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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I exchanged 5 or 6 amicable messages with a lady today, her last reply was lol to something funny I said.. Thinking cool could be on to something here, I decided to reply again but nope blocked , honastly wtf? Rant over moving on

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Maybe bombarding with messages might seem to eager. Maybe she enjoys winding people up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe bombarding with messages might seem to eager. Maybe she enjoys winding people up "

I've seen alot of threads like this and I'm very aware of bieng full on, I don't do that.. Maybe the latter, I'm not going to dwell on it but I just found it really strange.. Now that I think of it could have been her husband

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Maybe bombarding with messages might seem to eager. Maybe she enjoys winding people up

I've seen alot of threads like this and I'm very aware of bieng full on, I don't do that.. Maybe the latter, I'm not going to dwell on it but I just found it really strange.. Now that I think of it could have been her husband "

Yep lots of men pretending to be women thats fab for you

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I exchanged 5 or 6 amicable messages with a lady today, her last reply was lol to something funny I said.. Thinking cool could be on to something here, I decided to reply again but nope blocked , honastly wtf? Rant over moving on "

Just lol?

If someone replied to me with just one word or an emoji, I'd know I'd lost their interest, and likewise if I found that conversation with someone had dwindled to the point of me actually just using one word replies or emojis (I mean, have you seen the length of my forum posts??), I was definitely not interested. So she probably just blocked you to save herself from an awkward 'it's not you, it's me' conversation. Rude, I know, but that's Fab. If you only exchanged a handful of messages, she had probably just replied out of politeness or curiosity in the first place. Perception is a funny thing on here. One person will see a couple of messages as being polite while another will see them as encouraging.

As you said... Its done with now, so chalk it up to experience and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I exchanged 5 or 6 amicable messages with a lady today, her last reply was lol to something funny I said.. Thinking cool could be on to something here, I decided to reply again but nope blocked , honastly wtf? Rant over moving on

Just lol?

If someone replied to me with just one word or an emoji, I'd know I'd lost their interest, and likewise if I found that conversation with someone had dwindled to the point of me actually just using one word replies or emojis (I mean, have you seen the length of my forum posts??), I was definitely not interested. So she probably just blocked you to save herself from an awkward 'it's not you, it's me' conversation. Rude, I know, but that's Fab. If you only exchanged a handful of messages, she had probably just replied out of politeness or curiosity in the first place. Perception is a funny thing on here. One person will see a couple of messages as being polite while another will see them as encouraging.

As you said... Its done with now, so chalk it up to experience and move on "

Maybe the cute reply to my pics should have been a give away.. , All the same I'm a big boy who dosnt like the block button used harshly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she saw 3mins was a new record for you and thought you werent THAT funny?

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

If I replied 'lol' ... it means I'm losing interest.

Sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens I've even been blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe she saw 3mins was a new record for you and thought you werent THAT funny?"

Feck it I always thought I was funny

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

women are very skittish creatures..one day you could be their best friend then next you could be the worst bastard they ever met

they change their mind like the weather

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I take it as no interest if I get a reply that doesn't look for a response ie, 'lol' or 'true'.

There's nothing to work with which to me means she doesn't want to know more.

I'm guilty of doing the same.

Dragging a conversation is excruciating.

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By *aider190Man
over a year ago

swords

Short monosyllabic answers are just a sign of bad manners...engage or don't but don't waste someone's time...a lot of these non genuine people on the site at the moment ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Short monosyllabic answers are just a sign of bad manners...engage or don't but don't waste someone's time...a lot of these non genuine people on the site at the moment ... "

There is no winning really some people will give out because someone didnt respond, some because they.say no and other because of short answers.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Short monosyllabic answers are just a sign of bad manners...engage or don't but don't waste someone's time...a lot of these non genuine people on the site at the moment ... "

Sometimes you can't decide until you've engaged though. Someone may seem interesting at first, but then find that the conversation lacks something and you lose interest. You can't win on here, you're damned for giving someone a chance, and damned if you don't

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I exchanged 5 or 6 amicable messages with a lady today, her last reply was lol to something funny I said.. Thinking cool could be on to something here, I decided to reply again but nope blocked , honastly wtf? Rant over moving on

Just lol?

If someone replied to me with just one word or an emoji, I'd know I'd lost their interest, and likewise if I found that conversation with someone had dwindled to the point of me actually just using one word replies or emojis (I mean, have you seen the length of my forum posts??), I was definitely not interested. So she probably just blocked you to save herself from an awkward 'it's not you, it's me' conversation. Rude, I know, but that's Fab. If you only exchanged a handful of messages, she had probably just replied out of politeness or curiosity in the first place. Perception is a funny thing on here. One person will see a couple of messages as being polite while another will see them as encouraging.

As you said... Its done with now, so chalk it up to experience and move on "

Exactly this. Saves me typing out all the same stuff.

In short if anybody responds to me with just lol then I see the conversation as being dead in the water and they don't want to carry on the conversation, so I just leave them to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Short monosyllabic answers are just a sign of bad manners...engage or don't but don't waste someone's time...a lot of these non genuine people on the site at the moment ...

Sometimes you can't decide until you've engaged though. Someone may seem interesting at first, but then find that the conversation lacks something and you lose interest. You can't win on here, you're damned for giving someone a chance, and damned if you don't "

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I exchanged 5 or 6 amicable messages with a lady today, her last reply was lol to something funny I said.. Thinking cool could be on to something here, I decided to reply again but nope blocked , honastly wtf? Rant over moving on "

Maybe she was laughing at you rather than with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any conversation here can finish at any time, no point overthinking it, bottom line, they're not interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I exchanged 5 or 6 amicable messages with a lady today, her last reply was lol to something funny I said.. Thinking cool could be on to something here, I decided to reply again but nope blocked , honastly wtf? Rant over moving on

Maybe she was laughing at you rather than with you? "

Maybe...generally when you message someone you either get no reply or a reply, in this case I recieved a reply where she complimented the pics i sent, a few more messages flowed back and forth and then an unexplained block.. No big deal there's a reason for everything and even if she did get a laugh it wouldnt bother me too much either

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK


"I exchanged 5 or 6 amicable messages with a lady today, her last reply was lol to something funny I said.. Thinking cool could be on to something here, I decided to reply again but nope blocked , honastly wtf? Rant over moving on

Maybe she was laughing at you rather than with you?

Maybe...generally when you message someone you either get no reply or a reply, in this case I recieved a reply where she complimented the pics i sent, a few more messages flowed back and forth and then an unexplained block.. No big deal there's a reason for everything and even if she did get a laugh it wouldnt bother me too much either"

Nowt as strange as folk OP, welcome to my world lol..... Its so easy to shove your foot in your mouth without knowing it on here. Hero to zero in a millisecond

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