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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For all the singles here....

If u are on or intending to join dating sites with intention of meeting someone, when would u give up Fab?

Could you give it up?

Or have you fallen too far down the rabbit hole to give up this lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've joined & left dating sites, they're just an extension of fab.

I've given up on dating & I'm happy just being on fab while it suits me.

Ideally I'd love to meet someone to swing with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gave up the dating scene yrs ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on dating sites too. Couldn't cope. Every person that I remotely liked was vanilla and it's just not good enough for me at this point.

Everything or nothing

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Too far down the rabbit hole for a vanilla person. I love being single but miss the regular sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before meeting the someone no...

After ya I'd be gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to meet someone with the same mindsight! Vanilla is definitely not for me

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I’m not sure it matters what you are on as it’s about meeting that person you click with and who floats your boat. The trouble is if you like a bit of a kink you may not find it on a standard dating site though the same can be said for anyway you meet someone. If you want to seriously date someone then first and foremost you have to be open and honest with them and commit if that’s what you want to do. When you find the one you will know though I do believe things happen for a reason and I’ve dated women I’ve met in some unusual situations.

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By *uckoldDesiresMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Ive even had a profile on POF admitting my submissive nature and my history as a cuckold in an attempt to find that elusive cuckoldress.

In fairness I met one or two great people through it but more kinksters than a potential cuckoldress.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm not actually a swinger, but I am kinky - I'd have no issue giving up Fab if I met someone, doesn't mean I'd be going vanilla though! Kink is more than being on a website

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Deleted my POF account yesterday. Was on it about a year. Had a few dates but just got boring. Enjoying the banter and craic here at the moment. Not necessarily looking for a relationship here but wouldn’t turn one away either.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

I dip in and out of dating sites. Depends on my mood

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By *nicumCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I tried to give Fab up. Only to met a woman on tinder that want to try a threesome and group play.

"Just when you think you are out they pull you back in."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried giving up fab before for vanilla and to be honest I've been fine with it but envitabley find myself back here

Been dating this girl now for awhile and thinking I'll go the whole hog and come off here again myself

Fourth or fifth times the charm?

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I've never been on any dating sites and I dont intend to anytime soon..

Leaving here would be hard for vanilla I'd miss the social side and social friends I've found here too much..

Maybe I'm just to weak to leave forever.. I'll try rock the zimmer frame look in 50 yrs lol..

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"I've never been on any dating sites and I dont intend to anytime soon..

Leaving here would be hard for vanilla I'd miss the social side and social friends I've found here too much..

Maybe I'm just to weak to leave forever.. I'll try rock the zimmer frame look in 50 yrs lol.."

We’ll be doing that together

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"For all the singles here....

If u are on or intending to join dating sites with intention of meeting someone, when would u give up Fab?

Could you give it up?

Or have you fallen too far down the rabbit hole to give up this lifestyle? "
if I found a serious relationship could easily give up here. As it is, i only use here to pass some time.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"I've never been on any dating sites and I dont intend to anytime soon..

Leaving here would be hard for vanilla I'd miss the social side and social friends I've found here too much..

Maybe I'm just to weak to leave forever.. I'll try rock the zimmer frame look in 50 yrs lol..

We’ll be doing that together "

I'd expect you too

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"For all the singles here....

If u are on or intending to join dating sites with intention of meeting someone, when would u give up Fab?

Could you give it up?

Or have you fallen too far down the rabbit hole to give up this lifestyle? "

Youd be surprised the amount of people on dating sites that just want sex

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I started this journey about 20 years ago. I'm a confirmed hedonist, nudist, Swinger, kinky fetishist, and can't be any other way. I've been studying and practising Tantra for many years as well, so, all my friends are in the same world.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

On my dating profiles it clearly states that I am into the swinging lifestyle. I'm always open and upfront about it.

It puts many women off and that's ok as it avoids us wasting one another's time.

Any persons I have dated I let them know that I would never be in a vanilla relationship and they can't say I didn't state it clearly on my profiles or that I have misled them in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are quite a few from fab that are on pof saying they want a relationship.

I'd rather someone was upfront & honest with me, then I can decide whether I want to talk to them or not. I left all dating sites because of the lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather annoyingly I'm falling in love with someone the old fashioned way at work! They know I swing so if we got together it would depend if they wanted to join me swinging or not?

Also..Ive put on a dating site I want to meet someone to share the swinging lifestyle with...guess I just love the eroticism of swinging

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