FabSwingers.com forum: Periods

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why are people, men in particular so squeamish about them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really understand either, it’s a natural bodily function so it shouldn’t be off putting or embarrassing for anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god I hate them and I’m a women.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Coz they aren't pleasant for female lets face it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind at all. Always a shower close to wash you cvvk after

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Coz they aren't pleasant for female lets face it

This... Is there any woman who has ever thought 'ooooo... Can't wait for my period this month... I just love cramps and feeling bloated and wanting to shower every 5 minutes'?

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

I used be OK having sex with a woman while she was having a period. And then something changed in me. I'm not sure what is is, but it's associated with the smell of blood. Not so much the sight of it. It's a complete turnoff now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used be OK having sex with a woman while she was having a period. And then something changed in me. I'm not sure what is is, but it's associated with the smell of blood. Not so much the sight of it. It's a complete turnoff now. "

Yes, I find the smell of blood revolting myself. It's a natural instinct to be repelled by it I would imagine.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

It's just messy, smelly and dirty in general. It's not a big deal to repel from action until her period surpasses.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I cannot stand them every thing about them is horrendous..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are people, men in particular so squeamish about them?"

They attract bears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are people, men in particular so squeamish about them?"

My experience has been the lady is more embarrassed or hates it. That's also understandable here on Fab when you're playing with strangers. It's different if its a partner.

Youre also meeting single men, little experience of what's involved.

Another thing to consider is being blood, there's a much higher risk of infections being passed.

For me the woman is much much more horny then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't mind at all. Always a shower close to wash you cvvk after"

Or the condom

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Thank heavens for the menopause lol

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Thank heavens for the menopause lol"

Bring it on I say!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood why people are funny about period blood myself. I don’t see what the problem is apart from messy sheets.

Leakage from anal play would be something I could understand being squeamish about though!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Never understood why people are funny about period blood myself. I don’t see what the problem is apart from messy sheets.

Leakage from anal play would be something I could understand being squeamish about though!

Oh aye!!!

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Why are people, men in particular so squeamish about them?"

Nope no issues at all here once the lady is ok

just won't be doing any oral

Sixx

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

"Thank heavens for the menopause lol

Bring it on I say!!

Here here !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people don't like blood, period or otherwise, its not so surprising when you consider that it's usually an indication of injury. Also a woman's smell is more attractive to a male when she is ovulating, nature isn't going to provide an incentive for men to have sex with a woman who is unlikely to get pregnant while menstruating.

Either which way, surely everyone is entitled to have preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's part of women cicles , it happens and to all the guys here saying it's revolting and blah blah , wait till your partner say my period didn't show up this month ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t “love” or “look forward to” them but that’s very different to being grossed out or disgusted by them, which can have real societal impacts (girls being ashamed etc so avoiding activities etc.). I get why strangers mightn’t want to play while the woman has her period, I suppose I was speaking more generally. You know they aren’t smelly or dirty, anymore than if someone doesn’t wash generally, eg BO etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Either which way, surely everyone is entitled to have preferences? "

Absolutely I’m just curious about the thinking/emotion behind it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t “love” or “look forward to” them but that’s very different to being grossed out or disgusted by them, which can have real societal impacts (girls being ashamed etc so avoiding activities etc.). I get why strangers mightn’t want to play while the woman has her period, I suppose I was speaking more generally. You know they aren’t smelly or dirty, anymore than if someone doesn’t wash generally, eg BO etc."

I think that attitude tends to come from the home tbh, if parents behave as if they are something to be kept a secret, then children will see them as shameful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either which way, surely everyone is entitled to have preferences?

Absolutely I’m just curious about the thinking/emotion behind it"

I think it's natural to dislike the sight or smell of blood for reasons I've already gone into.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Why are people, men in particular so squeamish about them?

Nope no issues at all here once the lady is ok

just won't be doing any oral

Sixx

Same but I'm happy to go down if lady is showered and using a tampon. Towel/pad, then no oral, just sex

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Why are people, men in particular so squeamish about them?

Nope no issues at all here once the lady is ok

just won't be doing any oral

Sixx

Same but I'm happy to go down if lady is showered and using a tampon. Towel/pad, then no oral, just sex

With a shower after natch

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I think I only ever had sex once with a woman on here period. It's not something I'd do again but the fact I have only done it once makes me think women are against it alot also

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I think I only ever had sex once with a woman on here period. It's not something I'd do again but the fact I have only done it once makes me think women are against it alot also

I think you're wrong there. A lot of women get very horny during this time, in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I only ever had sex once with a woman on here period. It's not something I'd do again but the fact I have only done it once makes me think women are against it alot also

I think you're wrong there. A lot of women get very horny during this time, in my experience

I don't, and sex isn't as pleasurable either.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I think I only ever had sex once with a woman on here period. It's not something I'd do again but the fact I have only done it once makes me think women are against it alot also

I think you're wrong there. A lot of women get very horny during this time, in my experience

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I'm just weighing up the law of averages. I have had a good bit of sex in life and only ever had sex once with a woman on her period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are people, men in particular so squeamish about them?"

Never bothered me when I was in a relationship .

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

during the period the woman is very sensitive, at first they do not want to and then they do not want it to end. My experience disgusts them at first and then they lose their modesty, they become very excited. It takes a lot of confidence to do it maintain hygiene, taking the showers that are necessary

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Honestly it just disgusts me. I have no reason for it other than it's just one of those things that makes me uncomfortable.

In my head it's no different than pooing or peeing. They're natural body functions too, but I don't want to know, or see when you're having one.

Just being honest here lads and lasses, no need to give me shit for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shiver me timbers

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Shiver me timbers

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go and back a few Cheltenham winners. You'll warm up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shiver me timbers

go and back a few Cheltenham winners. You'll warm up. "

The betting slips will be used as kindling, thanks

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Honestly it just disgusts me. I have no reason for it other than it's just one of those things that makes me uncomfortable.

In my head it's no different than pooing or peeing. They're natural body functions too, but I don't want to know, or see when you're having one.

Just being honest here lads and lasses, no need to give me shit for it."

Tbh I'd rather not know or see when it happening to me, so I'm not going to judge anyone else for feeling that way!

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Thank heavens for the menopause lol"

Woohoo...happy frickin days.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Shiver me timbers

go and back a few Cheltenham winners. You'll warm up.

The betting slips will be used as kindling, thanks

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come on don't give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank heavens for the menopause lol

Woohoo...happy frickin days."
i never felt sooo hot lol

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Lads talking about vaginas and periods. Go on to rate my plate on fb and read the comments. The page is fucking top drawer. Pic of food goes up, first comment, "that looks like katie prices fanny", brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us blokes have it handy, we are either horny or hungry.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Us blokes have it handy, we are either horny or hungry. "

I must be weird.

Quite often I find myself confused by which of the two it is that's nagging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Us blokes have it handy, we are either horny or hungry.

I must be weird.

Quite often I find myself confused by which of the two it is that's nagging me

A wank and a sandwich while watching tv will sort that nagging out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's disgusting end of and that's from me Jilly ...there's nothing to do with a period that I want any man to see smell or experience ewwww thank God for contraceptive pills or hormone tablets ...what the fuck was mother nature thinking of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love period sex. So dirty

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Love period sex. So dirty

As long as there's a shower nearby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love period sex. So dirty

You love sex, period!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love period sex. So dirty

As long as there's a shower nearby

Real man loves his woman every day of the month. Nevermind the shower

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By *oguish1Man
over a year ago

Carrigrohane

Doesn't bother me .... But my wife wont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love period sex. So dirty

As long as there's a shower nearby

Real man loves his woman every day of the month. Nevermind the shower

Real men have hygiene standards

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

"Us blokes have it handy, we are either horny or hungry. "

Yeah but when one or both of those are satisfied we get sleepy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex while on my periods is great for menstrual cramps,plus I am really Horny aswell.

It does help if you have a partner that understanding.

But I no longer get my periods thanks to the coil.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Real men have hygiene standards

There is literally nothing unhygienic or dirty about periods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real men have hygiene standards

There is literally nothing unhygienic or dirty about periods "

Thank you!

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

Does the woman's body not stop the period when having sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real men have hygiene standards

There is literally nothing unhygienic or dirty about periods "

Difference of opinion, there's is nothing hygienic about a man who would walk about after period sex and not shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does the woman's body not stop the period when having sex?"

Unfortunately we don't come with a built in tap

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By *idonnaTV/TS
over a year ago

carlow

I think it's about respect towards ladies after ALL it's a natural part of loving ladies as without them we would not be having this conversation as we would not be here to much taboo ye ALL know it's part of life GET over it and give them that extra special attention that the deserve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have no problem with it sure its natural just another one of those things that women have to go through ye have my respect with everything you do go through and its far from easy at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does the woman's body not stop the period when having sex?"

Buahahaha yeah once they get pregnant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does the woman's body not stop the period when having sex?

Buahahaha yeah once they get pregnant

no it gets very very very messy lol

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Real men have hygiene standards

There is literally nothing unhygienic or dirty about periods

Difference of opinion, there's is nothing hygienic about a man who would walk about after period sex and not shower. "

This

No problem with period sex but I'm having a shower afterwards.

I like a regular shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real men have hygiene standards

There is literally nothing unhygienic or dirty about periods

Difference of opinion, there's is nothing hygienic about a man who would walk about after period sex and not shower.

This

No problem with period sex but I'm having a shower afterwards.

I like a regular shower

its a messy job all right but yeah nice shower afterwards no problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone would think that some of the men here has never seen blood before nothing to be scared of lads

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

"anyone would think that some of the men here has never seen blood before nothing to be scared of lads

Not scared of it, just don't want the experience of having it all over me ever again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyone would think that some of the men here has never seen blood before nothing to be scared of lads

Not scared of it, just don't want the experience of having it all over me ever again."

your choice mate wasn't really aiming at you but anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does the woman's body not stop the period when having sex?

Buahahaha yeah once they get pregnant

Somebody listened in biology class lol ??

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

My years of hard cramps & heavy periods are over, they are lighter now & my sex drive doesn’t lesson with it, my non-fabber friend has no problem having sex with me when I’m on it & I like that abt him, in my fab world I’d let d other person decide & im always surprised how d older & mature guys have no issue with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite liked sex during my period. Not the first day when I felt bad, but the next few days. I was exceptionally tender & my horny level was through the roof.

I liked the blood smears & a man who wasn't squeamish about it, turned me on.

Saying that, I don't miss having a period now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are people, men in particular so squeamish about them?

They attract bears"

Beets

And Battlestar Gallactica

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite liked sex during my period. Not the first day when I felt bad, but the next few days. I was exceptionally tender & my horny level was through the roof.

I liked the blood smears & a man who wasn't squeamish about it, turned me on.

Saying that, I don't miss having a period now."

Well I'm far from squeamish if anything it makes the sex unreal absolutely amazing omg I'm craving it now anyone up for a session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My years of hard cramps & heavy periods are over, they are lighter now & my sex drive doesn’t lesson with it, my non-fabber friend has no problem having sex with me when I’m on it & I like that abt him, in my fab world I’d let d other person decide & im always surprised how d older & mature guys have no issue with it. "

I suppose its what separates the boys and the men bring it on I say

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By *c90Man
over a year ago

Noiseville

Big fan of the Victorian period

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wondering does the cycles of the women here sync like they usually do in offices etc working together. Yes I know I think too much

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I have three girls and all of them get there monthlys together, one cries all the time one is like a bunch of cats in a cage and the other one gets pains and vomits all the time. It's a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have three girls and all of them get there monthlys together, one cries all the time one is like a bunch of cats in a cage and the other one gets pains and vomits all the time. It's a nightmare

I’ve only the one girl she’s like an anti christ I feel your pain. Boys are full time trouble though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering does the cycles of the women here sync like they usually do in offices etc working together. Yes I know I think too much

You learn something new everyday. I’ve heard of housemates cycles in sync but not work colleagues. Then again, I’d be worried if that conversation came up in work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have three girls and all of them get there monthlys together, one cries all the time one is like a bunch of cats in a cage and the other one gets pains and vomits all the time. It's a nightmare

My eldest spent two years up at night when her period was coming, crying with pain and vomiting, on the pill now for almost two years and her life is turned around.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"I have three girls and all of them get there monthlys together, one cries all the time one is like a bunch of cats in a cage and the other one gets pains and vomits all the time. It's a nightmare

My eldest spent two years up at night when her period was coming, crying with pain and vomiting, on the pill now for almost two years and her life is turned around. "
I may have to take her to doctor shes only 12 and really suffers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have three girls and all of them get there monthlys together, one cries all the time one is like a bunch of cats in a cage and the other one gets pains and vomits all the time. It's a nightmare

My eldest spent two years up at night when her period was coming, crying with pain and vomiting, on the pill now for almost two years and her life is turned around. I may have to take her to doctor shes only 12 and really suffers "

The doc will probably start by prescribing Ponstan, especially as she is so young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have three girls and all of them get there monthlys together, one cries all the time one is like a bunch of cats in a cage and the other one gets pains and vomits all the time. It's a nightmare

I've 4. Eldest still suffers badly, pain so much she has pas*ed out with it on occasions. One is not too too bad the other two very bad. Eldest has been slowly getting to a place where medical profession after 8 yrs of treatments is realising it's not normal and recently had special tests which showed abnormal hormone levels and after a scan shows its due to pressure on a gland in her head. She had a special Coil fitted which is helping while her levels are being monitored. We suspected endometriosis many years ago but here in the UK, it takes at least 6 yrs waiting to diagnose. She had more progress in 6 months in Australia than all her time here in the UK. It does help when you have a good gynaecologist.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

"anyone would think that some of the men here has never seen blood before nothing to be scared of lads

Not scared of it, just don't want the experience of having it all over me ever again.

your choice mate wasn't really aiming at you but anyway "

Well, you were aiming it at the men here so yeah, it was kinda aimed at me in a way.

Unless you were specifically leaving me out of the conversation, in which case, I apologize for replying

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

"Why are people, men in particular so squeamish about them?"

Some men like the taste of it, I must say, not to keen on the taste myself

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

"Why are people, men in particular so squeamish about them?

Some men like the taste of it, I must say, not to keen on the taste myself

There was a lad I knew when I was in Australia who's mates called him Hannibal Lecter because he loved going down on women on their periods.

He had no problem telling everyone either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My period pain was caused by a fibroid. If you feel like you're giving birth every month, get an ultrasound to check for it.

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm not.

A lot of women are most hornier around this time. Always great sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Coz they aren't pleasant for female lets face it

This... Is there any woman who has ever thought 'ooooo... Can't wait for my period this month... I just love cramps and feeling bloated and wanting to shower every 5 minutes'?

I dont think so...

Regarding sex once having the period - definitely no no for me, maybe first day where the cramps are bothering me and its a none of the bleeding. It definitely wouldn't happen. I do not feel comfy at all

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