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By *kblueeyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Just wondering not into lots of messaging,

coffee meet or maybe a drink first?

Don't do cam

Like to have a click and chemistry with meets and also love friendly banter am I too fussy

Any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering not into lots of messaging,

coffee meet or maybe a drink first?

Don't do cam

Like to have a click and chemistry with meets and also love friendly banter am I too fussy

Any advice

"

Stay fussy, you will enjoy them better when they happen.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

I think your doung it perfectly..your suiting yourself which we should always do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your doung it perfectly..your suiting yourself which we should always do. "

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering not into lots of messaging,

coffee meet or maybe a drink first?

Don't do cam

Like to have a click and chemistry with meets and also love friendly banter am I too fussy

Any advice

Stay fussy, you will enjoy them better when they happen. "

Def stay fussy, I let the fussiness drop lately with a guy who had constantly messaged for last few months, broke one of my rules and met him, he was happy leaving but I'm back to feeling used again.

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By *kblueeyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Just wondering not into lots of messaging,

coffee meet or maybe a drink first?

Don't do cam

Like to have a click and chemistry with meets and also love friendly banter am I too fussy

Any advice

Stay fussy, you will enjoy them better when they happen. "

Thank you xx

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By *addy0Man
over a year ago

carlow town


"Just wondering not into lots of messaging,

coffee meet or maybe a drink first?

Don't do cam

Like to have a click and chemistry with meets and also love friendly banter am I too fussy

Any advice

"

Your here too suit and please urself no 1 of else so do it your way

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By *kblueeyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Just wondering not into lots of messaging,

coffee meet or maybe a drink first?

Don't do cam

Like to have a click and chemistry with meets and also love friendly banter am I too fussy

Any advice

Stay fussy, you will enjoy them better when they happen.

Def stay fussy, I let the fussiness drop lately with a guy who had constantly messaged for last few months, broke one of my rules and met him, he was happy leaving but I'm back to feeling used again. "

Yes I guess you're right we put in effort and like our meets to do the same, we ve had a couple of chancers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering not into lots of messaging,

coffee meet or maybe a drink first?

Don't do cam

Like to have a click and chemistry with meets and also love friendly banter am I too fussy

Any advice

Stay fussy, you will enjoy them better when they happen.

Thank you xx "

Very welcome! Stick to your likes, attraction and how you feel safe.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

The amount of messaging is a personal preference and is very much down to what makes the individual comfortable.

The only difficulty with not messaging much is that you take more of a chance when you decide to meet the person.

But then the same could be said for a “conventional” meet when you see someone in a bar or club.

As others said here, so what suits you and for my tuppence worth, let the other person(s) you are messaging know your preference quickly so you and they dont waste time and can get to meeting..!

Other than that:

1) Don’t start a forum thread on verifications

2) Don't have an ego

3) Always use gammer and apell check on your messages

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Just wondering not into lots of messaging,

coffee meet or maybe a drink first?

Don't do cam

Like to have a click and chemistry with meets and also love friendly banter am I too fussy

Any advice

"

Naw to fussy u meed to get into the "fancy a fuck" space and let people ur in their area

Use fab they way that suits you both and if others have a problem let em slide on

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"The amount of messaging is a personal preference and is very much down to what makes the individual comfortable.

The only difficulty with not messaging much is that you take more of a chance when you decide to meet the person.

But then the same could be said for a “conventional” meet when you see someone in a bar or club.

As others said here, so what suits you and for my tuppence worth, let the other person(s) you are messaging know your preference quickly so you and they dont waste time and can get to meeting..!

Other than that:

1) Don’t start a forum thread on verifications

2) Don't have an ego

3) Always use gammer and apell check on your messages "

Mmm this verifications and grammer contraversy rolls on. Sorry i missed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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3) Always use gammer and apell check on your messages "

4) Be ironic

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"The amount of messaging is a personal preference and is very much down to what makes the individual comfortable.

The only difficulty with not messaging much is that you take more of a chance when you decide to meet the person.

But then the same could be said for a “conventional” meet when you see someone in a bar or club.

As others said here, so what suits you and for my tuppence worth, let the other person(s) you are messaging know your preference quickly so you and they dont waste time and can get to meeting..!

Other than that:

1) Don’t start a forum thread on verifications

2) Don't have an ego

3) Always use gammer and apell check on your messages "

*spell

I'm sure you did that to see if it was noticed

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By *kblueeyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

It was noticed lol, I find a lot of people don't read profiles properly

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By *kblueeyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"I think your doung it perfectly..your suiting yourself which we should always do. "

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was noticed lol, I find a lot of people don't read profiles properly "

Block them. If they don't respect you enough to read your profile - you definitely don't want them anywhere near your bed

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Just wondering not into lots of messaging,

coffee meet or maybe a drink first?

Don't do cam

Like to have a click and chemistry with meets and also love friendly banter am I too fussy

Any advice

"

Seems like you're doing fine. Use fab as you see fit. It's your profile, your life do what suits.

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By *kblueeyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Just wondering not into lots of messaging,

coffee meet or maybe a drink first?

Don't do cam

Like to have a click and chemistry with meets and also love friendly banter am I too fussy

Any advice

Seems like you're doing fine. Use fab as you see fit. It's your profile, your life do what suits."

Thanks x

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