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"We gave up on the idea as it's so difficult to find a couple where all are compatible. Now we just meet males as male half here gets a kick out of watching female get double the pleasure. Neither of us is interested in one on one meets. " Same as above but occasionally Mrs flies solo for the added kink! | |||
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"We’ve also found it difficult to find a couple where there is mutual attraction for everyone involved. We do single meets, usually not at the same time. We both love hearing about the other’s meets, both the good and the bad. Occasionally those meets have become something more with both of us involved too. Not for everyone but we like it " We have found the same approach works for us now. | |||
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"Thanks guy's for all your inputs ..we taught it was just us this issue was with glade were not alone... will take all your ideas on board again thanks for your input much appreciated " There's no "right" way to do things, just what's right for you as a couple. | |||
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"We’ve also found it difficult to find a couple where there is mutual attraction for everyone involved. We do single meets, usually not at the same time. We both love hearing about the other’s meets, both the good and the bad. Occasionally those meets have become something more with both of us involved too. Not for everyone but we like it " Yes we love this scenario as well....started off as same room full swap but love exploring and hearing about those experiences | |||
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"I don’t think it’s just couples that have this issue. A man meeting a couple can be just as difficult and couples I have met ( not all btw) have had their difficulties where it felt like the male was pushing the woman into meets. " Can't say that I've experienced the same...love couple meets and now meet mainly with couples with straight males for MMFs or MMMFs | |||
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"I don’t think it’s just couples that have this issue. A man meeting a couple can be just as difficult and couples I have met ( not all btw) have had their difficulties where it felt like the male was pushing the woman into meets. Can't say that I've experienced the same...love couple meets and now meet mainly with couples with straight males for MMFs or MMMFs" Maybe I have being unlucky with the meets, and like I said it wasn’t every couple. I have met a few lovely couples. | |||
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"Complete double standards to what we said earlier, but we do meet single women “blind- date” style (well, after an online chat). But one hard rule we have, which we say up front is that the first meet is always only a social one. We’re very conscious there’s two of us and one lady, and we want to avoid is that person feeling under pressure. Better that we can all fully relax on getting to know each other. If we have a cpl of drinks and we all get on then it’s easy to arrange a more intimate meet. " A social meet is the best way as there is no pressure on anyone. We have found this the best way for us. | |||
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"I don’t think it’s just couples that have this issue. A man meeting a couple can be just as difficult and couples I have met ( not all btw) have had their difficulties where it felt like the male was pushing the woman into meets. " | |||
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"Everyone is different and both couples and singles have there own preferences and rules . For us we came on fab as a couple to have fun and sexy experiences together by meeting couples and single males/females but always together . We've met some great couples and had some great sexy fun play and we've also met some great couples and not played but always have a good time regardless. For us the need to play with other couples/ singles is not that great that we feel the need or want to do it separately as we came on here to play as a couple . But for some people that's part of there own personal experiences and it's something that turns them both on and it works for them and that's the great thing about fab everyone is different. But I would not meet separately if it's not something that you are both 100% comfortable with. As said by someone else going to socials and M&G you'll find what your looking for eventually . That's just us op whatever you both decide to do have fun " this is pretty much spot on .... so much so for us we decided to host r own socials and play parties ... that way if we click with someone we can have fun at the venue, or arrange a future play date if its a social .... socials r great as u can meet 10-20 couples and if there is a spark, u can talk about it with ur partner and arrange a future play date with out the pressure ... but as has been said ... everyones different we enjoy it as a fun hobby we can do together | |||
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"So im feeling bit better now I thought it was us personally ..or me as a female ..so appreciated u all adding to my quarries ... " I think if you meet people socially and sometining doesn’t feel feel just right about moving to the next step then don’t take it any further. I think you will know when it is right with someone. | |||
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