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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,

I know this has been asked probably a thousand times, but I'm new here so bear with me

Do single guys get anywhere here with regards to messages and being replied to?

I know women receive a lot of messages and most dont even read them all, but im talking about when your message is read and not replied to.

Ive write respectful messages, not generic ones, include face pics with the messages, ive tried short messages, long messages, everything. No replies

Am I just fuck ugly, doing something wrong or is this site a waste of time for single men?

Sorry if this was too long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence OP, but you've got a new unverified profile. Women on here will scan your profile before they decide if they will reply. They look at the profile to get an idea of not just your looks but also of your personality, sense of humour, how other women have found your etc. Add more content about you to your profile and continue messaging with respect as you have been doing. It's also always good to reference something in the lady's own profile in that first message, just to let her know you took the time to read it, as they get a lot of one liners from guys who have obviously just looked at their pics.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No offence OP, but you've got a new unverified profile. Women on here will scan your profile before they decide if they will reply. They look at the profile to get an idea of not just your looks but also of your personality, sense of humour, how other women have found your etc. Add more content about you to your profile and continue messaging with respect as you have been doing. It's also always good to reference something in the lady's own profile in that first message, just to let her know you took the time to read it, as they get a lot of one liners from guys who have obviously just looked at their pics.

Good luck."

Thanks for the tips I appreciate it! I always try to quote something in a persons profile. Ill try to fill mine out a bit more.

But how can I get verified of I cant meet anyones since they dont reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree whole heartedly with flirt buddy honey.

You can get yourself onto cams and do it that way.

Get yourself to a social that permits unverified attendees - browse the people that host them and put them on your hotlist so you can get the notifications quicker.

Tickets can be like gold dust..

Good luck OP and I wish you all the best.

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By *heekyDubMan
over a year ago

County

photo verify too. Just another feather in your cap around here before you get verified by another user.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Agree whole heartedly with flirt buddy honey.

You can get yourself onto cams and do it that way.

Get yourself to a social that permits unverified attendees - browse the people that host them and put them on your hotlist so you can get the notifications quicker.

Tickets can be like gold dust..

Good luck OP and I wish you all the best.

Thank you so much for the advice!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"photo verify too. Just another feather in your cap around here before you get verified by another user."

Thanks will do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Agree whole heartedly with flirt buddy honey.

You can get yourself onto cams and do it that way.

Get yourself to a social that permits unverified attendees - browse the people that host them and put them on your hotlist so you can get the notifications quicker.

Tickets can be like gold dust..

Good luck OP and I wish you all the best.

How does cams work?

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

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I have a social July 6th

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