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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on for 9 weeks now and only get messages from desperate bi guys and don't get responses from women I message I have tried the past advice I have gotten off some of you but still not working is there anything more I can do or should I give up on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials...get to them...persevere...it takes time..patience is the key in my opinion.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Nope....you're doing fine

...get verified at a social and the flood gates will open.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope....you're doing fine

...get verified at a social and the flood gates will open."
but most socials only invite if your verified already and I was on here before in couple and single was verified and just can't seem to get past it this time around

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"get verified at a social and the flood gates will open."
there it is, In a nutshell but the spanner is, you need to attend a meet and greet. Alot of women won't take the chance on you one to one.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I got a meet every day for a week once by trying. I just posted that I was looking to meet, and could travel for a social meet every day, and every day someone on a whim decided that they could maybe meet me for a coffee or a tea for 15 mins.

Try that?

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

Its all pure fluke if someone in the mood they chat a lot get a buzz out of stringing single guy's along its better to get no reply than time wasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got a meet every day for a week once by trying. I just posted that I was looking to meet, and could travel for a social meet every day, and every day someone on a whim decided that they could maybe meet me for a coffee or a tea for 15 mins.

Try that?"
worked for you cause your hot lol me not so much

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Have you tried Tinder and POF, much better chances to find someone!?

You have a much better chance to meet someone in real life and develop a relationship... that might lead to sex .. than meeting a woman from here.

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By *damsamMan
over a year ago

South

So many time wasters on here always first thing they want is face pic, then if you trust them and expose yourself, invariably they say "not my type" and not sent theirs, or just block you. Sickening feeling, as you have trusted someone with your pic and you never know who sees it

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By *damsamMan
over a year ago

South

One particular user is typical of that, cannot even read a profile, as she accused me of not being verified when I refused to send a face pic and called her out on it she then of course blocked me, she did the same when a friend of mine on here sent his pic, she just blocked him, what a skanger

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

9 weeks isn't that long in the scheme of things. Being bi may put some off (plenty won't meet bi males), and the 420 might put others off. That doesn't mean you should change, it just means you'll have to be a bit more patient and wait for those who will meet bi males or 420 folk to find you and see if you click

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you tried Tinder and POF, much better chances to find someone!?

You have a much better chance to meet someone in real life and develop a relationship... that might lead to sex .. than meeting a woman from here. "
if I was looking for relationship they would be better but im in a relationship (who I met on pof)only up for fun and like minded friends

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"9 weeks isn't that long in the scheme of things. Being bi may put some off (plenty won't meet bi males), and the 420 might put others off. That doesn't mean you should change, it just means you'll have to be a bit more patient and wait for those who will meet bi males or 420 folk to find you and see if you click "
Pardon my ignorance but what does 420 mean ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

420 indicates a tolerance to drug taking & often particating .. & it's not viagara they are taking

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"420 indicates a tolerance to drug taking & often particating .. & it's not viagara they are taking"

It refers to smoke cannabis not just any drug.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

420 is just cannabis but refers more to the movement to make it legal but has become the time most stoners/potheads would have a smoke I only put it on the end of my name cause I am 420 friendly and Eddie on its own was taken lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would remove all of the boxer photos (they just look dirty and washed out).

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By *ackd1000Man
over a year ago

Donegal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"420 is just cannabis but refers more to the movement to make it legal but has become the time most stoners/potheads would have a smoke I only put it on the end of my name cause I am 420 friendly and Eddie on its own was taken lol"

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If I'll be you: 1st - removing all the pics with boxers. Read the Missus's comment too, so I'm not the only one who doesn't find it appropriate

2nd - what's the story with your wife?

If you are both here, make sure to have couple profile too

3rd - maybe think for a new nickname?

I think that's all.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would remove all of the boxer photos (they just look dirty and washed out). "

Not being nasty to you, but I agree. Not sure if that's a cum stain or a piss stain on your boxers. But whichever, I don't think it would swing you a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s no secret formula, I’ve been on and off this a few years and have yet to meet anyone, then again I’m quite fussy and a lot of the women aren’t my type at all and I won’t just shag anyone for the sake of it. I’d say if you really wanna meet someone then tear away, throw standards out the window and start messaging, if not just bide your time and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"420 indicates a tolerance to drug taking & often particating .. & it's not viagara they are taking"
it refers to smoking but you make a nice point if people think he is a druggy then it also decreases his chances!

the legend goes that 420 refer to code used by a group student to say we smoke some after school which finished at 4 so they will meet 20 min after to smoke hence 420... i could be wrong but that's what i heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about respect, and both hands

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