’m your type. Is it a female to meet your other half your looking or for to meet you both? I’m really curious | |||
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"Where are you based? Why does that matter?? Well unicorns I’m sure would like to know if your in Ireland or England? I think your gorgeous but I doubt I’m your type. Is it a female to meet your other half your looking or for to meet you both? I’m really curious " I work and live between the two. Both situations work for me. I'm probably quite defensive at this stage as I'm regretting ever posting this fucking query lol Anxiety through the roof! | |||
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"Where are you based? Why does that matter?? Well unicorns I’m sure would like to know if your in Ireland or England? I think your gorgeous but I doubt I’m your type. Is it a female to meet your other half your looking or for to meet you both? I’m really curious I work and live between the two. Both situations work for me. I'm probably quite defensive at this stage as I'm regretting ever posting this fucking query lol Anxiety through the roof!" Don't regret it , hope all gets sorted to you , look i have lost relations for lack of comunication , nothing wrong you have needs and all , we all do | |||
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"Where are you based? Why does that matter?? Well unicorns I’m sure would like to know if your in Ireland or England? I think your gorgeous but I doubt I’m your type. Is it a female to meet your other half your looking or for to meet you both? I’m really curious I work and live between the two. Both situations work for me. I'm probably quite defensive at this stage as I'm regretting ever posting this fucking query lol Anxiety through the roof!" Don’t be silly sure you would get this attention no matter what you posted best just talking to your fella and figuring it from there. Im dying to see what he looks like now if your this hot he must be a model | |||
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"I absolutely love my partner. Would never want to be with anyone else in a relationship but I am so bored sexually. The sex is good but I have a higher drive than him and I want it way more than he does. I have suggested swinging (with other couples) but he's not into it. He knows I'm on here (with his approval) to look for other women (obviously I'm bi). Not much luck in the unicorn department as we all know lol My head is being turned lately by men (purely physical) and no matter what I say to him he doesn't seem to 'Get it'! Anyone else in similar situation have advice?? "Before everyone jumps on the band wagon and attacks me for having an opinion, which is what forums are all about, my comments are not meant to be critical or offensive but...... I think you’re quite immature in your attitude. If you have a partner who’s sex drive Isn’t quite upto your level then you compromise. You say that he’s happy with you joining a swinging site to meet with girls but you’ve kissed a guy and now you’re confused??? Sorry but I think you’ve got swinging all wrong. The swinging lifestyle shouldn’t be a remedy for problems within a relationship and in my humble it will cause more problems. I know you said you love him and all that polava but I don’t think your love for him is as strong as you say it is .) | |||
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"Unfortunately this is a scenario that many have found themselves in. I think you should either allow your partner access to your profile or setup a couples one to seek a woman to join ye, then try attending some social gathering with your partner to meet potential female partners, if he meets other couples at these social gatherings he might hit it off with one of the couples that he could be comfortable with. Also talking with other more open minded couples may help him understand more about the scene and what ye can both get from it. Your a beautiful woman and i am sure you always have a lot of attention when ye are out together, so he has always seen other guys as a threat. If he meets other guys who also have a beautiful partner in a swinger social situation he may see there is no threat there at least and hopefully ye can find a couple who would move at your pace, introducing new possibilities, but i would stay away from single guys as that would undoubtedly cause further issues. I hope my 2 cents helps ?? " This is kind of plan. If I'll be in the same situation like OP, first think what I want mostly: a quality sex with person I love or just sport sex with anyone I can find attractive because I cant control my body.
Any relationship works perfectly (or almost) only if both people have similar interests and care of each other.
Also there is not a good approach for being pushy to your partner. Talk a lot, delete single profile, create a profile as a couple, go for few g&m events with your partner, chat with couples whom have experience in this area then talk again and maybe you both will find the solution.
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"I absolutely love my partner. Would never want to be with anyone else in a relationship but I am so bored sexually. The sex is good but I have a higher drive than him and I want it way more than he does. I have suggested swinging (with other couples) but he's not into it. He knows I'm on here (with his approval) to look for other women (obviously I'm bi). Not much luck in the unicorn department as we all know lol My head is being turned lately by men (purely physical) and no matter what I say to him he doesn't seem to 'Get it'! Anyone else in similar situation have advice??
Before everyone jumps on the band wagon and attacks me for having an opinion, which is what forums are all about, my comments are not meant to be critical or offensive but......
I think you’re quite immature in your attitude. If you have a partner who’s sex drive Isn’t quite upto your level then you compromise. You say that he’s happy with you joining a swinging site to meet with girls but you’ve kissed a guy and now you’re confused??? Sorry but I think you’ve got swinging all wrong. The swinging lifestyle shouldn’t be a remedy for problems within a relationship and in my humble it will cause more problems. I know you said you love him and all that polava but I don’t think your love for him is as strong as you say it is .) "I won't take this offensively as you don't know me at all. Thanks for the input but I can safely say you are wrong. | |||
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