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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?

Hypothetical like

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By *hoknows82Man
over a year ago

Nenagh / South Dublin


"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?

Hypothetical like "

Yes... in fact that's pretty fucking hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hate anyone, seems like a terrible waste of effort, but personality is a huge factor in sexual attraction for me, so I have to say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?

Hypothetical like "

Hate fucking... yes I've done that ..feels great actually

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Well, all us men here are apparently attracted to personality so, I doubt it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’m noticing

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

No we couldnt do it ..ever.. have to like the person

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

No. If I hated everything else about them I'd be repulsed. There are people I've had sex with in the past who now make my skin crawl, but at the time I thought they were great. Whether they were someone hot I'd met on a night out and slept with, or someone I spent time and put effort in with but came to realise had some pretty nasty qualities, I wouldn't go back once those beer/rose tinted goggles were off. I like a healthy dose of dopamine and serotonin with my adrenalin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a good hate fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that not kinda like break up sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?

Hypothetical like "

Nope, personality is a big factor.

Welcome back again btw.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?

Hypothetical like

Nope, personality is a big factor.

Welcome back again btw."

Thank you keep thinking I can leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, all us men here are apparently attracted to personality so, I doubt it "

Surprised as per forums we fuck anything with a pulse according to others.

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By *rash26775Man
over a year ago

all over

Can be the best sex

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Hate is a very strong word I would fuck them if I was attracted to them even if there was some things I didn’t like or hate about them you never know it could turn out to be really good fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I would or not, hasn't come up yet. Tricky one that.

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

No

Well not since I’m not married any more ha haaaaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hate= no sex ... but if there was a personality or physical trait I disliked, well under the right circumstances I could have sex & make sure we both enjoyed the experience ... sure it's only 2 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope !

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By *rsmiley69Man
over a year ago

Cavan Monaghan

Nope definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have. It was hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done and it was really hot. Only thing was I was mad with myself after as he is such an asshole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?

Hypothetical like "

Definitely no

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford


"I have. It was hot "

But you mustn’t have hated EVERYTHING about them? Hated there personality but liked the look of them ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I suppose our sexual brains do get us doing the wildest things I suppose the sex would be fecking brilliant cos you can just let loose lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think I could if I actually hated them but sometimes I am attracted to arrogance which is a trait I don’t particularly like in life... perhaps I want to them to want me and to have that control which is a turn on

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By *rsmiley69Man
over a year ago

Cavan Monaghan


"Nope definitely not "
on second thoughts I’d make an exception for one, work along with her an she’s management,

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No. I’ve never had sex with anyone I wasn’t attracted to and I don’t just mean physically attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I’ve never had sex with anyone I wasn’t attracted to and I don’t just mean physically attracted to"

Same as above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have. It was hot

But you mustn’t have hated EVERYTHING about them? Hated there personality but liked the look of them ?!"

Hated the personality so much even the look of them made me angry. So yes, despised that person with every single fibre of my being

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

A big NO, I have to be attracted to the person I have sex with.

Sam

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

The thought of someone that I couldn't stand even putting their hands on me physically repulses me

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Bromley

Angry sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?

Hypothetical like "

are you asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate is a very strong word, don't think I have ever hated anyone in my life, a couple I have disliked a lot but deffo wouldn't want to fuck.....now anger sex in the heat of a disagreement with someone you normally get along with is hot...I have had that, it was the rough, hot and heavy rip each others clothes off and don't hold back kind and we were friends again afterwards

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?

Hypothetical like

are you asking for a friend "

Just thinking out loud if couldn’t stand someone they irritated me and couldn’t listen to them would I enjoy them physically if they had everything else I looked for. Not sure tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think I could and can think of a few women alright that would fall into that category

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

Could never have sex with someone unless i was attracted to them... what's the point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have. It was hot

But you mustn’t have hated EVERYTHING about them? Hated there personality but liked the look of them ?!

Hated the personality so much even the look of them made me angry. So yes, despised that person with every single fibre of my being "
there's hope for me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I couldn't unless u were able to tape their mouth and put a bag over their head. Get the job done and leave before they were allowed to take bag off the head and intake the mouth

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

No.

Not unless there was at least one attractive/ redeeming thing they had that I liked and liked quite a bit.

If they're an obnoxious shithead then definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It boils down to fantasies. Many have a fantasy that involves a form of repulsion or of pure dominance or control over another, irrespective of the others wishes like being forced upon or forcing oneself upon another (which is a lot more common that many would like to believe). This will often inevitably involve overlooking any physical or other attracting traits of the other. This does happen a lot in a consensual setting in here. Not uncommon to have posts about this subject of play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I hate everything about them , then no couldn't have sex with someone I don't feel any attraction for , rather have a wank lol at least there's more pleasure there .

Ok I tried before , had a woman over, thought oh wow this will be great , when things got to things was damn what have I done , what time do you have to go home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It boils down to fantasies. Many have a fantasy that involves a form of repulsion or of pure dominance or control over another, irrespective of the others wishes like being forced upon or forcing oneself upon another (which is a lot more common that many would like to believe). This will often inevitably involve overlooking any physical or other attracting traits of the other. This does happen a lot in a consensual setting in here. Not uncommon to have posts about this subject of play."

I've certainly heard men express the desire to give her a right good fucking when referring to a woman who provokes them in a negative way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It boils down to fantasies. Many have a fantasy that involves a form of repulsion or of pure dominance or control over another, irrespective of the others wishes like being forced upon or forcing oneself upon another (which is a lot more common that many would like to believe). This will often inevitably involve overlooking any physical or other attracting traits of the other. This does happen a lot in a consensual setting in here. Not uncommon to have posts about this subject of play.

I've certainly heard men express the desire to give her a right good fucking when referring to a woman who provokes them in a negative way. "

Tied up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It boils down to fantasies. Many have a fantasy that involves a form of repulsion or of pure dominance or control over another, irrespective of the others wishes like being forced upon or forcing oneself upon another (which is a lot more common that many would like to believe). This will often inevitably involve overlooking any physical or other attracting traits of the other. This does happen a lot in a consensual setting in here. Not uncommon to have posts about this subject of play.

I've certainly heard men express the desire to give her a right good fucking when referring to a woman who provokes them in a negative way.

Tied up? "

That wasn't specified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it....would do it again. Can be an angry affair if done right.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Ah sure look...

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By *c90Man
over a year ago

Noiseville


"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?

Hypothetical like "

Yes, if only to punish them

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By *icey55Man
over a year ago

Dublin /Meath

No, need more than just physical attraction and has to tick several boxes

Welcome back Miss car your pics are Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, need more than just physical attraction and has to tick several boxes

Welcome back Miss car your pics are Fab "

Thank you

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By *icey55Man
over a year ago

Dublin /Meath


"No, need more than just physical attraction and has to tick several boxes

Welcome back Miss car your pics are Fab

Thank you "

Most welcome indeed

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

No, but I have never hated anyone, or gotten angry.

Usually people just disappoint or disgust me, or make me think they are stupid. I'm not into drama, jealousy, getting your partner angry, insulting them.

I know for a lot of people drama is viewed as being healthy. Flirt with a guy/girl to see if the other half cares. Stirring up a fight and shouting at each other and then rough sex. I don't get it though. Whenever a girl does stuff like that with me, I just call it a day and move on.

Never had to cross that line in my head where a relationship is souring and you keep having sex and string it out longer, you lie to yourself saying the jealousy and the anger, and the insults mean that they still care, that the emotions are still there, and the brain starts to tell you its normal like most people seem to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I have never hated anyone, or gotten angry.

Usually people just disappoint or disgust me, or make me think they are stupid. I'm not into drama, jealousy, getting your partner angry, insulting them.

I know for a lot of people drama is viewed as being healthy. Flirt with a guy/girl to see if the other half cares. Stirring up a fight and shouting at each other and then rough sex. I don't get it though. Whenever a girl does stuff like that with me, I just call it a day and move on.

Never had to cross that line in my head where a relationship is souring and you keep having sex and string it out longer, you lie to yourself saying the jealousy and the anger, and the insults mean that they still care, that the emotions are still there, and the brain starts to tell you its normal like most people seem to."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, but I have never hated anyone, or gotten angry.

Usually people just disappoint or disgust me, or make me think they are stupid. I'm not into drama, jealousy, getting your partner angry, insulting them.

I know for a lot of people drama is viewed as being healthy. Flirt with a guy/girl to see if the other half cares. Stirring up a fight and shouting at each other and then rough sex. I don't get it though. Whenever a girl does stuff like that with me, I just call it a day and move on.

Never had to cross that line in my head where a relationship is souring and you keep having sex and string it out longer, you lie to yourself saying the jealousy and the anger, and the insults mean that they still care, that the emotions are still there, and the brain starts to tell you its normal like most people seem to."

Lol that’s why I divorced and I will cut off people who have a negative effect on my personal wellbeing usually without warnings. The sex part though is funny because aparantly here it’s free from strings etc so should be easily done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word No!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a word No! "

Hate you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a word No!

Hate you "

"Nobber" , lol , x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a word No!

Hate you

"Nobber" , lol , x"

Kevin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had incredible angry sex but I couldn't have sex with someone I hated, I'd be disgusted with myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a word No!

Hate you "

That would be a lie

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I've had incredible angry sex but I couldn't have sex with someone I hated, I'd be disgusted with myself."

Would you hate yourself?

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Know someone who slept with someone they disliked alot. It was because he was very hung and that aspect of him overrided her dislike for him when they met put one night on the drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had incredible angry sex but I couldn't have sex with someone I hated, I'd be disgusted with myself.

Would you hate yourself? "

I might be ok with bringing out the big lad, if I hated myself

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By *oboyMan
over a year ago

town

Definitely would be hard and rough sex, plenty of gagging hair pulling and slapping,

And anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *andS for funCouple
over a year ago

Any

Nope... There would have to be some attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did i hate them before the sex?

no

do i hate them now and would still fuck them?

not a fucking hope

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By *espectfulBusinessManMan
over a year ago

Essex and London

Don’t really hate anyone to be honest….

But I have had sex with someone solely for sexual reasons even though I shouldn’t have fucked them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she is hot and I am attracted to her why not. I am not looking relationship so if just sex on one or multiple occasions is an option why not

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If I didn't like someone there's no way in hell I'd be fucking them.

They would be more than welcome to go fuck themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I didn't like someone there's no way in hell I'd be fucking them.

They would be more than welcome to go fuck themselves. "

In total agreement RB

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

Jameson main bar

Nope....I couldn't do it. You don't need any negatives when you are with someone. I'm more for a positive experience.

Fucking just for the heck of it is no fun

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?

Hypothetical like "

I'm not even set on a pulse tbh

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By *espectfulBusinessManMan
over a year ago

Essex and London


"Have sex with somebody for pure sexual reasons when you hate everything else about them?

Hypothetical like

I'm not even set on a pulse tbh "

PM me… I reckon you have done someone you shouldn’t and curiosity has got the better of me

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