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Ladies, what are the qualities you find attractive in an older man?

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By *antra Massage OP   Man
over a year ago

city

A question for the ladies, but all feel free to join in. Comparing UK and Irish forums, the average age is younger among Irish fabbers. Yet, there are many older men here and some find it difficult to get a meet. You decide for yourself what older might be for you. But what qualities do you find attractive in the older fabber?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence

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By *antra Massage OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"Confidence "

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By *arbiegirl19Woman
over a year ago

Hollymount


"Confidence "

Someone that has their own teeth

And has use of their arms and legs are good...

Hair is optional...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence

Experience

Patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence definitely, but older men particularly are easier to talk to and often more interesting as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would the qualities really change depending on the age of the person someone is looking for?

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

Not for me, I have kids in their 20s so younger is a turn off, be over 40s for me and even that depends if I'm looking solo

SG

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

The experience, confidence and the certain calmness that comes with age. The chances that they have something to prove to themselves is way smaller, but cherish what they get, take their time to enjoy and return the pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The experience, confidence and the certain calmness that comes with age. The chances that they have something to prove to themselves is way smaller, but cherish what they get, take their time to enjoy and return the pleasure. "

Coming from a lady wearing overalls

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel more relaxed and comfortable with an older man x

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I like the older wimmins who have Zimmer frames. It's a massive turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my age, an older man needs two things, a big bank account and a dicky ticker.

I jest of course, but truth be told, I have never been attracted to men more than a couple of years older than myself. And at this stage, any qualities of confidence, maturity etc should surely have been attained by men of my own age and a few years younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an older man... lots of daily views, but not many messages or offers for coffee ... but it's the old dog for the long road

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

I prefer older men

Though they must be good looking, charming and in good shape.

And have other qualities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The experience, confidence and the certain calmness that comes with age. The chances that they have something to prove to themselves is way smaller, but cherish what they get, take their time to enjoy and return the pleasure. "

This

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By *antra Massage OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"Confidence

Someone that has their own teeth

And has use of their arms and legs are good...

Hair is optional...lol "

Eh.. Some of us lost our hair early on. That's why the shaved look is so popular.

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By *antra Massage OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"The experience, confidence and the certain calmness that comes with age. The chances that they have something to prove to themselves is way smaller, but cherish what they get, take their time to enjoy and return the pleasure. "
I started this thread in response to a few threads in the UK and Irish forums. There's lots of affirmations in favour of the older man that guys can add to their profile. Thanks DH.

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By *orny irish 300Couple
over a year ago

middle of no where..

I don't have an age group.. if the guy in nice respectful and clean.. will go where it leads..??

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By *arbiegirl19Woman
over a year ago

Hollymount


"Confidence

Someone that has their own teeth

And has use of their arms and legs are good...

Hair is optional...lol

Eh.. Some of us lost our hair early on. That's why the shaved look is so popular. "

I think the shaved look is very sexy on a man...as long as he has tattoos and well built...lol

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By *antra Massage OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"Confidence

Someone that has their own teeth

And has use of their arms and legs are good...

Hair is optional...lol

Eh.. Some of us lost our hair early on. That's why the shaved look is so popular.

I think the shaved look is very sexy on a man...as long as he has tattoos and well built...lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate the word older, prefer mature Or experienced ,

I'm a sucker for a man with a rugby built

Rough n ready

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

As an older gentleman I feel I've lived life to the fullest and have a lot of life experience, sexual experience, honed humour and most of all an attitude of being happy in my own skin with nothing to prove to myself or anyone. It's very liberating when you are sure of yourself and don't really give a damm as to what anyone else thinks of you. Topped with being in better shape than I was when I was 17 I feel as a lover / sex partner I'm streaks ahead of the under 30 me. I'm outside the age filters of many women and think what a shame and how shortsighted of them but view it as their loss.

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By *antra Massage OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"As an older gentleman I feel I've lived life to the fullest and have a lot of life experience, sexual experience, honed humour and most of all an attitude of being happy in my own skin with nothing to prove to myself or anyone. It's very liberating when you are sure of yourself and don't really give a damm as to what anyone else thinks of you. Topped with being in better shape than I was when I was 17 I feel as a lover / sex partner I'm streaks ahead of the under 30 me. I'm outside the age filters of many women and think what a shame and how shortsighted of them but view it as their loss."

I think we should meet for a pint and chat some time. I could see lots of women here admiring your qualities, and your physique. In fact, I'd say if you were busy fabbing in the UK, your body would be worn out. I've lived in European countries where age difference plays little importance in relationships and its very common to meet couples with a 25 year age difference. However, in Israel, a difference of a few years is considered too much.Thanks Commando.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would the qualities really change depending on the age of the person someone is looking for?"

Definitely not. I met people both genders and different age and it is all about personality, manners, respect and patience.

I can honestly say that met just one man 40+ whom I can trust and with whom I have really good connection. Pity.

Stop moaning guys, do something and change it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll probably get killed for this but in general , I don’t like older men espically older Irish men or even men around my own age , I find they just don’t look after themselfs well .

I am no gym bunny but i train at least 4 times a week and try to watch what I eat (mostly ) and I’m attracted to guys who are the same .

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"I’ll probably get killed for this but in general , I don’t like older men espically older Irish men or even men around my own age , I find they just don’t look after themselfs well .

I am no gym bunny but i train at least 4 times a week and try to watch what I eat (mostly ) and I’m attracted to guys who are the same ."

I'd love to watch what you eat so maybe we're compatible ?

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By *antra Massage OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"Would the qualities really change depending on the age of the person someone is looking for?

Definitely not. I met people both genders and different age and it is all about personality, manners, respect and patience.

I can honestly say that met just one man 40+ whom I can trust and with whom I have really good connection. Pity.

Stop moaning guys, do something and change it!

"

This is a way to change things. By inviting women to reveal what they find appealing about older men, men who are unaware that they actually possess these desirable qualities, can wake up and re write their profiles.

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By *otcple1000Couple
over a year ago

Naas

Confidence... A straight talking listener with opinions.. who is not afraid to tell me when I'm wrong!

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"Confidence... A straight talking listener with opinions.. who is not afraid to tell me when I'm wrong! "

You're wrong!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have an age group.. if the guy in nice respectful and clean.. will go where it leads..??"

Totally agree but has to be over 28 at the lowest.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I think they like a man who is not afraid to ask them what they like.

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By *otcple1000Couple
over a year ago

Naas


"Confidence... A straight talking listener with opinions.. who is not afraid to tell me when I'm wrong!

You're wrong!... "

Exactly what I need!!!...

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"A question for the ladies, but all feel free to join in. Comparing UK and Irish forums, the average age is younger among Irish fabbers. Yet, there are many older men here and some find it difficult to get a meet. You decide for yourself what older might be for you. But what qualities do you find attractive in the older fabber? "

As an older man once told me ...with maturity comes a villa in France ....lol

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"Confidence... A straight talking listener with opinions.. who is not afraid to tell me when I'm wrong!

You're wrong!...

Exactly what I need!!!... "

Except for those pics of yours which are sooooo right!

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By *otcple1000Couple
over a year ago

Naas


"Confidence... A straight talking listener with opinions.. who is not afraid to tell me when I'm wrong!

You're wrong!...

Exactly what I need!!!...

Except for those pics of yours which are sooooo right! "

As are yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As an older man once told me ...with maturity comes a villa in France ....lol"

Hahaha if you have a tent we can go camping together

It's all about a fun

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"Confidence... A straight talking listener with opinions.. who is not afraid to tell me when I'm wrong!

You're wrong!...

Exactly what I need!!!...

Except for those pics of yours which are sooooo right!

As are yours "

Possibly straying off topic here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have an age group.. if the guy in nice respectful and clean.. will go where it leads..??

Totally agree but has to be over 28 at the lowest. "

18 to 99 is an age group

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Confidence... A straight talking listener with opinions.. who is not afraid to tell me when I'm wrong! "
if giving an opinion on something, nobody Is wrong. It's an opinion. Everybody has one

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I don't have an age group.. if the guy in nice respectful and clean.. will go where it leads..??

Totally agree but has to be over 28 at the lowest.

18 to 99 is an age group "

a good looking in shape 60 yo. That's one to try out.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Dammit!

Was hoping some lady would say a well matured beer gut, moobs and floppy midget cock.

Ah well, the hunt goes on

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By *otcple1000Couple
over a year ago

Naas


"Confidence... A straight talking listener with opinions.. who is not afraid to tell me when I'm wrong! if giving an opinion on something, nobody Is wrong. It's an opinion. Everybody has one "

You are 100% right!

But I'm not here for semantics... Now where was I.. Ah yes!...

Seaaaaaaannnn!

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By *c90Man
over a year ago

Noiseville


"Confidence... A straight talking listener with opinions.. who is not afraid to tell me when I'm wrong! "

Well your not wrong there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older Men are just are the Best ...I swear its not an Older man posting this

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By *antra Massage OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"A question for the ladies, but all feel free to join in. Comparing UK and Irish forums, the average age is younger among Irish fabbers. Yet, there are many older men here and some find it difficult to get a meet. You decide for yourself what older might be for you. But what qualities do you find attractive in the older fabber?

As an older man once told me ...with maturity comes a villa in France ....lol"

It's on my bucket list.

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