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By *ucyssbbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

How come it's so difficult to organise a MFM? Lots of people say they're up for it and then disappear without even cancelling. So frustrating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with Well verified peeps

And probably coffee meet before hand

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By *ucyssbbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Go with Well verified peeps

And probably coffee meet before hand "

Thanks..its certainly lot trickier than I imagined.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

I've organised a MFM before

...but he bottled it at the last moment

So on Fab, there's the...

- "No show Merchants"

- "Spoofers" who seem to fall at the last fence

- & the Walter Mitty's who fantasize,

talk for a year but do fecking nothing about it

Course there are reliable people on Fab

... so best pick your bed partners wisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men will commit to MMF when they are horny and when it comes to actually coming to a meet, they will not (not horny anymore etc).

MMF for a lot of men that are not experienced in such fun can be a stressful experience.

Best way to get a nice experience would be to find men that know each other and are comfortable with each other in a sexual situation. If not, go for verified lads.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Some men will commit to MMF when they are horny and when it comes to actually coming to a meet, they will not (not horny anymore etc).

MMF for a lot of men that are not experienced in such fun can be a stressful experience.

Best way to get a nice experience would be to find men that know each other and are comfortable with each other in a sexual situation. If not, go for verified lads."

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Well best to commit to a MMF + too

only if you're a bi-sexual male

...Always read terms & conditions carefully

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By *ucyssbbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Some men will commit to MMF when they are horny and when it comes to actually coming to a meet, they will not (not horny anymore etc).

MMF for a lot of men that are not experienced in such fun can be a stressful experience.

Best way to get a nice experience would be to find men that know each other and are comfortable with each other in a sexual situation. If not, go for verified lads."

Couldnt agree more, they're all for it when they're horny and then panick when time comes. The search continues! Thanks x

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By *ucyssbbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I've organised a MFM before

...but he bottled it at the last moment

So on Fab, there's the...

- "No show Merchants"

- "Spoofers" who seem to fall at the last fence

- & the Walter Mitty's who fantasize,

talk for a year but do fecking nothing about it

Course there are reliable people on Fab

... so best pick your bed partners wisely "

Great advice Tim.

Walter Mittt is a great name for the kind of guys who never do anything about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never realised it was that much of a problem. Maybe the man is insecure at the thoughts of being in front of another guy. Get comfy in your own skin. I love it

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By *ucyssbbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Never realised it was that much of a problem. Maybe the man is insecure at the thoughts of being in front of another guy. Get comfy in your own skin. I love it "

It must be that. They show a big interest then it just crashes.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Never been an issue I've experienced....done quite a few and some with the same reliable guy....go for verifications and experience and a bit of self confidence. MFM can be fantastic meets for all parties due to the sexual energy in the room. With the guys taking turns a session can last for hours so the woman is more than satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my first at 17 with an older couple and they relaxed me very well. I’m very laid back and comfortable so I’ve never had an issue with it since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come it's so difficult to organise a MFM? Lots of people say they're up for it and then disappear without even cancelling. So frustrating!"

Oh it's as elusive as the unicorn lol

Even at a party, I've found I still mostly end up in a ffm play, not that I mind ffm play

Just think it tricky to find two straight guys who want to get that close to each other

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By *ucyssbbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Well guys if either of you are interested then me

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By *ucyssbbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"How come it's so difficult to organise a MFM? Lots of people say they're up for it and then disappear without even cancelling. So frustrating!

Oh it's as elusive as the unicorn lol

Even at a party, I've found I still mostly end up in a ffm play, not that I mind ffm play

Just think it tricky to find two straight guys who want to get that close to each other "

So true hun. Think a unicorn would be easier to find lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem here is that we have too many loud mouth keyboard warriors that are only looking for a quick wank while chatting .

My last experience , i had one set for a friends bday , few guys answered , she pick one , kik chat was set , last minute his aunt died .

Thanks to all those that are no shows and time wasters only make it harder for us real ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to mention for this mmf i booked an hotel , travelled from wexford to donegal on a fecking buses , the meeting was set up not last minute , and then boom .

Ok rant over , looking forward to next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had Mmfs and mmffs and always enjoyed them. Esp dp and spitroast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say their up for it to get your attention and then it’s the old I’d prefer just you or another girl

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By *ucyssbbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"They say their up for it to get your attention and then it’s the old I’d prefer just you or another girl "

Yep! I've heard that quite a lot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say their up for it to get your attention and then it’s the old I’d prefer just you or another girl "

I was up for it , had a couple profile here and we did it she picked a guy and was fun , after that i as a newbie am just laughing , at those .

Shouldn't laugh cause they make women and couples bitter about single males but hey guess its just how it goes

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"How come it's so difficult to organise a MFM? Lots of people say they're up for it and then disappear without even cancelling. So frustrating!

Oh it's as elusive as the unicorn lol

Even at a party, I've found I still mostly end up in a ffm play, not that I mind ffm play

Just think it tricky to find two straight guys who want to get that close to each other "

Totally agree with this little wren. I think for single fems on fab it's easier find a couple than 2 single men willing to have the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come it's so difficult to organise a MFM? Lots of people say they're up for it and then disappear without even cancelling. So frustrating!

Oh it's as elusive as the unicorn lol

Even at a party, I've found I still mostly end up in a ffm play, not that I mind ffm play

Just think it tricky to find two straight guys who want to get that close to each other

Totally agree with this little wren. I think for single fems on fab it's easier find a couple than 2 single men willing to have the fun"

Its just as elusive i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been an issue I've experienced....done quite a few and some with the same reliable guy....go for verifications and experience and a bit of self confidence. MFM can be fantastic meets for all parties due to the sexual energy in the room. With the guys taking turns a session can last for hours so the woman is more than satisfied."

Sounds fantastic

It's on my wishing list but it wouldn't happen. Just have the feeling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been an issue I've experienced....done quite a few and some with the same reliable guy....go for verifications and experience and a bit of self confidence. MFM can be fantastic meets for all parties due to the sexual energy in the room. With the guys taking turns a session can last for hours so the woman is more than satisfied.

Sounds fantastic

It's on my wishing list but it wouldn't happen. Just have the feeling... "

It can happen just pick and choose

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny


"How come it's so difficult to organise a MFM? Lots of people say they're up for it and then disappear without even cancelling. So frustrating!"

I've done mfm a good few times the trick is to have 2 guys that are comfy enough to be around each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been an issue I've experienced....done quite a few and some with the same reliable guy....go for verifications and experience and a bit of self confidence. MFM can be fantastic meets for all parties due to the sexual energy in the room. With the guys taking turns a session can last for hours so the woman is more than satisfied.

Sounds fantastic

It's on my wishing list but it wouldn't happen. Just have the feeling...

It can happen just pick and choose"

**********

I have a long list of requirements

No luck to find a one man, so definitely it wouldn't happen with two men

Expectations vs real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smokey Witch... yes 2 guys difficult to organise , but I think you could meet 2 genuine guys at a social & that way organise something...at the social you can see if you have a chemistry with the guys...and maybe before the mmf have a 1 on 1 meet with each guy, so you are comfortable with them & you get to know what each other likes..before moving on to mmf

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

It takes time ...id a good few "men" back out at the last minute. It was very frustrating and teasted my confidence. It did happen for me eventully ...both mfm, ffm and group. With nearly all id one guy who i trust and we invited others to join us. It turned out very positive indeed. If you've at least one trusted person be selective with the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes time ...id a good few "men" back out at the last minute. It was very frustrating and teasted my confidence. It did happen for me eventully ...both mfm, ffm and group. With nearly all id one guy who i trust and we invited others to join us. It turned out very positive indeed. If you've at least one trusted person be selective with the rest "

Thank you my dear for advice.

It is really hard to find a one trusted man in this pond.

Some fantasies will stay where they are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just happened to me there an hour ago.

Had a 3sum set up with a sexy lady at my place ànd the other guy bottled it and came up with a bullshit excuse at the last minute.

Fucking twat....and cause of him my night and her night was ruined and wasted

Fucking idiot.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"It takes time ...id a good few "men" back out at the last minute. It was very frustrating and teasted my confidence. It did happen for me eventully ...both mfm, ffm and group. With nearly all id one guy who i trust and we invited others to join us. It turned out very positive indeed. If you've at least one trusted person be selective with the rest

Thank you my dear for advice.

It is really hard to find a one trusted man in this pond.

Some fantasies will stay where they are... "

I found one ....theres some alright, just surrounded by alot of fools. Dig deep and have patience

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

I arranged one b4 & added another 2guys thinking some would flake out but nope lol they all turned up & was great fun. Had a few more & they were successful too. I just used well verif guys & chatted 2them via texts 2suss out confidence & eagerness (those too eager I think can be just all talk, those interested & real swingers will have a mature relaxed attitude). I want to do a few more & would love a wee gang bang, think I’d like 2partner up with a gal & have a few guys play with us both.

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By *rishguy3217Man
over a year ago

Dublin/ South East sometimes

Ive done mmf few times and love it. Last time I was invited to a gang bang with beautiful lady. We all met in a bar on town. Her and 6 guys. When we left the bar to go to apartment 4 if the guys made excuses to leave. So it turned into a bit mfm. Me and the other guy loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes time ...id a good few "men" back out at the last minute. It was very frustrating and teasted my confidence. It did happen for me eventully ...both mfm, ffm and group. With nearly all id one guy who i trust and we invited others to join us. It turned out very positive indeed. If you've at least one trusted person be selective with the rest

Thank you my dear for advice.

It is really hard to find a one trusted man in this pond.

Some fantasies will stay where they are...

I found one ....theres some alright, just surrounded by alot of fools. Dig deep and have patience "

I have a lot of patience but some fantasies will stay where they are

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes time ...id a good few "men" back out at the last minute. It was very frustrating and teasted my confidence. It did happen for me eventully ...both mfm, ffm and group. With nearly all id one guy who i trust and we invited others to join us. It turned out very positive indeed. If you've at least one trusted person be selective with the rest

Thank you my dear for advice.

It is really hard to find a one trusted man in this pond.

Some fantasies will stay where they are... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always willing to help out

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By *ortyfunMan
over a year ago

east Meath

we have done it a few times both as a couple and just the male half

you just need to be comfortable around another guys dick and then it's all fun for all in the mfm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many time wasters thats the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fantasy becoming reality is more than some men and women are able to follow through with and that's understandable and it's ok.

Dropping out at the very last minute without a legitimate reason is to be avoided if possible, and its bad form.

You live, you learn, you move on

MFM is amazing with the right connection between all 3

Lee

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By *ortyfunMan
over a year ago

east Meath


"The fantasy becoming reality is more than some men and women are able to follow through with and that's understandable and it's ok.

Dropping out at the very last minute without a legitimate reason is to be avoided if possible, and its bad form.

You live, you learn, you move on

MFM is amazing with the right connection between all 3

Lee"

100% agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot of no show ponies. Proof read profiles. Mainly verifications from planned meets and not social/party meetings. Demand a coffee with all three of you in attendance.

BTW. Happy to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, the coffee meet is essential, for us anyway.

L

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Add a few extra males then if some drop out you ll still have fun,

Works for us,

Some have last minute work commitments.

Don't give them to much wankin texts that's all some want, as in what would you like me to do tell them to meet and you'll let them know in person xx

Good luck x

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

very easy to sort out if you go to a club

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By *irishladMan
over a year ago

Malahide

I’ve had a number of them both on here and on my old couples profile, guys don’t have to be bi just not afraid of getting within 2 foot of another cock. I’ve seen guys that won’t even look at another guy naked. It’s laughable that they consider themselves swingers, 1 on 1 is not swinging to me. Swinging is all about threesomes or moresomes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"very easy to sort out if you go to a club "

It's easy to you as a couple. I have to find two trusted men not one

This fantasy stays where is it now, in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"very easy to sort out if you go to a club

It's easy to you as a couple. I have to find two trusted men not one

This fantasy stays where is it now, in my head "

Well up to you i am jumping in on that one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Add a few extra males then if some drop out you ll still have fun,

Works for us,

Some have last minute work commitments.

Don't give them to much wankin texts that's all some want, as in what would you like me to do tell them to meet and you'll let them know in person xx

Good luck x"

Guess that's what went wrong on mine , during the previous weeks he was all fantasies telling her what we will do , blah blah , i told her this guy going to bail out last minute , so i booked hotel in Donegal ,6 am monday i hop on the bus from wexford and booom , he texts saying his aunt died , i kept going cause no refund on the booking , arrived to the hotel check in and booooom get a message from her saying after all she can't meet cause the babysitter is in hospital, but she will meet next day before 9 am since breakfast is included , comes 9 am , nothing she says oh only close to 10 , then suddenly gets a call to do a surgery cause some one didn't show up , then next day , maybe .

To top it all i get a message from a UK girl saying she was in wexford and wanting to meet on friday , great i thought , shared kik contact , friday morning ran to the bus in donegal .....the friday one booooom ghosted .

Now rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come it's so difficult to organise a MFM? Lots of people say they're up for it and then disappear without even cancelling. So frustrating!"

It happens more than you think. Find someone reliable and eventually bring around the subject of mmf... Unfortunately things do happen last min. Best of luck with finding your unicorn????

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

I would like to experience, Let me know if you can get the meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an absolute fantasy of mine

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

With pleasure, I will be happy to participate in fulfilling your fantasy. Best regards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Add a few extra males then if some drop out you ll still have fun,

Works for us,

Some have last minute work commitments.

Don't give them to much wankin texts that's all some want, as in what would you like me to do tell them to meet and you'll let them know in person xx

Good luck x

Guess that's what went wrong on mine , during the previous weeks he was all fantasies telling her what we will do , blah blah , i told her this guy going to bail out last minute , so i booked hotel in Donegal ,6 am monday i hop on the bus from wexford and booom , he texts saying his aunt died , i kept going cause no refund on the booking , arrived to the hotel check in and booooom get a message from her saying after all she can't meet cause the babysitter is in hospital, but she will meet next day before 9 am since breakfast is included , comes 9 am , nothing she says oh only close to 10 , then suddenly gets a call to do a surgery cause some one didn't show up , then next day , maybe .

To top it all i get a message from a UK girl saying she was in wexford and wanting to meet on friday , great i thought , shared kik contact , friday morning ran to the bus in donegal .....the friday one booooom ghosted .

Now rant over "

? If ye were both in Wexford why did ya run all the way to Donegal?

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By *r MercMan
over a year ago

dublin

Had a mfm sorted for last weekend and myy female fb bottled it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve completely given up the ghost on this one anyway

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By *teG8Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Kilkenny

Save the faith..the fun you’ve been looking for is just around the corner

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Add a few extra males then if some drop out you ll still have fun,

Works for us,

Some have last minute work commitments.

Don't give them to much wankin texts that's all some want, as in what would you like me to do tell them to meet and you'll let them know in person xx

Good luck x"

It's the wank material that an awful lot of men are really after, whether your intent is an MFM or just an FM. Pic hunters and the like... You do get better at recognising the trends though. Always asking for photos, asking what you're wearing or what you will be wearing when you meet, asking for explicit details of what will happen, and so on. After a while you realise that the guys who actually do meet and don't just talk about it, are the ones who don't actually ask any of this stuff. They're just interested in meeting you and that's more important to them than wanking on the sofa or in the office toilets to your texts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? Does anyone wank to a text?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Really? Does anyone wank to a text? "

No... The guy in the cubicle next to you is banging one out to his nct reminder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really? Does anyone wank to a text?

No... The guy in the cubicle next to you is banging one out to his nct reminder "

In my defense it was for the 6th of September

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Really? Does anyone wank to a text?

No... The guy in the cubicle next to you is banging one out to his nct reminder

In my defense it was for the 6th of September"

You'll get a few months out of that one so!

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"Really? Does anyone wank to a text?

No... The guy in the cubicle next to you is banging one out to his nct reminder

In my defense it was for the 6th of September

You'll get a few months out of that one so! "

I still get mine by post... Adds to the anticipation!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Really? Does anyone wank to a text?

No... The guy in the cubicle next to you is banging one out to his nct reminder

In my defense it was for the 6th of September

You'll get a few months out of that one so!

I still get mine by post... Adds to the anticipation! "

It's that window envelope isn't it? Appeals to one's voyeuristic nature...

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"Really? Does anyone wank to a text?

No... The guy in the cubicle next to you is banging one out to his nct reminder

In my defense it was for the 6th of September

You'll get a few months out of that one so!

I still get mine by post... Adds to the anticipation!

It's that window envelope isn't it? Appeals to one's voyeuristic nature... "

Ooooo yes baby... Retest fee €27...mmmmmmmm...

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Have never had that experience and would like to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Add a few extra males then if some drop out you ll still have fun,

Works for us,

Some have last minute work commitments.

Don't give them to much wankin texts that's all some want, as in what would you like me to do tell them to meet and you'll let them know in person xx

Good luck x

It's the wank material that an awful lot of men are really after, whether your intent is an MFM or just an FM. Pic hunters and the like... You do get better at recognising the trends though. Always asking for photos, asking what you're wearing or what you will be wearing when you meet, asking for explicit details of what will happen, and so on. After a while you realise that the guys who actually do meet and don't just talk about it, are the ones who don't actually ask any of this stuff. They're just interested in meeting you and that's more important to them than wanking on the sofa or in the office toilets to your texts. "

I refer to this as "wank fodder" I don't indulge men with this and it very quickly culls a lot of men who just want wank material. They very quickly piss off if they aren't getting any.

It took me three months a lot of coffee meets and interviews before I found the perfect candidate for my first MFM. It was worth the long recruitment process though. I did have a Plan B though as typical Plan A cancelled the day before

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Would love to organise one for myself

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I am down for an mfm, or mmf or fmm...

But first we need to meet alone, so we can connect, and I can explore your body so that I can find out what you like and dont, and then in the 3some it will be a lot more natural, and explosive.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awY1MRlMKMc

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork


"I've organised a MFM before

...but he bottled it at the last moment

So on Fab, there's the...

- "No show Merchants"

- "Spoofers" who seem to fall at the last fence

- & the Walter Mitty's who fantasize,

talk for a year but do fecking nothing about it

Course there are reliable people on Fab

... so best pick your bed partners wisely "

You forgot to mention the chocolate soldiers, the ones who melt in the heat

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"I've organised a MFM before

...but he bottled it at the last moment

So on Fab, there's the...

- "No show Merchants"

- "Spoofers" who seem to fall at the last fence

- & the Walter Mitty's who fantasize,

talk for a year but do fecking nothing about it

Course there are reliable people on Fab

... so best pick your bed partners wisely

You forgot to mention the chocolate soldiers, the ones who melt in the heat "

The trick with keeping cool... Is staying hot!

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By *ex1981Man
over a year ago

right up your street , the wild Atlantic way , corby UK


"How come it's so difficult to organise a MFM? Lots of people say they're up for it and then disappear without even cancelling. So frustrating!

Oh it's as elusive as the unicorn lol

Even at a party, I've found I still mostly end up in a ffm play, not that I mind ffm play

Just think it tricky to find two straight guys who want to get that close to each other

Totally agree with this little wren. I think for single fems on fab it's easier find a couple than 2 single men willing to have the fun"

I've had loads of mmf play sessions.

You've probably withnessed a few of them Titty lol

Can't see what the problem is. More the merrier I say

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

you have to pick your partners properly or other wish might not be a good nite .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first was before I found fab one was an old FWB and other was a man I had started seeing both had same interests and build so I asked the two of them one Good Friday if they wanted to that evening and the rest is history. I’ve had a few since joining fab and the best ones just happened no planning. Sometimes when we overthink we kill the fun and excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am down for an mfm, or mmf or fmm...

But first we need to meet alone, so we can connect, and I can explore your body so that I can find out what you like and dont, and then in the 3some it will be a lot more natural, and explosive.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awY1MRlMKMc"

Well, that was a plan. I can't imagine the 3some without meeting both men 1 to 1 first.

I can wait til Christmas to realise it or it will be just fantasy in my head

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By *ex1981Man
over a year ago

right up your street , the wild Atlantic way , corby UK


"My first was before I found fab one was an old FWB and other was a man I had started seeing both had same interests and build so I asked the two of them one Good Friday if they wanted to that evening and the rest is history. I’ve had a few since joining fab and the best ones just happened no planning. Sometimes when we overthink we kill the fun and excitement. "

Has to be a connection goes without saying the dynamic to have hot non nervous fun with a whole lot of cheeky smiles has to be there.

Over planning anything kills the fun. Be it sex or heading on a road trip .

Go with the flow and be open to having the time of your life at any moment in life.

That's the way I roll and it's after worked out great so far.

Hello miss btw xx

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By *ex1981Man
over a year ago

right up your street , the wild Atlantic way , corby UK


"My first was before I found fab one was an old FWB and other was a man I had started seeing both had same interests and build so I asked the two of them one Good Friday if they wanted to that evening and the rest is history. I’ve had a few since joining fab and the best ones just happened no planning. Sometimes when we overthink we kill the fun and excitement.

Has to be a connection goes without saying the dynamic to have hot non nervous fun with a whole lot of cheeky smiles has to be there.

Over planning anything kills the fun. Be it sex or heading on a road trip .

Go with the flow and be open to having the time of your life at any moment in life.

That's the way I roll and it's after worked out great so far.

Hello miss btw xx "

Bet it didn't take 3 days for certain things to rise that good Friday .

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"Well, that was a plan. I can't imagine the 3some without meeting both men 1 to 1 first.

I can wait til Christmas to realise it or it will be just fantasy in my head "

I'm asked all the time for that, not a couple, but a single girl and a single guy on their first meet logging on and asking me over.

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By *e r usCouple
over a year ago

derry

Sorry to genuine males but most males either playing away from home and can't get away from partner when they want. Ruins it for all genuine males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 3sum arranged with the OP.

Her and her male friend were to come to my house.

Other male came up with excuses at the last minute via kik And left the kik group chat.

Then he blocked me here on FAB and then the OP stopped talking to me on kik and here too.

So I feel like both of them wasted my time.

Be nice if the OP could explain herself to me,but I doubt she will.

Never even got a sorry off her for wasting my time,as I had turned down another meet to accomodate her and her male friend.

Anything to say Lucybbw??

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Sorry to genuine males but most males either playing away from home and can't get away from partner when they want. Ruins it for all genuine males."

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

Met a few genuine couples on here but a lot of bi guys pretending to be part of a couple and when a meet is planed they bottle out

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By *ongunMan
over a year ago

Diblin

I have had a few MMFs but no FFM think it’s about picking the right guys but that is trial and error. Verifications in what your looking for would be a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to genuine males but most males either playing away from home and can't get away from partner when they want. Ruins it for all genuine males."

Ya because thats the only reason anyone cant drop everything for a meet.

There are loads of actual single men and women on here who have busy lives and cant just meet anytime they want.

And it ruins nothing for "genuine" users.

In fact it makes it easier for anyone used to the pattern that actual timewasters follow

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"How come it's so difficult to organise a MFM? Lots of people say they're up for it and then disappear without even cancelling. So frustrating!

Oh it's as elusive as the unicorn lol

Even at a party, I've found I still mostly end up in a ffm play, not that I mind ffm play

Just think it tricky to find two straight guys who want to get that close to each other

Totally agree with this little wren. I think for single fems on fab it's easier find a couple than 2 single men willing to have the fun

I've had loads of mmf play sessions.

You've probably withnessed a few of them Titty lol

Can't see what the problem is. More the merrier I say "

Tom,I've seen more of that ass disappearing into scenarios than I've seen sunsets in this country! Although it's been so long at this point I nearly forget what it looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first was before I found fab one was an old FWB and other was a man I had started seeing both had same interests and build so I asked the two of them one Good Friday if they wanted to that evening and the rest is history. I’ve had a few since joining fab and the best ones just happened no planning. Sometimes when we overthink we kill the fun and excitement.

Has to be a connection goes without saying the dynamic to have hot non nervous fun with a whole lot of cheeky smiles has to be there.

Over planning anything kills the fun. Be it sex or heading on a road trip .

Go with the flow and be open to having the time of your life at any moment in life.

That's the way I roll and it's after worked out great so far.

Hello miss btw xx

Bet it didn't take 3 days for certain things to rise that good Friday . "

Was an amazing night and for all the right reasons . Hello x

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By *ex1981Man
over a year ago

right up your street , the wild Atlantic way , corby UK


"How come it's so difficult to organise a MFM? Lots of people say they're up for it and then disappear without even cancelling. So frustrating!

Oh it's as elusive as the unicorn lol

Even at a party, I've found I still mostly end up in a ffm play, not that I mind ffm play

Just think it tricky to find two straight guys who want to get that close to each other

Totally agree with this little wren. I think for single fems on fab it's easier find a couple than 2 single men willing to have the fun

I've had loads of mmf play sessions.

You've probably withnessed a few of them Titty lol

Can't see what the problem is. More the merrier I say

Tom,I've seen more of that ass disappearing into scenarios than I've seen sunsets in this country! Although it's been so long at this point I nearly forget what it looks like "

I know I've been like a hermit last year or two ffs. Only a handful of parties when back in ireland.

That needs rectifying girlie, naked scenarios need setting up .

Can't have you forgetting my tushy

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By *exytvlegsTV/TS
over a year ago

North co dublin Ireland

I have had one a while back the lady was great but the other guy freaked out. He was ok till she pulled my member stated playing with it. He ran out lol but we got someone to join us great night.by the way I was not going to go near him we there for my lady friend.

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"How come it's so difficult to organise a MFM? Lots of people say they're up for it and then disappear without even cancelling. So frustrating!

Oh it's as elusive as the unicorn lol

Even at a party, I've found I still mostly end up in a ffm play, not that I mind ffm play

Just think it tricky to find two straight guys who want to get that close to each other

Totally agree with this little wren. I think for single fems on fab it's easier find a couple than 2 single men willing to have the fun

I've had loads of mmf play sessions.

You've probably withnessed a few of them Titty lol

Can't see what the problem is. More the merrier I say

Tom,I've seen more of that ass disappearing into scenarios than I've seen sunsets in this country! Although it's been so long at this point I nearly forget what it looks like

I know I've been like a hermit last year or two ffs. Only a handful of parties when back in ireland.

That needs rectifying girlie, naked scenarios need setting up .

Can't have you forgetting my tushy "

It would be a massive travesty

Plus I miss the banter too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you were looking the wrong profile or wanna be profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To many lads pussy out all talk bullshit excuses the day before. If your gonna do it follow through nothing as bad as time wasters

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

What I did when organising bukkake was pick guys who had met guys before and then pick those guys, then pick guy that he had met and so on. Before you know it you have a group of guys who know each other through one another. Easier that way. MSM is a big thing now so I used that.

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over a year ago

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