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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you got a side of the bed you sleep on? I sleep on the left but somehow ended up on the right last night and when MrB came to bed he didn’t move me over. I’m feeling very discombobulated this morning

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"Have you got a side of the bed you sleep on? I sleep on the left but somehow ended up on the right last night and when MrB came to bed he didn’t move me over. I’m feeling very discombobulated this morning "

Sleeping on wrong side of bed has absolutely nothing to do with discombolation... However if you got out of bed on wrong side..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Sleeping on wrong side of bed has absolutely nothing to do with discombolation... However if you got out of bed on wrong side.. "

Phew, lucky I budged over and got out my side! It’s going to be a good day after all

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By *oireloveCouple
over a year ago

Lisbon

I feel your pain. My husband understands my rigid need for the right hand side of the bed. My lover not so much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joys of been single no side of the bed, I sleep in the middle

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"I feel your pain. My husband understands my rigid need for the right hand side of the bed. My lover not so much! "

Oh oh!...totally incompatible... Lover is a rightie... You forgot to fill in bed position status on your profile to avoid mismatch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually start off by sleeping on the right hand side but end up in the middle sprawled out like a starfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When alone I sleep diagonally to cover all bases......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being right handed I sleep on the right ,so that when spooning I can use my right hand to reach over and pull her onto me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mind was blown by when i found out that a man and a woman will instinctively pick a side of the bed. Men apparently will pick the side of the bed furthest from the door. Its a survival instinct thus keeping us out of danger. Generally we pick the side closest to the window, enabling a quick and easy escape. A woman on the other hand will instinctively sleep closest to the door incase for some reason she needs to get to her children quickly should an emergency situation arise or her kids are in trouble. Does this ring true to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mind was blown by when i found out that a man and a woman will instinctively pick a side of the bed. Men apparently will pick the side of the bed furthest from the door. Its a survival instinct thus keeping us out of danger. Generally we pick the side closest to the window, enabling a quick and easy escape. A woman on the other hand will instinctively sleep closest to the door incase for some reason she needs to get to her children quickly should an emergency situation arise or her kids are in trouble. Does this ring true to anyone"

I sleep on the side furthest from the door, there goes that theory!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you got a side of the bed you sleep on? I sleep on the left but somehow ended up on the right last night and when MrB came to bed he didn’t move me over. I’m feeling very discombobulated this morning "

discombobulated needs to be used more often

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I just wish I was back in mine, I was so cosy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mind was blown by when i found out that a man and a woman will instinctively pick a side of the bed. Men apparently will pick the side of the bed furthest from the door. Its a survival instinct thus keeping us out of danger. Generally we pick the side closest to the window, enabling a quick and easy escape. A woman on the other hand will instinctively sleep closest to the door incase for some reason she needs to get to her children quickly should an emergency situation arise or her kids are in trouble. Does this ring true to anyone

I sleep on the side furthest from the door, there goes that theory!! "

Haha i knew someone was gonna crush that theory. Maybe just not as soon as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mind was blown by when i found out that a man and a woman will instinctively pick a side of the bed. Men apparently will pick the side of the bed furthest from the door. Its a survival instinct thus keeping us out of danger. Generally we pick the side closest to the window, enabling a quick and easy escape. A woman on the other hand will instinctively sleep closest to the door incase for some reason she needs to get to her children quickly should an emergency situation arise or her kids are in trouble. Does this ring true to anyone

I sleep on the side furthest from the door, there goes that theory!!

Haha i knew someone was gonna crush that theory. Maybe just not as soon as that "

My ex would always pick the furthest sode from the door in hotels then again we had no kids and I am pretty sure she wanted me dead so you could be onto something

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My mind was blown by when i found out that a man and a woman will instinctively pick a side of the bed. Men apparently will pick the side of the bed furthest from the door. Its a survival instinct thus keeping us out of danger. Generally we pick the side closest to the window, enabling a quick and easy escape. A woman on the other hand will instinctively sleep closest to the door incase for some reason she needs to get to her children quickly should an emergency situation arise or her kids are in trouble. Does this ring true to anyone"

This is us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is love a waterbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was listening to something similar on the radio the other morning It’s definitely a thing. I have the bed to myself but will still sleep on the same side and face the same direction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mind was blown by when i found out that a man and a woman will instinctively pick a side of the bed. Men apparently will pick the side of the bed furthest from the door. Its a survival instinct thus keeping us out of danger. Generally we pick the side closest to the window, enabling a quick and easy escape. A woman on the other hand will instinctively sleep closest to the door incase for some reason she needs to get to her children quickly should an emergency situation arise or her kids are in trouble. Does this ring true to anyone

I sleep on the side furthest from the door, there goes that theory!!

Haha i knew someone was gonna crush that theory. Maybe just not as soon as that

My ex would always pick the furthest sode from the door in hotels then again we had no kids and I am pretty sure she wanted me dead so you could be onto something"

Oh yeh if u had no kids then she was definately putting her own safety first and putting u directly in harms way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was listening to something similar on the radio the other morning It’s definitely a thing. I have the bed to myself but will still sleep on the same side and face the same direction. "

There is definately something in this. When i lived with my ex wife and kids i slept on the right side of the bed furthest from the door. Now that i live on my own i still sleep on the furthest side from the door despite it now being the left side of the bed.

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By *undubguy100Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Im left handed...left hand side for me...now...how Do you sleep...I literally have to be flat on my back..not my side...and my hands joined on my stomach....I'll be very comfortable in the coffin when I pop my clogs ????

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I always get in and out on the right... But literally sleep all over the bed

I actually find it virtually impossible to 'sleep' with anyone I move around an awful lot in my sleep, even just while drifting off, so I'm horribly aware that I might wake up my companion or keep them awake, and therefore end up wide awake all night and trying to stay still to allow them to sleep

As much as I love overnights and weekends, this is the bit that always worries me. I end up shattered through lack of sleep and not in a good way!! I have to really really really like someone and be very comfortable with them to share a bed for more than sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im left handed...left hand side for me...now...how Do you sleep...I literally have to be flat on my back..not my side...and my hands joined on my stomach....I'll be very comfortable in the coffin when I pop my clogs ????"

I used to be an undertaker. I can get u a cheap coffin when u need one

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By *undubguy100Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Cheers....hopefully in 50 years

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I generally sleep on my front with my hands under me as supports to take the pressure of the puppies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mind was blown by when i found out that a man and a woman will instinctively pick a side of the bed. Men apparently will pick the side of the bed furthest from the door. Its a survival instinct thus keeping us out of danger. Generally we pick the side closest to the window, enabling a quick and easy escape. A woman on the other hand will instinctively sleep closest to the door incase for some reason she needs to get to her children quickly should an emergency situation arise or her kids are in trouble. Does this ring true to anyone"

nope. i sleep closest to the door. I have heard a different one saying men sleep closest to the door in case of danger and to protect their other halves.

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I love to cuddle and fall asleep in someone's arms as the small spoon, totally naked, but I can't share the bed with someone else, the whole night.

Years of sleeping on my own, probably made it impossible for me to have a good sleep, when I have to share my bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally sleep on my front with my hands under me as supports to take the pressure of the puppies "

Does your hands not go dead and rubbery lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers....hopefully in 50 years"

Stay away from the door and u may just get your 50 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was listening to something similar on the radio the other morning It’s definitely a thing. I have the bed to myself but will still sleep on the same side and face the same direction.

There is definately something in this. When i lived with my ex wife and kids i slept on the right side of the bed furthest from the door. Now that i live on my own i still sleep on the furthest side from the door despite it now being the left side of the bed."

We would have issues

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I generally sleep on my front with my hands under me as supports to take the pressure of the puppies

Does your hands not go dead and rubbery lol"

Nope, I’ve created a fail safe technique.

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast


"My mind was blown by when i found out that a man and a woman will instinctively pick a side of the bed. Men apparently will pick the side of the bed furthest from the door. Its a survival instinct thus keeping us out of danger. Generally we pick the side closest to the window, enabling a quick and easy escape. A woman on the other hand will instinctively sleep closest to the door incase for some reason she needs to get to her children quickly should an emergency situation arise or her kids are in trouble. Does this ring true to anyone

I sleep on the side furthest from the door, there goes that theory!!

Haha i knew someone was gonna crush that theory. Maybe just not as soon as that "

I sleep on the left side BUT always make sure it's closest to the door x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mind was blown by when i found out that a man and a woman will instinctively pick a side of the bed. Men apparently will pick the side of the bed furthest from the door. Its a survival instinct thus keeping us out of danger. Generally we pick the side closest to the window, enabling a quick and easy escape. A woman on the other hand will instinctively sleep closest to the door incase for some reason she needs to get to her children quickly should an emergency situation arise or her kids are in trouble. Does this ring true to anyone

nope. i sleep closest to the door. I have heard a different one saying men sleep closest to the door in case of danger and to protect their other halves. "

Or maybe they want to be closer to the exit

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I love to cuddle and fall asleep in someone's arms as the small spoon, totally naked, but I can't share the bed with someone else, the whole night.

Years of sleeping on my own, probably made it impossible for me to have a good sleep, when I have to share my bed.

"

I still laugh when I remember a threesome a few years back with 2 single friends where we all slept in the same double bed afterwards.. I was in the middle trying not to wake anyone, my female friend on my right was starfished across half the bed, and slept like the dead, and my male friend on my left was spooning me while bracing himself with one foot against the wall so he didn't fall out... I thought he was being terribly affectionate as he was hugging me so close... Turns out he was hanging on for dear life!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was listening to something similar on the radio the other morning It’s definitely a thing. I have the bed to myself but will still sleep on the same side and face the same direction. "

So do I when on my own, sleep on my left side, in the left side of the bed. I think it's because as a child, I slept in a bed which had it's right side up against the wall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally sleep on my front with my hands under me as supports to take the pressure of the puppies

Does your hands not go dead and rubbery lol

Nope, I’ve created a fail safe technique."

I need a picture of said technique

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I always get in and out on the right... But literally sleep all over the bed

I actually find it virtually impossible to 'sleep' with anyone I move around an awful lot in my sleep, even just while drifting off, so I'm horribly aware that I might wake up my companion or keep them awake, and therefore end up wide awake all night and trying to stay still to allow them to sleep

As much as I love overnights and weekends, this is the bit that always worries me. I end up shattered through lack of sleep and not in a good way!! I have to really really really like someone and be very comfortable with them to share a bed for more than sex. "

I can understand this! Having sex with someone is easier than sleeping with them

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"My mind was blown by when i found out that a man and a woman will instinctively pick a side of the bed. Men apparently will pick the side of the bed furthest from the door. Its a survival instinct thus keeping us out of danger. Generally we pick the side closest to the window, enabling a quick and easy escape. A woman on the other hand will instinctively sleep closest to the door incase for some reason she needs to get to her children quickly should an emergency situation arise or her kids are in trouble. Does this ring true to anyone"

Yes, that's exactly how we sleep and was the same in previous home. Mad stuff!

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare


"I feel your pain. My husband understands my rigid need for the right hand side of the bed. My lover not so much! "

This way you don't even have to open your eyes or reach out a leg to know if it's me or him beside you but do I get any thanks, noooo

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I sleep on the left edge of the bed, on my side, taking up as little room as possible, gripping the duvet in my hands as tightly as possible, with my back to the rest of the bed.

Just kidding, I'm not married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lay on my tummy and diagonal across the bed, can't beat sprawling out

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By *oireloveCouple
over a year ago

Lisbon


"I feel your pain. My husband understands my rigid need for the right hand side of the bed. My lover not so much!

This way you don't even have to open your eyes or reach out a leg to know if it's me or him beside you but do I get any thanks, noooo "

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