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By *trawberryCutie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

So I was asked do I give good head and so long as I do that's all that matters . Is it all about the guys needs or am I reading too much into it

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Reply with you give great head, as good as he gives good cunnilingus

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

The whole point is to satisfy each other's needs, not just one of ye.

Why should you make him happy if he's not going to make you happy?

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By *trawberryCutie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

And that's my point in a nutshell

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"And that's my point in a nutshell"

Not happy nut without shell being happy

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Although, better to make him cum, then he goes down on you, makes you cum, then he's recovered and a better fucking sess

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Although, better to make him cum, then he goes down on you, makes you cum, then he's recovered and a better fucking sess "

Session even

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

I always make sure lady is looked after first before my needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a guy one time and after 10 minutes of the worst fumbling iv ever experienced guy put his hands behind his head and said since I travelled all this way to meet you I think a blow job is in order

I looked at him and said unless you can suck it yourself your going to be disappointed

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By *argar90Man
over a year ago

lucan

Woman should always be pleased 1st. The better you do it for her the more she will put into the bj. That's my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman should always be pleased 1st. The better you do it for her the more she will put into the bj. That's my opinion anyway "
You are one gentleman I wish I was as thoughtful, awk well as long as I Cum I suppose

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"So I was asked do I give good head and so long as I do that's all that matters . Is it all about the guys needs or am I reading too much into it"

Without context, your question is difficult to answer. You’ve given us a fragment, but if the preceding summary of conversation was something like:

“We were talking about preferences and he said he loves to going down on ladies and adores pussy, but he didnt get as much pleasure out of sex any more. So I was asked do I give good head and so long as I do that's all that matters “

Then the opinion people may have to answer the question is very different..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I was asked do I give good head and so long as I do that's all that matters . Is it all about the guys needs or am I reading too much into it"

For that lad I would have thought any head would be good head.....

It must be earned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I was asked do I give good head and so long as I do that's all that matters . Is it all about the guys needs or am I reading too much into it"

Are we not all here for our own needs?

By all means make yours clear to him before you agree to meet but I see no problem in him asking about head if thats his thing

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By *exytvlegsTV/TS
over a year ago

North co dublin Ireland

It's about mutual sexual pleasure a lot of guys on here just don't get it.and of course there a lot of asswholes on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's about mutual sexual pleasure a lot of guys on here just don't get it.and of course there a lot of asswholes on here "
I agree as long as I Cum is all matters, but I'm partial to a bit of the old gush if I'm honest, not in car next time last night was a bit too messy, anyhoo treat with that respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met a guy one time and after 10 minutes of the worst fumbling iv ever experienced guy put his hands behind his head and said since I travelled all this way to meet you I think a blow job is in order

I looked at him and said unless you can suck it yourself your going to be disappointed

"

Fn right too !! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am sure a lot of guys only concern is what they get from an encounter but for lots more it's about mutual enjoyment. I for one get great pleasure from pleasing a partner, finding what stimulates her senses and if am lucky taking her to highs, doesn't always happen but if we are not both leaving with big smiles on our faces and filthy long lasting memories then I have failed...want to be remembered for what I gave not what I took but as long as were both on the same page we both win

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

If that's all they want then steer clear and send him back to the last century op. You are not here for use...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met a guy one time and after 10 minutes of the worst fumbling iv ever experienced guy put his hands behind his head and said since I travelled all this way to meet you I think a blow job is in order

I looked at him and said unless you can suck it yourself your going to be disappointed

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Thank godness I'm shite at bjs.

Sure be glad he told you in advance so you don't have to meet him.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

One of the main reasons I’ve stopped meeting is that the guys I seem to meet think it’s all about them. No concern or care if I’ve cum.. no effort put in.. it’s all about their end result.

Easier to stay home get out a toy, at least I’m guaranteed an orgasm.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Oral for both sex should be standard, for a fun meet I would have thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am sure a lot of guys only concern is what they get from an encounter but for lots more it's about mutual enjoyment. I for one get great pleasure from pleasing a partner, finding what stimulates her senses and if am lucky taking her to highs, doesn't always happen but if we are not both leaving with big smiles on our faces and filthy long lasting memories then I have failed...want to be remembered for what I gave not what I took but as long as were both on the same page we both win "
filthy as in....

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I would have interpreted that comment differently and thought he wasn't actually attracted to me, but would accept a bj. Sounds like a charmer either way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am sure a lot of guys only concern is what they get from an encounter but for lots more it's about mutual enjoyment. I for one get great pleasure from pleasing a partner, finding what stimulates her senses and if am lucky taking her to highs, doesn't always happen but if we are not both leaving with big smiles on our faces and filthy long lasting memories then I have failed...want to be remembered for what I gave not what I took but as long as were both on the same page we both win filthy as in...."

The filthy kind of pleasures you don't experience every day, that when you find the right playmate you can explore together with some imagination and an open mind as long as its enjoyable for both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am sure a lot of guys only concern is what they get from an encounter but for lots more it's about mutual enjoyment. I for one get great pleasure from pleasing a partner, finding what stimulates her senses and if am lucky taking her to highs, doesn't always happen but if we are not both leaving with big smiles on our faces and filthy long lasting memories then I have failed...want to be remembered for what I gave not what I took but as long as were both on the same page we both win filthy as in....

The filthy kind of pleasures you don't experience every day, that when you find the right playmate you can explore together with some imagination and an open mind as long as its enjoyable for both "
The filth is strong in this one hard to find someone as filthy tho...anyone? Beuller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am sure a lot of guys only concern is what they get from an encounter but for lots more it's about mutual enjoyment. I for one get great pleasure from pleasing a partner, finding what stimulates her senses and if am lucky taking her to highs, doesn't always happen but if we are not both leaving with big smiles on our faces and filthy long lasting memories then I have failed...want to be remembered for what I gave not what I took but as long as were both on the same page we both win filthy as in....

The filthy kind of pleasures you don't experience every day, that when you find the right playmate you can explore together with some imagination and an open mind as long as its enjoyable for both "

Surely oral isn’t extraordinary??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be very disappointed in myself if I didnt give a partner at least one orgasm .

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Pleasure is about giving pleasure and not just receiving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am sure a lot of guys only concern is what they get from an encounter but for lots more it's about mutual enjoyment. I for one get great pleasure from pleasing a partner, finding what stimulates her senses and if am lucky taking her to highs, doesn't always happen but if we are not both leaving with big smiles on our faces and filthy long lasting memories then I have failed...want to be remembered for what I gave not what I took but as long as were both on the same page we both win filthy as in....

The filthy kind of pleasures you don't experience every day, that when you find the right playmate you can explore together with some imagination and an open mind as long as its enjoyable for both

Surely oral isn’t extraordinary??"

Was thinking the same , isn’t it just a normal part of sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am sure a lot of guys only concern is what they get from an encounter but for lots more it's about mutual enjoyment. I for one get great pleasure from pleasing a partner, finding what stimulates her senses and if am lucky taking her to highs, doesn't always happen but if we are not both leaving with big smiles on our faces and filthy long lasting memories then I have failed...want to be remembered for what I gave not what I took but as long as were both on the same page we both win filthy as in....

The filthy kind of pleasures you don't experience every day, that when you find the right playmate you can explore together with some imagination and an open mind as long as its enjoyable for both

Surely oral isn’t extraordinary??

Was thinking the same , isn’t it just a normal part of sex ? "

Not oral, oral us fantastic for both when the effort is made but is hardly something extraordinary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Surely oral isn’t extraordinary??

Was thinking the same , isn’t it just a normal part of sex ?

Not oral, oral us fantastic for both when the effort is made but is hardly something extraordinary"

What if I go anticlockwise this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman should always be pleased 1st. The better you do it for her the more she will put into the bj. That's my opinion anyway "

Here here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking I’m lucky I’ve never found it an issue love giving and receiving equally. But I suppose if some egit said it was a pre condition to a meet then it would be the end of the meet.

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland


"So I was asked do I give good head and so long as I do that's all that matters. Is it all about the guy's needs or am I reading too much into it"

He sounds like a selfish guy, its all about mutual satisfaction and pleasure for both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I was asked do I give good head and so long as I do that's all that matters . Is it all about the guys needs or am I reading too much into it"

Ah shur good oral is great for both. But I hope you gorgeous gals don't judge the rest of us on the comments of these muppets.

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

I’m confused. Shouldn’t there be lots of foreplay before oral is even considered!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m confused. Shouldn’t there be lots of foreplay before oral is even considered!!!!"

No.... Im considering oral right now

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Very considerate of you

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By *argar90Man
over a year ago

lucan


"Woman should always be pleased 1st. The better you do it for her the more she will put into the bj. That's my opinion anyway

Here here!!!"

If your not going to do it right why bother

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