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Can ya be too nice ?

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By *eebaw OP   Man
over a year ago

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By *eebaw OP   Man
over a year ago

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So Id consider myself to be fairly nice to people polite and respectfull and kind natured in general . And have been told it on some occasions . Then guys who well woulnt care as much or would treat a woman with less respect seams to get more fun more meets etc . So do I just let my guard down more and not be as nice and respectfull?

Like if the woman or couple want less manners or bita dom play etc I’m all into that but im talkin in general

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"So Id consider myself to be fairly nice to people polite and respectfull and kind natured in general . And have been told it on some occasions . Then guys who well woulnt care as much or would treat a woman with less respect seams to get more fun more meets etc . So do I just let my guard down more and not be as nice and respectfull?

Like if the woman or couple want less manners or bita dom play etc I’m all into that but im talkin in general "

I’d say always be true to yourself. Some people might not be into it but we can’t all suit everyone and at least you’ll know you haven’t compromised yourself for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to be nice BB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only accept respectful and mannerly people in general . If I get a guy trying to treat me mean to try keep me keen. It does not work, it is an immediate no no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your a nice person for sure you you can be, but you will attract nice people also which is a bonus.But not always the way been to nice to the wrong person is hard sometimes as you get nothing back but on a positive note you can tell them to get fucked...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not sure if its about beong too nice.

I keep seeing people complain that their polite mail got deleted or not read. Not saying that you a complaining OP

You still have to be interesting and engaging though. And some thing that mearly not being a creepy dick should warent interest

As someone above said be true to yourself at least the people you connect with will be interested in the actual you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always be nice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only chat to nice people find rudeness and arrogance such a turn off but a lot of men confuse being assertive and come across as pushy.

But op I'm sure nice people will always gravitate towards other nice people.

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By *eebaw OP   Man
over a year ago

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Interesting replies thank you not complaining at all was just general opinions . But sopose we cant be everyones cup of tea other wise we wud be a mug but some class hotties on here with great manners and good humour and form in general then theres the assholes sopose has to be a mix of all or else it be boreing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm that nice I'd give you the toothache and I'm having loads a fun on here

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Ask yourself a question OP

Can you really act like something you're not and sustain it?

Be true to yourself and what's right for you will come eventually.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

It’s easy to be nice when you’re actually nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally get where this topic is coming from, have similar thoughts myself but don't change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So Id consider myself to be fairly nice to people polite and respectfull and kind natured in general . And have been told it on some occasions . Then guys who well woulnt care as much or would treat a woman with less respect seams to get more fun more meets etc . So do I just let my guard down more and not be as nice and respectfull?

Like if the woman or couple want less manners or bita dom play etc I’m all into that but im talkin in general "

Be yourself OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm that nice I'd give you the toothache and I'm having loads a fun on here"

That’s from the cake n biscuits

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Theres being nice.

Theres being nice online.

Theres the nice to your face but stab you in the back.

And then theres nice for real.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Be yourself..simple really. No point in putting on falseness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quote I saw on Facebook

It’s not true that nice guys finish last , nice guys are winners before the game even starts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been honest and be yourself, then you a true to yourself and the people you talk to, makes life so much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I'm too nice. I'd say that I'd be polite but definitely not too nice. I'd bite if provoked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always nice to people I was taught to be kind to people. But Fab has forced me to be a bit more blunt and be able to give it with both barrels when need be. You can be nice and not a pushover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told I'm too nice. I'd say that I'd be polite but definitely not too nice. I'd bite if provoked. "

I've never been told I'm too nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told I'm too nice. I'd say that I'd be polite but definitely not too nice. I'd bite if provoked.

I've never been told I'm too nice "

Well hats off to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am always nice to people I was taught to be kind to people. But Fab has forced me to be a bit more blunt and be able to give it with both barrels when need be. You can be nice and not a pushover. "
I'm definitely not a pushover either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am always nice to people I was taught to be kind to people. But Fab has forced me to be a bit more blunt and be able to give it with both barrels when need be. You can be nice and not a pushover. I'm definitely not a pushover either "

Looking forward to our coffee so we can trade tips on being nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am always nice to people I was taught to be kind to people. But Fab has forced me to be a bit more blunt and be able to give it with both barrels when need be. You can be nice and not a pushover. I'm definitely not a pushover either

Looking forward to our coffee so we can trade tips on being nice "

Should be a fun exchange

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