FabSwingers.com forum: No Spanking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked?

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By *HandDNCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Its your own fault for having such a spankable ass.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked? "

Have to be honest, I think its pointless, if asked I will partake but I get nothing out of it apart from her enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked? "

it's the grey wannabe's trying to be different from the rest of the lads here. Either that or they watch too much porn and think it's normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm good with a bit of light rough play but a bit of a lightweight at spanking, turns out more of a tap than a proper spank when I am with someone that likes it

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Spanking does not have to be painful. Similarly, nothing in BDSM needs to be painful, unless the bottom wants it. I was on a workshop and was shown that caning does not need to hurt. There is a thing called sensual kink.

Yes, you do have a lovely arse.

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By *laymates30Couple
over a year ago

The West

Nope not into spanking either - does nothing for either of us.

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked? "

I'm def guilty of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all forums of spanking. That sting drives me wild.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a good ol headbutt, riggt between the cheeks

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Was spanked enough as a kid thanks

Does nothing sexually for me at all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about a good ol headbutt, riggt between the cheeks

Shhhh or it might become a thing

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"What about a good ol headbutt, riggt between the cheeks

Or a wedgie...? Before I run away and fall down laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked? "

Im not into pain as well. Im very sensitive. Gentle spank is fine

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Gentle spank is fine

A bit of spanking, is like adding spice to your favourite sexual play.

Not everyone likes "spicy"

, but thanks God, plenty of people on Fab do.

Some people even go "extra spicy", but this is another topic and needs a post of its own .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gentle spank is fine

A bit of spanking, is like adding spice to your favourite sexual play.

Not everyone likes "spicy"

, but thanks God, plenty of people on Fab do.

Some people even go "extra spicy", but this is another topic and needs a post of its own .

Oh I’d be up for spanking a man noooooo problem but no interest in receiving

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Oh I’d be up for spanking a man noooooo problem but no interest in receiving "

Oh me.. me.. pick me... !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked? "

It's even worse when they spank the hip bone and not the ass......so I'm told

Keep it playful lads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked? "

If they're asking, they're probably wannabies having read 50 shades of something.

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

I don't like it either, not into any pain....don't mind giving it though lol...

Debs x

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"It's even worse when they spank the hip bone and not the ass......so I'm told

I hate it too when that happens.

The spanking should be on the middle of the butt cheeks, away from the sciatic nerve and the sides and on the center, were the fatty/muscle area is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the very opposite, i have ask guys to spank me lol. OP, if you really don't like it out it in big bold writing on you bio...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked?

It's even worse when they spank the hip bone and not the ass......so I'm told

Keep it playful lads."

Yes I notice that to the hip is not comfortable. It has to be done right or it can be a turn off...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am the very opposite, i have ask guys to spank me lol. OP, if you really don't like it out it in big bold writing on you bio... "

I have not meeting on my bio lol

It’s what I’m asked all the time sorta obvious women must like it because they think my eyes are going to light up and say oh yes please. Just wondering is it more unusual not to like it. ( that make sense)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women are just downright naughty and deserve a good ol’ spanking regardless of what they want!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a lady does not like it then I wouldn't do it

would a tickle do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am the very opposite, i have ask guys to spank me lol. OP, if you really don't like it out it in big bold writing on you bio...

I have not meeting on my bio lol

Not an opening line I'd use lol

Naive me thinks it's best to wait until the heat of the moment when your asked to do it to find out if they like it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a lady does not like it then I wouldn't do it

would a tickle do

Us men all know that No actually means Yesssss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am the very opposite, i have ask guys to spank me lol. OP, if you really don't like it out it in big bold writing on you bio...

I have not meeting on my bio lol

Everyone has different likes and dislikes OP, there is still room on your for when you do choose the perfect candidate lol. It's just good to have it on there, it's just a suggestion xx. At least people will know then when they see it in bold when they read your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am the very opposite, i have ask guys to spank me lol. OP, if you really don't like it out it in big bold writing on you bio...

I have not meeting on my bio lol

True

might tick the boxes on the interests

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am the very opposite, i have ask guys to spank me lol. OP, if you really don't like it out it in big bold writing on you bio...

I have not meeting on my bio lol

Not an opening line I'd use lol

Naive me thinks it's best to wait until the heat of the moment when your asked to do it to find out if they like it? "

Naive you is smart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am the very opposite, i have ask guys to spank me lol. OP, if you really don't like it out it in big bold writing on you bio...

I have not meeting on my bio lol

Not an opening line I'd use lol

Naive me thinks it's best to wait until the heat of the moment when your asked to do it to find out if they like it?

Naive you is smart

Why thank you Miss Car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a lady does not like it then I wouldn't do it

would a tickle do

Us men all know that No actually means Yesssss"

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Maybe in your world

In my world yes means yes and no means no.

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By *ctoMan
over a year ago

Ranelagh

"Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked? "

So that’s a definite no then?

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By *un WifeWoman
over a year ago

City

"Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked? "

Am totally with u on this . . Pain is not fun !!

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By *upiter2000Woman
over a year ago

Tallaght

"Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked? "

Does absolutely nothing for me ... other than make wanna slap back lol and not in a kinky way

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By *axbigMan
over a year ago

carlow/dublin

Not my thing but each to there own

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I get asked it all the time too OP, and also get asked to do the spanking!

I enjoy a playful slap on the butt cheek and also enjoy giving them... But in a spontaneous, mischievous way. Being ordered to assume the position is a bit too 50 shades for me. Same with my floggers... They're soft and for sensual use, not pain. These are things I enjoy with long-term playmates though.. Ones who understand me, and I them...

Why some random guy messaging me needs to know if I like it or not always seems a bit naff. But even that is enough to indicate that we wouldn't be like-minded, so sometimes being asked the wrong questions helps filter out the unsuitable ones

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Not my thing but each to there own "

Prefer a riding crop and making them goose step around the bedroom eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a lady does not like it then I wouldn't do it

would a tickle do

Us men all know that No actually means Yesssss

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Maybe in your world

In my world yes means yes and no means no.

I wouldn't want to be on receiving end of a slap from u lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a lady does not like it then I wouldn't do it

would a tickle do

Us men all know that No actually means Yesssss

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Maybe in your world

In my world yes means yes and no means no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a lady does not like it then I wouldn't do it

would a tickle do

Us men all know that No actually means Yesssss

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Maybe in your world

In my world yes means yes and no means no.

It’s always women who don’t get humour irony and sarcasm. Jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a lady does not like it then I wouldn't do it

would a tickle do

Us men all know that No actually means Yesssss

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Maybe in your world

In my world yes means yes and no means no.

It’s always women who don’t get humour irony and sarcasm. Jeez"

Sarcasm is the lowest form of whit, i would think one should be careful with it. How is one to know it's homour, it is bond to be picked up wrong. Unless of course it a person who is like mind and same sarcastic whit as the other person

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I always ask what people like and what they don't like . if some one don't like certain stuff I don't annoy them

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

different strokes for different folks . that's the way it has to be.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I have met ladies who only kiss on the lips . that's fine bye me . I luv a good French kiss but some women don't like it

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Spanking does not have to be painful. Similarly, nothing in BDSM needs to be painful, unless the bottom wants it. I was on a workshop and was shown that caning does not need to hurt. There is a thing called sensual kink.

Yes, you do have a lovely arse.

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I would luv to try out that bdsm . but I have heard a lot of Dommes will leave you in bits .

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked? "

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For me, spanking is something that should be a little naughty

as well as flirty

& cheeky

but not painful

Maybe a disctinction needs to be made between playful smack in the ass spanking

and hardcore red raw arse spanking

if offered?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never experienced full throttle spanking, but a few playful swats mid cheek can certainly add a little something to play

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Hear it from women all the time too, boring "come over and dominate me daddy" pickup lines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t handle pain, a light tap or grabbing my ass is all good, but am I the only one here? seems like it’s all I’m asked by men is would I like to be spanked?

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For me, spanking is something that should be a little naughty

as well as flirty

& cheeky

but not painful

Maybe a disctinction needs to be made between playful smack in the ass spanking

and hardcore red raw arse spanking

if offered?

I have experienced the hard core spanking and bruising, i did like it but not as much the after effect so much. Was barely able to sit lol. I have not tried the cane yet but the sensual sound much nicer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy a firm spank now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never felt the need to smack a women’s bum while having sex , maybe just me but I think it’s like I am the boss kinda shit nope not my thing but each to their own

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By *exyd_ctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

I think it comes with having an ass pic up. The day we put up a pic of Janes behind, we got a load of one liners just asking did she want to be spanked.

Note for the men, these all got deleted

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick

I could find better use for my hands than spanking ass.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it comes with having an ass pic up. The day we put up a pic of Janes behind, we got a load of one liners just asking did she want to be spanked.

Note for the men, these all got deleted

She’s a gorgeous ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do enjoy a firm spank now and again

I could give you a firm hand miss, but i have read your profile and well no joy for me then xx

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