FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging an accurate description?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was reading how the barriers of our societal demonisation of sex, are finally being broken. An new wave of sexual liberation is ever creeping in.

It got me thinking(I know how strange?) how would I describe swinging if it became a topic of discussion in this liberated utopia..

Swinging as ide describe it...

It allows you to act on your primal desires and instincts, but not in a reckless way. It allows couples to be honest with each other, accepting that they can be attracted to other people while maintaining the integrity of their relationship. And it creates a deeper bond, especially when you trust your partner to play with other people.

How would you best describe swinging? From your own experiences...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like having your cake and eating it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding someone to push me is my biggest problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Finding someone to push me is my biggest problem

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Hahaha

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Swinging is a loose term, coined in the 1960s to describe acts of 'free love', whereby anyone, regardless of gender, sexuality or relationship was free to explore and enjoy sex with people they were attracted to without judgement. Swingers were seen as free spirits. Swapping is a sub-set of swinging whereby couples have sex with other couples.

In more recent times, swinging became more recognised as the domain of consensual extra-marital sex, and singles are often not even viewed as swingers anymore by many.

But in the truest sense of the word and its original meaning, anyone who has ever enjoyed sex without commitment, and without the other party having any expectation of commitment, has swung, regardless of whether they belong to a swinging site or are even aware of it

In modern terms, I'm not a swinger. But in terms of its original meaning and the true spirit of free love, who isn't or hasn't been a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like having your cake and eating it"

Mostly my cake is on the table and I’m sat watching it

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"It's like having your cake and eating it

Mostly my cake is on the table and I’m sat watching it "

With a fork in hand, poised to stab anyone who touches it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for me its having a sexual attraction with someone with out the in between parts of a relationship I suppose its good if you don't want to be tied down to one thing I suppose for couples its a little different there has to be trust between each other

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Ethical non monogamy as described in the roomformore podcast describes its perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Greedy

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

i have been and always will be a hedonist. swinging is just part of that

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I've always just associated the term 'Swingers' with freedom.

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