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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First time poster here but i really need advice or reassuring hopefully. So i accepted a friend request from a random girl on fb bad idea on my part and yes i know i shud av known better!! Nways to cut to d chase she video called me on messenger proceeded to get naked and masturbate asking me to do same which i did. within minutes i recieved messages demanding my gmail hangouts and that she wud send on video to all my friends on fb. I blocked straight away but im shitting myself here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They dont benifit from sharing the video so you should be fine...

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Its a scam thats doing the rounds at the minute would not be worrying about it at all

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

This type of cyber bullying makes me mad I doubt very much that anything will come of it so try to settle yourself and move on. However, for future reference, what appears too good to be true generally is not true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, just for my own reference as i don't use google hangouts, why would they demand that and not payment of some sort via paypal etc..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

iv no idea why she asked for them i just got such a shock when i read i message i dudnt even reply im jumping everytime i get a message or phone call since it happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your settings on fb so you have to approve anything you're tagged in & hide your friends list.

She'll get bored when she realises that she can't get any money out of you.

Always hide your face & distinguishing features! Hindsight...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone Morgan i deactived my fb account this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone Morgan i deactived my fb account this morning "

Better safe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report it. Your not the first and won't be the last.

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By *erek666Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Happen to me few years ago same thing went to police they said couldn't do anything but if I paid them they come again looking for money so I just text her said post it maybe when people see size my cock I might get girl friend it work they didn't post it but for 3 days my piece mind was gone I know what your going though Don't Pay u will be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not pay any money out and lads seriously be careful this is going on all the time, especially through FB, do not accept random friend requests, the majority of women do not add random people and ask them to masturbate for them.

Report it the only way things like this can be dealt with is if enough people report it something has to be done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks derek i cracked a smile at that. Ya piece of mind is totally gone

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Have another wank this time without cam, it will calm the nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok take a step back from the fear and look at this logically.

1. She doesnt have access to all your fb friends so how could she send it to them

2. Even posting it publicly on fb breaches their content rules so would be taken down

3. If she was able to somehow hack access to your friends list she wouldn't need to make this demand via hangouts etc so obviously isnt smart enough to do that

These scams rely on the fear of what "could" happen but the reality is actually a lot less as to actually follow through on a threat like this requires a lot of effort for no return so why bother. Dont pay anything as it will just continue with more demands & threats if you do.

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By *rnoldZiffelMan
over a year ago

Leinster

I agree, lots of good advice above. Easy for us to say but stay calm, you're understandably worried but it will pass. Don't give in.


"Ok take a step back from the fear and look at this logically.

1. She doesnt have access to all your fb friends so how could she send it to them

2. Even posting it publicly on fb breaches their content rules so would be taken down

3. If she was able to somehow hack access to your friends list she wouldn't need to make this demand via hangouts etc so obviously isnt smart enough to do that

These scams rely on the fear of what "could" happen but the reality is actually a lot less as to actually follow through on a threat like this requires a lot of effort for no return so why bother. Dont pay anything as it will just continue with more demands & threats if you do."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually work in IT and over the past few years I have had 6 different friends (both male & female) experience variations of this and come looking for help. Not one of them paid and none of them had anything published. It took longer for some of them to go away with more threatening emails but in the end just ignoring them achieved the desired result. These scammers are inherently lazy so its just easier to move onto next target. Basically your not actually worth the extra effort to follow thru with the threat if your not going to pay up and anyway going thru with the threat removes any leverage they have. Its easier to move onto the next target.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of this happening lately. Pay nothing.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I would release the footage myself, get ahead of their attack, let them know who they are fucking with.

The atackee becomes the atacker

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks so much jigglebutt

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"First time poster here but i really need advice or reassuring hopefully. So i accepted a friend request from a random girl on fb bad idea on my part and yes i know i shud av known better!! Nways to cut to d chase she video called me on messenger proceeded to get naked and masturbate asking me to do same which i did. within minutes i recieved messages demanding my gmail hangouts and that she wud send on video to all my friends on fb. I blocked straight away but im shitting myself here. "

Tell her to fuck off and do whatever you like with the video..its the only way

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a tad naive for a man of your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your settings on fb so you have to approve anything you're tagged in & hide your friends list.

She'll get bored when she realises that she can't get any money out of you.

Always hide your face & distinguishing features! Hindsight..."

Speaking from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your settings on fb so you have to approve anything you're tagged in & hide your friends list.

She'll get bored when she realises that she can't get any money out of you.

Always hide your face & distinguishing features! Hindsight...

Speaking from experience "

Not at all...sure I'm an angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your settings on fb so you have to approve anything you're tagged in & hide your friends list.

She'll get bored when she realises that she can't get any money out of you.

Always hide your face & distinguishing features! Hindsight...

Speaking from experience

Not at all...sure I'm an angel "

You only look like an angel but I know otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for d advice and reassuring means a lot.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Thanks to everyone for d advice and reassuring means a lot. "

Hope it worked out well for you

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo

It's good to talk and share. Everyone wanna, no shame in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your settings on fb so you have to approve anything you're tagged in & hide your friends list.

She'll get bored when she realises that she can't get any money out of you.

Always hide your face & distinguishing features! Hindsight...

Speaking from experience

Not at all...sure I'm an angel

You only look like an angel but I know otherwise "

Aww you think I look like an angel maybe a fallen one

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo


"It's good to talk and share. Everyone wanna, no shame in it."

wanks not wanna.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your settings on fb so you have to approve anything you're tagged in & hide your friends list.

She'll get bored when she realises that she can't get any money out of you.

Always hide your face & distinguishing features! Hindsight...

Speaking from experience

Not at all...sure I'm an angel

You only look like an angel but I know otherwise

Aww you think I look like an angel maybe a fallen one"

Fallen because of to much whiskey consumption

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your settings on fb so you have to approve anything you're tagged in & hide your friends list.

She'll get bored when she realises that she can't get any money out of you.

Always hide your face & distinguishing features! Hindsight...

Speaking from experience

Not at all...sure I'm an angel

You only look like an angel but I know otherwise

Aww you think I look like an angel maybe a fallen one

Fallen because of to much whiskey consumption "

Haha shush you

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

just tel them to piddle off don't ever pay money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her you don't give a fuck what she does OP . You're not the first bloke who ever had a wank . Don't be stressing .

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