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 If you can't mail me, say so on the thread and I'll mail you.
Fwb matches will be mailed to everyone at the weekend  
Lastly folks... You can't 'order up' a specific fabber as your fwb. If you could, you'd have managed to arrange to meet them yourself by now | |||
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Think of Ama*on’s success having a warehouse full of useless items that people take in, there are a lot of Fabbers and fake profiles in here that could completely do with this service .
Again Dair okay OP for keeping momentous task going. Much appreciated. | |||
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"Ahhh yes... But those inanimate items in Amazon's warehouses don't care or have a say about who they are sent to, do they? "That’s not what Jeff is saying he says the whole company of robots care | |||
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"Bumping this back up to see will more ladies join in " Think op said a lot of non forumites have been in touch so don't fear I'm sure plenty ladies to go around lol | |||
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Those who asked for fwbs on either thread but didn't mail me or ask to be mailed... Sorry... But I'm not chasing/including you.
As of this morning there are 267 people from all over the country actively taking part in the FWB match up.... Far, far more than I had anticipated... But its been lovely chatting and getting to know you all even just a little, and it's provided some wonderful insights into how people interpret certain things differently and things get lost in translation, and also how hard it can be sometimes to communicate a particular element of attraction... That indefinable 'je ne sais quoi' that so many desire.
It's gotten me thinking though, and I might look at regional FWB Match Up Mingles at some point in the future when I'm free to start hosting again. So if anyone from any of the provinces would be interested in co-hosting, please let me know! | |||
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"Well done PlayD8, it's been a pleasure chatting, you've taken on such a mammoth task and pulled it off, you're a legend "This ???? | |||
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"Bumping this back up to see will more ladies join in Think op said a lot of non forumites have been in touch so don't fear I'm sure plenty ladies to go around lol" Mmmmmmm now who could they be  | |||
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"Bumping this back up to see will more ladies join in Think op said a lot of non forumites have been in touch so don't fear I'm sure plenty ladies to go around lol" Correct! To avoid being pestered, quite a lot of ladies just mailed me directly and told me what they're looking for. In fact so did a few men and couples. I suppose if you put it all out there publicly, you run the risk of people mailing you and just saying what they think you want to hear to get a meet, whether they actually mean it or not. Even within this I had to separate out those who want and fwb and those who will take either, as it wouldn't be fair to match someone who specifically wanted a friend with benefits with someone who may only see them as a fuck buddy. But at the end of the day... I'm only making suggestions on who might match with who... After that it's up to the individuals to act on it or not | |||
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"Bumping this back up to see will more ladies join in Think op said a lot of non forumites have been in touch so don't fear I'm sure plenty ladies to go around lol Correct! To avoid being pestered, quite a lot of ladies just mailed me directly and told me what they're looking for. In fact so did a few men and couples. I suppose if you put it all out there publicly, you run the risk of people mailing you and just saying what they think you want to hear to get a meet, whether they actually mean it or not. Even within this I had to separate out those who want and fwb and those who will take either, as it wouldn't be fair to match someone who specifically wanted a friend with benefits with someone who may only see them as a fuck buddy. But at the end of the day... I'm only making suggestions on who might match with who... After that it's up to the individuals to act on it or not "Again, mentioned if a few posts Fair play Playd it’s a big task to take on and appreciated just to let you know. | |||
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"did anyone mail youlooking for me "A few asked for Tom Hardy... At this time I can neither confirm nor deny that Tom Hardy is taking part in the Match Up | |||
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"Bumping this back up to see will more ladies join in Think op said a lot of non forumites have been in touch so don't fear I'm sure plenty ladies to go around lol Mmmmmmm now who could they be "Not me | |||
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"did anyone mail youlooking for me
A few asked for Tom Hardy... At this time I can neither confirm nor deny that Tom Hardy is taking part in the Match Up "I’m in FWB I can’t email you can you can u reply to me plz. | |||
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"Fair play to you PlayD8, you certainly have a massive task on your hands now. I hope you will get a FB or a fwb from this too for all your hard work. "I'm not looking for either, so it's easy for me to be objective. I'm not fighting the urge to call 'dibs' on anyone | |||
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"did anyone mail youlooking for me
A few asked for Tom Hardy... At this time I can neither confirm nor deny that Tom Hardy is taking part in the Match Up
I’m in FWB I can’t email you can you can u reply to me plz.
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FWB or FB. Preferrably the FWB, but not gonna turn my nose up at a FB  | |||
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"Can we still apply for this?" Yup... Closing it tonight. | |||
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"did anyone mail youlooking for me
A few asked for Tom Hardy... At this time I can neither confirm nor deny that Tom Hardy is taking part in the Match Up "Henry Cavill will do me nicely either  | |||
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"did anyone mail youlooking for me
A few asked for Tom Hardy... At this time I can neither confirm nor deny that Tom Hardy is taking part in the Match Up
Henry Cavill will do me nicely either "Who told you I was on Fab | |||
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"did anyone mail youlooking for me
A few asked for Tom Hardy... At this time I can neither confirm nor deny that Tom Hardy is taking part in the Match Up
Henry Cavill will do me nicely either
Who told you I was on Fab "It was your "Immortals" pic gave you away  | |||
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"did anyone mail youlooking for me
A few asked for Tom Hardy... At this time I can neither confirm nor deny that Tom Hardy is taking part in the Match Up
Henry Cavill will do me nicely either
Who told you I was on Fab
It was your "Immortals" pic gave you away "Dam I must change that. | |||
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"I couldn’t reply privately and just saw the reply now Does this mean I’m in or out? I totally understand if I’m out now but would still love a chance to be in ????" Sorry... I had to cut it off somewhere or I'd never be able to give people their matches. | |||
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"Apologies to those who missed out on the deadline or who didn't follow up on their initial post, but given that I've had conversations with all 278 people who actively participated since Sunday, and some are eagerly awaiting their match suggestions, I had to put a time limit on entries, and couldn't be chasing up inactive entries either. Messages going out tomorrow!! "Well done op. Not an easy task. And hopefully everyone you pair up will at least get in touch with each other. | |||
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"Apologies to those who missed out on the deadline or who didn't follow up on their initial post, but given that I've had conversations with all 278 people who actively participated since Sunday, and some are eagerly awaiting their match suggestions, I had to put a time limit on entries, and couldn't be chasing up inactive entries either. Messages going out tomorrow!! "Wow, well done you and thank you so much for the huge amount of time and effort. Good luck everyone | |||
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Will send out next lot as soon as I've unscrambled my brain | |||
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"Apologies to those who missed out on the deadline or who didn't follow up on their initial post, but given that I've had conversations with all 278 people who actively participated since Sunday, and some are eagerly awaiting their match suggestions, I had to put a time limit on entries, and couldn't be chasing up inactive entries either. Messages going out tomorrow!! "Wow that’s some job , well done | |||
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"First batch of matches gone out this morning... My poor little fingers!! Will send out next lot as soon as I've unscrambled my brain "You must be wrecked | |||
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"First batch of matches gone out this morning... My poor little fingers!! Will send out next lot as soon as I've unscrambled my brain "We have to wait until a woman’s brain is de-scrambelled! There have being teams of people trying to resolve that for years we could be waiting
We done OP for taking in the task. | |||
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"First batch of matches gone out this morning... My poor little fingers!! Will send out next lot as soon as I've unscrambled my brain "The suspense is killing me! | |||
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"First batch of matches gone out this morning... My poor little fingers!! Will send out next lot as soon as I've unscrambled my brain
The suspense is killing me! "Think of it as mental edging | |||
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"First batch of matches gone out this morning... My poor little fingers!! Will send out next lot as soon as I've unscrambled my brain
The suspense is killing me!
Think of it as mental edging "Feck I blew my mental load already ....... | |||
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"I can’t mail you privately but would love to get involved "Sorry but you missed out... Its finished. | |||
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"Apologies for delay folks... Had visitors arrive unexpectedly yesterday, so I am only managing to get the next batch of match suggestions out now "No need to apologise thanks for your hard work and effort | |||
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"Apologies for delay folks... Had visitors arrive unexpectedly yesterday, so I am only managing to get the next batch of match suggestions out now "I’d love yo arrive unexpectedly.....just saying | |||
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"Apologies for delay folks... Had visitors arrive unexpectedly yesterday, so I am only managing to get the next batch of match suggestions out now "it will be worth the wait no doubt | |||
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"Folks.. I'll mail you your matches when I can. Mailing me over and over asking if you've been matched yet just delays the process even more! Have a little patience please "Would you like a hand OP? I could circle my finger round a few while you type | |||
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"Folks.. I'll mail you your matches when I can. Mailing me over and over asking if you've been matched yet just delays the process even more! Have a little patience please "I demand a refund..... | |||
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"Folks.. I'll mail you your matches when I can. Mailing me over and over asking if you've been matched yet just delays the process even more! Have a little patience please
I demand a refund....."I demand a trial by combat......... now where is my shaft?......... | |||
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"Folks.. I'll mail you your matches when I can. Mailing me over and over asking if you've been matched yet just delays the process even more! Have a little patience please
I demand a refund.....
I demand a trial by combat......... now where is my shaft?........."Where is my luminous paint I want a lightsaber | |||
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"Folks.. I'll mail you your matches when I can. Mailing me over and over asking if you've been matched yet just delays the process even more! Have a little patience please "I always say PATIENCE is a key 
Why people are in rush?
I can wait even til next month my dear. And thank you for your time and effort | |||
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"Third batch gone out this morning... I'm at home with flu today so will hopefully get more out later. " God bless your patience. Keep warm and plenty of fluids xx | |||
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"Hi play ,I'm sure you must be still snowed under with enquiries!I was wondering are both matches going to be notified or just the ladies ?" Nope, all are done. I mailed you on Sunday with your matches. I did all the South Leinster/Munster ones that morning before I went to spend time with the Mammy
Will send again now, just in case | |||
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"Hi play ,I'm sure you must be still snowed under with enquiries!I was wondering are both matches going to be notified or just the ladies ? Nope, all are done. I mailed you on Sunday with your matches. I did all the South Leinster/Munster ones that morning before I went to spend time with the Mammy
Will send again now, just in case "Thanks a million, yes got your mail this time & I'm delighted. Much appreciated & thank you again . | |||
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"Hi Play I know this is over...have you a reserve list running by any chance
"Sorry but no. It was a monumental task... Far more involved and with far more people than I ever anticipated, aside from reading and replying to everyone's messages, I had to spend a couple of hours each morning or night shuffling through my notes to see who matched who, and sadly, as some areas only had a handful of people participating, not everyone could be matched (including women!). | |||
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"Hi Play I know this is over...have you a reserve list running by any chance
Sorry but no. It was a monumental task... Far more involved and with far more people than I ever anticipated, aside from reading and replying to everyone's messages, I had to spend a couple of hours each morning or night shuffling through my notes to see who matched who, and sadly, as some areas only had a handful of people participating, not everyone could be matched (including women!)."No problem..fair play to you for taking it on | |||
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"Hi Play I know this is over...have you a reserve list running by any chance
Sorry but no. It was a monumental task... Far more involved and with far more people than I ever anticipated, aside from reading and replying to everyone's messages, I had to spend a couple of hours each morning or night shuffling through my notes to see who matched who, and sadly, as some areas only had a handful of people participating, not everyone could be matched (including women!)."I'm sure you're head was pickled doing that Play! That was some task you ended up with, hopefully your efforts pay off. Thank you for doing it | |||
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Heartbroken 