FabSwingers.com forum: First fab meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Remember mine like yesterday, arranged the meet I was excited but nervous excited and nervous but nervous and excited...got the txt she was at the coffee shop so set off on my way with my favourite right said fred track full volume, got to the car park and parked up, I could see this long legged girl with a pencil skirt and heels as I strutted my stuff towards the doors I just knew it was her, as I got closer she turns around and I get a smile then BOOM she's on the floor! I rush over to her like the respectful fabber I am and grab her with both hands to see if she's ok, this girl looked like a hundred dollars, I looked over at her chair to find a large puddle and thought to myself not again, but since then we still meet up once every so often. Anyone remember there first fab meet?

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By *ducatedFool88Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

Still waiting on mine, any pointers to help a man out?

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

My first meet oddly enough only took me a month to secure.

After 3 years it remains my only one

Although I have been let down at the last minute by a few over the years.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Remember mine like yesterday, arranged the meet I was excited but nervous excited and nervous but nervous and excited...got the txt she was at the coffee shop so set off on my way with my favourite right said fred track full volume, got to the car park and parked up, I could see this long legged girl with a pencil skirt and heels as I strutted my stuff towards the doors I just knew it was her, as I got closer she turns around and I get a smile then BOOM she's on the floor! I rush over to her like the respectful fabber I am and grab her with both hands to see if she's ok, this girl looked like a hundred dollars, I looked over at her chair to find a large puddle and thought to myself not again, but since then we still meet up once every so often. Anyone remember there first fab meet?"

God no! She spilt her coffee and slipped in it! Morto!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I was so clueless about everything my first meet was in response to an advertised meet in Cavan town. Social and see what happens sorta meet. Was extremely lucky it was great night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because I was so clueless about everything my first meet was in response to an advertised meet in Cavan town. Social and see what happens sorta meet. Was extremely lucky it was great night. "
lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I met him for coffee, knew immediately that it was a no-go, listened politely to his life story for half an hour, we shook hands at my car, with him saying "you're not interested, are you", with which I agreed.

Pretty underwhelming overall, a nice enough guy. He's long gone from fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I met him for coffee, knew immediately that it was a no-go, listened politely to his life story for half an hour, we shook hands at my car, with him saying "you're not interested, are you", with which I agreed.

Pretty underwhelming overall, a nice enough guy. He's long gone from fab. "

at least you were upfront about it when he asked. many would have waited and fired off a message later to tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty underwhelming overall, a nice enough guy. He's long gone from fab.

at least you were upfront about it when he asked. many would have waited and fired off a message later to tell them."

I tend to give a straight answer if asked a straight question. If we were both meeting the other person we would talk about it later and get back to them, but I was on my own and ultimately Lee leaves the decision to me (for obvious reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty underwhelming overall, a nice enough guy. He's long gone from fab.

at least you were upfront about it when he asked. many would have waited and fired off a message later to tell them.

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nothing wrong with a woman who knows what she wants. to be commended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m at it that long I actually can’t remember my first meet on here or any swing site but I do remember my first mff meet

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

My first meet (wasnt from fab) turned out to be a bit of a psycho and a stalker and resulted in me having to nuke my email address and change my mob number.

My first fab meet resulted in me getting pissed on (literally). Not intentional but certainly not wanted nor expected either.

First meets are not my thing.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

My first meet was agreed near to where I live (her idea too if I recall

...)

Chatting to her on the mobile as I walked towards the cafe only to see her beckoning me to her car

where I jumped in and we chatted...

She was lovely and when she asked "Do you want to meet now then?" ...took me a full second to think about it!

We ended up as fwb's for about 8 months until she went into a relationship...

Ahhh the mammories!

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Yolo

what a woman

She also introduced me to fab as we had met on another site

Swoon

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By *rishguy3217Man
over a year ago

Sunny Southeast / Dublin

My first meet started with macdonalds coffee and end with a little spontaneous car play. Very exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my first meet was at a M&G social ...it was a great way to meet, no real pressure, other people to chat to, an opportunity to dance together..we each had a room booked in the hotel, so if there was no spark at least somewhere to sleep ... as it happened we went back to her room before the end of the m&g ... then back down to mingle & we got invited to an m&g afters party...so a great 1st meet experience...

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Well this just got awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this just got awkward "

Or hilarious......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*waits patiently for the response that will never come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*waits patiently for the response that will never come. "

He did say other day he had a few lined up this week so could be out on another

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"*waits patiently for the response that will never come. "
did he let u down?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*waits patiently for the response that will never come. "
I already responded to you yesterday???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*waits patiently for the response that will never come.

He did say other day he had a few lined up this week so could be out on another "
I was funnily enough, don't know why she wrote that wen she's clearly read my msg I replied

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*waits patiently for the response that will never come. did he let u down?"
i did yea had real life get in the way you should fill my place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I see the school playground hasn't changed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*waits patiently for the response that will never come. did he let u down? i did yea had real life get in the way you should fill my place

I think the idea is that if real life gets in the way you let the person know ahead of time?

Shame someone has reported her so she cant clarify isnt it........"
reported who for what? Shame people don't mind there own business and worry about there own meets, couldn't tell ya how to report someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*waits patiently for the response that will never come. did he let u down? i did yea had real life get in the way you should fill my place

I think the idea is that if real life gets in the way you let the person know ahead of time?

Shame someone has reported her so she cant clarify isnt it........reported who for what? Shame people don't mind there own business and worry about there own meets, couldn't tell ya how to report someone "

Never said you did buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was to be a coffee, after a lot of flirting with messages back and forward!.. Then as the conversation got hotter,the sexual tension began to build!...Speculatively I booked a hotel room,not expecting it to get that far,though there was something about this lady!

...the morning of the meet, I sensed that something was going to happen, there was a real sense of chemistry at this point (even if it was only in my imagination

)...and about couple of hours before the meet, desire seemed to.just take over she just said"fuck it forget the coffee"

...we met in the room,and what followed can only be described as two sexual animals fulfilling their lust based on pure instinct!

...and animals don't know sin do they!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see the school playground hasn't changed "
yea jumping on the band wagon because I didn't go to a meet lol I agree

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I see the school playground hasn't changed yea jumping on the band wagon because I didn't go to a meet lol I agree "
no. Reporting people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see the school playground hasn't changed yea jumping on the band wagon because I didn't go to a meet lol I agree no. Reporting people. "
never reported a fabber in my life no reason or need to I can handle anything anyone has to say

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Shy, nervous, excitement, lots of good sex, was left feeling something was missing and it went to quick. just put it down to first experience and moved on. A 6.5 out of ten so wasn't to bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jazus someone ghosted the ghosting post....

Its not even.fecking Halloween

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

First meet was a woman I met on the Ireland chat room on here.

Had been chatting for a while then swapped numbers and added each other on Facebook.

Being a working single parent she didn't get out much.

Eventually one Saturday the horn got too much for her and she said we had to meet.

Arranged for one of her parents to babysit whilst I booked a hotel halfway between us. Had drinks in the bar and chatted away to break the ice then went to the room and had awesome sex the rest of the night and next morning.

Had breakfast together next morning before checking out and her and I still remain good friends six years later.

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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago

00heaven

My first meet of fab ended in disaster. He was 1 of the normal guys of fab not too pushy or pervy. We chatted about a week then finally got a day that suited us both to meet. We met at a car park then took a drive to Bangor grabbed a coffee. Conversation flowed no awkward silences. We pulled up near Holywood I couldn't tell if he was interested until he asked for a kiss. Had a couple of snogs in his car got a little hot & heavy. But next thing I needed to pee & there wasn't any close so he offered his flat which was pretty close. After we both got rid of our coffees it got very hot & heavy very quickly. Within minutes we were ripping each other's clothes off & stumbling to the bedroom. Next thing we were on the bed & he stopped. He took a guilty conscience because I was married walked out of the bedroom while I was naked & horny. Def awkward walking out picking up my clothes & putting them on to go home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first meet of fab ended in disaster. He was 1 of the normal guys of fab not too pushy or pervy. We chatted about a week then finally got a day that suited us both to meet. We met at a car park then took a drive to Bangor grabbed a coffee. Conversation flowed no awkward silences. We pulled up near Holywood I couldn't tell if he was interested until he asked for a kiss. Had a couple of snogs in his car got a little hot & heavy. But next thing I needed to pee & there wasn't any close so he offered his flat which was pretty close. After we both got rid of our coffees it got very hot & heavy very quickly. Within minutes we were ripping each other's clothes off & stumbling to the bedroom. Next thing we were on the bed & he stopped. He took a guilty conscience because I was married walked out of the bedroom while I was naked & horny. Def awkward walking out picking up my clothes & putting them on to go home"

What a weirdo

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I started out on another site, so I'd already had a few fantastic meets before joining Fab. My first Fab meet though nearly put me off the site completely

Turned up to meet him for a drink and he looked nothing like his photos, was at least 10 years older than he had claimed to be, and then proceeded to bitch and moan for the next 2 hours about his job and his workmates, several of which were actually in the pub and stopped by our table out of sheer nosyness... All I kept thinking is 'dear God... People think I'm on a date with this asshole'. He thought the whole thing was going swimmingly well and was very surprised when I told him I had to leave, and that I wasn't interested.

He then wrote me one of those awful clichéd veris the next day which included the words 'undying love' and the line 'treat with respect or its me you'll have to answer to'

Thankfully he's long gone (unless he's back under a new name lol), but I still cringe every time I remember it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I started out on another site, so I'd already had a few fantastic meets before joining Fab. My first Fab meet though nearly put me off the site completely

He then wrote me one of those awful clichéd veris the next day which included the words 'undying love' and the line 'treat with respect or its me you'll have to answer to'

Thankfully he's long gone (unless he's back under a new name lol), but I still cringe every time I remember it

Lol which really nullifies all the treat her with respect veris!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first fab meet came through the Irish chat room. Believe it or not she winked me and it went from there. Weeks and weeks of chat ended up with a hotel meet on neutral territory.

Suffice to say it went fantastically well-few hours of easy free-flowing chat in the bar followed by hours of fun and an early morning repeat....Good times

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet she came to mine after a few messages. Short skirt, thong , sheer top, black sheer bra, tight leather jacket. Sat on the sofa, nervous laughter, lots of eye contact, bit of arm touching to emphasise conversational points. Glass of champagne , soft lights, Motown on, until she suddenly started kissing me and moaning and OMFG..... what a night that was.

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By *ONDYWoman
over a year ago

00heaven

Where did that happen??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Where did that happen??"
scrabbo

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Ours was a social with a couple in a very noisy bar ,after approaching the wrong couple twice, we eventually met the right couple ,only to spend the night lip reading as we couldn't hear a word they where saying .Never did hear from them again

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I had my first solo coffee meet a few weeks ago, followed by an unexpected meet at her place one evening after that.

She was a good 10 years older than on the profile, but I don't mind that at all, as a lot of people here lie about their age.

I said to myself that she must have a lot of experience as she has been on Fab for a very long time before me.

Unfortunately the meet wasn't what we both hoped for, but we played a bit in front of a nice fireplace.

She was looking for love and attention, rather than only kinky sexual play.

So I left after few hours and I hope that by now, she found someone who will give her exactly what she needs, but excused myself for not being the one.

We did not give each other any verifications, but stayed in touch for another few days after that, hoping that the spark wasn't totally gone, but it was over.

Maybe the difference in age and totally different lifestyle has had a lot of influence in my decision.

Future meets were supposed to follow and lead to something more regular, but it did not work out.

I felt really sorry, as she was a very smart person with a lot of kinky sexual experience to share, but she was looking for something I wasn't interested to cater for, in return for her satisfying me.

Probably a bit selfish from my side, but I was very clear and upfront with her throughout both meets we had.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

First meet i knew her from another site and had met her previously..had just joined fab and was browsing profiles and recognised her body from pics then i messaged her on whatsapp we met..i asked are you still on the old site sge said no its dead now im a new 1 called fabswingers..would you believe i just joined that a few days ago..what are the chances of that..i must verify you will you veri me

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I'll get back to you when I do.

M&G in Pub top of Wexford/ Capel Street was excellent and even had a wee snog with a really sexy Fabber JC but unfortunately I hadn't booked a hotel. Not that I'm presuming she would have stayed but I haven't kissed like that in years! Oh perchance to dream what could have happened, as she's one sexy, chilled lady.

Ah well, onwards and upwards as they say. Learn by your mistakes

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

My first meet from fab started through one of the forum matching games

A bit of chat, a lot of flirting, a mutual desire of what we wanted to do and then came the meet

A cuppa and a few Jaffa cakes later and before we knew it we were naked (it’s amazing how quickly these things can happpen lol)

She’s no longer on fab but I can still remember that meet with fond memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is probably still here somewhere

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By *imdm101Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Thankfully he's long gone (unless he's back under a new name lol), but I still cringe every time I remember it

I'm cringing, just reading it

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By *imdm101Man
over a year ago

Galway

First meet was someone who I met on Fab through exchanging messages on a forum topic. We chatted her for a while, and eventually arranged to do a coffee meet (well it was more a beer meet

). Got on well, she was a very nice person, but unfortunately while I fancied her she did not me, so it went no further than beer.

I count it as a good meet though as it was a pleasant evening and she was good company.

Not sure if she is still on here, we kind of lost touch after a few months

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By *uzz_BuzzCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Not very long ago, we've got an invite to a sex party, by a lovely experienced couple.

It was our first sex party and we never played with anyone before, so you can imagine how nervous we were.

When we've got to this lovely country house, the party was already in full swing, very well organized, with a good mix of people, all of them with previous swinging experience.

My wife stared drinking to kill the nerves and after few hours, her and another nice lady we were chatting to, started to kiss each other.

My wife is straight and made it clear that she wasn't going to go further, but I've got aroused by them two kissing each other, so I've asked the lady if she would be interested in taking my swinging cherry

She takes my hand and leads me to one of the bedrooms, closes the door behind us and quickly takes her clothes off. I do the same and as soon as she is ready to take me, I put a condom on and start pounding her as hard as I could for about 15 minutes. She asks me if I want to cum, but I said that the night is young and I prefer to play more. She then tells me that she needs her wand to cum, but we are both sweaty and horny and there is no way she will walk out of the room naked to get her toy, so we decide to stop and go back to the party.

Unfortunately after this, our mood is kind of gone.

My wife has no interest in anyone and she is not aroused at all, so after few attempts to play with some other people, we decide to leave, as we think that it was enough for our first sex party.

The following nights, we had the best sex we ever had as a couple, so building up all that sexual tension, helped us go to another level of sexual pleasure.

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By *ackpowerMan
over a year ago

blanch

Fucking idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time was mighty. Had talked a month or so and kinda got past the coffee meet.so we arranged a town and time suited us both.so was in the hotel room when the knock came opened the door and there she was standing in killer heels holdups and a full length coat. Just about got the door closed. What a perfect first meet

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