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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone tell me why women will not even reply to a 24 year old guy like I’m not disgusting Dirty or ill mannered I’ve tried time after time to get a conversation going and can’t even get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.. women be cray cray... but i think we have to learn the texting game.. that and compete with 65,000,000 other guys lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope.. women be cray cray... but i think we have to learn the texting game.. that and compete with 65,000,000 other guys lol"

That’s true so hard to get a single bit of notice

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Maybe and just maybe they don't reply because your profile only states that your age is wrong there's nothing about you or what you like etc put a bit of effort into your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe and just maybe they don't reply because your profile only states that your age is wrong there's nothing about you or what you like etc put a bit of effort into your profile. "

That sir is a very good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe and just maybe they don't reply because your profile only states that your age is wrong there's nothing about you or what you like etc put a bit of effort into your profile.

That sir is a very good point "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I'm still getting used to this.... but the truth is,women are overwhelmed and/or floored by guys..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe and just maybe they don't reply because your profile only states that your age is wrong there's nothing about you or what you like etc put a bit of effort into your profile.

That sir is a very good point "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe and just maybe they don't reply because your profile only states that your age is wrong there's nothing about you or what you like etc put a bit of effort into your profile.

That sir is a very good point "

Excuse me sir.... not sure who you are talking to. But strangely enough I do pretty well on tinder but not here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile ain't going to get you any replies with only 1 pic and its your cock and the only few words in your description are "my age is wrong am 23".

The odds are way stacked against you on here with the male to female ratio and with no effort on your profile you won't get a look in. You need to stand out from the crowd a little.

Also these kind of threads don't go down well or put you in a good light, in all honesty after 6 months here with your profile looking like that and you haven't figured out why your not getting anywhere you would probably be best off scrapping it and starting fresh with 100% more effort

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"Can anyone tell me why women will not even reply to a 24 year old guy like I’m not disgusting Dirty or ill mannered I’ve tried time after time to get a conversation going and can’t even get a reply "

Fab is a sausage fest ..at this moment there are probably 300+ men online and barely 50 women..thats 6 men to every woman..its hit and miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me why women will not even reply to a 24 year old guy like I’m not disgusting Dirty or ill mannered I’ve tried time after time to get a conversation going and can’t even get a reply

Fab is a sausage fest ..at this moment there are probably 300+ men online and barely 50 women..thats 6 men to every woman..its hit and miss "

And that’s being conservative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me why women will not even reply to a 24 year old guy like I’m not disgusting Dirty or ill mannered I’ve tried time after time to get a conversation going and can’t even get a reply

Fab is a sausage fest ..at this moment there are probably 300+ men online and barely 50 women..thats 6 men to every woman..its hit and miss

And that’s being conservative "

The problem isnt soley that there are way more men.

OP you have no avatar, one public pic and no info, or anything for someone to be attracted to or react to on your profile.

If I got a message like that of a female on here unless I was completely bored off my tits I wouldnt reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me why women will not even reply to a 24 year old guy like I’m not disgusting Dirty or ill mannered I’ve tried time after time to get a conversation going and can’t even get a reply

Fab is a sausage fest ..at this moment there are probably 300+ men online and barely 50 women..thats 6 men to every woman..its hit and miss

And that’s being conservative

The problem isnt soley that there are way more men.

OP you have no avatar, one public pic and no info, or anything for someone to be attracted to or react to on your profile.

If I got a message like that of a female on here unless I was completely bored off my tits I wouldnt reply

"

Exactly all these are missing OP. I looked at your profile and there is absolutely nothing to catch my eyes

Lots of work. Read all the suggestions, update profile and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it’s cos ur a gingg - ger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting pretty fed up with the place myself at this stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s definitely down to ur profile keep an eye out for social day time coffee meets that will get u started

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Well when you're interests include...

"Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cross-dressing, Cuckolding, Cybersex, Dogging, DP, Fisting, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams"

...and you're up for meeting

"Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS Aged from 18 to 99 Will meet smokers"

...you're either and Jack/Jill of all trades or you might want to specialise in just meeting women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your attitude in this post is anything to go by why would anyone reply to you? 3 rules in life, 'Don't be an asshole, dont't be an asshole and don't be an asshole.'

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.


"Can anyone tell me why women will not even reply to a 24 year old guy like I’m not disgusting Dirty or ill mannered I’ve tried time after time to get a conversation going and can’t even get a reply "

If I had a euro for every time one of these threads appeard wed be a rich cple.

If you want a meet, you need to put more effort in. Best advice, get the courage to attend a social meet up or a club. You'll see the ads in here for them. When your verid, then you will get more meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me why women will not even reply to a 24 year old guy like I’m not disgusting Dirty or ill mannered I’ve tried time after time to get a conversation going and can’t even get a reply "

...as the song says my friend " Welcome to the Jungle "...you're not the 1st guy to ask that question and you won't be the last..Ladies rule the Planet Fab..guys just have to go with what they decide..if they want to chat or meet they will...if they don't ..they won't..just don't lose heart cause they dont.. you'll meet one that does want to ..keep Rocking my friend .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it’s because you have ginger pupes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it’s because you have ginger pupes "

I feel called out here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have the decency not to show yours

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

These 'poor me' threads really are tiresome. And i'm sure moaning about not getting a meet is not going to help either

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Plenty of men struggle but probably particularly younger lads. I agree you havnt enough pics and your profile is to vague. Put more effort into it and send some polite opening mails. If in 5 to 6 weeks you're still struggling then of course its the wimmins fault.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"OP you have no avatar, one public pic and no info, or anything for someone to be attracted to or react to on your profile.

If I got a message like that of a female on here unless I was completely bored off my tits I wouldnt reply

"

You're missing out. The girls without photos or info are usually gorgeous.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

It's simple OP,

Women will respond to something that interests them.

You could be very articulated in your message, polite and even good looking but if you can't hold there interest then forget about it.

It's the law of nature, and true for almost every species on the planet buddy,..........females choose, males compete.

We don't have to like it but it's just the way it is.

Until men begin to understand this fact they're gonna get themselves very frustrated

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"It's simple OP,

Women will respond to something that interests them.

You could be very articulated in your message, polite and even good looking but if you can't hold there interest then forget about it.

It's the law of nature, and true for almost every species on the planet buddy,..........females choose, males compete.

We don't have to like it but it's just the way it is.

Until men begin to understand this fact they're gonna get themselves very frustrated "

*hold their interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s 3 unavoidable things in life;

Death

Taxes

The contrariness of women

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Can anyone tell me why women will not even reply to a 24 year old guy like I’m not disgusting Dirty or ill mannered I’ve tried time after time to get a conversation going and can’t even get a reply "

Bitches be crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly?

It erks me when people say improve your profile. Obviously you should at least have pictures. Everyone agrees with that.

But, as said above, there is about "300+" men online at any moment. Which in reality is probably 3,000 to 50 women. Do the math. So improving your profile isn't gonna do anything. It's all luck and right time right place.

Not to mention time wasters. Fakes. Ego boosters. Factor all that in? Forget about it. Lol.

The battle of the sexes was lost a long time ago and women won it. Most guys would have sex with a cat going up a skylight.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Honestly?

It erks me when people say improve your profile. Obviously you should at least have pictures. Everyone agrees with that.

But, as said above, there is about "300+" men online at any moment. Which in reality is probably 3,000 to 50 women. Do the math. So improving your profile isn't gonna do anything. It's all luck and right time right place.

Not to mention time wasters. Fakes. Ego boosters. Factor all that in? Forget about it. Lol.

The battle of the sexes was lost a long time ago and women won it. Most guys would have sex with a cat going up a skylight. "

Guys aren't competing with every other guy on the site. They're not even competing with every other guy in their age range.

If you're attached you're only competing for those who will meet attached (and not many are). If you're a smoker you're only competing for those who will meet smokers (a lot won't). If you can't accommodate, you're only competing for those who can (which isn't actually that many!). And these are just the practical issues... Before you get down to chemistry, attraction and shared interests...

So guys, you're not really competing with every other guy on the site, you're only competing with those guys who fit the exact same criteria as you... Which is probably only 50 or 60 in the entire country... Fewer still in your own geographical area. So making yourself stand out from 10-15 other guys in your region isn't that big a deal is it??

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Honestly?

It erks me when people say improve your profile. Obviously you should at least have pictures. Everyone agrees with that.

But, as said above, there is about "300+" men online at any moment. Which in reality is probably 3,000 to 50 women. Do the math. So improving your profile isn't gonna do anything. It's all luck and right time right place.

Not to mention time wasters. Fakes. Ego boosters. Factor all that in? Forget about it. Lol.

The battle of the sexes was lost a long time ago and women won it. Most guys would have sex with a cat going up a skylight.

Guys aren't competing with every other guy on the site. They're not even competing with every other guy in their age range.

If you're attached you're only competing for those who will meet attached (and not many are). If you're a smoker you're only competing for those who will meet smokers (a lot won't). If you can't accommodate, you're only competing for those who can (which isn't actually that many!). And these are just the practical issues... Before you get down to chemistry, attraction and shared interests...

So guys, you're not really competing with every other guy on the site, you're only competing with those guys who fit the exact same criteria as you... Which is probably only 50 or 60 in the entire country... Fewer still in your own geographical area. So making yourself stand out from 10-15 other guys in your region isn't that big a deal is it?? "
jesus pity I'm not less fussy, it would be handy out.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have the decency not to show yours "

Nasa is still looking for your hairline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the fact that your only pic is that of ur sausage might be an issue

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"jesus pity I'm not less fussy, it would be handy out. "

It's not that you're less fussy, its just that when you're purely looking for nsa one-offs, you don't have the same requirements as someone who prefers repeat meets. As you've said on countless other threads, you're happy to fuck n' go, which is great if the person you want to meet is also just looking to fuck n' go. Perfect! But you can't keep complaining and making disparaging remarks about others who don't want the same. It's not going to change anything. Focus positively on those who want the same thing as you... Its more likely to get you the results you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"jesus pity I'm not less fussy, it would be handy out.

It's not that you're less fussy, its just that when you're purely looking for nsa one-offs, you don't have the same requirements as someone who prefers repeat meets. As you've said on countless other threads, you're happy to fuck n' go, which is great if the person you want to meet is also just looking to fuck n' go. Perfect! But you can't keep complaining and making disparaging remarks about others who don't want the same. It's not going to change anything. Focus positively on those who want the same thing as you... Its more likely to get you the results you want "

Wise Wexford words as usual!!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"jesus pity I'm not less fussy, it would be handy out.

It's not that you're less fussy, its just that when you're purely looking for nsa one-offs, you don't have the same requirements as someone who prefers repeat meets. As you've said on countless other threads, you're happy to fuck n' go, which is great if the person you want to meet is also just looking to fuck n' go. Perfect! But you can't keep complaining and making disparaging remarks about others who don't want the same. It's not going to change anything. Focus positively on those who want the same thing as you... Its more likely to get you the results you want "
the issue is very few women are like that as I have experienced. I openly admit to try keep things as casual as possible. For repeat meets ud want to be relatively close to someone.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Maybe it’s because you have ginger pupes "

Did you give your big brother his suit back after you got a photo taken in it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all of the input and also thanks for advice I’ve done a bit to my profile need to change the pics

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city

Haha your not alone ON this a while ,polite, respectful, not got one reply, never been ignorned by so many women in me life

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Haha your not alone ON this a while ,polite, respectful, not got one reply, never been ignorned by so many women in me life "

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All these handsome, well endowed young bucks having problems getting replies, let alone dates here. WTF!

Seriously lads, are the ice breakers that tame or are you jumping straight into a marriage proposal or a loan of 20 euro or something???

Lads, pm me a sample of one of your introductory messages as this fecking beggars belief especially on FAB!!

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By *upermanslovechildMan
over a year ago

Glasnevin


"Maybe it’s cos ur a gingg - ger "

What's wrong with being Ginger? Most women like the hair colour, plus I'd rather be a ginger then some arsehole like yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all of the input and also thanks for advice I’ve done a bit to my profile need to change the pics "

But your straight but willing to meet couples mm, and tv/ts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly?

It erks me when people say improve your profile. Obviously you should at least have pictures. Everyone agrees with that.

But, as said above, there is about "300+" men online at any moment. Which in reality is probably 3,000 to 50 women. Do the math. So improving your profile isn't gonna do anything. It's all luck and right time right place.

Not to mention time wasters. Fakes. Ego boosters. Factor all that in? Forget about it. Lol.

The battle of the sexes was lost a long time ago and women won it. Most guys would have sex with a cat going up a skylight.

Guys aren't competing with every other guy on the site. They're not even competing with every other guy in their age range.

If you're attached you're only competing for those who will meet attached (and not many are). If you're a smoker you're only competing for those who will meet smokers (a lot won't). If you can't accommodate, you're only competing for those who can (which isn't actually that many!). And these are just the practical issues... Before you get down to chemistry, attraction and shared interests...

So guys, you're not really competing with every other guy on the site, you're only competing with those guys who fit the exact same criteria as you... Which is probably only 50 or 60 in the entire country... Fewer still in your own geographical area. So making yourself stand out from 10-15 other guys in your region isn't that big a deal is it?? "

That's not true.

I get what you are saying it's just there are so many guys on here. Like soooo many.

Even if you separate into categories there are still so many 18-25 etc non smokers who mail people like crazy. Simple numbers game.

Besides I was talking with a couple who wanted to meet a bi man. They got sick of "straight guys" mailing them saying how bi they were. It's all balls lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no difference whether your well verified or not,info on profile and a few pics,imo its extremely hard to get a meet be it a play meet or even a coffee never mind getting a reply, theres a lot of single guys on here and just not enough women, you've a far better chance on a dating site of getting some action,you'd prob be guaranteed to get an odd coffee meet lol

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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Can anyone tell me why women will not even reply to a 24 year old guy like I’m not disgusting Dirty or ill mannered I’ve tried time after time to get a conversation going and can’t even get a reply "

There are 300+ men on this site and from what I've seen there might be 100 women so odds are against you. Alot get to many messages to keep up but alot are stuck up to be fair

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

You really need to put some effort into your profile OP will work wonders one dick does nothing for the ladies you are competing with a lot of men who have put lots of effort into theirs!

Patience is good too...ladies on here get hundreds of messages every day/week it's just not possible to read them all...just remember in this lifestyle you get out of it what you put in

Best of luck and Happy Fabbing!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Guys aren't competing with every other guy on the site. They're not even competing with every other guy in their age range.

If you're attached you're only competing for those who will meet attached (and not many are). If you're a smoker you're only competing for those who will meet smokers (a lot won't). If you can't accommodate, you're only competing for those who can (which isn't actually that many!). And these are just the practical issues... Before you get down to chemistry, attraction and shared interests...

So guys, you're not really competing with every other guy on the site, you're only competing with those guys who fit the exact same criteria as you... Which is probably only 50 or 60 in the entire country... Fewer still in your own geographical area. So making yourself stand out from 10-15 other guys in your region isn't that big a deal is it??

That's not true.

I get what you are saying it's just there are so many guys on here. Like soooo many. Even if you separate into categories there are still so many 18-25 etc non smokers who mail people like crazy. Simple numbers game. "

But are they mailing people who want to meet someone under 26? I could get a zillion messages each day from people who aren't what I'm looking for. I'm still only going to meet the 1 person who is.


" Besides I was talking with a couple who wanted to meet a bi man. They got sick of "straight guys" mailing them saying how bi they were. It's all balls lol "

This is the Fab-Straight phenomenon... Bi guys who put straight on their profiles so they don't scare away women or couples who don't want to meet bisexual males. It's nothing new.

Honestly... If it was all balls as you say, nobody would ever get a meet... Would they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work on your profile op and get some pics up, you never know after that you might get lucky, theres a lot of time wasters here too who mess it up for genuine ppl!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

i have seen a few ladies and couples lookinh for young studs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawnnnnnnnnn??????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Honestly... If it was all balls as you say, nobody would ever get a meet... Would they? "

Most don't get a meet! Lol.

A woman could join up today and meet 10 meet over one night if she wanted. Guys find it hard to get a reply lol.

I'll say this tho and that there is a reason why the site has been developed to only say 300+ online because if it were to say the true number of Irish men online at any given moment people would get soured pretty fast from using the website.

Maybe you should create a man's profile and apply all the things you think that would help get replies. Watch as no one gets back. Just the way it goes.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"

Honestly... If it was all balls as you say, nobody would ever get a meet... Would they?

Most don't get a meet! Lol.

A woman could join up today and meet 10 meet over one night if she wanted. Guys find it hard to get a reply lol.

I'll say this tho and that there is a reason why the site has been developed to only say 300+ online because if it were to say the true number of Irish men online at any given moment people would get soured pretty fast from using the website.

Maybe you should create a man's profile and apply all the things you think that would help get replies. Watch as no one gets back. Just the way it goes.

"

I don't need to set up a fake profile and waste real people's time to prove a point (that suggestion right there says plenty). I've had enough men say 'thanks for the tips, it worked!' or seen them say it to other experienced members over the years to know I'm not talking out of my arse. You're here with the same chances and opportunities as any other man on the site. Make the most of them... or sit back and blame the rest of the world for your failures, that's your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Honestly... If it was all balls as you say, nobody would ever get a meet... Would they?

Most don't get a meet! Lol.

A woman could join up today and meet 10 meet over one night if she wanted. Guys find it hard to get a reply lol.

I'll say this tho and that there is a reason why the site has been developed to only say 300+ online because if it were to say the true number of Irish men online at any given moment people would get soured pretty fast from using the website.

Maybe you should create a man's profile and apply all the things you think that would help get replies. Watch as no one gets back. Just the way it goes.

I don't need to set up a fake profile and waste real people's time to prove a point (that suggestion right there says plenty). I've had enough men say 'thanks for the tips, it worked!' or seen them say it to other experienced members over the years to know I'm not talking out of my arse. You're here with the same chances and opportunities as any other man on the site. Make the most of them... or sit back and blame the rest of the world for your failures, that's your choice. "

Point of making a fake profile was for you to see that you don't know what fab is like when using as a single man. Not to be taken literally as go off and create a fake profile.

But if you are unwilling to accept things are much worse than what you can ever experience (that being a woman on here) then we have nothing more to discuss.

Experience trumps what you think things are like in this world. Hands down. Every time.

Best of luck to you tho.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"

Honestly... If it was all balls as you say, nobody would ever get a meet... Would they?

Most don't get a meet! Lol.

A woman could join up today and meet 10 meet over one night if she wanted. Guys find it hard to get a reply lol.

I'll say this tho and that there is a reason why the site has been developed to only say 300+ online because if it were to say the true number of Irish men online at any given moment people would get soured pretty fast from using the website.

Maybe you should create a man's profile and apply all the things you think that would help get replies. Watch as no one gets back. Just the way it goes.

I don't need to set up a fake profile and waste real people's time to prove a point (that suggestion right there says plenty). I've had enough men say 'thanks for the tips, it worked!' or seen them say it to other experienced members over the years to know I'm not talking out of my arse. You're here with the same chances and opportunities as any other man on the site. Make the most of them... or sit back and blame the rest of the world for your failures, that's your choice.

Point of making a fake profile was for you to see that you don't know what fab is like when using as a single man. Not to be taken literally as go off and create a fake profile.

But if you are unwilling to accept things are much worse than what you can ever experience (that being a woman on here) then we have nothing more to discuss.

Experience trumps what you think things are like in this world. Hands down. Every time.

Best of luck to you tho. "
I understand what you're saying. It's easy to say do this, do that. I was in your shoes, used this site for 3 months without even knowing the forums were here. I got absolutely nowhere. Polite mails, pics up, description in profile etc, didnt matter a jot. It's strange ole site at the end of the day but all you can do is plough along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Honestly... If it was all balls as you say, nobody would ever get a meet... Would they?

Most don't get a meet! Lol.

A woman could join up today and meet 10 meet over one night if she wanted. Guys find it hard to get a reply lol.

I'll say this tho and that there is a reason why the site has been developed to only say 300+ online because if it were to say the true number of Irish men online at any given moment people would get soured pretty fast from using the website.

Maybe you should create a man's profile and apply all the things you think that would help get replies. Watch as no one gets back. Just the way it goes.

I don't need to set up a fake profile and waste real people's time to prove a point (that suggestion right there says plenty). I've had enough men say 'thanks for the tips, it worked!' or seen them say it to other experienced members over the years to know I'm not talking out of my arse. You're here with the same chances and opportunities as any other man on the site. Make the most of them... or sit back and blame the rest of the world for your failures, that's your choice.

Point of making a fake profile was for you to see that you don't know what fab is like when using as a single man. Not to be taken literally as go off and create a fake profile.

But if you are unwilling to accept things are much worse than what you can ever experience (that being a woman on here) then we have nothing more to discuss.

Experience trumps what you think things are like in this world. Hands down. Every time.

Best of luck to you tho. I understand what you're saying. It's easy to say do this, do that. I was in your shoes, used this site for 3 months without even knowing the forums were here. I got absolutely nowhere. Polite mails, pics up, description in profile etc, didnt matter a jot. It's strange ole site at the end of the day but all you can do is plough along. "

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye.....

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"

Honestly... If it was all balls as you say, nobody would ever get a meet... Would they?

Most don't get a meet! Lol.

A woman could join up today and meet 10 meet over one night if she wanted. Guys find it hard to get a reply lol.

I'll say this tho and that there is a reason why the site has been developed to only say 300+ online because if it were to say the true number of Irish men online at any given moment people would get soured pretty fast from using the website.

Maybe you should create a man's profile and apply all the things you think that would help get replies. Watch as no one gets back. Just the way it goes.

I don't need to set up a fake profile and waste real people's time to prove a point (that suggestion right there says plenty). I've had enough men say 'thanks for the tips, it worked!' or seen them say it to other experienced members over the years to know I'm not talking out of my arse. You're here with the same chances and opportunities as any other man on the site. Make the most of them... or sit back and blame the rest of the world for your failures, that's your choice.

Point of making a fake profile was for you to see that you don't know what fab is like when using as a single man. Not to be taken literally as go off and create a fake profile.

But if you are unwilling to accept things are much worse than what you can ever experience (that being a woman on here) then we have nothing more to discuss.

Experience trumps what you think things are like in this world. Hands down. Every time.

Best of luck to you tho. I understand what you're saying. It's easy to say do this, do that. I was in your shoes, used this site for 3 months without even knowing the forums were here. I got absolutely nowhere. Polite mails, pics up, description in profile etc, didnt matter a jot. It's strange ole site at the end of the day but all you can do is plough along.

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... "
It could be. It could be the fact I wont get up on anything maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Honestly... If it was all balls as you say, nobody would ever get a meet... Would they?

Most don't get a meet! Lol.

A woman could join up today and meet 10 meet over one night if she wanted. Guys find it hard to get a reply lol.

I'll say this tho and that there is a reason why the site has been developed to only say 300+ online because if it were to say the true number of Irish men online at any given moment people would get soured pretty fast from using the website.

Maybe you should create a man's profile and apply all the things you think that would help get replies. Watch as no one gets back. Just the way it goes.

I don't need to set up a fake profile and waste real people's time to prove a point (that suggestion right there says plenty). I've had enough men say 'thanks for the tips, it worked!' or seen them say it to other experienced members over the years to know I'm not talking out of my arse. You're here with the same chances and opportunities as any other man on the site. Make the most of them... or sit back and blame the rest of the world for your failures, that's your choice.

Point of making a fake profile was for you to see that you don't know what fab is like when using as a single man. Not to be taken literally as go off and create a fake profile.

But if you are unwilling to accept things are much worse than what you can ever experience (that being a woman on here) then we have nothing more to discuss.

Experience trumps what you think things are like in this world. Hands down. Every time.

Best of luck to you tho. I understand what you're saying. It's easy to say do this, do that. I was in your shoes, used this site for 3 months without even knowing the forums were here. I got absolutely nowhere. Polite mails, pics up, description in profile etc, didnt matter a jot. It's strange ole site at the end of the day but all you can do is plough along.

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... "
Not everyone is as good a white knight as you.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"

Honestly... If it was all balls as you say, nobody would ever get a meet... Would they?

Most don't get a meet! Lol.

A woman could join up today and meet 10 meet over one night if she wanted. Guys find it hard to get a reply lol.

I'll say this tho and that there is a reason why the site has been developed to only say 300+ online because if it were to say the true number of Irish men online at any given moment people would get soured pretty fast from using the website.

Maybe you should create a man's profile and apply all the things you think that would help get replies. Watch as no one gets back. Just the way it goes.

I don't need to set up a fake profile and waste real people's time to prove a point (that suggestion right there says plenty). I've had enough men say 'thanks for the tips, it worked!' or seen them say it to other experienced members over the years to know I'm not talking out of my arse. You're here with the same chances and opportunities as any other man on the site. Make the most of them... or sit back and blame the rest of the world for your failures, that's your choice.

Point of making a fake profile was for you to see that you don't know what fab is like when using as a single man. Not to be taken literally as go off and create a fake profile.

But if you are unwilling to accept things are much worse than what you can ever experience (that being a woman on here) then we have nothing more to discuss.

Experience trumps what you think things are like in this world. Hands down. Every time.

Best of luck to you tho. I understand what you're saying. It's easy to say do this, do that. I was in your shoes, used this site for 3 months without even knowing the forums were here. I got absolutely nowhere. Polite mails, pics up, description in profile etc, didnt matter a jot. It's strange ole site at the end of the day but all you can do is plough along.

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... "
I doubt that when I was doing everything as per the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe."

Fixed that for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... Not everyone is as good a white knight as you."

Love you too

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya "
childs play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... Not everyone is as good a white knight as you.

Love you too "
Ah white knights don't do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play."

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... Not everyone is as good a white knight as you.

Love you too Ah white knights don't do it for me."

But but I can change.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... Not everyone is as good a white knight as you.

Love you too Ah white knights don't do it for me.

But but I can change....."
Go on change let's see the man not the mouse.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meets"
I cant keep repeating myself. My post that I just put up when I was first here, before using the forums is exactly how it was so I completely understand where other lads are coming from.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meetsI cant keep repeating myself. My post that I just put up when I was first here, before using the forums is exactly how it was so I completely understand where other lads are coming from. "
biggest point I'm making is, it's made out it's the mans fault in most cases when probably it's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meetsI cant keep repeating myself. My post that I just put up when I was first here, before using the forums is exactly how it was so I completely understand where other lads are coming from. "

But thats not everyones experience. Plenty guys on here, forum users or not, get meets with women they fomd attractive. So you know....as I said maybe its not the site thats the issue

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meetsI cant keep repeating myself. My post that I just put up when I was first here, before using the forums is exactly how it was so I completely understand where other lads are coming from.

But thats not everyones experience. Plenty guys on here, forum users or not, get meets with women they fomd attractive. So you know....as I said maybe its not the site thats the issue"
luck pure luck. Add on top of that they could be pure swingers. Before I used the forums I couldn't of done anything more in my approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meetsI cant keep repeating myself. My post that I just put up when I was first here, before using the forums is exactly how it was so I completely understand where other lads are coming from.

But thats not everyones experience. Plenty guys on here, forum users or not, get meets with women they fomd attractive. So you know....as I said maybe its not the site thats the issueluck pure luck. Add on top of that they could be pure swingers. Before I used the forums I couldn't of done anything more in my approach. "

Ok its pure luck.. gotcha

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meetsI cant keep repeating myself. My post that I just put up when I was first here, before using the forums is exactly how it was so I completely understand where other lads are coming from.

But thats not everyones experience. Plenty guys on here, forum users or not, get meets with women they fomd attractive. So you know....as I said maybe its not the site thats the issueluck pure luck. Add on top of that they could be pure swingers. Before I used the forums I couldn't of done anything more in my approach. "
you also said "women they find attractice" did you ever think they might be shagging anything just to get a ride?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... Not everyone is as good a white knight as you.

Love you too Ah white knights don't do it for me.

But but I can change..... Go on change let's see the man not the mouse."

See I knew you wanted to see more of me

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Ok answer this one, the lads are doing all they're told and still getting nowhere, what's wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meetsI cant keep repeating myself. My post that I just put up when I was first here, before using the forums is exactly how it was so I completely understand where other lads are coming from.

But thats not everyones experience. Plenty guys on here, forum users or not, get meets with women they fomd attractive. So you know....as I said maybe its not the site thats the issueluck pure luck. Add on top of that they could be pure swingers. Before I used the forums I couldn't of done anything more in my approach. you also said "women they find attractice" did you ever think they might be shagging anything just to get a ride?"
It might be an old saying but it's a true one some men would get up on a sick hen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meetsI cant keep repeating myself. My post that I just put up when I was first here, before using the forums is exactly how it was so I completely understand where other lads are coming from.

But thats not everyones experience. Plenty guys on here, forum users or not, get meets with women they fomd attractive. So you know....as I said maybe its not the site thats the issueluck pure luck. Add on top of that they could be pure swingers. Before I used the forums I couldn't of done anything more in my approach. you also said "women they find attractice" did you ever think they might be shagging anything just to get a ride?"

Firstly my phrasing was intented... they found them attractive, so the answer was in the statement.

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By *now_and_SunCouple
over a year ago

North Dublin

We have often why young guys are on here. Is old style dating dead. Chatting to women socially. And old style dating. Just wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... Not everyone is as good a white knight as you.

Love you too Ah white knights don't do it for me.

But but I can change..... Go on change let's see the man not the mouse.

See I knew you wanted to see more of me "
Yes sure show the Manly side not the mouse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok answer this one, the lads are doing all they're told and still getting nowhere, what's wrong?"

They are doing what they are told?

You did everything right?

It all sounds so boring doesnt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... Not everyone is as good a white knight as you.

Love you too Ah white knights don't do it for me.

But but I can change..... Go on change let's see the man not the mouse.

See I knew you wanted to see more of me Yes sure show the Manly side not the mouse."

Define manly?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meetsI cant keep repeating myself. My post that I just put up when I was first here, before using the forums is exactly how it was so I completely understand where other lads are coming from.

But thats not everyones experience. Plenty guys on here, forum users or not, get meets with women they fomd attractive. So you know....as I said maybe its not the site thats the issueluck pure luck. Add on top of that they could be pure swingers. Before I used the forums I couldn't of done anything more in my approach. you also said "women they find attractice" did you ever think they might be shagging anything just to get a ride?

Firstly my phrasing was intented... they found them attractive, so the answer was in the statement.

"
nobody knows whether they did or not only themselves. If a lad sets up a grand profile with pics and prides himself with polite opening mails, picking something from the profile. They ain't much more he can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... Not everyone is as good a white knight as you.

Love you too Ah white knights don't do it for me.

But but I can change..... Go on change let's see the man not the mouse.

See I knew you wanted to see more of me Yes sure show the Manly side not the mouse.

Define manly?"
The opposite of mouse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meets"

Says the man with no published verications.

Look, I'm no idiot. In order to post on the forums you have to have a verification. But I'm gonna give you a compliment... From your pics you have a good body and clearly work out.

So why doesn't a 36 year old experienced man with a good body have something like 10+ verications from women on here, right?

Sounds fair. Or could it be you are just posting in the forum being a white knight in a failed attempt thinking some woman will message you or, in more so in reality, hoping some woman will get back so you can privately mail here going "ah yeah they're idiots. Oh by the way my name is John"

Here's a spoiler. Many have done that. Many have failed and got no where.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meets

Says the man with no published verications.

Look, I'm no idiot. In order to post on the forums you have to have a verification. But I'm gonna give you a compliment... From your pics you have a good body and clearly work out.

So why doesn't a 36 year old experienced man with a good body have something like 10+ verications from women on here, right?

Sounds fair. Or could it be you are just posting in the forum being a white knight in a failed attempt thinking some woman will message you or, in more so in reality, hoping some woman will get back so you can privately mail here going "ah yeah they're idiots. Oh by the way my name is John"

Here's a spoiler. Many have done that. Many have failed and got no where.

"

Firstly you dont need a veri to post on the forums.

And you dont need veris to get meets.

It all goes back to approach and how you interact with people.

Im not white knighting anyone, I dont see anyone in need of it.

I was speaking directly to yourself and dontbesilly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meets

Says the man with no published verications.

Look, I'm no idiot. In order to post on the forums you have to have a verification. But I'm gonna give you a compliment... From your pics you have a good body and clearly work out.

So why doesn't a 36 year old experienced man with a good body have something like 10+ verications from women on here, right?

Sounds fair. Or could it be you are just posting in the forum being a white knight in a failed attempt thinking some woman will message you or, in more so in reality, hoping some woman will get back so you can privately mail here going "ah yeah they're idiots. Oh by the way my name is John"

Here's a spoiler. Many have done that. Many have failed and got no where.

Firstly you dont need a veri to post on the forums.

And you dont need veris to get meets.

It all goes back to approach and how you interact with people.

Im not white knighting anyone, I dont see anyone in need of it.

I was speaking directly to yourself and dontbesilly."
Lol white knight thick smoke and loud loud music.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hate to say it lads but it might just be ye..... It could be. It could be the fact I cant get up on anything maybe.

Fixed that for ya childs play.

Im sorry I couldnt resist.

I'm sure your standards and preferences narrow your choices but its still.not as hard as you make out to get meets

Says the man with no published verications.

Look, I'm no idiot. In order to post on the forums you have to have a verification. But I'm gonna give you a compliment... From your pics you have a good body and clearly work out.

So why doesn't a 36 year old experienced man with a good body have something like 10+ verications from women on here, right?

Sounds fair. Or could it be you are just posting in the forum being a white knight in a failed attempt thinking some woman will message you or, in more so in reality, hoping some woman will get back so you can privately mail here going "ah yeah they're idiots. Oh by the way my name is John"

Here's a spoiler. Many have done that. Many have failed and got no where.

Firstly you dont need a veri to post on the forums.

And you dont need veris to get meets.

It all goes back to approach and how you interact with people.

Im not white knighting anyone, I dont see anyone in need of it.

I was speaking directly to yourself and dontbesilly. Lol white knight thick smoke and loud loud music. "
Sorry that should be Bright lights thick smoke.Lol pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Lol pmsl"

At least someone is at your jokes Har

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Lol pmsl

At least someone is at your jokes Har

Mwah"
get outa that garden.

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