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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evening all,

I'm finding it hard going, not for the want of trying, to get meets.

I don't bombard my message recipients, I'm straight up....friendly and non judgemental.

I appreciate the non verified single guy fear factor but I'm not feeling the love...

Any suggestions/profile alterations gladly accepted.

Happy fabbing... N x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all,

I'm finding it hard going, not for the want of trying, to get meets.

I don't bombard my message recipients, I'm straight up....friendly and non judgemental.

I appreciate the non verified single guy fear factor but I'm not feeling the love...

Any suggestions/profile alterations gladly accepted.

Happy fabbing... N x "

"What's in it for you" on your profile. I thought fab was about mutual pleasure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you....that is a clerical oversight, I shall raise that with my admin team in the morning

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Few more pics of ya and bit more in your bio is always look through a profile before I reply. If there’s not much there I don’t bother replying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Few more pics of ya and bit more in your bio is always look through a profile before I reply. If there’s not much there I don’t bother replying "

Thank you....I'll add more x

Appreciate all this sage advice

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Few more pics of ya and bit more in your bio is always look through a profile before I reply. If there’s not much there I don’t bother replying

Thank you....I'll add more x

Appreciate all this sage advice"

Welcome

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By *nonymous_galWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Few more pics of ya and bit more in your bio is always look through a profile before I reply. If there’s not much there I don’t bother replying "

I second this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all,

I'm finding it hard going, not for the want of trying, to get meets.

I don't bombard my message recipients, I'm straight up....friendly and non judgemental.

I appreciate the non verified single guy fear factor but I'm not feeling the love...

Any suggestions/profile alterations gladly accepted.

Happy fabbing... N x "

You want all the answers upfront?? Sometimes you need to study..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Evening all,

I'm finding it hard going, not for the want of trying, to get meets.

I don't bombard my message recipients, I'm straight up....friendly and non judgemental.

I appreciate the non verified single guy fear factor but I'm not feeling the love...

Any suggestions/profile alterations gladly accepted.

Happy fabbing... N x

You want all the answers upfront?? Sometimes you need to study.. "

I know and you're right, the only way to get out of a maze is to go the wrong way sometimes

I've taken all the great advice on board and made some profile changes.

Here's hoping your advice and my alterations font go unnoticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all,

I'm finding it hard going, not for the want of trying, to get meets.

I don't bombard my message recipients, I'm straight up....friendly and non judgemental.

I appreciate the non verified single guy fear factor but I'm not feeling the love...

Any suggestions/profile alterations gladly accepted.

Happy fabbing... N x

You want all the answers upfront?? Sometimes you need to study..

I know and you're right, the only way to get out of a maze is to go the wrong way sometimes

I've taken all the great advice on board and made some profile changes.

Here's hoping your advice and my alterations font go unnoticed "

Great job! You're a natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all,

I'm finding it hard going, not for the want of trying, to get meets.

I don't bombard my message recipients, I'm straight up....friendly and non judgemental.

I appreciate the non verified single guy fear factor but I'm not feeling the love...

Any suggestions/profile alterations gladly accepted.

Happy fabbing... N x

You want all the answers upfront?? Sometimes you need to study..

I know and you're right, the only way to get out of a maze is to go the wrong way sometimes

I've taken all the great advice on board and made some profile changes.

Here's hoping your advice and my alterations font go unnoticed "

Good boy

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Evening all,

I'm finding it hard going, not for the want of trying, to get meets.

I don't bombard my message recipients, I'm straight up....friendly and non judgemental.

I appreciate the non verified single guy fear factor but I'm not feeling the love...

Any suggestions/profile alterations gladly accepted.

Happy fabbing... N x

You want all the answers upfront?? Sometimes you need to study..

I know and you're right, the only way to get out of a maze is to go the wrong way sometimes

I've taken all the great advice on board and made some profile changes.

Here's hoping your advice and my alterations font go unnoticed "

Much better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Evening all,

I'm finding it hard going, not for the want of trying, to get meets.

I don't bombard my message recipients, I'm straight up....friendly and non judgemental.

I appreciate the non verified single guy fear factor but I'm not feeling the love...

Any suggestions/profile alterations gladly accepted.

Happy fabbing... N x

You want all the answers upfront?? Sometimes you need to study..

I know and you're right, the only way to get out of a maze is to go the wrong way sometimes

I've taken all the great advice on board and made some profile changes.

Here's hoping your advice and my alterations font go unnoticed

Much better "

YAY !

Thanks again all....you know where I am for future reference (ahem)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I be damned a guy who can take direction well x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not many of us good guys left....I take instructions and give instructions very well x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now all I need to do is organise some coffee/drink meets with women who don't meet verified guys.....oh hold on

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Chatting on the forum will get you noticed. Just be yourself . Profile is much better now so good luck with your search.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, the forum is the best place to air any questions....all awesome help here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all,

I'm finding it hard going, not for the want of trying, to get meets.

I don't bombard my message recipients, I'm straight up....friendly and non judgemental.

I appreciate the non verified single guy fear factor but I'm not feeling the love...

Any suggestions/profile alterations gladly accepted.

Happy fabbing... N x "

I think your updated profile is fine. Make sure you read their profile before messaging and see if you can find something to reference. Sometimes the no is not to you but to everyone as real life gets busy at times. Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, the forum is the best place to air any questions....all awesome help here x "
hi sir your doing th whole thing clean wrong. Just say ya love shopping there putty in your hands after that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Evening all,

I'm finding it hard going, not for the want of trying, to get meets.

I don't bombard my message recipients, I'm straight up....friendly and non judgemental.

I appreciate the non verified single guy fear factor but I'm not feeling the love...

Any suggestions/profile alterations gladly accepted.

Happy fabbing... N x

I think your updated profile is fine. Make sure you read their profile before messaging and see if you can find something to reference. Sometimes the no is not to you but to everyone as real life gets busy at times. Happy Fabbing "

Yeah I hear ya, i can feel the same sometimes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minor point, but I don't know what type of fun I want to have with someone until we've chatted.

My profile is all about sensuality, but some people have brought out the darker side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is quite generic, it read ok but its like prerty much every other profile on fab.. show a bit of personality..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

These are both great and very valid suggestions...

I will make these changes but fear they'll never be seen.

Gotta make myself stand out somehow though, right

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city

Not on this to long, but sort of feeling same vibe ,if your new and honest don't want to know u ? ,but Mabey just takes time, try the forem was advised ,but I have no interest or ability in talking to my phone bout bullshit ,,,,think it just takes time man ,but it can be frustrating,,good luck to ye

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city

Positive vibes man make all the difference

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Your profile text looks fine if a bit bland but hits most of the spots. I'd loose the teddy bear face from your profile pics as most women aren't attracted to cuddly toys (for sex anyways). Get to a M&G or social to get some veris - at least gives an indication that your sane and not a serial killer or rapist. Otherwise you're on the right track - keep making progressive improvements and I'm sure the meets will come flowing in.

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city

Any advice on my profile folks ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice on my profile folks ?"

Are you picking your nose in your.profile pic?

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"Any advice on my profile folks ?"
Do a spell and grammar check on it (e.g. prefare is actually prefer). Loose the looking to meet TVS/TS as might turn off a fair few couples / single ladies.

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city

Nice one man ,

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city

??? Tv not lookin for that, can't see that on my profile?

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city

Ye just seen it ,thanks man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See....the fab family to the rescue !

As much as some of the people here are a pain in the ass (Not sexually) it's cool see everyone pulling in the same direction

(again....not sexually)

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city

to true you've given me a little faith

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city

They ment to be smiling, grumpy fuckers

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