FabSwingers.com forum: Has the social side of Fab died

By *itenurse69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fermanagh, Monaghan,

We were trying to organise a social meet for last night, spoke to a few couple over the past wk but no one was interested or were busy for a social meet...

I'm Intrested on peoples opinions on social meets.

Do people see them as a waste of time, and only want play meets.

I think social meets are a great start and with some flirty banter and craic help all to get comfortable.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"We were trying to organise a social meet for last night, spoke to a few couple over the past wk but no one was interested or were busy for a social meet...

I'm Intrested on peoples opinions on social meets.

Do people see them as a waste of time, and only want play meets.

I think social meets are a great start and with some flirty banter and craic help all to get comfortable. "

Far from it - the social side of Fab is in rude health !!!

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By *itenurse69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fermanagh, Monaghan,

Glad to hear that, pity not everyone see's socials as fun

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Glad to hear that, pity not everyone see's socials as fun"

Well people who don't want to interact socially first probably aren't people we'd want to play with anyway - so I guess it works well for both parties. They don't have their time wasted and we can continue with our preferences lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet is great way seeing is there a spark there

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

hi. do not know single guy never been invited to one.

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By *addywhackerMan
over a year ago

Derry

Not easy for single guys. I was at one in Belfast no one really took my eye. We left early but pulled into a layby on the way home for a shag

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

Wich brings up the question, How can you enjoy sharing your body (and mind) with someone unless you converse n have a bit of craic to see if there is some kind of spark. Yes by texting n messaging in fab you'll get a flicker but surely for me there has to be a bit more of a connection than that.

Mrs S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nightnurse we have been on a few socials , great way to break the ice & if we click the option to progress further is always there on the night or an arranged date .

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By *itenurse69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fermanagh, Monaghan,

"Wich brings up the question, How can you enjoy sharing your body (and mind) with someone unless you converse n have a bit of craic to see if there is some kind of spark. Yes by texting n messaging in fab you'll get a flicker but surely for me there has to be a bit more of a connection than that.

Mrs S

Totally agree.

We have had some great social meets, laughter and craic all night. There might not have been a connection or spark but at the end of the night we enjoyed meeting the couple.

If the meet ending with another meet arranged for fun then even better.

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

Mrs S

Totally agree.

We have had some great social meets, laughter and craic all night. There might not have been a connection or spark but at the end of the night we enjoyed meeting the couple.

If the meet ending with another meet arranged for fun then even better. "

Well that's exactly it!

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"We were trying to organise a social meet for last night, spoke to a few couple over the past wk but no one was interested or were busy for a social meet...

I'm Intrested on peoples opinions on social meets.

Do people see them as a waste of time, and only want play meets.

I think social meets are a great start and with some flirty banter and craic help all to get comfortable. "
I like having fun with ladies I don't fancy and no one ever meets for the 2nd time ? Do they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah the do sometimes a social night ends in play or arrange a another night not everyone jumps into bed without a connection

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

"We were trying to organise a social meet for last night, spoke to a few couple over the past wk but no one was interested or were busy for a social meet...

I'm Intrested on peoples opinions on social meets.

Do people see them as a waste of time, and only want play meets.

I think social meets are a great start and with some flirty banter and craic help all to get comfortable. I like having fun with ladies I don't fancy and no one ever meets for the 2nd time ? Do they

But how can you enjoy it if you don't fancy them?

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

"hi. do not know single guy never been invited to one."
do you ever give it a rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy an aul social

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

"I do enjoy an aul social

Oh we know you do Hardy!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love for a hot, dark haired Irish man to live near me. Someone like Gerald Butler and the other guy from the movie P.S I Love you!

Just love the Irish and your accent. You guys could talk rubbish to me all day long and I'll still be hooked!

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By *itenurse69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fermanagh, Monaghan,

"I'd love for a hot, dark haired Irish man to live near me. Someone like Gerald Butler and the other guy from the movie P.S I Love you!

Just love the Irish and your accent. You guys could talk rubbish to me all day long and I'll still be hooked!

Not if it was a Dublin accent lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love for a hot, dark haired Irish man to live near me. Someone like Gerald Butler and the other guy from the movie P.S I Love you!

Just love the Irish and your accent. You guys could talk rubbish to me all day long and I'll still be hooked!

There’s a whole load of women on Fab that say men talk a lot of rubbish all day long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love for a hot, dark haired Irish man to live near me. Someone like Gerald Butler and the other guy from the movie P.S I Love you!

Just love the Irish and your accent. You guys could talk rubbish to me all day long and I'll still be hooked!

There’s a whole load of women on Fab that say men talk a lot of rubbish all day long.

They do! Especially the ones nearby to me! Lol

But not Irish guys. I don't care what part of Ireland they're from, I'm just loving the accent. Always have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love for a hot, dark haired Irish man to live near me. Someone like Gerald Butler and the other guy from the movie P.S I Love you!

Just love the Irish and your accent. You guys could talk rubbish to me all day long and I'll still be hooked!

There’s a whole load of women on Fab that say men talk a lot of rubbish all day long.

They do! Especially the ones nearby to me! Lol

But not Irish guys. I don't care what part of Ireland they're from, I'm just loving the accent. Always have!"

I’m just booking a RyanAir ticket online. See you soon.

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By *itenurse69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fermanagh, Monaghan,

"I'd love for a hot, dark haired Irish man to live near me. Someone like Gerald Butler and the other guy from the movie P.S I Love you!

Just love the Irish and your accent. You guys could talk rubbish to me all day long and I'll still be hooked!

There’s a whole load of women on Fab that say men talk a lot of rubbish all day long.

They do! Especially the ones nearby to me! Lol

But not Irish guys. I don't care what part of Ireland they're from, I'm just loving the accent. Always have!"

Louisalou you may come over for a wk end for a social meet then. We can show you some Irish craic and banter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love for a hot, dark haired Irish man to live near me. Someone like Gerald Butler and the other guy from the movie P.S I Love you!

Just love the Irish and your accent. You guys could talk rubbish to me all day long and I'll still be hooked!

There’s a whole load of women on Fab that say men talk a lot of rubbish all day long.

They do! Especially the ones nearby to me! Lol

But not Irish guys. I don't care what part of Ireland they're from, I'm just loving the accent. Always have!

I’m just booking a RyanAir ticket online. See you soon. "

A holiday surrounded by the English? You would hate it! Lol. You're most welcome though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love for a hot, dark haired Irish man to live near me. Someone like Gerald Butler and the other guy from the movie P.S I Love you!

Just love the Irish and your accent. You guys could talk rubbish to me all day long and I'll still be hooked!

There’s a whole load of women on Fab that say men talk a lot of rubbish all day long.

They do! Especially the ones nearby to me! Lol

But not Irish guys. I don't care what part of Ireland they're from, I'm just loving the accent. Always have!

Louisalou you may come over for a wk end for a social meet then. We can show you some Irish craic and banter lol"

I would love too. I've heard Dublin has become every commercialised, just like London!

Bet it's lovely to live over your way though

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By *itenurse69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fermanagh, Monaghan,

It is. We live in a part of NI that gets plenty of tourists.

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By *isspafWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Love to head to a social but it seems its all friends of friends only that are invited to these.

No newbies!

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Love to head to a social but it seems its all friends of friends only that are invited to these.

No newbies! "

Not true - there was a m&g in Belfast last week with loads of newbies at it

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"We were trying to organise a social meet for last night, spoke to a few couple over the past wk but no one was interested or were busy for a social meet...

I'm Intrested on peoples opinions on social meets.

Do people see them as a waste of time, and only want play meets.

I think social meets are a great start and with some flirty banter and craic help all to get comfortable. I like having fun with ladies I don't fancy and no one ever meets for the 2nd time ? Do they

But how can you enjoy it if you don't fancy them?"
you fancy what they do to you in bed then you look at people in a different light ?

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By *isspafWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Love to head to a social but it seems its all friends of friends only that are invited to these.

No newbies!

Not true - there was a m&g in Belfast last week with loads of newbies at it

I'm in Dublin

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By *ubcouple35Couple
over a year ago

North Dublin

We love a good social. There always great nights out and more often than not it leads to future meets with people we have met on the night .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were trying to organise a social meet for last night, spoke to a few couple over the past wk but no one was interested or were busy for a social meet...

I'm Intrested on peoples opinions on social meets.

Do people see them as a waste of time, and only want play meets.

I think social meets are a great start and with some flirty banter and craic help all to get comfortable. "

Shame your not nearer we would be up for that

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I'd love for a hot, dark haired Irish man to live near me. Someone like Gerald Butler and the other guy from the movie P.S I Love you!

Just love the Irish and your accent. You guys could talk rubbish to me all day long and I'll still be hooked!

Not to burst your bubble but you do know Gerard Butler is Scottish and his Irish accent in that movie is on Disney would be proud of?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love for a hot, dark haired Irish man to live near me. Someone like Gerald Butler and the other guy from the movie P.S I Love you!

Just love the Irish and your accent. You guys could talk rubbish to me all day long and I'll still be hooked!

Not to burst your bubble but you do know Gerard Butler is Scottish and his Irish accent in that movie is on Disney would be proud of?!"

As for the "other guy" Jeffrey Dean Morgan is from the States.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

"Love to head to a social but it seems its all friends of friends only that are invited to these.

No newbies!

Not true - there was a m&g in Belfast last week with loads of newbies at it

I'm in Dublin

Miss Paf come to my next social we have friends in common

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I'd love for a hot, dark haired Irish man to live near me. Someone like Gerald Butler and the other guy from the movie P.S I Love you!

Just love the Irish and your accent. You guys could talk rubbish to me all day long and I'll still be hooked!

Not to burst your bubble but you do know Gerard Butler is Scottish and his Irish accent in that movie is on Disney would be proud of?!

As for the "other guy" Jeffrey Dean Morgan is from the States.

Ah he's a dude! Didn't know he was in it.

Was he doing an Oirish accent as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your right, its hard to arrange an intimate social .... we both work shifts and have kids so everything needs to be planned months in advance, and IMO socials r essential before any fun begins .... its one for the reasons we started planning parties! meet lots of people on 1 night and simply say no with zero pressure or arrange a later play date ... even r Play parties are very social too

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

It's dead for the next two weeks. The kids are off

Nobody's going to have the energy

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

"hi. do not know single guy never been invited to one."

I'm single n I've been invite to loads of socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put my name down to socials / Been to a few socials and cancelled.

Real life always seems to throw curve balls in this secret lifestyle. Only thing that can be done is to let organiser know as soon as possible so the invitation can go to someone else

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Put my name down to socials / Been to a few socials and cancelled.

Real life always seems to throw curve balls in this secret lifestyle. Only thing that can be done is to let organiser know as soon as possible so the invitation can go to someone else

Good point.

Always let organiser know if something stops you going.

Life happens

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By *itenurse69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Fermanagh, Monaghan,

"I think your right, its hard to arrange an intimate social .... we both work shifts and have kids so everything needs to be planned months in advance, and IMO socials r essential before any fun begins .... its one for the reasons we started planning parties! meet lots of people on 1 night and simply say no with zero pressure or arrange a later play date ... even r Play parties are very social too"

Would love to go to one of your M&G, like yourselves shift work and family alway come first.

Maybe some day the stars will align and it will happen lol

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By *inn2000Woman
over a year ago

belfast

"Love to head to a social but it seems its all friends of friends only that are invited to these.

No newbies!

Not true - there was a m&g in Belfast last week with loads of newbies at it

Yep newbie here had a ball at the m&g

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for the organisers there is alot of work, time, effort involved in organising a social ... parties then to be among friends or with people you chat to in the rooms or forums... but as with Vanilla socials loads put name forward & then bail, cancel or no show ..

although looking for a face foto & contact details tends to out the fake accounts and the guys masscarading as women or couples.

maybe Vanilla, Red Velvet & the Limerick could organise more social events over the summer months

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By *isspafWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Love to head to a social but it seems its all friends of friends only that are invited to these.

No newbies!

Not true - there was a m&g in Belfast last week with loads of newbies at it

I'm in Dublin

Miss Paf come to my next social we have friends in common

Would love that!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Alive and kicking!! Whether it's an organised social event or just a 1-1 social meet, there are plenty of them still happening, and I hope that never changes

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Alive and kicking!! Whether it's an organised social event or just a 1-1 social meet, there are plenty of them still happening, and I hope that never changes

Hopefully you will arrange one soon x

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By *arti and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

We love the social part of it.

We wouldn’t go play with someone unless we’d got to know them a bit first to see if there’s a connection. M xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am planning to organise my first social lets see how it goes , seems its not easy for newbies but hey gonna chance my arm on this , either its a sucess or a total faillure

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