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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's your understanding of flirting?? Chat, smiles and sweet talk? Gentle kisses? What are the boundaries? When is it more than flirting?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

If your fingers are wet, you've moved on from flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's subtle, kissing is not flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your understanding of flirting?? Chat, smiles and sweet talk? Gentle kisses? What are the boundaries? When is it more than flirting? "

I am not an expert in flirting. After divorce I have to learn how to do so

For me flirting starts from the smile, then eye contact, sweet chat and laugh, maybe a gentle kiss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she offers to suck your cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

imo when you've reached kissing you're past just flirting. Eye contact, smiling, cheeky talk...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"imo when you've reached kissing you're past just flirting. Eye contact, smiling, cheeky talk..."

Kissing in cheek is fine

The flirting is over when kissing in lips

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your fingers are wet, you've moved on from flirting "

No boundaries there than so!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When she offers to suck your cock "

I think that's more than flirting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Useless at it don’t know where to put my commas or exclamation marks. Much easier in person.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

It’s easy to batter the eyelids misscar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s easy to batter the eyelids misscar "

Sometimes

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

I'm useless at flirting too sarcastic haha and himself you'd have to pull his cock out for him to know your interested can't read signal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm useless at flirting too sarcastic haha and himself you'd have to pull his cock out for him to know your interested can't read signal "

Can’t open the damn belt

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere


"I'm useless at flirting too sarcastic haha and himself you'd have to pull his cock out for him to know your interested can't read signal

Can’t open the damn belt "
have to send him off in jogging bottoms haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't know how to flirt if my life depended on it

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I think you’re doing it in your profile picture already

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"If your fingers are wet, you've moved on from flirting

No boundaries there than so!"

I prefer to think of it as open-minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a look is all it takes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My flirting is trademarked, can't be sharing secrets it's got me this far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My flirting is trademarked, can't be sharing secrets it's got me this far "
the holy grail of flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't know where to start and as for a guy flirting with me, not a clue

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By *relandboy1Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Wouldn't know how to flirt if my life depended on it"

Do you know when someone is flirting with you?

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

Somethings it's just starts with that one eye look or that suttle touch. I think everyone has their own way of flirting that just comes natural..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact and a cheeky smile. The last date I was on, after a few drinks she pulled her chair closer to and as we were talking with full eye contact I had both hands resting on her legs and it was just natural flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My flirting is trademarked, can't be sharing secrets it's got me this far the holy grail of flirting "

Lipstick on someone’s collar I heard works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't know how to flirt if my life depended on it

Do you know when someone is flirting with you? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My flirting is trademarked, can't be sharing secrets it's got me this far the holy grail of flirting

Lipstick on someone’s collar I heard works "

Think that might be post flirting

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

I can never spot when someone is flirting with me. I usually have to rely on someone else spotting it, and telling me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eye contact and a cheeky smile. The last date I was on, after a few drinks she pulled her chair closer to and as we were talking with full eye contact I had both hands resting on her legs and it was just natural flirting "

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Bouncing playful jeers and slagings off each other while grinning and looking into each other's eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can never spot when someone is flirting with me. I usually have to rely on someone else spotting it, and telling me. "

Open your eyes wider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My flirting is trademarked, can't be sharing secrets it's got me this far the holy grail of flirting "

For now after I'm long gone it'll be available under the freedom of information act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's subtle, kissing is not flirting. "

I agree 100% once you kiss the flirt is over. Unless you can't back up the kiss.

I'm not a drinker and never the first to approach. But love the flirt. Nothing better than scanning a room of people and locking eyes with someone looking at you. Then it continues and moves on from there, moving yourself to a position where your accessible.

Flirting is a great thing to do

It makes both people feel good about themselves and how they look. The conversation are usually very interesting as well.

I love it. It's a bit of craic and everyone goes home happy.

That's what it's all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your fingers are wet, you've moved on from flirting "

That's stage two lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's subtle, kissing is not flirting.

I agree 100% once you kiss the flirt is over. Unless you can't back up the kiss.

I'm not a drinker and never the first to approach. But love the flirt. Nothing better than scanning a room of people and locking eyes with someone looking at you. Then it continues and moves on from there, moving yourself to a position where your accessible.

Flirting is a great thing to do

It makes both people feel good about themselves and how they look. The conversation are usually very interesting as well.

I love it. It's a bit of craic and everyone goes home happy.

That's what it's all about "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's subtle, kissing is not flirting. "

Agreed, but all that sexually charged energy bouncing around up to that point is the good stuff. Once there is a mutual attraction it is a LOT of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very limited understanding of it. I tend to think people are being friendly and treat them as such.

I don't pick up on the social tells like body language and eye contact.

Such is the joys of being high functioning and on the spectrum. "Aspergers" people just tend to think I'm really odd.

Trying to learn though if people do things like make contact via touch that tends to give me a very clear understanding even if it's just my hand.

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