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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Women who just want to be used or broken?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my opinion and experience of sum stories sub women are indeed broken as a result of past trauma. Very sad

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Women who just want to be used or broken? "

This is not what a true dom-submissive relationship or connection entails. Most people just don't understand that the submissive holds the true power in such a setting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who just want to be used or broken? "

Wow if any guy said he wants to use me or break me but I'd run a mile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who just want to be used or broken?

Wow if any guy said he wants to use me or break me but I'd run a mile. "

I’d tend to agree wouldn’t apeal to me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broken? Seems someone has been watching too much 50 shades... That's abuse and has no place in S&M

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Some are, some aren't.

While there are some very vulnerable people who have become submissive through a history of violence and abuse (and not just women either), others are strong, independent, confident individuals who simply choose to submit to a particular person. It's a dynamic of trust and respect, and if the dominant party breaks that trust, the submissive will lose respect and no longer submit.

Don't confuse submission with weakness

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I think the word broken is all wrong in a sexual submissive context. If you're broken you might be submissive, but for all the wrong reasons and you certainly don't enjoy yourself nor do you want to be there.

Sexually submissive means you get sexual and emotional pleasure from being dominated by another person. It's consciously submitting yourself to the dom/domme.

Finally I'd say there's a good amount of women on here that are not necessarily into sm submission but who like when the man takes the lead and dominates the sexual act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone using that wording would raise a red flag for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ding ding ding!!! Alarms bells for me with that term!!!!

Em.....the murder of Elaine O’ Hara by Graham Dwyer comes to mind with that term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are, some aren't.

While there are some very vulnerable people who have become submissive through a history of violence and abuse (and not just women either), others are strong, independent, confident individuals who simply choose to submit to a particular person. It's a dynamic of trust and respect, and if the dominant party breaks that trust, the submissive will lose respect and no longer submit.

Don't confuse submission with weakness"

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore


"I think the word broken is all wrong in a sexual submissive context. If you're broken you might be submissive, but for all the wrong reasons and you certainly don't enjoy yourself nor do you want to be there.

Sexually submissive means you get sexual and emotional pleasure from being dominated by another person. It's consciously submitting yourself to the dom/domme.

Finally I'd say there's a good amount of women on here that are not necessarily into sm submission but who like when the man takes the lead and dominates the sexual act. "

Very wise words, especially the last two paragraphs

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Idiotic. Almost horse- like ( that’s me never going to Dubai)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who just want to be used or broken? "

I am submissive sexually. I've no trauma or abuse that has broken me and really enjoy being free to own my sexuality. I'm actually a confident, capable and strong woman who chooses to submit to my Dominant.

Submission is a gift and an experienced Dominant neither attempts to break nor uses a sub, but rather recognises the responsibility that comes with the dynamic. The sub is actually the person with the power.

This type of post has absolutely nothing to do with D/s play. Please educate yourself before you even think of going near a submissive before someone gets hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please educate yourself before you even think of going near a submissive before someone gets hurt."

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