FabSwingers.com forum: Breaking The Ice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well, hopefully

it can be tricky after all!

I've done this before, personally resulting in a wonderful friendship, so hopefully it will take off this time too for someone else!

Simply say that you're "in" and after a while message the name of two profiles that you like, who also post within the thread, to myself.

Note: Not just two profiles you like the look of, they have to join in on the thread!

Preferably when/if the thread maxes out or at least when a good amount join in (you can't pick yourself sure

) and I'll post the picks on Friday!

I know some will think "why not just send them a message in the first place?" but not everyone is good at starting a conversation. That doesn't mean they're not worth talking to

hopefully this can be a nice wee ice breaker for some!

Ultimately it's all for a bit of fun which you can't have enough of! As well as a platform to maybe help those who are a bit nervous

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Sounds fun im in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dublin

Ok I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In xx

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Im in

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By *nonymous_galWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Sounds like fun, I'm in!

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By *addy0Man
over a year ago

carlow town

Why not,I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *aithi123Man
over a year ago

Navan or Dublin 10

Definitely I am in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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over a year ago

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Im in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in.....

I like Pete, he is a good egg

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By *mpathicMan
over a year ago

Portadown

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Im in

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By *js5522Man
over a year ago

belfast

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By *ebelRoadMan
over a year ago

Cork / Wexford

Count me in

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure why not I’m in

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

Definitaly in great topic Op

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Count me in OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

We re in Pete

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not, we're in

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By *ean299Man
over a year ago

Lucan

I am in.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

It's like Fab forum speed dating! I'm in

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Innity innity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

We’re in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice idea... I’m in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 12/02/19 00:35:27]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 12/02/19 00:35:27]"

Well, Im blocked by OP

No game then

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

I’m in

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"[Removed by poster at 12/02/19 00:35:27]

Well, Im blocked by OP

No game then

You don't need to contact the OP.

Just say "I'm in" here and that's your name in the draw/hat.

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By *eel good factorMan
over a year ago

Cork

Sounds really exciting,

I am in !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well, Im blocked by OP

No game then

My apologies, all filters and the like are now down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like fun, I'm in

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Lets give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

I'll fly from stansted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, Im blocked by OP

No game then

My apologies, all filters and the like are now down"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss out on a bit of crack ( non drug form )

I am in

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords & Derby

Why not, love a chat.... in

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By *igress69Woman
over a year ago

belfast

In x

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By *rade69Man
over a year ago

dublin

I’m in to win

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

Sure I'm in too

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By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Me too

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

Im in .

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm in

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over a year ago

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Well, hopefully

it can be tricky after all!

I've done this before, personally resulting in a wonderful friendship, so hopefully it will take off this time too for someone else!

Simply say that you're "in" and after a while message the name of two profiles that you like, who also post within the thread, to myself.

Note: Not just two profiles you like the look of, they have to join in on the thread!

Preferably when/if the thread maxes out or at least when a good amount join in (you can't pick yourself sure

) and I'll post the picks on Friday!

I know some will think "why not just send them a message in the first place?" but not everyone is good at starting a conversation. That doesn't mean they're not worth talking to

hopefully this can be a nice wee ice breaker for some!

Ultimately it's all for a bit of fun which you can't have enough of! As well as a platform to maybe help those who are a bit nervous

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in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we're shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because we're shy

Since when?

You'll all be spoilt for choice at this rate! The more the merrier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in, why not

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the deadline Pete?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's the deadline Pete? "

I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse

With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the deadline Pete?

I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse

With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone

We've missed you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm feeling left out so I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the deadline Pete?

I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse

With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone

And (asking for a friend of course) are you in yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the deadline Pete?

I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse

With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone

And (asking for a friend of course) are you in yourself? "

He should be

He sends the perfect first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the deadline Pete?

I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse

With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone

And (asking for a friend of course) are you in yourself?

He should be

He sends the perfect first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I to late for the party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I to late for the party

For a fast lad you are so often slow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's the deadline Pete?

I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse

With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone

And (asking for a friend of course) are you in yourself? "

Of course, I have to lead by example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I to late for the party

For a fast lad you are so often slow

It’s all about timing , sometimes you need to be slow

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By *nowy007Woman
over a year ago

Near Enough

In for the craic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's the deadline Pete?

I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse

With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone

We've missed you

You big softie

Are you in, missy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the deadline Pete?

I won't be pestering anyone for their picks until Thursday evening! Plenty of time to peruse

With the aim of posting them Friday evening. Hopefully kick start the weekend in a positive way for everyone

We've missed you

You big softie

Are you in, missy?

No. Only for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a great idea- I’m in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Still plenty of time to throw your hat in the ring, folks

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By *ondoMan
over a year ago

louth

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By *ondoMan
over a year ago

louth

I’m in should be fun

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By *hostheman1972Man
over a year ago

tipperary

I am in

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By *taylor122Man
over a year ago

dublin

I’m in

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By *estcork biMan
over a year ago

east cork/ west waterford

I’m in

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By *ohnsmithMan
over a year ago

South Tipperary

Pop me in please...

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By *eminii16Man
over a year ago

County Galway

I'm in

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By *o just luckMan
over a year ago

Craigavon

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a bitta fun why not im in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in

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By *onegalstudMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

I am in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on sure since v day.

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over a year ago

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By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Look hey i'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *admax07Man
over a year ago

roscommon

I'm in ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okie dokie, Fabbers! Let's get those picks in, it's Valentine's after all!

Let's call it in 24 hours from now then I'll post them early on Friday evening to hopefully put a spring in everyone's step heading into the weekend

I'll message who I can if the deadline cuts too close!

So men, if you don't send in your picks, don't get excited when you see you've got mail...'tis only me

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Okie dokie, Fabbers! Let's get those picks in, it's Valentine's after all!

Let's call it in 24 hours from now then I'll post them early on Friday evening to hopefully put a spring in everyone's step heading into the weekend

I'll message who I can if the deadline cuts too close!

So men, if you don't send in your picks, don't get excited when you see you've got mail...'tis only me

You only put up those that pick each other Or you put up everyone's choices even if there's no match?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Okie dokie, Fabbers! Let's get those picks in, it's Valentine's after all!

Let's call it in 24 hours from now then I'll post them early on Friday evening to hopefully put a spring in everyone's step heading into the weekend

I'll message who I can if the deadline cuts too close!

So men, if you don't send in your picks, don't get excited when you see you've got mail...'tis only me

You only put up those that pick each other Or you put up everyone's choices even if there's no match?"

Everyones!

Matches will be a nice wee bonus but it's to hopefully help break the ice for those who may be a little shy

All in the name of some flirty fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I presume the key is to pick people you don’t normally chat with/know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okie dokie, Fabbers! Let's get those picks in, it's Valentine's after all!

Let's call it in 24 hours from now then I'll post them early on Friday evening to hopefully put a spring in everyone's step heading into the weekend

I'll message who I can if the deadline cuts too close!

So men, if you don't send in your picks, don't get excited when you see you've got mail...'tis only me

You only put up those that pick each other Or you put up everyone's choices even if there's no match?

Everyones!

Matches will be a nice wee bonus but it's to hopefully help break the ice for those who may be a little shy

All in the name of some flirty fun! "

If I match I propose......

Sorry I might be getting carried away with the day thats in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I presume the key is to pick people you don’t normally chat with/know?"

That's what I've done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some serious decisions to be made

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dublin

Picked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picks done have fun everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I presume the key is to pick people you don’t normally chat with/know?"

You can do!

You can let someone you've not chatted to know you like the look of them or you can simply put a spring in the step of your bessie mate!

If just one thing comes from this I'd want it to be a smile on someone's face

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well that's everyone, filters permitting, messaged who had yet to pick! Sorry if I pestered anyone

would hate to miss anyone out!

Hopefully even more to come before tomorrow afternoon

Thanks to everyone who joined in! Hopefully a bit of fun and flirtation headed everyone's way for the weekend!

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