FabSwingers.com forum: should escorts be allowed on the dite

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i have encountered 2 escorts so far on this site.i wa just wondering has anybody else come accross any?i reported 1 as she just came out with it plain and offered me sex for cash.i did report it,but the administrator didnt feel fit to delete her,should this be allowed to go on?

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

whats a "dite"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a young luddite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had escorts on the site chat to me then mention that cash would be part of the deal. Like all such sites, when I reported the conversation the next time I looked at their name in emails it was "no longer on site". I guess Admin might wait until they pester a few people.

There are sites for escorts. I think its hugely different to pay for sex than to be on a swinging site

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

People who work as escorts are allowed on the site as long as they are not using the site to drum up business.

Report any person who does and if verified it gets dealt with in one way or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have encountered 2 escorts so far on this site.i wa just wondering has anybody else come accross any?i reported 1 as she just came out with it plain and offered me sex for cash.i did report it,but the administrator didnt feel fit to delete her,should this be allowed to go on?"

No way!! this site is for swingers/doggers

admin must remove people like that

off here..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks to whoever msg properly,well folks i did report to the admin,but as i said nothing was done about it,and yes it is aswingers site,not for money exploits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not sure that one person reporting would result in a deleted profile, what if you were just annoyed at the person for some reason and maliciously reported?

I think that a lot of people dont report though just block and move on, or pay up

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Anyone asking for money for sex on this site is not allowed

Report the profile again giving as much info as you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no doubt if you reported an issue it would of been addressed.

As Rugby highlighted, escorts are permitted, if they offer " extras for a charge" then hit the report button again, alternatively PM Rugby or Honeypotcouple

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Im not sure that one person reporting would result in a deleted profile, what if you were just annoyed at the person for some reason and maliciously reported?

I think that a lot of people dont report though just block and move on, or pay up

i dont know how it works but assume admin will need more than one complaint.

The question is why it bothers you, dont pay if you dont want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The plain answer is No. This is a swingers site for amateurs only. Lets keep it hat way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not sure that one person reporting would result in a deleted profile, what if you were just annoyed at the person for some reason and maliciously reported?

I think that a lot of people dont report though just block and move on, or pay up

i dont know how it works but assume admin will need more than one complaint.

The question is why it bothers you, dont pay if you dont want to

Well my experience was that shortly after reporting the person involved was banned permanently from the site .

Having said that my general experience has been that admin either ignores or cans my ass when I say things so I can be pretty damn sure it wasn't just me that had reported the user

The problem in my case is the person engaged in chat gave the impression that they were interested in meeting for meetings sake and then quoted rates. I think we would all recognise that as beyond acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin can only do something if there evidence that there was money offered/ asked for etc on the site.... Admin won't do anything on someone's say so without evidence....there has to be evidence for sdmin to take action not just a he says she says scenario....

As for escorts on the site we know a few escorts on the site that do not charge and do this fit fun..... Money never exchanges hand and they keep their escorting life completely separate....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well all i could do was say what site this girl was on,gave what her name on site was,said how much she quoted,so what more could i do.maybe this site isnt as regulated as others?still dosent sem right though.would anybody honestly think if a girl was on an escort site that she would give it for free on a swingers site??? wouldnt think so!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well all i could do was say what site this girl was on,gave what her name on site was,said how much she quoted,so what more could i do.maybe this site isnt as regulated as others?still dosent sem right though.would anybody honestly think if a girl was on an escort site that she would give it for free on a swingers site??? wouldnt think so!!! lol

yes you did the right thing but as I already said as did other posters surely if admin acted on one report the report system would be open to abuse, and yes a girl who is an escort may well use this site for pure pleasure as then she can pick who she wants to have sex with rather than have the punter pick her, even for working girls sex is still a fun thing to do

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Most people on the site get a second chance if they have broken rules, so I am guessing this might be the same thing......even if you expect the outcome to be different , you are doing the best thing in reporting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of a lot of women on this site who are also escorts or are paid girls at clubs, i also know males on fab who are escorts or strippers who blatantly advertise there services much more than the girls do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

or maybe there is no admin at all????????

i am against all escorts being on here.as i said if a person charges outside of these confines,would you really think they will meet anybody for free? it should only be as says a swingers site for fun without the cash,i ask anybody who knows of these to name and shame them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your making the assumption that escorts only have sex for money, this is not true. What makes you think people cannot seperate their career from their personal life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems u have an issue with escorts in general...

I know a few escorts that use this site for fun and don't charge.... They use this site as they enjoy the lifestyle swinging brings it so t all about sex which u seem to Tottaly forget here....,

You are very naieve and small minded if you think escorts can't have a life outside their job...

Yes there are those who use site to tout of course.... But not all do that.... Fact....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your making the assumption that escorts only have sex for money, this is not true. What makes you think people cannot seperate their career from their personal life?"

Exactly my point....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"or maybe there is no admin at all????????

Erm and you are who exactly ?

You have been told its not against site rules for escorts to be here

You also know its against the rules to "name and shame"

It's pretty bad luck you only being on the site for a couple of weeks and yet have been targeted by so many escorts. Most males come on whinging they don't even get a reply to mails

Perhaps if you don't like the rules of this site you go find somewhere else to play?

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By *ecret MomentsCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

same old, same old.... If you have encountered escorts on here then you must have been on an escort site to recognise them. Enough said.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"or maybe there is no admin at all????????

So chefs dont eat when they leave work... i know a few swingers who are escorts, they choose their work cos they love sex and are good at it...swinging is a hobby, escorting a job...you need to get over your hang ups

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By *ecret MomentsCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said jemmima puddlefuck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"or maybe there is no admin at all????????

Erm and you are who exactly ?

You have been told its not against site rules for escorts to be here

You also know its against the rules to "name and shame"

It's pretty bad luck you only being on the site for a couple of weeks and yet have been targeted by so many escorts. Most males come on whinging they don't even get a reply to mails

Perhaps if you don't like the rules of this site you go find somewhere else to play?"

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

you people arent listening!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! to say you are looking for some1 or something,nand then to say you want cash!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!are we getting the pic

wakey wakey

i would of thought that this site as being called a swingers site is that?am i wrong lol dont think so,so if an escort looks for money????? maybe thetre are a lot more escorts out there?replying to my posts

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Im going to say this one last time and maybe then you will take notice of it

Escorts are allowed on the site,asking for money for sex on this site is not allowed,if that happens to you then report the profile giving as much detail as possible,without any evidence of you being asked for money for sex there is'nt anything admin can do

As its been said above,admin will and do take action if they need to

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