FabSwingers.com forum: Should I Stay or Should I go ?

By *ULLTIMEDAD123 OP Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Hi I'm Fergal.

Just wondering if I am wasting my time on this website?

Joined two weeks ago,nobody really interested.

Profile summary is..

Married man age 40, wife suffering from adult dementia six years and is in full time care, all my free time goes into the children,working and visiting my wife.

Looking for Sunday afternoon meets at your place occasionally type thing.

Just wondering if I am wasting my time looking for such a perfect arrangement??

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Hi I'm Fergal.

Just wondering if I am wasting my time on this website?

Joined two weeks ago,nobody really interested.

Profile summary is..

Married man age 40, wife suffering from adult dementia six years and is in full time care, all my free time goes into the children,working and visiting my wife.

Looking for Sunday afternoon meets at your place occasionally type thing.

Just wondering if I am wasting my time looking for such a perfect arrangement??"

My thoughts to your wife, dementia is my greatest fear

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

No harm in staying on here trying.

If it never happens then you've lost nothing.

You never know, one day you might get lucky.

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Sorry to hear about your wife op but you should stay you need more than a few weeks on here to get to know the ladies the ratio men to women is crazy so you should join in forums it’s good Craic might help best of luck mate

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Two weeks is nothing in Fab terms OP... Or even two months really. Your circumstances may put some people off, as they might like someone who has less commitments and can get away more easily, but it will suit others. Give it another while... What have you got to lose? There's no shelf-life on Fab.. Unless you're over 99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm in staying.

I am very sorry for your situation.

The internet is a very cynical place and some people wouldnt be above fabricating your story. You might need to take time building a bit of trust with potential meets if you are looking for then to accom.

All the best with it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s a tough lot. Life can be really cruel. Fair play to you for keeping the show on the road, it must be incredibly difficult. 2 weeks is really nothing in terms of fab. If nothing else there’s lots of lovely people here who are generally very open minded to chat and have the craic with. Might be an idea to get to a social or a M&G some evening if someone could watch the kids. It’d be a good way to meet like minded friends and break the ice.

MsB x

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Give it time

Put some more effort into it.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your wife.

You should stay but be patient and give it some time. Its not going to be easy for you with how little free time you have but ny best advice for you would be to try and attend a social. Gives plenty of people a change to talk and get to know you a bit better all in the one night. Hopefully leading to more talking after it

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Sorry to hear about your circumstances but stick with it here it's a tough aul slog but once ye get going you'll be glad ye didn't leave xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every single new unverifed male profile will struggle at the start to get established. You have to be patient here. Even though it's a swing site it's not dial a ride.

I would recommend that you try to even get a coffee meet. You are more likely to get a play meet if you are verified. Happy to verify you over coffee if you are near Kildare anytime.

Put a bit of effort into your photo's. Your public ones are pretty much the same photos

Put some effort into your profile. You mention your circumstances but the rest of the profile gives no insight into you as a person. You need to be able to draw someone in and catch there attention.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Fairplay to you on your honesty Fergal

Fab can take a while to navigate and get use to,

so patience is indeed a virtue for any male on this site

I would recommend that you get along to a social

or meet and greet at some stage as it's always good to

meet the people behind "the avatars"

Hope you find what you're after mate

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