FabSwingers.com forum: Tinder or fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So which do ya reckon is the more successful one for getting the hop? currently doing some research myself

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Hate tinder..the fact that you have to match with people before you can message them is bollix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder is much easier to get a quick ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder all day long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab defo you know what your getting

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Fab every time

But then I’m an ugly mug so need to keep away from face pics

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I've never been on tinder and never will. Fab is fab and that's it for me.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Tinder never used it or ever will but fab hellllll yesssssss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder is much easier to get a quick ride

Really? It doesn't work for me

I definitely do something wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder is terrible. Fab is much more straightforward as everyone is looking the same thing more or less

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seem to get more matches on tinder, but none seem to reply, a lot like fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I had a few matches on tinder, never got too many replies though. So deleted it and just Fab now. At least you know where you stand here, they are either interested or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a few matches on tinder, never got too many replies though. So deleted it and just Fab now. At least you know where you stand here, they are either interested or not. "

Exactly and people actually chat and meet here. Tinder is match one second unmatched two seconds later lol. The pof in my experience people chat but don't actually meet up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab all the way

Never tried tinder. Perhaps I should. Can’t be any worse than here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab all the way

Never tried tinder. Perhaps I should. Can’t be any worse than here"

You following me haha

Tinder is pants!

Waste your money taking a girl on a date,paying for dinner etc etc

For her to say..

Goodnight nice meeting you goodbye.

At least on fab everyone knows why youre there..

Sex is sex..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab all the way

Never tried tinder. Perhaps I should. Can’t be any worse than here

You following me haha

Tinder is pants!

Waste your money taking a girl on a date,paying for dinner etc etc

For her to say..

Goodnight nice meeting you goodbye.

At least on fab everyone knows why youre there..

Sex is sex..

Really ?.. dinner ?... oh fuck that . Spose I’ll have to keep plugging away on here then ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab all the way

Never tried tinder. Perhaps I should. Can’t be any worse than here

You following me haha

Tinder is pants!

Waste your money taking a girl on a date,paying for dinner etc etc

For her to say..

Goodnight nice meeting you goodbye.

At least on fab everyone knows why youre there..

Sex is sex..

Really ?.. dinner ?... oh fuck that . Spose I’ll have to keep plugging away on here then ffs"

Yes. You would have to feed them imagine

And spend money.

Ridiculous carry on altogether.

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab all the way

Never tried tinder. Perhaps I should. Can’t be any worse than here

You following me haha

Tinder is pants!

Waste your money taking a girl on a date,paying for dinner etc etc

For her to say..

Goodnight nice meeting you goodbye.

At least on fab everyone knows why youre there..

Sex is sex..

Really ?.. dinner ?... oh fuck that . Spose I’ll have to keep plugging away on here then ffs

Yes. You would have to feed them imagine

And spend money.

Ridiculous carry on altogether.

Hahaha"

Hmmm well I’m an excellent cook and am loaded so just have to cook and fuck at mine lol

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Tinder, POF, OK Cupid, Fab, FL, all of them complement each other.

Depending on the pics you use and the age/type of person you want to meet, each one of them can be better than other.

If casual sex with random people every week, is all you are interested in, then tough luck, as in my humble opinion there are more interesting things that you can engage in and not only just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder, POF, OK Cupid, Fab, FL, all of them complement each other.

Depending on the pics you use and the age/type of person you want to meet, each one of them can be better than other.

If casual sex with random people every week, is all you are interested in, then tough luck, as in my humble opinion there are more interesting things that you can engage in and not only just sex. "

Every week ????... jeez.... where??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is more easier to find a great fun when you want than tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab all the way

Never tried tinder. Perhaps I should. Can’t be any worse than here

You following me haha

Tinder is pants!

Waste your money taking a girl on a date,paying for dinner etc etc

For her to say..

Goodnight nice meeting you goodbye.

At least on fab everyone knows why youre there..

Sex is sex..

Really ?.. dinner ?... oh fuck that . Spose I’ll have to keep plugging away on here then ffs

Yes. You would have to feed them imagine

And spend money.

Ridiculous carry on altogether.

Hahaha

Hmmm well I’m an excellent cook and am loaded so just have to cook and fuck at mine lol"

You should put that as your status today

Worth a shot.

If i decide to meet again(having a break) anytime soon my fave is stroganoff fyi lol

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"I had a few matches on tinder, never got too many replies though. So deleted it and just Fab now. At least you know where you stand here, they are either interested or not.

Exactly and people actually chat and meet here. Tinder is match one second unmatched two seconds later lol. The pof in my experience people chat but don't actually meet up. "

Couldn’t agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only on Fab so couldn’t tell ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab all the way

Never tried tinder. Perhaps I should. Can’t be any worse than here

You following me haha

Tinder is pants!

Waste your money taking a girl on a date,paying for dinner etc etc

For her to say..

Goodnight nice meeting you goodbye.

At least on fab everyone knows why youre there..

Sex is sex..

Really ?.. dinner ?... oh fuck that . Spose I’ll have to keep plugging away on here then ffs

Yes. You would have to feed them imagine

And spend money.

Ridiculous carry on altogether.

Hahaha

Hmmm well I’m an excellent cook and am loaded so just have to cook and fuck at mine lol

You should put that as your status today

Worth a shot.

If i decide to meet again(having a break) anytime soon my fave is stroganoff fyi lol"

Mmmm luv it . So many variations ; I keep it simple ; fillet , mushrooms , mustard, sour cream, onions parsley paprika brandy , dash of lemon served on either rice or pappardelle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab all the way

Never tried tinder. Perhaps I should. Can’t be any worse than here

You following me haha

Tinder is pants!

Waste your money taking a girl on a date,paying for dinner etc etc

For her to say..

Goodnight nice meeting you goodbye.

At least on fab everyone knows why youre there..

Sex is sex..

Really ?.. dinner ?... oh fuck that . Spose I’ll have to keep plugging away on here then ffs

Yes. You would have to feed them imagine

And spend money.

Ridiculous carry on altogether.

Hahaha

Hmmm well I’m an excellent cook and am loaded so just have to cook and fuck at mine lol

You should put that as your status today

Worth a shot.

If i decide to meet again(having a break) anytime soon my fave is stroganoff fyi lol

Mmmm luv it . So many variations ; I keep it simple ; fillet , mushrooms , mustard, sour cream, onions parsley paprika brandy , dash of lemon served on either rice or pappardelle "

Colmans packet mix is quite good

hahaha

But the brandy sounds good

After all brandy makes you...

Errrr happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll find a lot of fab ladies on those others too and they get pissed off if you suggest meeting up for a quickie. It's not for that apparently guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder is much easier to get a quick ride

Really? It doesn't work for me

I definitely do something wrong...

Maybe its because I tended to use tinder more for causual sex and Fab has a more community element for me with the forums.

But ya if I was looking to hook uo at shortish notice I'd go swiping right instead of putting a meet up here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab all the way

Never tried tinder. Perhaps I should. Can’t be any worse than here

You following me haha

Tinder is pants!

Waste your money taking a girl on a date,paying for dinner etc etc

For her to say..

Goodnight nice meeting you goodbye.

At least on fab everyone knows why youre there..

Sex is sex..

Really ?.. dinner ?... oh fuck that . Spose I’ll have to keep plugging away on here then ffs

Yes. You would have to feed them imagine

And spend money.

Ridiculous carry on altogether.

Hahaha

Hmmm well I’m an excellent cook and am loaded so just have to cook and fuck at mine lol

You should put that as your status today

Worth a shot.

If i decide to meet again(having a break) anytime soon my fave is stroganoff fyi lol

Mmmm luv it . So many variations ; I keep it simple ; fillet , mushrooms , mustard, sour cream, onions parsley paprika brandy , dash of lemon served on either rice or pappardelle

Colmans packet mix is quite good

hahaha

But the brandy sounds good

After all brandy makes you...

Errrr happy

I only ever use fresh ingredients ... no packets

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Never used Tinder myself, so can't say

Was on S4Irl years ago but wasn't for me.

Fab is much more fun

Oi! Ye forgot the gerkhins in the stroganoff! Do it right FFS!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah tinder seems to be full of posers, from what I can see it's a waste of time.

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By *esley pipes 88Man
over a year ago

Cork

Ive had my fair share of tinder and fab,so either or.

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By *ost-KittensCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Tinder is for vanillas have sex or dates.

Fabs is for swingers to meet and connect.

That’s the difference those just trying to get their rocks off will never grasp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder is for vanillas have sex or dates.

Fabs is for swingers to meet and connect.

That’s the difference those just trying to get their rocks off will never grasp. "

I do agree fab is for swingers and connecting with others and is such what I use it for... However there's a large number of members who use it purely for casual one on one sexual thrists and who's to say they're wrong,

Fab is whatever you make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is better for connecting with people and I’ve made some good friends on here.

Tinder is fine for a mindless fuck and I can honestly say I’ve never kept in touch with anyone I’ve met from that app.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder is for vanillas have sex or dates.

Fabs is for swingers to meet and connect.

That’s the difference those just trying to get their rocks off will never grasp. "

well said

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By *ootFetslave81Man
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Love it... Loyalty...

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By *leasureOrbitCouple
over a year ago

city centre

We find tinder and okcupid great for meeting single women (simply due to numbers), but fab is our spiritual home!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Two different things or should be....but ppl can use it how they wish but don't think there comparable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def FAB.with fab what you see is what you get.tinder is a load of bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facebook is great too

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By *umpkinnMan
over a year ago

Dublin

So far in 2019

Tinder - 4

Bumble - 1

Okcupid - 0

Fabswingers - 0

Bumble seems the best even though I only started to use it last week. Its up to the woman to reply first after a match, so theres no timewasters or no replys and it just seems to be a better selection.

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By *leasureOrbitCouple
over a year ago

city centre

"So far in 2019

Tinder - 4

Bumble - 1

Okcupid - 0

Fabswingers - 0

A few of my single male mates swear by bumble. They say it’s much better than tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder can be good fun for !much like fab i guess lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same thing, anybody answer here and there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So far in 2019

Tinder - 4

Bumble - 1

Okcupid - 0

Fabswingers - 0

A few of my single male mates swear by bumble. They say it’s much better than tinder."

I have seen good results from bumble for one of my mates, I might just have to give it a try

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

"So far in 2019

Tinder - 4

Bumble - 1

Okcupid - 0

Fabswingers - 0

A few of my single male mates swear by bumble. They say it’s much better than tinder."

Your single male meets ye have guys blocked

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

Iv been on fab, POF, Tinder and bumble .

I love the banter the socials and all that from fab it’s easier connect on fab i find. Tinder seams to play out after a few messages. Have yet to get hookups from tinder or pof but maby im not trying had enough or sending the wrong messages

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By *leasureOrbitCouple
over a year ago

city centre

"So far in 2019

Tinder - 4

Bumble - 1

Okcupid - 0

Fabswingers - 0

A few of my single male mates swear by bumble. They say it’s much better than tinder.

Your single male meets ye have guys blocked

The lads I’m taking about are civilians rather than fabbers. We do have some single male buddies on here though, got to meet them through socials and parties.

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

"So far in 2019

Tinder - 4

Bumble - 1

Okcupid - 0

Fabswingers - 0

A few of my single male mates swear by bumble. They say it’s much better than tinder.

Your single male meets ye have guys blocked

The lads I’m taking about are civilians rather than fabbers. We do have some single male buddies on here though, got to meet them through socials and parties. "

Ahhhhh i see ye think we crossed paths are a partie or social before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a man I'd imagine you would have more luck on tinder. For women depends how attractive you are. Fab is always the easier choice for women. You

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Tinder is easier, you get interacting and meet at alot speedier pace but both sites can be used similarly if you like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tinder is easier, you get interacting and meet at alot speedier pace but both sites can be used similarly if you like. "

Yet to have success on either, and I've been putting in a lot of work, just keep typing away I guess.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Tinder is easier, you get interacting and meet at alot speedier pace but both sites can be used similarly if you like.

Yet to have success on either, and I've been putting in a lot of work, just keep typing away I guess. "
plod along is all you can do. What really opened my eyes to the online sites is how different they are to interacting in the real world social outlets. People think online is easier but it's probably not. Women also have the choice on sites like this plus dating sites, men far outweigh women and that has a massive bearing but nothing you can do only keep going and keep your standards high.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tinder is easier, you get interacting and meet at alot speedier pace but both sites can be used similarly if you like.

Yet to have success on either, and I've been putting in a lot of work, just keep typing away I guess. plod along is all you can do. What really opened my eyes to the online sites is how different they are to interacting in the real world social outlets. People think online is easier but it's probably not. Women also have the choice on sites like this plus dating sites, men far outweigh women and that has a massive bearing but nothing you can do only keep going and keep your standards high.

Speaking truth here my man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grindr

no one here has sex, couples do not respond, single girls start talking and then disappear! no grindr in 3 weeks and I had a meeting with 3 transexs, real meeting! People here talk a lot and acted little! It's not that the transex are doing well! real sex without coiling

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Hate tinder..the fact that you have to match with people before you can message them is bollix

Why would you want to message someone who hasn't matched you?

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By *achelsWoman
over a year ago

Fab everytime

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Was never on tinder to be honest must have a look

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Was never on tinder to be honest must have a look"

I signed up once many years ago and deleted again in less than 24 hours. Every message I got was for an immediate hook up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinders way easier for a hook up

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Tinders way easier for a hook up"

I've just had a look at tinder for the first time ever. I take it from what someone says above that you're limited to a certain number of swipes per day if you're not a subscriber but can you actually interact with people at all if you don't subscribe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinders way easier for a hook up

When you have swiped right then that person will also need to match with you before you get to interact. Id imagine all you get extra for being a subscriber is possibly more swipes per day and probably greater exposure to searches

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Tinders way easier for a hook up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody here do sex! Only chat and watch movies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I've deleted my tinder now, nobody chats on tinder and I was getting next to no matches, waste of time, but mind you it's not much better here

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

"So far in 2019

Tinder - 4

Bumble - 1

Okcupid - 0

Fabswingers - 0

A few of my single male mates swear by bumble. They say it’s much better than tinder.

I have seen good results from bumble for one of my mates, I might just have to give it a try

Bumble just rejects any photos I upload

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By *am62Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I've never been on tinder and never will. Fab is fab and that's it for me.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Nah its not for me at all, using dating sites for sex just does not suit me.

Its just too depressing hearing from girls "Yeah I thought he was nice but he just wanted sex".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly why I dont do the dating thing or date sites anymore.they used as a hook up sex site.fab is the only way to go.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Never used tinder and never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got be careful with tinder,or you gonna get an unplanned wedding date,tinder is more like a dating site,even after matching you've to be specific what you're looking for, or you'll get in trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab I’ve no idea about Tinder

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Who's tinder? She on fab?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Tinder is not a site where u match and bang, an hour later you're shagging. You have initial straight up physical attraction, you chat with one another and then hopefully arrange a meet. Pretty normal behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So which do ya reckon is the more successful one for getting the hop? currently doing some research myself

They are both crap so take your pick

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By *ad IdeaMan
over a year ago

Limerick

"So which do ya reckon is the more successful one for getting the hop? currently doing some research myself

For me Tinder is much better than Fab for meets.Things are maybe less straightforward at start but all end up same way...

But nothing beats Facebook anyways

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over a year ago

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