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By *shore OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

A simple questin....why is romance so hard.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

The Internet killed it!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"The Internet killed it!"

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

Ah old school romance is long gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Internet killed it!

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Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Internet killed it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah old school romance is long gone "

I disagree. I think I can be pretty romantic.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's a bit simplistic to blame the internet for the loss/lack of romance. I think it has more to do with the changed values, attitude and behaviour that go hand in hand of a modern disposable society. The internet might speed up the process but it isn't the cause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was there ever such thing as romance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not, all it takes is a bit of effort - on both sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go back to the simple ways ... the simple chat up lines always work and a smile I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go back to the simple ways ... the simple chat up lines always work and a smile I think "

Not the chat up lines that got

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"The Internet killed it!

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Its still out there romance, but we all want more fun , we still fall in love , but we love the exciting chase of fun sex kisses, don't forget the date nights

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Go back to the simple ways ... the simple chat up lines always work and a smile I think "

Oh I dont know some chat up lines were cringy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Fab the place for romance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is Fab the place for romance?"

Why not? All sorts of weird shit on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is Fab the place for romance?

Why not? All sorts of weird shit on here!"

Its not the first place I would join looking for romance but I do know a few who have met and hid their profile as they fell in love!

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By *shore OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

Is romantic that click that youonly find with the odd person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A simple questin....why is romance so hard."

Too much effort, especially for men. This is from my observation and a little experience since being divorced. Also people are scared for being in a relationship, more responsibilities. That's why fabs site is popular. Everyone wants a bit of fun

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By *ocforuMan
over a year ago

Cork City

Relationships are to much effort someone always gets hurt on here it's just good fun everyone is happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need for romance, dating scene has changed too. Everyone is looking for the quick fix etc so dating/hookup sites are easier.

Why would a person bother getting to know someone, going on a few dates etc when with the swipe of a screen they can get the ride without having to even buy dinner

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

I've met someone... we're taking our time, getting to know each other. Hes romantic and kind. Might not work but sure we can see. He wants to know all of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he know your a swinger yet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Romance is harder now for a few reasons.

Prople work longer hours now that ever before add in peoples screen time that didnt really exisit for previous generations and time spent interacting alone is way down, never mind romanance.

Also I think alot of what we see as traditional romace was based of outdated Gender roles.

I dont think its dead just changed.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Does he know your a swinger yet ?"

Is that important do you think? How early on in your relationships do you have the 'former partners' conversation, and if you do have it, do you include every one night stand or brief encounter you've ever had? What if you don't consider yourself a swinger? Does simply belonging to a swinging site make you one? Or do you have to be baptised by a bukkake gangbang? Do I ask too many questions?

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Does he know your a swinger yet ?

Is that important do you think? How early on in your relationships do you have the 'former partners' conversation, and if you do have it, do you include every one night stand or brief encounter you've ever had? What if you don't consider yourself a swinger? Does simply belonging to a swinging site make you one? Or do you have to be baptised by a bukkake gangbang? Do I ask too many questions? "

Probably

If I've told him about been on here or not is none of that guys business and irrelevant to the question asked by the OP. That was my reason for not bothering to respond to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does he know your a swinger yet ?

Is that important do you think? How early on in your relationships do you have the 'former partners' conversation, and if you do have it, do you include every one night stand or brief encounter you've ever had? What if you don't consider yourself a swinger? Does simply belonging to a swinging site make you one? Or do you have to be baptised by a bukkake gangbang? Do I ask too many questions? "

If someone is a swinger with the intention to continue swinging I think it needs to be a pretty early conversation.

I know there are alot of us who arent actually swingers but thats something onky the person themselves can answer. If you see yourself settling down then really its noones business who you have met and where you found them

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

What makes something a romance or makes a moment romantic? What

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Does he know your a swinger yet ?

Is that important do you think? How early on in your relationships do you have the 'former partners' conversation, and if you do have it, do you include every one night stand or brief encounter you've ever had? What if you don't consider yourself a swinger? Does simply belonging to a swinging site make you one? Or do you have to be baptised by a bukkake gangbang? Do I ask too many questions?

Probably

If I've told him about been on here or not is none of that guys business and irrelevant to the question asked by the OP. That was my reason for not bothering to respond to him "

Fair point. I'll shut up now

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Does he know your a swinger yet ?

Is that important do you think? How early on in your relationships do you have the 'former partners' conversation, and if you do have it, do you include every one night stand or brief encounter you've ever had? What if you don't consider yourself a swinger? Does simply belonging to a swinging site make you one? Or do you have to be baptised by a bukkake gangbang? Do I ask too many questions?

Probably

If I've told him about been on here or not is none of that guys business and irrelevant to the question asked by the OP. That was my reason for not bothering to respond to him

Fair point. I'll shut up now "

I liked all your questions... made my head spin ..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very very easy when you do it with a right person

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"A simple questin....why is romance so hard."

I suppose it shouldn't be hard with the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not impossible but most are scratching an itch. Romance requires someone to behave selflessly and people too selfish these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Romance is harder now for a few reasons.

Prople work longer hours now that ever before add in peoples screen time that didnt really exisit for previous generations and time spent interacting alone is way down, never mind romanance.

Also I think alot of what we see as traditional romace was based of outdated Gender roles.

I dont think its dead just changed.

"

Agree with you and others.

I think with the right person there will be always a place for a romance, even if we live so fast and chasing our dreams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not impossible but most are scratching an itch. Romance requires someone to behave selflessly and people too selfish these days. "

Very true, the modern world encourages us to be selfish.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath


"No need for romance, dating scene has changed too. Everyone is looking for the quick fix etc so dating/hookup sites are easier.

Why would a person bother getting to know someone, going on a few dates etc when with the swipe of a screen they can get the ride without having to even buy dinner "

Exactly this ... the Internet makes it too easy for a quick fix.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Does he know your a swinger yet ?

Is that important do you think? How early on in your relationships do you have the 'former partners' conversation, and if you do have it, do you include every one night stand or brief encounter you've ever had? What if you don't consider yourself a swinger? Does simply belonging to a swinging site make you one? Or do you have to be baptised by a bukkake gangbang? Do I ask too many questions?

If someone is a swinger with the intention to continue swinging I think it needs to be a pretty early conversation.

I know there are alot of us who arent actually swingers but thats something onky the person themselves can answer. If you see yourself settling down then really its noones business who you have met and where you found them"

What he said ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My definition of romance is probably way off but is it not doing little things to make the other person feel wanted, important, loved. Don’t think it’s gone just done differently now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of romance is probably way off but is it not doing little things to make the other person feel wanted, important, loved. Don’t think it’s gone just done differently now. "

That's exactly what it is, so many seem to think it's about grand gestures or flowery words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of romance is probably way off but is it not doing little things to make the other person feel wanted, important, loved. Don’t think it’s gone just done differently now. "

That would be my definition too. It's the little things that mean more even in friendship it's the little things that someone remembers or does for you.

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"My definition of romance is probably way off but is it not doing little things to make the other person feel wanted, important, loved. Don’t think it’s gone just done differently now. "

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

No, romance is not dead and gone. I meet lots of people who are looking for romance and love. When we find it, it may be fleeting, but always worth it.

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By *m35279Woman
over a year ago

belfast

To quote Mrs. Doubtfire, ‘why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?’

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"My definition of romance is probably way off but is it not doing little things to make the other person feel wanted, important, loved. Don’t think it’s gone just done differently now. "

Miss carr i think you've hit the nail on the head

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I have being known to be romantic

Brace yourself nora

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