FabSwingers.com forum: How to get your first meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello guys, I just moved to Dublin and I found this website, seems a great place to meet people...

But what I wanna ask you is how can I find people for a first meet... is hard to find someone if you don’t have any verifications of others users...

Just wondering it because I really like this website and I’m hoping to meet some nice people soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dick pics man, tonnes and tonnes of dick pics

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

Win the euromillions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complain about it on here! Might work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't waste time anyway

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Profile pic of your erect penis next to a sky remote usually gets a lot of attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

?????????? dick pics doesn’t work hahah

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By *uzz_BuzzCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Patience... a lot of it.

Loads of pics and get rid of the one with the mess behind you.

Take tons of pics and see the reactions to them (number of profile visits). Change the pics often and try to improve on them often.

While a lot of people prefer a nice guy with an interesting personality, most of the time it has to be matched by an equally nice body.

Post on the forum reasonably interesting things.

Message the girls you think you fancy and don't waste your/their time on the ones you don't, just in the hope that you will get a reaction back.

Be ready to message and attach face pics until the woman responds.

Don't message dick pics, unless asked for one.

You might need to message them few times as even the female profiles with no pics, get some serious amount of attention daily.

In fact single female profiles get like few hundred views a day and tens of messages a day, with up to a thousand views a day and hundred messages a day, if they post a new pic or are active on the forum.

Did I mention patience already, you need tons of it!

The dick pics, keep them to a minimum, but if you are well hung, make sure you have one or two (I was asked once to measure my dick and send the photo on Kik, she only accepted to meet after I did that).

Expect to be asked for a live Kik video or to share your phone number so they can call you and chat.

There are tons of fake women accounts, no verifications on a profile means red flags, always ask for at least a live Kik video chat before a meet.

Fab is not the only place to meet women.

Have a presence on the other vanilla websites, you will be surprised how much easier it is finding someone, than Fab.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience... a lot of it.

Loads of pics and get rid of the one with the mess behind you.

Take tons of pics and see the reactions to them (number of profile visits). Change the pics often and try to improve on them often.

While a lot of people prefer a nice guy with an interesting personality, most of the time it has to be matched by an equally nice body.

Post on the forum reasonably interesting things.

Message the girls you think you fancy and don't waste your/their time on the ones you don't, just in the hope that you will get a reaction back.

Be ready to message and attach face pics until the woman responds.

Don't message dick pics, unless asked for one.

You might need to message them few times as even the female profiles with no pics, get some serious amount of attention daily.

Did I mention patience already, you need tons of it!

Expect to be asked for a live Kik video or to share your phone number so they can call you and chat.

There are tons of fake women accounts, no verifications on a profile means red flags, always ask for at least a live Kik video chat before a meet.

Fab is not the only place to meet women.

Have a presence on the other vanilla websites, you will be surprised how much easier it is finding someone, than Fab.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you very much for helping me!!!!

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By *uzz_BuzzCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

To get the first verification, try the chat rooms and get live on the webcam.

One of the TV/TS girls are always helpful and will give you your first webcam veri, if you post on the chat rooms, where there are loads of them.

There is no shame with that and you don't need to display it on your profile after, but this will get you the green round sign on your profile.

To get your first meet verification after a coffee or play meet, might take a bit of time.

The so called socials are the best and sometimes they get advertised on the forum. Meeting women or couples like this is more likely to result in a verification.

Coffee meets, will not always result in verications, or at least not ones that you might like to display on your profile.

Beeing able to travel (at least) and to accommodate or split the hotel bill, has a massive weight in someone's decision to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats great thanks a lot for your tips I will try everything... I understand that is a safe process to everybody... but as a single men profile is far harder...

But I will try my best

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By *uzz_BuzzCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Good luck OP!

There are some hidden gems out there, a good bit outside Dublin. You'll get picked by them

, not the other way around .

Don't be surprised when it happens, just be ready and don't waste their time

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By *ordalsMan
over a year ago

crosshaven

Lots of great tips there...

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