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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So after chatting for a while with a guy we exchanged KIK. Chatted all week and got on great. Exchanging lots of messages and some pics. We flirted outrageously and quickly arranged to meet.

So yesterday we were meant to meet. We set up a lunch date. I had to cancel as my ex didn't show up to collect my kids. I mailed him early yesterday morning and he messaged back to say not to worry and if I found the time we could meet later that day. My Mum decided to take my kids on a sleepover yesterday evening.

We flirted and chatted all day. Arranged to meet in a pub for some food half way. We live about an hour apart. I had given him my number and told them to text me when he arrived. He text to say he was leaving.

I got there 10 minutes early (traffic was lighter than expected). Sat for 30 minutes. Got impatient so had dinner and then left. Radio silence from him and then I get a message from him today. Just general chit chat. I mailed back to ask if he had forgotten he stood me up the day before. He simply replied well you stood me up at lunch time. Needless to say I didn't reply. He then mailed me about an hour later to ask why I was sulking. Still haven't replied. My question is am I slightly overreacting? I Should mention this is a guy I met on a dating site and not from fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after chatting for a while with a guy we exchanged KIK. Chatted all week and got on great. Exchanging lots of messages and some pics. We flirted outrageously and quickly arranged to meet.

So yesterday we were meant to meet. We set up a lunch date. I had to cancel as my ex didn't show up to collect my kids. I mailed him early yesterday morning and he messaged back to say not to worry and if I found the time we could meet later that day. My Mum decided to take my kids on a sleepover yesterday evening.

We flirted and chatted all day. Arranged to meet in a pub for some food half way. We live about an hour apart. I had given him my number and told them to text me when he arrived. He text to say he was leaving.

I got there 10 minutes early (traffic was lighter than expected). Sat for 30 minutes. Got impatient so had dinner and then left. Radio silence from him and then I get a message from him today. Just general chit chat. I mailed back to ask if he had forgotten he stood me up the day before. He simply replied well you stood me up at lunch time. Needless to say I didn't reply. He then mailed me about an hour later to ask why I was sulking. Still haven't replied. My question is am I slightly overreacting? I Should mention this is a guy I met on a dating site and not from fab. "

No you're not overreacting, you cancelled due to unavoidable circumstances,he stood you up as some sort of petty power play. Cut off contact,he's a child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For real you've got to forget that one. He's obviously self centered and a controller.

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By *nowy007Woman
over a year ago

Near Enough

What an absolute childish idiot. Say good luck to him and let him on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really need to ask?

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By *ubyShuWoman
over a year ago

Nearby

Not overreacting at all!! He is just being a childish git!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! I can’t stand game playing! What he did is just plain ignorant! I’d let him on tbh, nobody needs that nonsense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after chatting for a while with a guy we exchanged KIK. Chatted all week and got on great. Exchanging lots of messages and some pics. We flirted outrageously and quickly arranged to meet.

So yesterday we were meant to meet. We set up a lunch date. I had to cancel as my ex didn't show up to collect my kids. I mailed him early yesterday morning and he messaged back to say not to worry and if I found the time we could meet later that day. My Mum decided to take my kids on a sleepover yesterday evening.

We flirted and chatted all day. Arranged to meet in a pub for some food half way. We live about an hour apart. I had given him my number and told them to text me when he arrived. He text to say he was leaving.

I got there 10 minutes early (traffic was lighter than expected). Sat for 30 minutes. Got impatient so had dinner and then left. Radio silence from him and then I get a message from him today. Just general chit chat. I mailed back to ask if he had forgotten he stood me up the day before. He simply replied well you stood me up at lunch time. Needless to say I didn't reply. He then mailed me about an hour later to ask why I was sulking. Still haven't replied. My question is am I slightly overreacting? I Should mention this is a guy I met on a dating site and not from fab. "
so it was revenge? Lol this place does get petty sometimes, had arranged to meet someone myself and had agreed myself to travel the distance which was 1h30mins as I'm a gentleman, no numbers exchanged so was about to set off and asked for a quick call before I made the journey and was told plain and straight "no" so decided nah not for me, next thing they all come off a kik group onto here having a go on a thread I'd made, the laughable part was 2 guys trying to give me advice with a verification each dating back 2 years from god knows who lol it's a funny old place is fab, but anyway don't lose hope I'm sure your pretty annoyed I'd be the same but there are genuine guys like me on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus what an idiot. Maybe you got lucky and didn't meet him .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats is so bloody childish..

Why bother treating a lady like that ?

Cant for the life of me understand that kind of behaviour..

something like that would totally piss me off

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"So after chatting for a while with a guy we exchanged KIK. Chatted all week and got on great. Exchanging lots of messages and some pics. We flirted outrageously and quickly arranged to meet.

So yesterday we were meant to meet. We set up a lunch date. I had to cancel as my ex didn't show up to collect my kids. I mailed him early yesterday morning and he messaged back to say not to worry and if I found the time we could meet later that day. My Mum decided to take my kids on a sleepover yesterday evening.

We flirted and chatted all day. Arranged to meet in a pub for some food half way. We live about an hour apart. I had given him my number and told them to text me when he arrived. He text to say he was leaving.

I got there 10 minutes early (traffic was lighter than expected). Sat for 30 minutes. Got impatient so had dinner and then left. Radio silence from him and then I get a message from him today. Just general chit chat. I mailed back to ask if he had forgotten he stood me up the day before. He simply replied well you stood me up at lunch time. Needless to say I didn't reply. He then mailed me about an hour later to ask why I was sulking. Still haven't replied. My question is am I slightly overreacting? I Should mention this is a guy I met on a dating site and not from fab.

No you're not overreacting, you cancelled due to unavoidable circumstances,he stood you up as some sort of petty power play. Cut off contact,he's a child."

Exactly

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

if he is not man enough to treat yiu properly then he is not worth it . forget about him he shown his true colours a child ..

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

kandi you are worth more than him . move on forget him

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By *ULLTIMEDAD123Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Obviously he is married and because you change the original time he was screwed....

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Strange lad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is where No 10 on your profile list comes into play, hes a petty dick leave him off

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By *safuntimes321Man
over a year ago

Galway

His clearly bang out of order. Does he realize that sometimes life gets in the way.

His loss

Xx

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

Block. And move on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep that happens alot on here.block and move on there are genuine people on fab.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

He's got all the pics and wank chat he needed from Kik. I doubt he'd have shown up at all, you gave him what he wanted already. Keeping things on fab is my golden rule, sorts out the pic collectors that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's he's loss, hard enough to get to meet a woman, when you get the opportunity, you don't let that person down, loads of genuine fellas out here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's like something a women would do. Don't mind the big child. Forget not worth a thought

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By *nowy007Woman
over a year ago

Near Enough


"That's he's loss, hard enough to get to meet a woman, when you get the opportunity, you don't let that person down, loads of genuine fellas out here"

Exactly this. Welcome to the forums by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's like something a women would do. Don't mind the big child. Forget not worth a thought"

Jesus ur brave saying tat....

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Op that’s his loss bigtime very childish move on and forget him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The tyke - you know now what he’s like honey.

Game playing is not nice but unfortunately people still do it at our age.

The right guy is out there for you so don’t give up.

Psyche

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"So after chatting for a while with a guy we exchanged KIK. Chatted all week and got on great. Exchanging lots of messages and some pics. We flirted outrageously and quickly arranged to meet.

So yesterday we were meant to meet. We set up a lunch date. I had to cancel as my ex didn't show up to collect my kids. I mailed him early yesterday morning and he messaged back to say not to worry and if I found the time we could meet later that day. My Mum decided to take my kids on a sleepover yesterday evening.

We flirted and chatted all day. Arranged to meet in a pub for some food half way. We live about an hour apart. I had given him my number and told them to text me when he arrived. He text to say he was leaving.

I got there 10 minutes early (traffic was lighter than expected). Sat for 30 minutes. Got impatient so had dinner and then left. Radio silence from him and then I get a message from him today. Just general chit chat. I mailed back to ask if he had forgotten he stood me up the day before. He simply replied well you stood me up at lunch time. Needless to say I didn't reply. He then mailed me about an hour later to ask why I was sulking. Still haven't replied. My question is am I slightly overreacting? I Should mention this is a guy I met on a dating site and not from fab. "

I suppose that's the good thing about fab no strings attached sounds like a babyish behavior and complete clown your better off without him his loss in the end not yours

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

You cancelled on him & gave him notice...

He stood you up...

...and there's a huge difference between the two

He seems to be acting out some childhood issue, so ask yourself...

"Do I really want to share a bed with someone like that?

Best wish him the best, Block if necessary... and shout "NEXT!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice. I thought maybe I was over reacting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cancelled but he stood you up, not an overreaction at all. What an idiot he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 words.... Douche... Bag

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By *oversex69Man
over a year ago

North

No you were dead right, this chap is a fraud and only wanted wankbucket pics....block, move on and keep to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not an overreaction at all. You cancelled due to a change of plans which you didn't know would happen. Whereas he was enough of a dick to say it was ok and reschedule but then intentionally not show up.

His loss!

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Thanks for all the advice. I thought maybe I was over reacting."

Far from it he acted like a child you had a legit reason when im up Dublin again I'd love to meet for that lunch date

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

First thought is that yeah... That was a childish power play, but, having said that, you've only given your side. You had to cancel because your ex didn't take the kids, but you haven't mentioned his circumstances... Had he had to make special arrangements in order to get away to your lunch date? Had he to take time off work, change a roster, move around other commitments or maybe sacrifice some family time in order to meet you? Maybe he felt you were taking the piss? Either way it sounds like you weren't really a good match anyway.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"First thought is that yeah... That was a childish power play, but, having said that, you've only given your side. You had to cancel because your ex didn't take the kids, but you haven't mentioned his circumstances... Had he had to make special arrangements in order to get away to your lunch date? Had he to take time off work, change a roster, move around other commitments or maybe sacrifice some family time in order to meet you? Maybe he felt you were taking the piss? Either way it sounds like you weren't really a good match anyway. "

But she said what he said he intentionally didn't show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First thought is that yeah... That was a childish power play, but, having said that, you've only given your side. You had to cancel because your ex didn't take the kids, but you haven't mentioned his circumstances... Had he had to make special arrangements in order to get away to your lunch date? Had he to take time off work, change a roster, move around other commitments or maybe sacrifice some family time in order to meet you? Maybe he felt you were taking the piss? Either way it sounds like you weren't really a good match anyway. "

Even if he felt OP was "taking the piss", and she gave him notice after all, the way to deal with it was either give her another chance or call it off,not deliberately stand her up

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"First thought is that yeah... That was a childish power play, but, having said that, you've only given your side. You had to cancel because your ex didn't take the kids, but you haven't mentioned his circumstances... Had he had to make special arrangements in order to get away to your lunch date? Had he to take time off work, change a roster, move around other commitments or maybe sacrifice some family time in order to meet you? Maybe he felt you were taking the piss? Either way it sounds like you weren't really a good match anyway.

Even if he felt OP was "taking the piss", and she gave him notice after all, the way to deal with it was either give her another chance or call it off,not deliberately stand her up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore him and forget it

Children come first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First thought is that yeah... That was a childish power play, but, having said that, you've only given your side. You had to cancel because your ex didn't take the kids, but you haven't mentioned his circumstances... Had he had to make special arrangements in order to get away to your lunch date? Had he to take time off work, change a roster, move around other commitments or maybe sacrifice some family time in order to meet you? Maybe he felt you were taking the piss? Either way it sounds like you weren't really a good match anyway. "

The stick has two ends.

We know OP version.

Maybe he also had an truthful excuse too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus he must need his head examined,take no notice and forget him if cant treat ya with some respect

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"First thought is that yeah... That was a childish power play, but, having said that, you've only given your side. You had to cancel because your ex didn't take the kids, but you haven't mentioned his circumstances... Had he had to make special arrangements in order to get away to your lunch date? Had he to take time off work, change a roster, move around other commitments or maybe sacrifice some family time in order to meet you? Maybe he felt you were taking the piss? Either way it sounds like you weren't really a good match anyway.

Even if he felt OP was "taking the piss", and she gave him notice after all, the way to deal with it was either give her another chance or call it off,not deliberately stand her up "

Oh I agree. Just standing someone up is childish and a power play. I was just giving an example of why he may have felt pissed off too. We only have one side of the story, and the OP explained the effort she had to make, but we don't know that he was easily able to make plans either or have them changed last minute. It doesn't justify standing her up, by any means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First thought is that yeah... That was a childish power play, but, having said that, you've only given your side. You had to cancel because your ex didn't take the kids, but you haven't mentioned his circumstances... Had he had to make special arrangements in order to get away to your lunch date? Had he to take time off work, change a roster, move around other commitments or maybe sacrifice some family time in order to meet you? Maybe he felt you were taking the piss? Either way it sounds like you weren't really a good match anyway.

Even if he felt OP was "taking the piss", and she gave him notice after all, the way to deal with it was either give her another chance or call it off,not deliberately stand her up

Oh I agree. Just standing someone up is childish and a power play. I was just giving an example of why he may have felt pissed off too. We only have one side of the story, and the OP explained the effort she had to make, but we don't know that he was easily able to make plans either or have them changed last minute. It doesn't justify standing her up, by any means. "

We all have to accept that others may have to cancel due to life circumstances,for someone who is a single parent,this kind of behaviour from a prospective date should be a huge red flag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has explained his reason. He himself said he was getting his own back . Childish and vindictive. If he starts like this , what will he be like later. Ignore/ ditch the childish fool,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should arrange a meet again and stand HIM up this time, haha

Send him a pic of you in your pj's or something while on the couch and say "what you up to? I'm just chilling"

Has anyone else said, I wouldn't stand you up yet Kandi.....?

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Block block block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's how I joined Fab. As a single Mammy night's off are so rare and a logistics nightmare. I got let down last minute three times in a row on Tinder which is a pain when you have had to organise kids with the very rare sleepover favours I use with family. So someone told me to sign up to Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First thought is that yeah... That was a childish power play, but, having said that, you've only given your side. You had to cancel because your ex didn't take the kids, but you haven't mentioned his circumstances... Had he had to make special arrangements in order to get away to your lunch date? Had he to take time off work, change a roster, move around other commitments or maybe sacrifice some family time in order to meet you? Maybe he felt you were taking the piss? Either way it sounds like you weren't really a good match anyway. "

Well to be fair when I mailed to say I couldn't meet he said it was fine and he could meet at anytime that day. My mum agreed to take the kids later that day and I mailed him back to say I was free later if he wanted to meet. He said he would and named the time and place. He even text to say he was leaving and just never showed.

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By *iiboyMan
over a year ago

Tankardstown


"So after chatting for a while with a guy we exchanged KIK. Chatted all week and got on great. Exchanging lots of messages and some pics. We flirted outrageously and quickly arranged to meet.

So yesterday we were meant to meet. We set up a lunch date. I had to cancel as my ex didn't show up to collect my kids. I mailed him early yesterday morning and he messaged back to say not to worry and if I found the time we could meet later that day. My Mum decided to take my kids on a sleepover yesterday evening.

We flirted and chatted all day. Arranged to meet in a pub for some food half way. We live about an hour apart. I had given him my number and told them to text me when he arrived. He text to say he was leaving.

I got there 10 minutes early (traffic was lighter than expected). Sat for 30 minutes. Got impatient so had dinner and then left. Radio silence from him and then I get a message from him today. Just general chit chat. I mailed back to ask if he had forgotten he stood me up the day before. He simply replied well you stood me up at lunch time. Needless to say I didn't reply. He then mailed me about an hour later to ask why I was sulking. Still haven't replied. My question is am I slightly overreacting? I Should mention this is a guy I met on a dating site and not from fab. "

No you havnt over reacted , you cancelled for a legitimate reason, you told him as soon as you knew , life does get in the way and its usualy stupid stuff , he started playing silly tit for tat child games, block/forget and move on, he dont deserve a second thought

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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

Ah feck him. Plenty more fish in the sea lol

Talk about throwing your toys out of the pram. Childish behaviour at best, control game playing at worst. Either way steer clear and block him everyway possible. Better luck next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else get the same pm I got?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else get the same pm I got?"

Don’t know what you got pm ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else get the same pm I got?

Don’t know what you got pm ? "
wat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else get the same pm I got?"

Yes

What was it again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else get the same pm I got?

Yes

What was it again? "
filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else get the same pm I got?

Yes

What was it again? filters"

Ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else get the same pm I got?

Yes

What was it again? filters

Ah well "
I ment change it a sec

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"Anyone else get the same pm I got?

Yes

What was it again? filters

Ah well "

Manbeast lower your filters so this hot dude can message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else get the same pm I got?

Yes

What was it again? filters

Ah well I ment change it a sec "

Shiver me timbers

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"Anyone else get the same pm I got?

Yes

What was it again? filters

Ah well I ment change it a sec

Shiver me timbers "

Scary stuff I tell ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a dick

Block him, there are lots of nice guys on fab who are understanding that it's hard when sitters let you down, he clearly is a C@#t and you better finding out now rather than later down the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody can have a genuine reason to postpone a date. Life can throw up unexpected events and we all have to react to them as best we can. Any guy should be understanding of this and if he isn't then it's his loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A complete numpty that needs is head examined.

Should be counting himself lucky that he got the chance to meet a Beauty like yours op...

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"First thought is that yeah... That was a childish power play, but, having said that, you've only given your side. You had to cancel because your ex didn't take the kids, but you haven't mentioned his circumstances... Had he had to make special arrangements in order to get away to your lunch date? Had he to take time off work, change a roster, move around other commitments or maybe sacrifice some family time in order to meet you? Maybe he felt you were taking the piss? Either way it sounds like you weren't really a good match anyway.

Well to be fair when I mailed to say I couldn't meet he said it was fine and he could meet at anytime that day. My mum agreed to take the kids later that day and I mailed him back to say I was free later if he wanted to meet. He said he would and named the time and place. He even text to say he was leaving and just never showed."

You don't need to explain yourself any further that was a dick move that guy pulled a legit gobshite is all he is I pitty anyone who gets with him it's people like him that makes it harder decent single guys and makes it near impossible for those who are struggling to get meets just block him forget he exists

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"So after chatting for a while with a guy we exchanged KIK. Chatted all week and got on great. Exchanging lots of messages and some pics. We flirted outrageously and quickly arranged to meet.

So yesterday we were meant to meet. We set up a lunch date. I had to cancel as my ex didn't show up to collect my kids. I mailed him early yesterday morning and he messaged back to say not to worry and if I found the time we could meet later that day. My Mum decided to take my kids on a sleepover yesterday evening.

We flirted and chatted all day. Arranged to meet in a pub for some food half way. We live about an hour apart. I had given him my number and told them to text me when he arrived. He text to say he was leaving.

I got there 10 minutes early (traffic was lighter than expected). Sat for 30 minutes. Got impatient so had dinner and then left. Radio silence from him and then I get a message from him today. Just general chit chat. I mailed back to ask if he had forgotten he stood me up the day before. He simply replied well you stood me up at lunch time. Needless to say I didn't reply. He then mailed me about an hour later to ask why I was sulking. Still haven't replied. My question is am I slightly overreacting? I Should mention this is a guy I met on a dating site and not from fab. "

And I've only just seen your pics damn that guy is some dope very attractive may I add if you don't mind can I pm you

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

Lucky escape for you op, he sounds like some gobshite!

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By *undubguy100Man
over a year ago

Dublin

He's a clown....missing out on someo

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By *undubguy100Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Missing out on someone as gorgeous as you.....complete fool...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"First thought is that yeah... That was a childish power play, but, having said that, you've only given your side. You had to cancel because your ex didn't take the kids, but you haven't mentioned his circumstances... Had he had to make special arrangements in order to get away to your lunch date? Had he to take time off work, change a roster, move around other commitments or maybe sacrifice some family time in order to meet you? Maybe he felt you were taking the piss? Either way it sounds like you weren't really a good match anyway.

The stick has two ends.

We know OP version.

Maybe he also had an truthful excuse too..."

No truthful excuse, he told her he stood her up because she cancelled.

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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"So after chatting for a while with a guy we exchanged KIK. Chatted all week and got on great. Exchanging lots of messages and some pics. We flirted outrageously and quickly arranged to meet.

So yesterday we were meant to meet. We set up a lunch date. I had to cancel as my ex didn't show up to collect my kids. I mailed him early yesterday morning and he messaged back to say not to worry and if I found the time we could meet later that day. My Mum decided to take my kids on a sleepover yesterday evening.

We flirted and chatted all day. Arranged to meet in a pub for some food half way. We live about an hour apart. I had given him my number and told them to text me when he arrived. He text to say he was leaving.

I got there 10 minutes early (traffic was lighter than expected). Sat for 30 minutes. Got impatient so had dinner and then left. Radio silence from him and then I get a message from him today. Just general chit chat. I mailed back to ask if he had forgotten he stood me up the day before. He simply replied well you stood me up at lunch time. Needless to say I didn't reply. He then mailed me about an hour later to ask why I was sulking. Still haven't replied. My question is am I slightly overreacting? I Should mention this is a guy I met on a dating site and not from fab. "

That's mental I really don't get why anyone gets stood up on here anyway block that guy double time

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

That's what you have to remember on here. Real life can get in the way in more ways then 1. You might have to cancel a few times, all been genuine reasons but its who believes you or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one thing comes to mind reading them responses- OP has clearly mentioned that the guy in question was NOT from fab yet so many still find a way to moan about fab and not the general shitty attitude of some individuals

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By *sexybitchWoman
over a year ago

north dublin

Dont worry move on this happends all the time thats why i stop meeting guys on fabs the many times i got let down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

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