FabSwingers.com forum: Sharing the pain of childbirth

By *verage Joe Black OP Man
over a year ago

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Don’t know why, but the “small cocks” thread reminded me of this...

Many years ago i was going out with a girl who was studying Social Anthropology at university.

She showed me a picture in a book one day of a tribe of people somewhere in south america that were around 50 yrs behind modern civilization.

The picture was of a woman in childbirth on a bed. Above and slightly behind her at the head of the bed, there was a seat where her husband was sitting. A cord or thin rope was extending from under what looked like shorts. The woman had the cord in her hand.

The cord was wrapped round the guys testes. Every time the woman had a labor pain or pushed, she pulled the cord so that the father of the child also feels the pain.

This was in this race of peoples culture; it was natural to them and all fathers went through it..!

Fair or unfair..??

(No BS - this is a true story)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg, not fair, strange but rather kinky ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t know why, but the “small cocks” thread reminded me of this...

Many years ago i was going out with a girl who was studying Social Anthropology at university.

She showed me a picture in a book one day of a tribe of people somewhere in south america that were around 50 yrs behind modern civilization.

The cord was wrapped round the guys testes. Every time the woman had a labor pain or pushed, she pulled the cord so that the father of the child also feels the pain.

This was in this race of peoples culture; it was natural to them and all fathers went through it..!

Fair or unfair..??

(No BS - this is a true story)"

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I think its the same tribe we are talking about whom thought that the sex is a holy ritual.

Regarding your question my answer is Yes

Why? Giving a birth is a painful miracle for women and that ritual just remind me being parents its a huge responsibility, and sharing the pain during the childbirth should show all the men what we feel. Maybe it is not nice but being in relationship you share bad and good together...

It is my point. People may agree or disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely fair lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a torsion and rupture below a few years ago and was told by docs was similar to labour. I never want it again! Fair fucks to ye ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely fair lol"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, fair to me is when a man steps up and does his share of the parenting for the next couple of decades.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol it's called having ya by the balls normal enough on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t know why, but the “small cocks” thread reminded me of this...

Many years ago i was going out with a girl who was studying Social Anthropology at university.

She showed me a picture in a book one day of a tribe of people somewhere in south america that were around 50 yrs behind modern civilization.

The cord was wrapped round the guys testes. Every time the woman had a labor pain or pushed, she pulled the cord so that the father of the child also feels the pain.

This was in this race of peoples culture; it was natural to them and all fathers went through it..!

Fair or unfair..??

(No BS - this is a true story)"

Childbirth isn't half as bad as getting a kick in the testies though.

You take a woman who just gave birth and 2 years later she says , God I think I'll have another.

You take a lad who just had a kick in the testies......... there's a good reason why he doesn't say the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfair. She has to take some pain in her pampered life. Pampered with mother and toddlers ( all them yummy milfs), given flowers all the time , wild whistles as she totters down the road, men lusting after her, doors opened for her, complimented on, given diamonds whereas for us guys, unless you support Man City or possibly Chelsea and 1 or 2 others , we are in a world of hurt most weekends, and get no sympathy when we roll in at 3 am and have a mother of all hangovers the next day. So no!!... suffer woman !!!

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By *verage Joe Black OP Man
over a year ago

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Childbirth isn't half as bad as getting a kick in the testies though.

You take a woman who just gave birth and 2 years later she says , God I think I'll have another.

You take a lad who just had a kick in the testies......... there's a good reason why he doesn't say the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Childbirth isn't half as bad as getting a kick in the testies though.

You take a woman who just gave birth and 2 years later she says , God I think I'll have another.

You take a lad who just had a kick in the testies......... there's a good reason why he doesn't say the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I get 6 months off after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Childbirth isn't half as bad as getting a kick in the testies though.

You take a woman who just gave birth and 2 years later she says , God I think I'll have another.

You take a lad who just had a kick in the testies......... there's a good reason why he doesn't say the same thing

I know a guy who enjoys this , at kink events he will ask for ladies to kick him as hard as they can . Also know I guy who enjoys having his dick soaked with a crop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Childbirth isn't half as bad as getting a kick in the testies though.

You take a woman who just gave birth and 2 years later she says , God I think I'll have another.

You take a lad who just had a kick in the testies......... there's a good reason why he doesn't say the same thing

I know a guy who enjoys this , at kink events he will ask for ladies to kick him as hard as they can . Also know I guy who enjoys having his dick soaked with a crop "

Spanked not soaked damp autocorrect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?"

At your own expense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense "

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Childbirth isn't half as bad as getting a kick in the testies though.

You take a woman who just gave birth and 2 years later she says , God I think I'll have another.

You take a lad who just had a kick in the testies......... there's a good reason why he doesn't say the same thing

I know a guy who enjoys this , at kink events he will ask for ladies to kick him as hard as they can . Also know I guy who enjoys having his dick soaked with a crop "

Mmmmmmm kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men "

Nope its 2 weeks at the moment.

Which apparently only like 40% of mem are taking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men "

I actually agree they should too many women get left after two weeks without any support at home. Say it’s what causes a lot of depression with women it’s one big shock to the system. No matter how much you planned it

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By *verage Joe Black OP Man
over a year ago

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"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men "

After getting repeatedly kicked in the nads at a kink event, i think 8 weeks would likely be the recovery time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men

Nope its 2 weeks at the moment.

Which apparently only like 40% of mem are taking"

2 weeks at home with a screaming baby and a pussy that’s off limits ?. No wonder the guys aren’t interested lol.... better off going down the pub after work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men

Nope its 2 weeks at the moment.

Which apparently only like 40% of mem are taking

2 weeks at home with a screaming baby and a pussy that’s off limits ?. No wonder the guys aren’t interested lol.... better off going down the pub after work lol"

Think its more to do with workplaces not topping up the leave payments and household not being able to afford 2 people on reduced income....

But it could be your thing too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men

Nope its 2 weeks at the moment.

Which apparently only like 40% of mem are taking

2 weeks at home with a screaming baby and a pussy that’s off limits ?. No wonder the guys aren’t interested lol.... better off going down the pub after work lol"

Wow speechless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men

Nope its 2 weeks at the moment.

Which apparently only like 40% of mem are taking

2 weeks at home with a screaming baby and a pussy that’s off limits ?. No wonder the guys aren’t interested lol.... better off going down the pub after work lol

Wow speechless "

Not shocked at anything here anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men "

2 weeks is what the goverment have introduced but i have heard of some companies introducing up to 8 weeks. I took 4 weeks but had to use 2 weeks holidays on top of my leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men

Nope its 2 weeks at the moment.

Which apparently only like 40% of mem are taking

2 weeks at home with a screaming baby and a pussy that’s off limits ?. No wonder the guys aren’t interested lol.... better off going down the pub after work lol

Wow speechless

Not shocked at anything here anymore

Well it was a joke/ tongue in cheek etc.... a stab at humour. Ya know ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men

Nope its 2 weeks at the moment.

Which apparently only like 40% of mem are taking

2 weeks at home with a screaming baby and a pussy that’s off limits ?. No wonder the guys aren’t interested lol.... better off going down the pub after work lol

Wow speechless

Not shocked at anything here anymore

Well it was a joke/ tongue in cheek etc.... a stab at humour. Ya know ?"

My workplace is 8 weeks paid for men

And it wasn’t funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men

Nope its 2 weeks at the moment.

Which apparently only like 40% of mem are taking

2 weeks at home with a screaming baby and a pussy that’s off limits ?. No wonder the guys aren’t interested lol.... better off going down the pub after work lol"

actually quite enjoyed the time off after the birth of our last one. i didn't get to spend that time with my first. Babies that age are easy. only 3 things are major issues for them. Food, dirty nappy and sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

At your own expense

Think it’s 8 weeks paid now for men

Nope its 2 weeks at the moment.

Which apparently only like 40% of mem are taking

2 weeks at home with a screaming baby and a pussy that’s off limits ?. No wonder the guys aren’t interested lol.... better off going down the pub after work lol

Wow speechless

Not shocked at anything here anymore

Well it was a joke/ tongue in cheek etc.... a stab at humour. Ya know ?

My workplace is 8 weeks paid for men

And it wasn’t funny "

Awww diddums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh and in favour sure need something to do and if they make it they can take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohhhh and in favour sure need something to do and if they make it they can take it

Good way to make sure they the last labour anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohhhh and in favour sure need something to do and if they make it they can take it

Good way to make sure they the last labour anyway

Had an ex years ago who nearly fainted in boots just buying a pregnancy test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?"

Every woman on the globe prays and want to see a man in the full pregnancy and his comments during each stage and after giving a birth

This might be scientifically very interesting

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over a year ago

"Ohhhh and in favour sure need something to do and if they make it they can take it

Good way to make sure they the last labour anyway

Had an ex years ago who nearly fainted in boots just buying a pregnancy test

Poor fella

How dare you my dear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I get 6 months off after?

Every woman on the globe prays and want to see a man in the full pregnancy and his comments during each stage and after giving a birth

This might be scientifically very interesting

There’s experiments on YouTube not quite real but interesting how high women’s pain threashold is sometimes compared to men’s

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By *verage Joe Black OP Man
over a year ago

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I’m surprised that no-one has commented yet that it might be a very effective contraceptive for future pregnancies - especially as it would be the guy making sure all the contraception is in place as he doesnt want to go through that again..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see the rationale for that tribes thinking, particularly in light of some of the comments above as it might help some folk realise that it’s labour, not a walk in the park but women’s bodies are built for pregnancy and birth, testicles (with the exception of a few kinkier males) are not meant for being tied up with string and tugged!

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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do I get 6 months off after?

Every woman on the globe prays and want to see a man in the full pregnancy and his comments during each stage and after giving a birth

This might be scientifically very interesting

There’s experiments on YouTube not quite real but interesting how high women’s pain threashold is sometimes compared to men’s

We dont need to go so far to see it in real life. First example from my head is cold or having a fever

Sorry, to say it gentlemen but you are p...sies

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over a year ago

"I’m surprised that no-one has commented yet that it might be a very effective contraceptive for future pregnancies - especially as it would be the guy making sure all the contraception is in place as he doesnt want to go through that again..!!

It was in my head to mention few words but I won't scare young men lol

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"Do I get 6 months off after?

Every woman on the globe prays and want to see a man in the full pregnancy and his comments during each stage and after giving a birth

This might be scientifically very interesting

There’s experiments on YouTube not quite real but interesting how high women’s pain threashold is sometimes compared to men’s

We dont need to go so far to see it in real life. First example from my head is cold or having a fever

Sorry, to say it gentlemen but you are p...sies

Yep. True. We are p**sies. But let’s not forget that Man Flu is a very very very serious condition

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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do I get 6 months off after?

Every woman on the globe prays and want to see a man in the full pregnancy and his comments during each stage and after giving a birth

This might be scientifically very interesting

There’s experiments on YouTube not quite real but interesting how high women’s pain threashold is sometimes compared to men’s

We dont need to go so far to see it in real life. First example from my head is cold or having a fever

Sorry, to say it gentlemen but you are p...sies

Yep. True. We are p**sies. But let’s not forget that Man Flu is a very very very serious condition"

I cant stop laughing!

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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do I get 6 months off after?

Every woman on the globe prays and want to see a man in the full pregnancy and his comments during each stage and after giving a birth

This might be scientifically very interesting

There’s experiments on YouTube not quite real but interesting how high women’s pain threashold is sometimes compared to men’s

We dont need to go so far to see it in real life. First example from my head is cold or having a fever

Sorry, to say it gentlemen but you are p...sies

. Now what could those .... be

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over a year ago

"No, fair to me is when a man steps up and does his share of the parenting for the next couple of decades. "

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

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If women wanted fair they would have allowed the father of the child a say while its in the womb.

Their body, their choice, their pain, their financial burden. Its 2019 woop woop.

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